Everyday life Hack for young women

19/04/2024

WHEN A WOMAN RESPECTS HER HUSBAND...

1. She speaks to him with a caring tone

2. She gives him peace

3. She doesn't compare him with other men; she inspires him to be the best version of himself

4. She doesn't shout or scold him as if he is incompetent

5. She doesn't belittle him when he is down or going through loss

6. She corrects him lovingly in private; away from the children and the public

7. She doesn't announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her

8. She brings to attention his few weaknesses without forgetting his many strengths

9. She doesn't give him silent treatment to punish him

10. She doesn't say hurtful things just because she is mad

11. She acknowledges his good traits in private and in public

12. She doesn't do mean things to teach him a lesson

13. She suggests instead of ordering

14. She doesn't treat him well only when the pastor or in-laws are watching. Her treatment is consistent, not a show

15. She gives him room to lead and participate; involving him in coming up with decisions

13/04/2024

UNVEILING THE BOOK OF TIMOTHY [4]

The woman is subject to the man in the home through the adamic authority. (1 timothy 2:13).

The authority of the man over the woman is because of the adamic authority, but the leadership of the home is bestowed not just on the man but on both.

The LEADERSHIP of the home is on both because of the second Adam. The perfect example of marriage is seen between CHRIST and the CHURCH. Christ is not the only one leading his church, remember he gave gifts unto men for the purpose of leadership.

So the leadership of the church is shared upon men. So man is not to usurp an oppressive nature of leadership but a shared leadership.

•1 Timothy 2:12 (KJV) But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

The man is not the only one that decides what happens in the home,he should discuss with his wife (church).

Headship should not be confused over leadership. Man is the head, Both can lead.

Sometimes it's the woman that see's the spirit-sight of the home but she should wait for the man to only confirm (because the man is an authority). The man is to confirm not to argue.

The man must be humble to accept the fact that sometimes he may not perceive the voice of God first, the woman may. NOW THIS IS FOR A SPIRITUAL HOME,A CHRISTIAN HOME.

And the scripture is concerned about modesty in dressing. The woman must dress modestly in any way that pleases the Lord. The woman must not be carnally minded.

•1 Timothy 2:9 (KJV) In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

Dress modestly,in any way that pleases God. .

11/04/2024

WHAT INSPIRES FAITHFULNESS IN MARRIAGE?

1. VISION
Vision gives one a reason to stay committed. When you have a vision of the kind of marriage you want to have and the kind of spouse you are working to become, you stay true even when it gets tough

2. FEAR
When you value what you have with your spouse and all you two have built and invested in all these years, you will fear doing something that might destroy it

3. LOVE
When you love your spouse, you will be careful not to do an anything to hurt your spouse, but also, your greatest desire will be to enjoy special moments with no other but your spouse

4. HUMILITY
Humility will remind you not to be too confident in yourself that you play with temptation. Humility will also allow you to be receptive to warnings when your spouse cautions you about someone you are getting close to

5. FREQUENT WARM COMMUNICATION
When you both take time to have silly, deep, serious, difficult and naughty conversations with each other, be it face to face, online, on phone calls or video calls even when you are in a long distance marriage;

it will make faithulness easier to practice. The danger is when you get used to communicating frequently with another. Frequent communication keeps you both connected. Emotional faithfulness leads to s*xual faithfulness

6. VALUES
Your values determine your lifestyle and this determines what you give time to, who you give time to, the environments you take yourself to and what consumes your thoughts. If you don't have nurtured values as an individual, you will easily fall

7. RIGHT COMPANY
When you surround yourself with friends who encourage and celebrate your faithfulness and who are also faithful to their spouses, you will challenge each other to focus on your marriage. Check your circle, are you surrounded by cheats?

8. A HEALTHY CONSCIENCE
Don't numb your conscience, your conscience is what flags you when you are doing wrong. It is your link to God to remind you of your actions #

07/04/2024

S*x is not just s*x but a convenant
Be careful who you have s*x with,
Five minutes s*x can destroy entire life.👌

05/04/2024

Birthday surprise was fun Greens

05/04/2024

05/04/2024

Pastor Jerry ministering 💯

05/04/2024

This how we celebrated my baby's birthday Jerry green

11/03/2024

10 SUPER POWERFUL QUOTES ABOUT MISTAKES IN LIFE

1. "Mistakes are the portals of discovery." - James Joyce

2. "YOU make mistakes. MISTAKES DON'T MAKE YOU." - Maxwell Maltz

3. "Mistakes are the growing pains of WISDOM." - William George Jordan

4. "If you're not making mistakes, then you're not making decisions." - Catherine Cook

5. "Fear of mistakes is the root of lack of confidence." - Dan Rockwell

6. "An error doesn't become a mistake until you refuse to correct it." - Orlando A. Battista

7. "Fear of mistakes is just another way of procrastinating, of never moving forward." - Robin S. Sharma

8. "The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one." - Elbert Hubbard

9. "I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying." - Michael Jordan

10. "The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing." - Henry Ford

Bonus 1
"It's not how we make mistakes, but how we correct them that defines us." - Rachel Wolchin

Bonus 2
"Mistakes teach you important lessons. Every time you make one, you're one step closer to your goal." - Unknown

Bonus 3
"Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the Titanic.

