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My boys and I spent an HOUR on this little Lego Star wars toy. And I noticed:They were more happy More focused More enga...
28/11/2024

My boys and I spent an HOUR on this little Lego Star wars toy. And I noticed:
They were more happy
More focused
More engaged
More respectful

Waaay more of all of that than any time we've given them an hour of screen time.

For a long time, I was scared to let my kids just create things because I was scared of the mess that I might have to clean up afterwards.

But I would much rather have a mess to clean up, then having to undo the behavior issues caused by excessive screen time.

I know we all will have a few days off. Try and create something with your kids. Let them be curious. Let them wonder. Let them make something. Let them make a mess!

Let your kids be kids.

Someday, you will pick them up and carry them to bed for the last time. But today is not that day Someday, you will give...
16/11/2024

Someday, you will pick them up and carry them to bed for the last time. But today is not that day

Someday, you will give them their last hug before they move out of the house. But today is not that day.

Hold them all you can. Hug them all you can.

The title of Mommy and Daddy are the most important you'll ever hold.

I know that tensions are high right now. I know that emotions are high right now. But for the sake of our kids, we need ...
07/11/2024

I know that tensions are high right now. I know that emotions are high right now. But for the sake of our kids, we need to come together.

It's okay to be disappointed about the results of the election if your side lost. And you don't have to feel guilty if your side won. This election was full of charged emotion.

At the end of the day we are all people. We are all Americans. And it's time for us to start acting as such.

If your side one, be classy. Remember how devastated you felt back in 2020 and help calm your fellow Americans fears. Show them the same kindness you wish you would have been shown back then.

If your side lost, be hopeful. Assumptions are never helpful. You have a voice and you have power to use that voice. To make positive changes within your immediate circles and communities.

It's time for us to start being humans. Good humans. To each other.

One nation 🇺🇲

Drop a ❤️ if you're going to give your kid a big ole hug todayI promise you all your kid wants is to be loved by you.As ...
25/10/2024

Drop a ❤️ if you're going to give your kid a big ole hug today

I promise you all your kid wants is to be loved by you.

As an elementary school counselor I see kids who think their parents don't love the, when in reality their parents love them so much!

SHOW it. Leave no doubt in their minds just how much you love them.

Hold them close and hold them tight.

You are amazing. Yes, you! Just as you are. Sometimes we need to slow down and be present in our lives. We spend so much...
15/10/2024

You are amazing. Yes, you! Just as you are.

Sometimes we need to slow down and be present in our lives. We spend so much time racing to improve ourselves that we felt and noticed the beautiful things in our lives right underneath our noses!

And the whole reason we are racing to improve ourselves is because we are comparing ourselves to everyone else!

Stop! Stop comparing yourself and start living your life. You have a wonderful life and it deserves to be enjoyed.

October is bullying prevention month, and I want to share my story again, as it's been a while, and there are quite a fe...
09/10/2024

October is bullying prevention month, and I want to share my story again, as it's been a while, and there are quite a few new faces around here.

It started in kindergarten when I got my first pair of glasses From ages 6 to 16 .....

-3rd grade: pushed off the monkey bars because "kids with glasses are freaks"

-5th grade: Stabbed in the rear end by a pencil in broad daylight during recess.

-6th grade: thrown in a garbage can by 4 of my classmates.

-7th grade: my classmates used the school email to spam me with one message - "you should d|e"

-8th grade: held down at football practice while teammates took turns kicking me in the groin.

-9th grade: thrown in the dumpster right before homecoming parade.

-10th grade: 15 classmates got on Facebook and sent me the same message for 6 hours "Go K¢ll Yourself"

-11th grade: Someone finally convinced me I was worthy and worth it.

That 10th grade year I was at my breaking point. I fully believed that the world was better off without me. I had internalized the hate I had received.

I was lucky. My parents helped me to figure out early on as a teen that my bullies were insecure people whose words held no weight on who I actually was. Their hate did not impact my value. My parents helped me see WHO I was, and that I didn't need to listen to the haters.

I was able to become better instead of bitter. I was able to get married to the love of my life and have wonderful children. I was able to have a wonderful life.

Not everyone gets to be that lucky.

Kids need to know that they are worth it. Kids need to know that they are resilient. Kids need to know that they are strong. Kids need to know that they are worth far more than the likes and shares of social media. And they need to know HOW

That is why I became a school counselor and that is why I speak in schools and communities. To be that voice to the kids who have none. To help YOU raise resilient kids in this tech every world.

