09/08/2024
Happy 9 years wedding anniversary, my dearest love ❤️
Motherhood: Lifestyle, Fashion & Beauty
Happy 9 years wedding anniversary, my dearest love ❤️
Thank you, God, my lord and savior for the breath in my lungs and the gift of being 34 years old!
Happiest birthday 🎂
Happy Mother's Day to the woman who carried me in her belly for 9 months and gave me life. Thank you for loving me with all your heart and setting such a high bar how to be a mother to my own kids. No love can compare to a mother's love, and I'm so grateful every day I still have you in my life.
To the world, I'm a grown woman in her 30s, married, with two kids, and a whole lot of responsibilities... but to you, I'm still a kid; I'm still your precious little baby. And it feels so good to know how young I'll always be in your eyes and cherish I am by you. Now that I am a mother myself, I can finally understand all your hard work, sacrifice, and unconditional love.
Thank God for making you my perfect, beautiful mommy ❤️
Our family was chaotic but it was (always is) an amazing newborn session with our photographer 📸
Life after birth
Life with two kids
Postpartum
Blessings
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Meet Kalon Xamuyees Loktin Kan, the newest addition to our family! Born two and a bit weeks early on April 10th, Kalon was in a hurry to enter the world, and daddy almost missed his delivery!
This little bundle of joy has stolen our hearts with his big bright eyes, calm nature, and adorable gentle cries. We are so grateful to God for this miracle child and for the blessing of being his parents.
The name Kalon (KA-LUHN, rhymes with gallon), means to embody the ideal of perfect beauty - physical, moral, and spiritual. It is our hope for him to grow up and flourish, and to see the beauty of his soul, heart, and mind shine through.
Mommy already loves you with all my heart, Kalon ❤️
April 25th would have been my due date but my baby had other plans and decided to come over two weeks early.
Paul was away on a work trip and I woke up to intense contractions in the middle of the night. It was a wild ride getting to the hospital and I thought I was going to give birth in the car when we were blocked by a train in the middle of morning rush hour. All I remember was being so incredibly thirsty. It was probably a great distraction, so I didn't have space to worry about Kairos.
Kairos woke up just as I was getting ready to leave the house and was dropped off confused and crying at my mom's house in the chaos of getting me to the hospital. I barely had time to bid him goodbye because the surges were so strong and close together. I hadn't finished nesting and there were no hospital bags or diaper bags packed. By the time my older brother got me admitted to triage, I was already 8cm dilated and 90% effaced. I brought nothing with me but the clothes on my back and my purse.
Paul was rushing back from Chicago but was still 2.5 hrs away. Luckily, my doula met me in triage and was in communication with Paul and I the whole time. I was so happy to see a familiar face when she arrived and broke down a bit before being swiftly wheeled off to labor and delivery.
Baby decided to wait for daddy and I was so relieved when Paul finally arrived, panting into the room completely disheveled. He told me later he had been driving over 100mph on the freeway, almost ran out of gas, and was sprinting through the hospital hallways. My water broke 10mins after Paul arrived and Baby was born within the hour!
Total labor was 6 hours compared to 41 hours with my firstborn. With my first, I was super calm and dialed in. This time, I wasn't able to find a good mental rhythm because of the hectic pace, emotions, and panics of that morning. Luckily, my surges only lasted 1min unlike the unbearable 2-3mins of my first labor. It was nothing like I expected and I'm so thankful I had so much support from my family. God had his hands all over us and everything worked out because of his provisions and timing.
Welcome to the world Kalon! You're so loved already and blessed ❤️
Happy 2nd Birthday to my little ray of sunshine, Kairos! Words can't express the overwhelming love and joy you've brought into our lives since the day you were born. As we celebrate your second trip around the sun, my heart is bursting with pride and gratitude for the privilege of being your mom.
From your very first breath, you captivated us with your fiery spirit and boundless curiosity. Watching you grow and learn has been the greatest adventure of our lives. Your laughter fills our home with warmth, and your hugs are like magic, melting away any worries or fears.
As we eagerly await the arrival of your baby brother this month, I'm filled with a mix of emotions. But amidst the excitement and anticipation, one thing remains constant: my unconditional love for you. You'll always hold a special place in my heart as my firstborn, my little love, a reminder of my greatest blessing: the opportunity to be a mother.
In the midst of life's chaos, you are my anchor, grounding me with your innocence and purity. Your presence brings meaning to each moment, reminding me of life's simple joys and the beauty of unconditional love.
This month, we celebrate you, my sweet boy, and all the wonder and magic you bring into our lives. Here's to another year of snuggles, giggles, and precious memories.
