13/05/2024
I knew someone that had been divorced 3 times in 7 years, 3x married to different men. And I also knew a man that had married 6 different women and had divorced them...he's presently married to the 7th. This is not a mockery post. I'm a woman and I can never predict my future, even you too as a reader to this post can never predict the future.
My aim of this writing is to share few tips to the divorcee(either male or female), I'm not a relationship adviser, just sharing a few tips that may help base on life experiences of other people have came across (I love listening/reading peoples story so I could learn some lesson from them)
After divorce, divorce is not the end of life, you'll remarry again, won't you?( Well that's your choice anyway). What you shouldn't do is marry because you want to pepper your EX, Also don't marry because of the too much pressure on you, you may likely end up repeating the circle again.
Aside praying for a good spouse, you need to work on you too and here are few tips that could help you.
1. You need to heal first. Healing is important or else you'll put you baggage on an innocent person's head. If you think you need a therapy, go get it.
Take time to heal and understand your own relationship needs and expectations. Let go of anger and resentments from your past relationships.
2. Work on yourself. Improve yourself... You can't tell me you Ex is the only bad person, I'm not saying you are bad but trying to let you know as human we all have our flaws. Figure out yours and work on it. For example, If you are short tempered try seek help on anger management etc.
3. Improve yourself. Find Stability in Your Life to Avoid Instability in Remarriage. Mental stability, financial stability, etc are necessary.
4. Your Ex is not your enemy, don't turn your children into h@ting their mother or father. Marriage didn't work between you, yes, so what?
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