One Foot In, One Foot Out...
Stuck in the Doorway: When You're Half In, Half Out of Your Relationship
We've all heard the saying, "Love is a battlefield." But what about when the battlefield is your own relationship?
Sometimes, love feels less like a fight and more like a confusing limbo. You know the feeling: you care about your partner, but something just feels...off.
Maybe you're wondering if you're just being picky, or if there's a deeper issue. This, my friends, is the territory of having one foot in and one foot out.
Join us for the last show of our first season together. We will discuss big news and events that have happened in our lives and the wonderful things that lie ahead.
Date Night or Debt Night? How to Make Love AND Money Last!
Love and money: Making them work together in your relationship ❤️
Is money a source of stress in your relationship?
You're not alone!
Many couples struggle with navigating different spending styles, merging finances, and planning for the future.
But fear not!
This evening we'll tackle the tough questions head-on, offering practical tips and honest conversations on:
Understanding your spending styles (Are you a saver or a spender?)
Merging finances effectively (Building a budget that works for both of you)
Dealing with debt together (Strategies for tackling financial burdens)
Planning for a secure future (Financial goals for couples)
Is money causing tension in your relationship? Learn how to have BOTH romance AND financial security!
Join us live and share your questions with us, drop a comment and subscribe to our YouTube channel (Link down below).
Love Talk
Love Talk
It's late love birds and we are freestyling Love Talk with all of you. Join Us as we unwrap love, and offer support and encouragement.
Love on Hold: How Long to Wait After a Breakup?
The sting of a breakup can leave you feeling lost and wondering, "When am I ready to love again?" While there's no one-size-fits-all answer, navigating the post-breakup phase and understanding your own needs is key.
Here's why rushing back in might not be the best idea:
Healing takes time: Breakups involve emotional turmoil. Give yourself space to grieve, reflect, and process the experience before seeking new connections.
Avoiding rebound relationships: Jumping into a new relationship to fill a void can lead to unhealthy patterns. Focus on self-discovery and emotional well-being before opening yourself to new love.
Clarity and growth: Utilize this time for self-reflection. Identify your values and dealbreakers in a relationship, ensuring future connections are built on a solid foundation.
So, how long should you wait?
Listen to your heart and body: Don't rush based on societal pressures or external expectations. You'll know you're ready when you feel emotionally stable, centered, and open to genuine connection.
Consider the relationship's depth: Longer, more complex relationships might require a longer healing period. Allow yourself the time you need, without judgment.
Remember, prioritizing your emotional well-being is crucial. Healing doesn't have a deadline, and when you're ready, love will find you in a healthier, more fulfilling way.
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Is True Love Attainable?
While science is delving deeper into the neurochemistry and psychology of love, it's still far from definitively proving the existence of "true love" or its ability to last a lifetime. We discuss if there is a thing such as true love.
Cynics might define "true love" as an unrealistic, perfect, and unyielding connection, hence their skepticism.
While we hopeless romantics might have a broader or more idealistic definition, emphasizing strong emotional connection, commitment, and enduring affection.
While studies highlight the biological and psychological processes involved in love and attachment, they don't conclusively define "true love" or guarantee its permanence.
Factors like individual differences, relationship dynamics, and external circumstances all play a role in whether love endures.
Join us as we explore the question "Is true love attainable?" We share our firsthand insights on true love.
Love Talk: where your dating disaster stories become everyone's guilty pleasure
Have you ever swiped right, met your "perfect match," only to have things go hilariously, horribly wrong? Or maybe you've experienced an awkward silence so thick you could cut it with a breadstick? Join us on Love Talk, the show where dating nightmares, cringe-worthy moments, and side-splitting mishaps take center stage.
We'll dive into real-life stories submitted by YOU, reliving the epic fails, the awkward exchanges, and the moments that make you laugh 'til you cry. Think of it as therapy for your dating misadventures, served with a heaping helping of humor and maybe a touch of schadenfreude (we all love a good "oh no, they didn't!" moment).
But it's not all doom and gloom! We'll also celebrate the awkward encounters that spark unexpected connections, the silly banter that leads to something special, and the moments that remind us that even in the dating trenches, laughter is the best medicine.
