The Considerate Momma

20/04/2024

with Derting

19/04/2024

18/04/2024

Our children are feral too but we’ve taught ourselves how to get them to listen without hitting them, yelling at them, bribing them, or punishing them.

17/04/2024

14/04/2024

If you’re popping tiny humans for doing what you don’t like, you need more tools. If anyone understands being a reactive parent, it’s me. I grew up with two loving parents who were highly reactive…unpredictable even. Don’t worry, they agree & are breaking the cycle with me. My default pattern for the longest time was to be a reactive parent also. I would yell. I would rage. I even popped my daughter a time or two…and I regretted it immensely right after. The truth is, I was under-resourced parent who desperately needed more tools… And I found them in ! My first step in showing up differently as a Momma was in learning how to transform the way I talked to my daughter and the way I took responsibility for my reactivity. Parents tell me all the time, “I wish I had a script of things to say. I always freeze in the moment and can’t remember what to do or say.” That’s why I created my FR33 “Considerate Phrases” Calendar where I provide 4 weeks of phrases to: 1. Help resolve sibling conflicts 2. Model taking accountability 3. Model respect to children 4. Create a safe space for emotions while STILL maintaining boundaries and limits 5. Redirect unwanted behaviors & MORE Head to FR33 Tools on my(in profile)

09/04/2024

FLA$H $ALE on me ENTIRE Calm Down Tools $tore!!!on my page!
The Considerate

09/04/2024

Replying to M This is the only calm down corner with a “Name Your NEED” chart — unmet needs drive all unwanted behavior.Get yours on $ALE through 8/12/23

08/04/2024

Side note: 3-day “Rage & Reactivity RESET” Coming Soon!!! Comment with your fav emoji if you’re excited!!! 🫶🏼

08/04/2024

with the Griffiths

08/04/2024

For more phrases like this, grab my FR33 28-day Calendar, Considerate Phrases. In it, I give you 28 powerful phrases to:1. Help resolve sibling conflicts 2. Model taking accountability 3. Model respect to children 4. Create a safe space for emotions while maintaining boundaries and limits 5. Redirect unwanted behaviors & MORE

07/04/2024

I NEED YOU GUYS TOO!!!! Thank you! ️🫶🏼

06/04/2024

I guess the snarky/sassy side won today

06/04/2024

Replying to

06/04/2024

Replying to 🫶🏼 A child who is forced into isolation when they show big emotions/behaviors learns: 1. “My emotions aren’t safe to show others.” 2. “When I show my most authentic self, people disconnect.” 3. “I have to appear okay on the outside to regain connection, even if I’m not really okay.” 4. “To feel safe and loved in relationships, I have to shift my thoughts, feelings and opinions to please or appease others, even if it’s not really what I think, feel or believe.” 5. “It’s normal to experience emotional neglect in relationships.” 6. “I am not loved and should not experience love when I’m at my worst.” 7. “I’m bad for having any emotion other than happiness.” To teach a child how to connect with others positively, we have to connect with them positively. It really is that simple. If you’ve used time out as a discipline strategy and this is a huge eye-opener for you, give yourself so much grace. We are all learning together here. If you’d like a CONNECTIVE alternative to time out, my Calm Down Corner Kits are the perfect next step and they’re currently on ALE at the “Calm Down Tools” link on my pa

05/04/2024

Rage-free parenting!

05/04/2024

Meet my friend Freeman, former teacher, Gentle Educator and Coach to School Districts!

04/04/2024

Coaches in a room together it goes a little sum’n like dis

04/04/2024

HAAAALLLLLPPPPP!!!!

04/04/2024