If you would like me to come share my message with your community, shoot me a DM and let's make something work. Let's go save some kids ♥️💪

Just a friendly reminder to let your kids play. They're at school for 6 to 8 hours every single day.  Especially at the ...
20/09/2024

Just a friendly reminder to let your kids play. They're at school for 6 to 8 hours every single day. Especially at the end of a difficult week.. it's okay to forget about school for a little bit and just play.

So much development in children happens when they play. And it's so good for their mental health.

There is a time to be serious, time to do your School work, and even a time for discipline sometimes.

But through all of that, we can't forget to let our kids cut loose and be kids. Let them be rowdy and rambunctious. Let them engage in some rough play. Let them be kids

That being said, I have a lightsaber battle to attend. And probably the healthcare bill to pay afterwards .

Being a can be hard! I know that we are all scared to screw up our kids and we want to set them up for success. There ar...
28/08/2024

Being a can be hard! I know that we are all scared to screw up our kids and we want to set them up for success.

There are some things we can do to make our job easier and there are some things we can do to make it harder.

At the end of the day, you know your kids best, and you can trust your gut as a parent

Here's some things I've noticed as a counselor that I hope to be helpful

Let's go raise some resilient kids

I know it really feels like your kids want a phone. Probably because they've been nagging you for years and years. And n...
08/08/2024

I know it really feels like your kids want a phone. Probably because they've been nagging you for years and years. And now as school is starting they are asking you once again.

I promise you, your kids don't really want a phone. I mean they do, because they think it's going to solve the real issue. Which is them wanting connection. That's what they really want. Connection.

They feel that getting a phone will make them more connected and they will miss out on less. But what they don't realize is that getting a smartphone is going to isolate them more than ever before.

So please, don't isolate them. Don't give them a smartphone. Not yet.

Instead, spend more time with them. Connect with them. Love them. That's what they need.

School is starting soon. Please sit down with your kids for just a few minutes and talk to them about how their words ho...
06/08/2024

School is starting soon. Please sit down with your kids for just a few minutes and talk to them about how their words hold power.

Explain to them that no one deserves to be teased or made fun of for any reason.

No matter what clothes they wear, or the backpacks they do or don't have, or the overpriced water bottles they may or may not carry.

Please teach your kids that everyone deserves to be respected and no one deserves to be made fun of.

Teach them to be kind to everybody. And that everybody (including them) is worth being treated well ♥️

24/07/2024

🚨LIFE UPDATE🚨 I've decided to return to a normal 9:00 to 5:00 as an elementary school counselor.

Last school year was a dream being able to speak full-time to students and parents about raising resilient kids in a tech heavy world, and advocating against the dangers of social media.

I was also grateful I was able to provide for my family. But at the end of the school year I felt like I had worked three times as hard for less money than I mad as a counselor, and I felt like I was focusing so much on money, and not enough on saving kids.

I also learned that I'm not an entrepreneur at heart, and running a small business did not leave me with the emotional energy I needed to be the type of dad I want to be for my own kids.

So I decided to practice what I preach. I'm excited to be a normal guy with a normal job and a passionate side hustle with a dream to save some kids.

I'll still do some assemblies with my paid time off and plenty of parent nights after work.

If you have any questions let me know :-)

We fight and we quarrel over what's going on in the Whitehouse as if it's affecting our lives in some big way.What about...
22/07/2024

We fight and we quarrel over what's going on in the Whitehouse as if it's affecting our lives in some big way.

What about what's going on within your own house? As you're engaging in political arguments, are your kids just on the iPad wondering why Mom and Dad are mad all the time?

Our youth are struggling right now. Mental health issues are rampant. They need their parents now more than ever to help them navigate to hostel digital landscape that they've landed in.

I get it, we are passionate about our country. But that's no excuse to be a jerk to someone that you don't align with politically. That's not an excuse to perpetuate abusive language towards either side of the political spectrum. Because guess what? Your kids are watching, and you're teaching them with your actions.

And in any case, your children and your house should be far more important than anything going on with big brother government. I think we should take care of our own house first. Big brother government doesn't affect you as much as you think it does. But you affect your kids a lot more than you think you do.

