GentleMen Of Valor

28/06/2024

27/06/2024

Far more precious than any rubie

24/06/2024

Ever have one of those day where you are just chomping at the bits to get off work so you can go spend time with the woman you love?
Yup it’s one of them days.

19/06/2024

*Ladies read at your own risk*
Full disclaimer, I am not speaking on behalf of all men, just the men I know and men who are like us.

There is not a single man that I know, that wants a female who screaming “I’m independent”

There is not a single man that I know, that wants a female who wants to get “turnt up” on the weekends with her girlfriends.

There is not a single man that I know that wants a female who likes to spread drama on social media

There is not a single man that I know that wants a FEMALE

MEN want WOMEN

MEN want a woman who is true to herself

MEN want women who are ambitious

MEN want women who are supportive

MEN want women who they can protect

MEN want women that they can provide for.

All these things helps a MAN to become better everyday. It helps them to grow in life. A man can be happy with himself, but he’s happier in life knowing that he is making the one that he loves happy.

17/06/2024

Here are. Some pieces of advice I’ve learned in my 34 almost 35 years of living.

Learn to say no

Become unoffendable

If you see a toilet in your dreams DO NOT USE IT!!
(Bad things happen to good people)

You do not need a tattoo in a language you do not speak fluently

You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive somebody

You will never make yourself look good trying to make someone else look bad.

It is never too late to be the person you truly want to be.

Learn to serve other people

If you do not learn to control your emotions, your emotions will control you.
(No decision made out of emotions has EVER turned out to be a good)

It ain’t about being better than other people. It’s about being better than who you were yesterday.

If you have never met the devil in the road to life…
You’re probably headed in the same direction.

If you can’t see the positive, then you get to be the positive

When you learn to love other people, that’s when you truly are able to love yourself.

Fear does not stop death. It stops life.

Don’t take social media so serious. Truth be told, most of your likes are from someone sitting on the toilet. (Hopefully not in their dreams 😬)

Believe in miracles

Ye have not because ye ask not.

Hold your shoulders back when you walk into a room. If God placed you there, then you are there for a reason.

The loudest person in the room, ain’t the most confident

No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future.

Life is better when you’re happy, but it’s even better when someone is happy because of YOU!

Last but surely not least

What people think of you, really don’t matter.

04/06/2024

They are watching

03/06/2024

I don’t say this much. But thank you Lord for just the opportunity to live another day. Thank you for the fresh air in my lungs, 2 good feet, 2 good hands. I don’t deserve the things I have. Thank you again for the life I’ve been blessed with. My cup truly runneth over

29/05/2024

Something to consider

I talked with someone about my fitness plans. He told me “if you do exactly as I tell you, you will accomplish your goals. That means protein and vegetables. Plus this workout regimen. Do this with ZERO modifications.

That doesn’t mean do SOME of the workouts.
That doesn’t mean protein, vegetables AND fries

I used to find myself doing good all week (Monday-Saturday) but then on Sunday get a milkshake. Thats a modification to the plan! Friends can look at me and say “man you’re looking great, you’ve lost a good bit of weight” but that trainer can look at me and say:
“YOU ARE NOT WHERE YOU SHOULD BE BECAUSE YOU MODIFIED THE PLAN!”

Isn’t it funny how we want God to help us build a better life for ourselves but then want to modify the plan? Do 50% his way and 50% our way? Or 75% his way and 25% our way?
We are to do things 100% his way to get to the things he wants us to have in our life. Then we get mad at God because we aren’t where we want to be in life, but it’s because we modified his plan.

22/05/2024

An airplane can not just sit in a hangar. It needs to fly because that’s what it was made for, otherwise it will deteriorate and the wings will begin to slightly deform from just sitting there.

A ship cannot just sit in the harbor, because it will collect barnacles and seem the ship unusable. It needs to be out in the waters, because that’s what it was made for.

A house needs to be lived in because without someone living in it, it will become unlivable in due time. Living in a house is what the house was made for.

YOU were made for a purpose. You have a different fingerprint than anyone else in this world so that you can leave an impression different than everyone else.

Know your purpose, embrace it and live your purpose.

