Dripoflove/familycoach

21/08/2024

Did you know?

16/08/2024

We had a blast yesterday. Is you kids here on this adventure with us?

12/08/2024

Do you spend adequate time with your child?

10/08/2024

Last day of registration
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09/08/2024

50% off for Drip Kids club parents.

Registration is still ongoing. Slots are limited.
Hurry now and book a slot for your children and teenagers.
Equip them with the skills they need now that they are in their prime.

Who is this program for?
Children and teens between 8 and 16.
Those preparing for boarding school.
Those already in boarding school.

Seize this opportunity
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06/08/2024

Do you have children and teenagers between the ages of 8 and 16? I've got good news for you.

This is not your regular holiday program. This is a one week revolution and mindset shift for your young ones.

Do not sleep on this. Slots are limited.
Follow this link below to register or click on the link in bio

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05/08/2024

Parents of boys get in here. This post is for you.
This is just a reminder to keep striving to change the narrative with your boys one family at a time.

02/08/2024

Spending a lot more time with children can be overwhelming, especially if they are toddlers. The easier option of letting them just play around or giving them more screen time than they need can be tempting during the holidays.

However, holidays provide our children with a much-needed break and allow them to engage in activities that bring them joy and rejuvenation. If you are a present parent, you understand the mental, physical, and emotional energy our children exert in their academics all year. Some are outstanding, yet they work so hard to keep up with the standard in a bid to make you proud. Others, though they may struggle academically, still put in tremendous effort to improve and succeed in a bid to please you.

Talk about waking up so early and consistently being physically drained. I wish I didn't have to include the exhaustion they feel from daily school activities, which is glaring when they return from school. Despite their fatigue, they push themselves to complete their homework and study for upcoming tests, determined to perform well and make you proud. I mean, these children take on a lot these days.

Seize the holiday as an opportunity to spend quality time with them and create lasting memories together. It's a time to disconnect from the daily routine and engage in fun activities that everyone can enjoy. Whether it's trying out new hobbies, teaching them a life skill, going on a vacation, or simply relaxing at home, make the most of this holiday season by cherishing these precious moments with your kids.

31/07/2024

Having such thoughts is a good sign that you want more as a parent.

Perfection is parenting is a myth. Striving to be the best version of yourself daily is your sure bet.

29/07/2024

Register your kids and teens for a mind-blowing experience.

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26/07/2024

It's raining pictures here 🥰

24/07/2024

24/07/2024

As part of our summer holiday plan for kids and teens, we will be hosting online workshops and activities focused on bullying, s*x education, self-esteem and confidence building, moral compass, spiritual foundation, mentorship, and a lot more. Your child or teen between the ages of 8 and 17 can join from any part of the world from the 5th to the 16th of August for just 10,000 naira.

Do not send that child or teen off to boarding school without equipping them with the necessary tools to navigate the complexities of social interactions and relationships.

Spaces are limited, so seize this opportunity to give your children an edge this holiday.

23/07/2024

So sad!
So, yesterday, I made a post about the different types of bullying and how it has become the norm among children and teens. Did you use it as an opportunity to talk to your child or teen about their experiences with bullying? Do you know if they are the bullies themselves? Hmmm, I know no parent wants to believe their child could be capable of bullying others, but it happens..

Who should we blame for this 12 year old's first degree murder? Some things don't just start suddenly. The trail will reveal how it started if you are patient enough to find out.
Do not let your children get to a certain point before you realize they need help.

As part of our summer holiday plan for kids and teens, we will be hosting online workshops and activities focused on bullying, s*x education, self-esteem and confidence building, moral compass, spiritual foundation, mentorship, and a lot more. Your child or teen between the ages of 8 and 17 can join from any part of the world from the 5th to the 16th of August for just 10,000 naira.

Do not send that child or teen off to boarding school without equipping them with the necessary tools to navigate the complexities of social interactions and relationships.

Spaces are limited, so seize this opportunity to give your children an edge this holiday.

23/07/2024

As part of our summer holiday plan for kids and teens, we will be hosting online workshops and activities focused on bullying, s*x education, self-esteem and confidence building, moral compass, spiritual foundation, mentorship, and a lot more. Your child or teen between the ages of 8 and 17 can join from any part of the world from the 5th to the 16th of August for just 10,000 naira.

Do not send that child or teen off to boarding school without equipping them with the necessary tools to navigate the complexities of social interactions and relationships.

