
04/03/2025
𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐬𝐨 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠?
You finally speak up, advocate for yourself, and even 𝒘𝒊𝒏—but instead of feeling victorious, you’re hit with guilt, second-guessing, or a sudden urge to backtrack.
What is up with 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕?
Well, in this week's new episode, I’m sharing a real-life situation that left me wondering ...
🩷 why 𝐚𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 for what I want feels so uncomfortable
🩷 why 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 what I want can feel so much worse than just going with the flow, and
🩷 how this is all tangled up with people-pleasing, perfectionism, and a deep DEEP desire for certainty.
So if you’ve ever struggled to stand your ground, let’s talk about how to move forward with confidence—𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒔 the emotional whiplash!
P.S. This episode kicks off a series on 𝐇𝐒𝐏𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧-𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠. If there's a question you'd like me to be sure to answer, leave a comment below or drop me an email at [email protected]!
Why does getting what you want sometimes feel so wrong? You finally speak up, advocate for yourself, and even win—but...