“A dream is a preview for life’s coming attractions”- Albert Einstein

15/05/2024

Hebrews 11:1
Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

Start with a dream, be imaginative. The imagination is a powerful tool. It’s the preview to life’s coming attractions.

Someone one day wished that we didn’t have to drive 500 miles in a car to get to a different state, city, etc.
someone DREAMED it and now we have planes that can take us places much faster than a car can.

13/05/2024

There are various levels of masculinity, and not all males embody the characteristics of a true man.

Level 1, the most basic level, refers to individuals who possess the X and Y chromosomes but lack understanding of what it means to be a man.

Level 2, the 'Guy,' has the potential but lacks direction and knowledge of how to use it effectively.

Level 3, the 'MAN,' possesses the qualities of a true man, including self-awareness and the ability to correct his path when needed.

Which level best describes you?

11/05/2024

Be happy with what you have
While working towards what you want

07/05/2024

When are you going to stop believing the LIES the devil has about you
And start believing the TRUTHS that God has for you?

03/05/2024

STOP WORRYING
YOU ARE IN THE PROCESS!
GOD IS PROCESSING YOU!!

26/04/2024

Wise words from Bedros Keuilian

01/04/2024

They found Buddha’s remains in a tomb
They found Muhammad’s body in a tomb
They found Jesus’ tomb…EMPTY!
He is Risen

31/03/2024

Happy Easter!

29/03/2024

Gentlemen,

Always remember this.

Your ability to cut people off and self isolate is NOT a skill you should be proud of. It’s a trauma response rooted in never having anyone to depend on.

I’m here for any help I may be able to provide.

Message me and we will set up a call.

26/03/2024

The longer you walk in someone else’s shadow, the longer it takes to cast your own

25/03/2024

Gentlemen,

This is a prime example of how to properly listen to your wife.

If you’re listening to respond you will not listen to everything she is saying.

However if you listen to understand, you will retain all that she has to say and then you can regroup, and approach the situation in a loving manner.

As you were.

21/03/2024

A Love tank is similar to a Gas tank in your car

If it’s not filled on a regular basis, you will have run empty

Thus leaving you on the side of the road helpless and hopeless.

You could grab a gas can and start walking to the nearest place to get a little bit of gas to help get your car to the next stop…

But the entire time you will be questioning yourself, belittling your self, calling yourself a failure, etc.

However, you should have that one person you could call to help you get back moving.

That person should be your spouse.

Ask yourself if you are helping your spouse to keep their love tank full. Would you be willing to drop whatever you are doing to help them in a serving way as we are called to do? With no covert contracts?

If you hesitated to answer this then you need to talk to a coach.

You’d be surprised as to how amazing your relationship could be.

18/03/2024

The term 'tomorrow' refers to a concept that does not currently exist in reality.

07/03/2024

Failing to plan is planning to fail
Yet hoping for lottery type success!

25/02/2024

The first 3 minutes of an argument between couples are the MOST CRUCIAL.

How you react/respond determines NOT ONLY where the rest of that argument goes

BUT ALSO where your relationship will go for the next 6 years!

Quotes from the book Fight Right

In an argument with the person you love ALWAYS remember

James 1:19-20 KJV

Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath. For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.

21/02/2024

Your current situation is NOT your final destination
Get better everyday!

15/02/2024

What an amazing tribute to Toby Keith one of my favorite songs!

Singer: Jackson Snelling

14/02/2024

What is the single most positive action you are doing for other people?

09/02/2024

Now is you time before it’s too late

How many times have you heard this?

“You never listen to me”

“I love you, but i don’t think I’m in love with you”

“Actions speak louder than words”

Or the famous conversation…

“Hey honey, what’s wrong?”

Her reply: “nothing”

The silent treatment sucks, the constant tempers, mood swings. She’s at her wits end brother. You need to make a change if you want to keep your relationship moving forward instead of at a stand still, or worse ending.

You cannot blame her, she is a completely different person with a whole different set of emotions. Instead of making her feel like she’s the problem, validate her. Help her to see that YOU are the cliff that her emotional waves can crash into. She needs a safe space and that safe space should be YOU! She should feel safe enough to come to you with her emotions and her feelings.

She needs a leader, someone who is firm in his masculine role. A man who is selfless and not selfish.

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