Happy 2nd Birthday, my sweet son ❤️
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the light of my life: My now 2 years old son, Kairos!
Every day, I am so grateful that God made you mine. That out of all the billions of souls, God chose you for me. You're the most joyful and silly little guy ever and make mommy and daddy so happy every day with your shenanigans. You have brought so much purpose into my life, and being your mom is one of my life's greatest gifts.
Keep growing up healthy, happy, kind, strong, and smart like you already are. Mommy loves you with my whole entire heart ❤️
Happy International Women's Day! Nothing makes me feel more powerful than being able to create, carry, then birth out a whole little human. I'm grateful, proud, and in awe of this gift, honor, and opportunity from God 🙏
Women are amazing ❤️
So excited to meet my second little son! I can't wait to fall in love with him and learn his heart ❤️
Wish I was just chilling like this until baby comes but Kairos has been keeping me so busy! It's crazy how hectic this second pregnancy has been having a demanding toddler. Still have so much prep work to do 😱
Thanks for being such a great dad to our babies ❤️
Ready for this new season of our lives with my dearest Husband ❤️
Pc:
Embracing these last couple of months before baby comes. This second pregnancy has gone by so fast!
Pc:
The Motherhood saga continues
Family day at the Milwaukee Aquarium and Discovery world this past weekend! So much fun connecting and enjoying the precious time we have left as a family of three with Kairos ❤️
Love week celebrating our anniversary with a nice sit down dinner after our maternity photoshoot. We took our son along and surprisingly, he did pretty good. We had to use screen time so he could make it through dinner- He was exhausted from the events of the day! ❤️
I enjoyed my maternity photoshoot so much last time that I knew I wanted the same experience again with !
And boy did I feel pampered getting my makeup and hair done and prancing around in some gorgeous dresses! Thanks to hair by and makeup by for glaming me up. I'm usually really picky about doing my own hair and makeup but it felt great to let go of control and allow myself to get some relaxing self care.
Kairos wasn't really happy once we started taking photos. All he wanted was mommy so it was challenging but we took it slow and just went with his flow. Luckily, he fell asleep later and Paul and I was able to get some couple photos in 😅
Can't wait to get our photos back! ❤️
One step closer... married for almost a decade today. Happy 9 years civil wedding anniversary to us. Cheers to always facing our deepest fears together and fighting to never let anything take away what's in front of us.
I'll love you for a thousand years more ❤️
The first snowfall this Dec where Kairos really got to play with snow! It was so fun watching him run around what looked like a snow globe neighborhood.
I had the best time chasing him around as we both giggled trying new things together like throwing snowballs and tasting the snow on our tongues.
When we pulled into the garage, my sweet son clapped to let us know it was really fun ❤️
IT'S A BOY!
We waited so long to find out what the gender of Baby Kan 2 would be. It was so hard to be in the dark about its gender but we're happy to finally be able to celebrate such an exciting moment with loved ones on this beautiful Christmas Day! The best gift of all is knowing that baby 2 is healthy and Kairos will have a little brother to have fun with very soon.
I never thought I'd be a boy BOY mom but here we are! 😅
Thank you God for your son Jesus Christ born today and for the gift of motherhood and all the goodness that will come with raising this next dear child of mine ❤️
Pajama party on Christmas Eve! 🎄
Merry Christmas from our family to yours 🎄🎅🎁🎉❤️
On this beautiful Thanksgiving day, I'm grateful for so many things but especially to be pregnant with Paul and our second miracle baby: Baby Kan #2!
Hi my love, you are intentionally wanted so very dearly and we can't wait to welcome you into our arms next year. For now, you are filling up our hearts and we love you so much already!
May God keep you safe and we lift you up to His great love and grace ❤️
"Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." - James 1:17
We had so much fun this year at the Madison Hmong New Year with Kairos being older and able to observe everything with a new lens.
He was able to run around and mommy and daddy did a lot of chasing haha 😅
Happy Hmong New Year in Madison!
Care Bears for Halloween! Kairos has been loving bears and really enjoys watching care bears on Netflix.
It was really cold tonight so these costumes kept us warm! What a fun second Halloween for our little family 🎃 💕
It's my handsome man's birthday today! 🎂
Happy birthday to my favorite person in the world and the one I look forward to spending an eternity with because he's such great company 😍
Bye bye beautiful Barcelona 😍
Thanks for such a great family vacation with luscious greens and family-friendly trails. Such gorgeous architecture, neighborhoods, and food! ❤️
We sent our postcards off at the airport and will be flying 9 hrs back home. Wish us luck on the plane with Kairos! 😅
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