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29/12/2025

We’re expanding.

In 2026, Legally Clueless Africa is launching a brand-new show that deepens and widens our coverage across the continent, and we’re looking for distribution partners in Nigeria and South Africa.

If you run a podcast, YouTube channel, video show, blog, or digital media platform and your work is rooted in amplifying women’s rights and women’s voices, we’d love to explore what partnership could look like.

Email us by January 10th at
[email protected] with:

• A short intro about you
• Links to your platform
• Where you’re based (Nigeria or South Africa)
• Why this collaboration resonates with you

Let’s build something powerful together.

Merry Christmas from all of us at Legally Clueless Africa.This year, our community gathered through stories, podcasts, s...
24/12/2025

Merry Christmas from all of us at Legally Clueless Africa.
This year, our community gathered through stories, podcasts, shows, conversations, and healing spaces, choosing honesty, growth, and softness together.

Thank you for listening, for showing up,
and for trusting LCA as part of your journey.
Wherever this season finds you, joyful, tired,
hopeful, or in-between, we hope you feel held today.

With love,
Adelle
Founder, Legally Clueless Africa

23/12/2025

Becoming a mannerless woman doesn’t happen overnight.

In this episode of , Abigail Arunga shares that mannerlessness often starts as theory something you practice before it fully lives in your body.

It takes courage.
It takes bravery.
It takes a growing refusal to care who is uncomfortable with your becoming.

Sometimes you fake it.
Sometimes you remind yourself.
Sometimes you call forth the woman you are becoming and say: this is your time.

If you are still practicing her, you are not late.
You are becoming.

▶️ Watch the full episode on For Mannerless Women.
Link in bio.

As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a moment to honour the women in our community who chose to show up for themse...
23/12/2025

As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a moment to honour the women in our community who chose to show up for themselves.

Over the last three months, these group therapy sessions held space for honesty, vulnerability, unlearning, and the quiet work of healing. Not the kind that needs to be announced, but the kind that slowly reshapes how you move through the world.

This is a celebration of every woman who plugged into our healing resources, committed to self-reflection, and began doing the inner work required to live more fully and truthfully.

We see you. We celebrate you.
And we’re grateful to have walked alongside you this year.

21/12/2025

Is s*xuality really just about s*x?

In this episode of , Abigail Arunga expands the conversation, reminding us that s*xuality also lives in the senses:
- how your body feels in its own skin
- the way music moves your hips in your living room
- the warmth of the sun on your body
- knowing what you like, and how to care for yourself

Sensuality is not performance.
It doesn’t always lead anywhere.
Sometimes, it’s just you… being alive.

Full episode on our YouTube.


“If a woman knows pleasure, she becomes dangerous.”Because a woman who knows pleasure knows her body.A woman who knows h...
19/12/2025

“If a woman knows pleasure, she becomes dangerous.”

Because a woman who knows pleasure knows her body.
A woman who knows her body knows her power.
And a woman who knows her power is harder to control.

Read that again. Then ask yourself:
Which parts of you were you taught to silence?


18/12/2025

“You need food to survive.”
“But you also need pleasure to survive.”

In this episode of , questions why women are taught to feel shame around joy, pleasure, and desire while the world profits off the very things it tells women to suppress.

From self-pleasure to makeup, this clip exposes the double standards:
- Pleasure is called too much
- Joy is called frivolous
- And women are told to just… suffer

So we’re asking:
Who decides what’s “too much” for women?
And who benefits from our shame?

Full episode on our YouTube


18/12/2025

Friendship breakups don’t always come with a fight, a betrayal, or a clear ending.
Sometimes you just… grow apart.
And that kind of ending can hurt even more, because you’re left holding love and unanswered questions.

In this clip from , Kui Mwai reflects on how evolving past friendships can mirror romantic heartbreak, the grief, the confusion, the “why did this end?” that never quite gets closure.

As this year winds down, this is an invitation to reflect:
Is there a friendship that ended quietly for you this year?
One you still think about?

Watch the full episode on our YouTube.

Is there a relationship in your life where you feel yourself getting smaller?Not because of a big argument.Not because s...
17/12/2025

Is there a relationship in your life where you feel yourself getting smaller?

Not because of a big argument.
Not because someone was openly unkind.
But because over time, you learned to dim your light, edit your joy, or silence parts of yourself to keep the peace.

This post is for anyone navigating personal growth and realizing that some relationships struggle when you start to heal, expand, and take up space.

Belonging should not require self-erasure.
Healthy relationships allow you to grow, not shrink.

You are allowed to be fully yourself, even if your confidence, healing, or joy makes others uncomfortable.

Share this with someone who needs permission to stop dimming their light and choose themselves.



16/12/2025

“So… have you lost weight?”

For many women, this is often the first thing people say, after months, even years, apart.
And it can instantly shift a moment of connection into self-consciousness.

In this FMW conversation, and ahead of Christmas gatherings, we unpack why commenting on someone’s body isn’t harmless and why it’s okay to name when a comment isn’t welcome.

- We are alive. We are here.
- There is so much more to catch up on than how someone looks.

Can you relate?

16/12/2025

Most women have never really looked at their v***a and that silence can keep us disconnected from our own bodies.kristina_sule shares a simple but powerful practice: the mirror self-exam.

- There’s no one right way, stand, lie down, lift a leg
- Take mental notes of what’s normal for you
- Look for changes, not perfection
- If something feels “off,” it’s okay to ask. Reassurance is part of care

Knowing your v***a helps you notice changes early and speak up without shame.
Your body is not mysterious. It’s yours to understand.

This FMW episode is now live and it’s one every woman deserves to hear. 💛

“Everything is working out for me, even when I can’t see how yet.”A reminder from fashion entrepreneur and founder of Zi...
15/12/2025

“Everything is working out for me, even when I can’t see how yet.”

A reminder from fashion entrepreneur and founder of Zia Africa, on today’s episode of For Mannerless Women.

If you’re building, trusting, waiting, or doing things afraid, let this affirmation hold you.

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