08/03/2024

Women are special breeds.
They are strong.
They are multifunctional.
They are daughters, wives, mother's, grandmother's, etc. They make the world a loving and peaceful place to dwell in.
They add colours to one's life.
All the women here are amazing and special kind of woman.
Thanking you all for all you do
Happy International Women's Day to all the to women and the men that stand by them.

02/03/2024

WHEN CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER CONSIDER OLD AGE.

Choose a good partner who will be there for you at old age. How you treat a woman will determine how she will treat you at old age.

Never you choose alcohol and friends over your woman.

Friendship and companionship keeps marriage going. The body will eventually get old and you won't have the urge for it. The children you train will eventually, leave and build their home

It will get to a stage, It will just be you and your partner. What will make it fun is the friendship. You gist together, play together, pray together and many more.

Marry a good woman, a good woman is everything.

Treat your wife and children well because at old age, they will pay you back depending on your relationship with them

Some men tend to spend time with Friends at the bar and viewing center more than their family . When you get old, most of those friends will not give you the attention you need. They too will be focusing on their own family.

Remember old age comes with some annoying life style. Only your wife will be able to cope with such life style.

Husband treat your wife well

24/02/2024

Every woman needs to understand her position in the calling place of prayers..

Understand that your territory is a war zone and should not be handled in a canal format..

It hurts me, whenever I see women who just murmur instead of holding your spouse in prayers, prayer are never enough..

My spiritual father in person of Dr pastor Paul eneche during our commanding the day prayers,a testimony he shared concerning a lady whom as been following up with the prayers.

And on that Faithful day,she sensed in her spirit that the link be shared with the husband,the husband took it for granted uttering words- like the wife shouldn't believe in such that they are fake time pastors..

But because the woman is a fire brand woman,she took the prayers serious and guess what. While the husband was at work he fainted all of a sudden,he couldn't open is eyes

And immediately they called the wife to report of the incidence that as occur,and she immediately used the prayer points,the servant God proclaim that night and immediately she channel it to the man few seconds, she got a call again that the man as been revived...

The same man who never believed in the prayers of God's servant begin to ask for the link to join in prayers..

Sometimes your partner may not be that praying person,but because you the wife is never tired of praying,you become the edge interceding for your spouse..

Women don't relax ,they are seen as tool 🔥🔥🔥 in the war room...

Stop murmuring, stop nagging, stand up and pray hold on to your spouse pray for him your prayers are channels in changing whatever is meant to happen..

For the single sisters aspiring marriage, don't stop praying for your spouse from now they are seed you are sowing they will eventually play out in due season.

Your prayer as single sisters, is not to miss your partner and likewise him not missing you,and don't forget the only means to do that is through interceding for him in prayers..

Keep your war Room burning

23/02/2024

I CAN'T WAIT TO BE MARRIED (You better wait 😄)

You can only be single once in a lifetime. What you do in your singles days are major determinant of the results that will be produced in later days...

Leave the fantasy of a beautiful wedding and the likes, you definitely will get married when the time comes..

But now that you have all the time to pray for hours without being interrupted or having a baby cry or husband/wife seeking for attention, please pray ooo.. please pray

Utilize this beautiful opportunity of being single to build enough capacity, spend time building intimacy with God in the place of prayers, fasting and the study of the word of God (Very important)

Read as many books that you can lay your hands on (Hard/ soft copy) different aspects related to life generally, marriage and Godliness.....

The best and sweetest time to discover your identity is now that you are still single.Your ability to discover yourself will go a long way in helping you to know the exact individual that should be in your space (Marritally)

Single days are the days of building. Please don't waste your single season,it is a very crucial and sensitive part through your life's journey...

Enjoy your single season.... Make the most out of it...

KAIROS TIMES ARE HARD TO COME BY ONCE LOST.

WOMEN Of Purpose

23/02/2024

I will birth godly seeds✨
I will nurture godly children🌹
I will grow Christ like kids❣️

My children do not have a choice to choose, I've chosen JESUS for them already❣️

It's either Jesus or Jesus. There is no other option.

My children are already sacrificed to God. They have been offered as living sacrifices.

My children pray in tongues, my children overflow with the presence of God.

My children worship in spirit and in truth!

My womb carries kingdom beings❣️

22/02/2024

12 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD AVOID PREMARITAL S*X

1. Premarital s*x produces extramarital s*x. Those who sow premarital s*x before marriage reap extramarital s*x after marriage.

2. Premarital s*x robes respect. Don't trade your respect for a moment pleasure.

3. Premarital s*x destroys trust. Wed before bed.

4. Premarital s*x blinds you from noticing red flags in a relationship. These red flags show up after marriage and may eventually lead to divorce.