Spaces are limited, so seize this opportunity to give your children an edge this holiday.
Click to register https://forms.gle/ZCmX9AQzYhDMNCoq9

23/07/2024

As we let our kids enjoy a good holiday, it's also a good time to reflect and analyze how the past academic year went for them. This reflection can help us identify areas for improvement and set goals for the upcoming school year, one of which is whether or not your child needs a change of his or her school environment.

It's important to consider the philosophy and approach of your child's school to education, morality, and spirituality, as well as the extracurricular activities and support services offered. Taking a holistic view of the school can help ensure that it is the right fit for your child's overall development and well-being.

22/07/2024

As simple as it may sound, bullying is taking a toll on so many kids and teens. It's even worse that we do not empower them with adequate knowledge of the different types of bullying .

Raising awareness and educating children and teens about these types of bullying can empower them to stand up against it and seek help when needed.

Is your child empowered or disempowered?

19/07/2024

Beloved author and professor Dr. Howard Hendricks once asked his
grown children what they remembered most fondly from their childhood.
Was it the vacations they took or the trips to theme parks or the zoo? “No,”
they answered.

It was when Dad got on the floor and wrestled with them.
That’s the way children think. It is especially the way boys think. The most
meaningful activities in the family are often those simple interactions that
build lasting connections between generations.

16/07/2024

Aside from physical harm or damage to property, which will most likely be your first thought, children can pick up negative behaviours quickly, such as lying, stealing, or bullying, and foul language, which can become built-in if not corrected immediately.

Unsupervised children can engage in activities that lead to significant immediate and long-term consequences, making it crucial for parents to provide consistent supervision and guidance to mitigate potential negative outcomes.

11/07/2024

A few months ago, I taught a group of teenagers how to recognize the signs of potential pedophiles.

Are your kids and teens aware of the stages of grooming? If they are not, then they are most vulnerable. This is non negotiable.

Ignorance about the tactics used by potential pedophiles is the reason they might be at risk.

Better safe than sorry, right?

They must know that not every nice person, whether a family friend or family member, has good intentions.

Statistics show that most victims of child s*xual abuse know their abuser. 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be s*xually abused before they turn 18.

This is no joke! Ask a few friends about their experiences growing up, and you'll likely be shocked by how common it is.

It's important to understand that not all pedophiles act on their urges, but being able to identify warning signs can help protect children from potential harm.

Remember, education and awareness are key to preventing child s*xual abuse.

It's crucial for parents and educators to educate children about this serious issue and empower them to speak up if they ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

05/07/2024

Don't snooze! Stay safe, parents. Eyes on the prize. Do not let the culture sweep your children away.

04/07/2024

When you're the first person to show up for a Zoom meeting because you're the host. 🥰

kids and Teens Tribe
A community of children and teens who are being groomed into well-rounded adults. Who will make the difference.

Would you like to enroll your child or teen? Registration for the next cohort is now open.

04/07/2024

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03/07/2024

03/07/2024

Yet, we are so relaxed when it comes to raising boys.

No wonder this generation of boys are spoilt brats!

We were so focused on preparing our girls for marriage that we forgot they would meet the unprepared boys in marriage. So sad!

02/07/2024

This in no way means parents are immune to frustration, but rather that they are better able to manage and express their emotions.

Secure attachment in children is strongly influenced by consistent emotional support and responsiveness from parents

Here’s a deeper look

Emotional Regulation
Securely attached children benefit from parents who demonstrate healthy emotional regulation. This involves acknowledging and managing frustration without it escalating into harmful behaviours or withdrawal from the child.

Apologizing
When a caregiver does become frustrated and unintentionally expresses it in a way that affects the child, what follows is crucial. A parent who apologizes demonstrates humility and teaches the child about accountability and repairing relationships. This process helps the child learn that mistakes are normal and can be rectified.

Consistency in Care
Secure attachment thrives on predictability and reliability. Even when parents experience frustration, if they consistently provide love, support, and a secure base, the child learns to trust their caregiver and the world around them.

Modeling Healthy Relationships
Apologizing for frustration teaches children not only about personal responsibility but also about healthy relationships. They learn that it's okay to express emotions and that repairing bonds strengthens relationships.

Building Resilience
Secure attachment isn't about perfection but about resilience in relationships. When caregivers show they can navigate challenges and repair ruptures, children learn skills to do the same in their own interactions and future relationships.

In summary, a secure attachment isn't about never experiencing negative emotions like frustration but about how parents handle and recover from these moments.