So get ready to cringe, chuckle, and maybe even commiserate as we explore the wild, wonderful, and often hilariously awkward world of dating.
How Do You Deal with Conflict in Your Relationship?
Let's be real, even the dreamiest partnerships face disagreements. But how you handle conflict can make all the difference! So, spill the tea: how do you navigate those tricky moments?
Here are some things that can be helpful.
♀️ Breathe & Chill: Before diving in, take a moment to cool down. Raging emotions cloud judgment, so hit pause, grab some water, or go for a walk. Remember, you're a team, not opponents!
️ Talk it Out (Respectfully!): Ditch the blame game and finger-pointing. Focus on "I" statements, like "I feel hurt when..." instead of accusatory "you"s. Actively listen, paraphrase to confirm understanding, and avoid interrupting.
Be an Empathy Champ: Put yourself in your partner's shoes. What might be causing their frustration? What are their needs? Seeing things from their perspective can bridge the gap and foster compassion.
Find Common Ground:** Not every battle needs to be won. Seek solutions that work for both of you. Be open to compromise and remember, flexibility is key!
❤️ Remember the Love:** During tense moments, it's easy to forget the good stuff. Remind yourselves why you fell for each other in the first place. Appreciation and affection can go a long way in calming things down.
When getting into a new relationship, how soon do you explore intimacy? Are you familiar with the 3 date rule on having sex?
Valentine's Day Special with Jeremy and Christy Torisk
It's Valentine's Day folks, this is our jam! We are super excited to be sharing this special presentation.
Not only will be sharing all the great things about Valentine's Day but we will be welcoming our first couples interview.
We will be join by Jeremy and Christy Torisk.
Jeremy is the Founder of Coaching Done Better, a platform to connect anyone looking to improve their Mind, Body or Business to all the person who would be most aligned with your needs to help you Improve Everyday!
Christy is a Real Estate Broker in Florida, who specialize in assisting buyers and sellers in finding their next new home.
Their love story is one of finding the right person in the most unlikely of places, in a call center selling Comcast cable.
When Jeremy lost his Fiber Optic construction company in 2009, he ran through the organization within 2 years and landed a Director Position.
On his first day in the "C-Suite" side of the building, literally moving into his office, he was told that the owner paid someone to come in and cut the executive's hair... That person was Christy...
Now working together on the "Coaching Done Better Podcast" in which they help small business owners seeking to improve every day. This couple is sharing their passion to help others succeed and elevate their mindsets to grow to new heights.
Join us live as we celebrate Lessons, Laughter and Love with the Torisks'.
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Is It Time to Move from Dating to an Exclusive Relationship?
Feeling that spark with someone special, but unsure if it's time to go exclusive? You're not alone! Navigating the "casual to committed" transition can be tricky.
You’ve been seeing someone for a while, and it’s going great – so great you think maybe it’s time for the next step: an exclusive relationship. The meaning of ‘exclusive relationship’ can be different depending on who you ask, though, so it’s important to clarify with your significant other or feelings might be hurt.
Dating exclusively is what it sounds like – you see only the person you’re dating rather than juggling several options at once. It’s not quite the commitment a full-on monogamous relationship demands – but it does mean you put away those dating apps and ignore that flirty hottie in the bar.
We discuss how and when to decide to move forward in a budding relationship.
Are You Ready to Stop Being Single?
Single?
Do you want to be?
Whether or not you are ready to stop being single is a personal decision that only you can make. There is no right or wrong answer, and it depends on your circumstances and preferences.
Some people enjoy being single and find that it gives them freedom and independence. Others crave companionship and intimacy and yearn for a partner. There is no shame in either preference.
Here are some things to consider when thinking about whether or not you are ready to stop being single:
How do you feel about being single?
Are you happy and fulfilled, or do you feel lonely or isolated?
What are your goals for the future?
Do you want to get married and have children, or are you content with being single for the foreseeable future?
What are your expectations for a relationship?
Are you looking for something casual or something more serious?
Are you ready to make the compromises that come with being in a relationship?
Join us and Let's talk about how to decide if you're ready.