So last month I did this thing.  I created an ebook about resiliency and I shared it with the world.  I was so humbled b...
22/05/2024

So last month I did this thing. I created an ebook about resiliency and I shared it with the world. I was so humbled by how many of you purchased it. Thank you so much for your support.

I recently listed the ebook on Gumroad, so that more people could have access to it if they wanted. And so that I didn't have to manually email everyone lol. My goal is to serve as many families as possible. I know not all schools can afford to come have me speak. This lil' ebook is the digital pdf interactive version of what I talk about. It's not rocket science. Not mind blowing. But it might be life changing to some.

Thanks again for all your support. It has been so cool to see a community of kindness come together.

natewebb.gumroad.com/l/natewebb

Hey you! I hope you know that you are wonderful, you are worthy, and you are worth it.I hope you know that the insecure ...
29/04/2024

Hey you! I hope you know that you are wonderful, you are worthy, and you are worth it.

I hope you know that the insecure and immature people in your life do not matter.

I hope that you unfollow everyone who hurt your heart and causes you to compare yourself.

I hope that you realize that you only have one life. And it doesn't make sense to waste it trying to impress people who aren't going to value you.

I hope you know how amazing you are. And I hope you know how happy I am that you're here.

I made a workbook for parents.....and I'm scared to share it lol One of my biggest insecurities is that people will not ...
05/04/2024

I made a workbook for parents.....and I'm scared to share it lol

One of my biggest insecurities is that people will not need / will not want to hear what I have to say. Even though I am an established professional and experts in the realm of resilience and digital safety...... It's easy to fill in insignificant. A couple weeks ago though a middle school kid helped me change that thought.

After one of my speaking engagements in rural Utah, I had a little sixth grader hang back and wait until everyone was gone. He slowly and shiley came up to me and told me that he really appreciated my presentation. He told me he struggled with resiliency and that he had even made a plan that day to end his own life 🫣😢

However, he chose to stay that day, because something in what I said helped him realize that he is capable and that he is strong and that he is enough. And so he gave me a hug, thanked me for saving his life, and walked back to his class. Before I left the school that day I made sure that school officials knew of his situation so that he could get help.

But this little kid reminded me how important this message is. And I know that not every single school is going to be able to bring me to give it an assembly or a parent night. So I decided to make this workbook which is a digital version of my presentation. And I'm selling it to everybody for 10 bucks lol.

If you would like to know what I talk about when I speak in schools, this is the workbook for you. There is the payment link and I will email you the PDF.

https://buy.stripe.com/6oE18124weFD4Ks6oq

Or you can Venmo me (second slide), send me your email, and I'll email it to you.

At the end of the day, we need to help our kids to be more resilient. And I know that this can help. Thank you all so much for your continued support. This community means the world to me. Thank youw

25/03/2024

really mystified and confused by parents sometimes. I find it so interesting we are so quick to be critical of what is being taught in the classroom, while being completely complacent and dismissive of what we allow inside our home. I see so many parents throwing fits about the things going on within schools, which is their right, but then within their own home it's like all of a sudden those values don't matter anymore. We need to care more about what our kids are doing online. Ignorance is not Bliss. Ignorance is ignorance. Our kids deserve better.

13/03/2024

This one made me mad when I saw it on my friend .uncharted page, but we need to talk more about this stuff! We are all for protecting kids from pred@tors online, but if YouTube parents do it, it's ok?! Did you read the article?! It's sick and disgusting. We need to do better

https://youtu.be/S9rRWua6S9I?si=0KZCh7X5-n-I02JxAs many of you know, I run the podcast for Save The Kids. All about rais...
06/03/2024

https://youtu.be/S9rRWua6S9I?si=0KZCh7X5-n-I02Jx

As many of you know, I run the podcast for Save The Kids. All about raising resilient kids in a tech happy world. There's a podcast has been growing and we have seen the need to grow as well. And so, we are going to be expanding our podcast to YouTube!

If you think digital safety for kids is important, please subscribe to the YouTube channel. I'm super excited for this part of our new adventure!

Welcome to the Save The Kids Podcast with Nate Webb - your one stop shop to help raise resilient kids in this tech heavy world. Every week we will be going ...

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Bullies B Gone (www.bulliesbgone.com)

Welcome to Bullies B Gone! I went from Bully Victim to School Counselor, and I was able to move past it and become a better person from it. I’m here to help you overcome your bullies and trials in your life too! Take my online courses so you can learn how to help your students be as resilient as they can be.

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