ShataraDe’Nay (2025)

12/05/2024

Because of you, I get to celebrate today 🥹 Happy Mother’s Day to all the Muvas 😘

31/03/2024

Happy Easter ❤️🐣

25/12/2023

Silent nights aren’t silent anymore 😂💙

Merry Christmas, y’all! 🎄

23/08/2023

Shoutout to .bookclub for having me as a guest speaker on Sunday night! 🫶🏽

I am so grateful for this opportunity.

If you’re a woman who desires to learn how to prepare for the love you deserve by learning how to set, communicate, and stick to your boundaries, grab your copy of The Magic of Getting Uncomfortable: 8 Strategies to Help You Forgive Yourself and Others While Setting Boundaries to Elevate Your Confidence.

21/08/2023

Do you struggle to come to terms with the fact that you have unhealthy relationships?

Do you know you need to set boundaries but don't know how?

As a result of not setting boundaries, you constantly overextend yourself to people, which leaves you feeling drained, unappreciated, and often pouring from an empty cup.

I struggled with accepting that I lacked boundaries and had unhealthy relationships. To the outside, I was smart.

I was going to college and working; it seemed that I had everything together. However, on the inside, I was struggling and trying to seek happiness through other people that were not giving me the fulfillment within myself that I desired.

Yes, that was me, and you may be facing the same obstacles; however, taking a harsh look in the mirror changed my perspective and reality.

In The Magic of Getting Uncomfortable, I share strategies that will help you cultivate healthy relationships and step into your new era of self-confidence. In this book, you will discover:

1. How to confront your anxiety.
2. The ability to forgive yourself and others by eliminating guilt.
3. The power to create and set boundaries for yourself.
4. Strategies to identify the root of the lack of boundaries

By the end of this book, you will learn 8 strategies to start developing healthy relationships, confronting anxiety, learning the power of self-forgiveness, and discovering your inner greatness.

Grab your copy here: theshataraoliver.com or click the link in my bio!

16/08/2023

Have you ever stuck around waiting for someone to change?

You know what I’m talking about.

Making excuses for his behavior, telling yourself he will change, but you know deep down he won’t.

You think if you just love him hard enough and show him who you are, proving that you are relationship worthy, he will finally be the man you want him to be.

You keep giving him a chance after chance, and the more you forgive him, the more you keep getting hurt.

I feel you, sis. I’ve been there, done that, and brought the T-shirt for it.

If you really want to change who you are attracting and not find yourself in those relationships again, you need to learn how to set, communicate, and stick to your boundaries, and in order for you to do that, you need to know what you’re boundaries are and I want to help you do that.

For the entire month of August, I am holding space for 15 women to book their power session call with me to take control of their healing, reclaim their time and peace, and confidently choose healthy relationships.
Five slots are already gone!

So if you want to book your power session, call. The time is now because when the slots are filled, they are filled.

Click the link in my bio!

14/08/2023

Do you know what August signifies?

And no, girl, it’s not the cookouts, mosquito bites, and all that other stuff. August is the 8th month of the year which means new beginnings and renewal. What do you want your new beginning to look like?

Is it finally being able to set boundaries and communicate your needs in a relationship?
Is it finally ending your current relationship and getting to the root of why you keep attracting the same partner?

Is it learning how to forgive yourself for the mistakes that you made in the past?

This is the perfect time for you to schedule your power hour session with me to create a plan for your new beginning, identify the steps you need to take, and hold you accountable along the way.

This 1 hour intensive is designed to make an immediate impact by assessing your current challenge in one priority area and customizing a tailored plan of action to support your goals.

This option includes:
1. Pre-session questionnaire will help me get to know you better and understand your goals.
2. One-hour deep dive via Zoom: We will work together to assess your current challenge and develop a plan of action.
3. Follow-up email: This will include the call recording, outlined action steps, and any other resources we discussed.
4. Two weeks of additional support (via email): I will be available to answer any questions and provide additional support.

Click the link in my bio to schedule your call

13/08/2023

Do you know my first time investing in a coach, I canceled my appointment three times?

Yes, girl, three times.

It wasn’t because I didn’t want to do it. It was just that fear was taking over me like a plague.