5. Premarital s*x increases the pain of heartbreaks. Heartbreak is less painful when no s*xual relation was involved but more painful when you are dumped after offering your body.

6. Premarital s*x increases the risk of contracting s*xually transmitted diseases.

7. Premarital s*x opens a relationship for demonic operations and influence.

8. Premarital s*x leads to abortion and killing of innocent babies.

9. Premarital s*x weakens your conscience as you continue to compromise and live in sin.

10. Premarital s*x is filthy and defiles you spiritually.

11. S*x is a gift of God to a man and woman who are married. Any s*xual act outside marriage is a deadly mistake which leads to hell.

12. Premarital s*x hinders your personal relationship with God. Contraceptive may prevent pregnancy but cannot prevent the corruption of your spirit.

Remember: We are created by God through his Image and Likeness. We are obligated to obey all his commandments and live in Holiness. I hope these 12 reasons why we should avoid pre-marital s*x will help us especially those in the younger generation to preserve life with the Lord... God bless us all.

22/02/2024

"...don't make the mistake that so many people do. They defer their dreams until some day in the future, thinking of some magical moment when they'll have the time, money, physical health, and mental energy to fulfill it. The world's couches are filled with people who said, "I'll do that someday."

- Ramit Sethi

There is no magical moment, friend.
There will never be a day when you have everything you think you need.

It’s our human nature to always think we need more to begin , that our circumstances will always be better in the future.

But what if they are not? And what if you don’t need more to start?

If you keep waiting for the “perfect time” to…

✔️Plan the vacation
✔️Start training for the marathon
✔️Write the new resume
✔️Make the changes to your diet
✔️Fill out the application form
✔️Begin the new habit
✔️Write the book
✔️ Enroll in the class

… you’ll spend the rest of your life waiting.

There is no perfect time.
The time is now.

When you’re unprepared.
When you don’t know the way.
When you’re not sure which step to take.
start.
Take a step.
Any step at all.
One step off the couch is all it takes .

20/02/2024

LET THE RIGHT THING BE DO, BUT NOT BEEN JUDGEMENTAL.

As a Role Model and Christian leading others to Christ.

1 Thessalonians 5:22-23
Abstain from all appearance of evil...

For instance let's assume that you have your fiancee who is your prayer or bible study partner who is your opposite gender but he or she normally comes and visit you in your apartment and you both can study for a long time and prayer for a long time without any interior motives or doing anything sinful and absolutely nothing bad happened, so but your neighbors normally watch you and everything that's happening, and these are people whom you are supposed or planning to win to Christ by your lifestyle But! Because of what they are seeing they would definitely believe that you people are sleeping with each other causing them to reject your gospel...

Although that position did not actually spell words for words to be an intention for Sin, that Should bring about Judgemental Commitment.
You may hug your opposite gender and not feel anything in your body.
Hello! It can be a form of greeting as other countries does.
Well!
Some people may not feel anything but some people do feel something after a hug which can triggered them into fornication

Look ehh to make everything perfect and avoid public insulations and misinterpretation.
Don't even hug at all
When you guys are married you will hug and get tired

Romans 14:13
Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way.

1 Corinthians 8:9
But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumblingblock to them that are weak.

But if honestly you don't feel anything, you can hug and if your gospel is for yourself alone please hug.

But if you are leading people to Christ
There are many things you aren't supposed to do publicly.

I think everything should be done in orderliness with clear conscience and wisdom...

20/02/2024

S*X ISSUES

S*x is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for S*x, there must be no timetable for s*x. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.
Don't have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.
When a man is s*xually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, s*x is food !!!

As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money making machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate.
You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder....Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quiet.

Love your husband with all your heart, never tell him, if not because of my children, remember you've known him before the arrival of those children.
Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back.... mwahhhhhh, don't be too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic too, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman!

18/02/2024

As a Wife, Your BEAUTY attracts your husband, but your WISDOM will continue to keep him!

Your ELEGANCE catches his ATTENTION, but your INTELLIGENCE convinces him!

NAGGING irritates your husband, but your "Constructive Silence" weakens him!

Remember that the "boyish" character in your husband comes out occasionally, But your ability to always handle it is a sign that you are a MATURED WIFE!

Every man has "Secret Struggles and Pains, including your husband, if you should ever find them out from him, Please exhibit the greatest maturity by asking the Originator of your marriage, (THE HOLY SPIRIT) to help you with USEFUL IDEAS, that you will suggest to him (your husband)!

In the long run, your WORDS matter to your husband than your "LOOKS"! So always invest in the RIGHT WORDS!

Earn your husband's respect and he will consider you as the yardstick for all his actions!

Learn to mould your husband's moods, and he will naturally give you his "FUTURE" as he recalls your maturity in past issues!

Note that, WOMEN are everywhere, but REAL WIVES are scarce, let the QUEEN in you come alive, and your husband will always hold you in a very HIGH ESTEEM!

Together we will make the BEST MARRIAGES in our society at large. May the GRACE of GOD help us...