The fear of whether this is actually going to work. The fear of wasting my money? The fear of being the odd woman out? And even the fear of vulnerability? It had me canceling for the third time.

Listen, you can’t be more stubborn than me, not even on your best day. I refused to open up to anybody. I shut down. I isolated myself. I channeled my focus into any and everything else so that I wouldn’t deal with the real issue… me!

I Wasted time on something unclear wasn’t going anywhere left me feeling tired and drained and made me isolate from the people I loved and cared about. Before I knew it, I was losing weight drastically because I didn’t have an appetite. I found myself in the same exact place that I didn’t want to be, and not only that, but the people that were in my circle were doing the same exact thing.

Honey, we were all stuck on stupid!

You know what? I realized I was being consistent in the wrong damn thing. I was consistently disrespected, mistreated, not being loved correctly, and staying broken by choice.

What activated me to finally book a call with a coach was my decision- I refused to stay in the same place and repeat the same thing repeatedly. I remember thinking to myself, what do I have to lose .. money? I could always get that back. My copay was literally $40 a session. I could spend that on my nails and feet anytime.

What activates you? What will make you break free from unclear and undefined relationships? What will drive you to be better? Is it your daughter/ son? Is it your health? Is it looking at the women in your family and not wanting the same for your life?

Also, five slots are gone for the power hour session, and once they are gone, they are gone.

https://calendly.com/shataraaoliver/power-hour-session

12/08/2023

Your family and friends are your tribe, not your therapist.

A support system is a group of personal or professional individuals who can strategically and effectively aid and assist you in the achievement of a personal or professional goal. Your best friend may not be that person, but she can still be your best friend.

If you let me, I want to help support the vision for your life by providing you with realistic strategies to live a life you want and deserve. I know personal coaching seems risky and too vulnerable, and you don't know whether it's going to work or not. But the fact is -it will work if you work it.

I don't usually do this, but for the entire month of August, I am running a special power hour coaching session for $97 to take a deep dive into what in your life have you stuck and practical tips to help you pivot- ACTION PLAN just for you.

The offer ends in two weeks, and slots are filling up FAST. I only have room for 15 women, and I want you to be one of them click the link in my bio!

10/08/2023

Anybody who knows me knows I don’t like chaos.

I don’t like confusion.

I like simple.

And what I found out is that when it comes to relationships, the right one doesn’t have to be chaotic, it doesn’t have to be confusing, and it 100% can be simple.

But if I don’t make it simple, it will be chaotic, it will be chaos, and it will work my damn nerve.

Take this simple three-step strategy that I give my clients to get out of the cycle of being in chaotic and confusing relationships:

1. Understand what a healthy relationship looks like for you. If you’ve never had one, think about the ones you’ve had in the past and what you would’ve liked to see change.

2. Define what boundaries you need to set with yourself. In other words, what are your non-negotiables? Now a key to this is don’t operate in a preference (that’s something you can take or leave). I’m asking what your non-negotiables are. This is something that you will not allow to be altered or changed.

3. Upholding your boundaries. The truth is that people are going to test your boundaries to make sure you gon’ stand by what you say you’re going to stand by.

Want to learn how to set boundaries in a one on one power session with me? Schedule your power session call with me, where we will create a step-by-step plan for you to not only learn how to set boundaries, but you’ll be able to stick to them as well. This is 100% customized for you.

Go to https://calendly.com/shataraaoliver/power-hour-session to secure your slot.

It's only for the month of August, and there are ONLY 15 slots available.

05/08/2023

Hey friend,

If you’re going to leave unclear relationships in your rearview mirror this year, we need to get started now.

I’ve done it all, sis.

Not only did I find myself “getting under another one to get over another one,” but I’ve also made the mistake of going back to the “friends with benefits” because I didn’t want to deal with the REAL PROBLEM, and that was me.

When I finally took the superwoman cape off and was open to receiving help and invested in coaching beyond therapy, that’s when things finally started to change.

For the first time in my life, I didn’t feel guilty about asking for what I wanted out of a relationship and confidently left when I didn’t receive it.

Sis, if you really want the change try this and see how life changes for you!

If you want a coach that has the step-by-step blueprint to help not only give you the strategy but will hold your hand in the process of reclaiming your power back book your 20-minute power session with me here >> https://calendly.com/shataraaoliver/powersession

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