Co'z im still waiting there for you to open

31/08/2024

how does it feel to be always liked but never truly pursued?

its really sad.

Knowing that I was able to meet their standards, expectations, and needs, but it still wasn't enough to make them stay, is truly sad. It's a painful realization, even though I'm grateful for the people who contributed to my growth.

The idea of being someone who's always liked but never truly pursued hurts because it feels like I'm more than qualified to be kept by them, but not qualified enough to make them pursue me romantically. It's like I wasn't worth it, as if I wasn't one-of-a-kind.

One day I realized that everyone has their own preferences and boundaries. Some people are willing to keep you in their lives but may not choose you romantically. I would rather choose myself and give back the love that I was given to those people who would rather choose to lose me. I'll wait and reserve that love for those people who might fight and pursue me someday.

Letting go is hard, but I would rather fight and find my own happiness than be stuck with someone who gives mixed signals and fleeting feelings without being ready to pursue me. It's okay. We can't force people just because we like them. Maybe rejection is part of life, a lesson to teach me to grow and stand up again after a storm. There's always a rainbow after the storm and rain.

30/08/2024

This message is for you, the person who would rather lose me to someone who treats me better. It was sad that you were okay with losing me, even though I treated you better than you treated me. I still remember that night and those words you said. Although that night, I was a bit stuck on the idea of holding on to you, it was clear that the spark and connection I was clinging to was gone, or maybe that I had fantasized and created it all in the beginning. I'm still thankful that at least that night, you had the courage to tell me what you really felt about me. Honestly, I knew from the beginning that even though you sent mixed signals, you weren't over your past. It still haunts you. I know I met your traumatized version, and it made me realize that I couldn't fix your past trauma and that only you could heal from it. I wanted to cry, knowing I had been played, but instead I smiled, picked up the pieces of my shattered heart, and moved forward. Although you disrespected me many times and disappeared without saying sorry, I'm rooting for all the best things to happen to you. If you ever read this, I hope you've found someone better. Someone who matches your vibes, efforts, and energy. Something that you didn't appreciate with me. Be well.

30/08/2024

My POV : Before he told me that I deserve someone better, I should have believed him. Honestly, I didn't understand it at first, and I didn't realize how important it was. I just thought it would pass, but it didn't. Perhaps he wanted me to wake up to reality and encourage me, even though loving him made me feel valuable. But staying with him made me feel stupid too. Maybe I was too attached to the idea of us, without considering that I was the only one clinging to it. Until one day I realized that he was right: I deserve someone who truly cares, sees, feels, and reciprocates the love I offer. I deserve someone who's not afraid to act better and make a genuine effort to love me. The person I loved was lucky to have me, but by loving him, I risked abandoning myself and ending up with nothing. I'm afraid to lose them, but are they afraid of losing me? What's the point of loving them if I'm the only one holding onto the idea of being together, while they don't want to be with me?

16/08/2024

The excitement may fade.
The thrill may disappear.
But that doesn’t mean love is gone.
Thrill is not the true measure of love.
You truly love someone when you choose to stay even in the most difficult and chaotic situations.
Because it is your duty to comfort and support each other in the most difficult and heaviest battles in the world.
Fatigue can be overcome, but regret cannot.
If you are tired, take a break.
Because true love knows how to be patient.
True love knows how to stay, to be content.
Because more than the words "I love you" are the words "I will stay with you."

16/08/2024

🫶🫶

28/07/2024

"Why I allow you disturb my heart? "

By : Yre07

I yearn to break free from these emotions that bind me.

It feels as though every time I draw near, my feelings drift further away.

I refuse to succumb to desperation and clinginess.

Yet, I long for you to be there to catch me whenever I stumble.

I grow weary of playing the flirtatious game.

I acknowledge that our paths cannot intertwine, and I fear the pain of rejection.

I realize that I barely knew you at the outset.

Now, I find myself in a pitiful state for allowing you to disrupt my heart.

You appreciate both clear skies and stormy nights.

Our dynamic resembles a crush that evokes fear in the darkness.

Your presence feels like a snare I aimed to avoid,

yet my sentiments towards you remain unfulfilled.

Our initial conversation left my knees trembling and my heart aflutter.

The fluttering butterflies in my stomach signal a fleeting sensation,

one that must not be nurtured but instead brought to an end.

28/07/2024

"To Heart Crust"

By: Yre07

What must I do to capture his gaze?

Should I alter my hair's hue and style?

Should I refine the way I stride down the aisle?

To convey to him my true intentions in a blaze.

Each passing day, my affection for him deepens.

Previously, nothing stirred me to such an extent.

Just as I never skimp on a meal's content,

It wasn't until he appeared that my heart began to quicken.

Just as I found a fondness for foods I once declined to eat,

When did they ascend to such great heights, so complete?

From stranger to colleague to irresistible crush,

A whirlwind of emotions, a tidal rush.

When did the moment arrive that his smile weakened my knees?

I yearned to behold him with each week’s breeze.

Why does this occur, when I know my strength is sure?

My friends dubbed me "Wonder Woman," yet I now feel insecure.

Perhaps he remains oblivious to my plight.

His speech captivates me, his lips a mesmerizing sight.

I trace their contours as they part and unite.

His eyes, unlike any other, hold me in their thrall.

Deep and radiant, akin to a celestial ball,

They pour forth a spectrum of emotions, a waterfall.

I find solace in the belief that wishes heeds his call.

It's as though I'm ensnared by his enchanting spell.

Yet, he remains unaware of the emotions I conceal, for I fear to tell.

28/07/2024

"I Can’t Stop Loving You"

By:Yre07

Tonight, sleep eludes me,

Lost in thoughts of you, endlessly.

Can't shake you from my mind,

How do I leave this love behind?

Each night, in slumber's embrace,

Dreams of us, face to face.

In a world where we're intertwined,

Destined to be together, forever entwined.

Sharing memories, building our own lore,

Hoping my dreams will open love's door.

Every night, thoughts of us consume,

In the quiet of my room.
As I lie awake in bed,

Recalling every moment we've shared and said.

Each time you turn to me,

My world stops, you're all I see.

Yearning to be by your side,

My emotions I cannot hide.

In your presence, I tremble and quake,

Lost in a love I can't forsake.

Conflicted and unsure,

Your presence makes my heart soar.

With you, doubts dissipate,

Gazing into eyes, my fate.
Longing for your touch, your embrace,

Praying each night for your grace.

I'd traverse any distance, pay any cost,

For you, my love is never lost.

My heart chose you, it's true,

To be my forever, I knew.

In this whirlwind of love, I'm entranced,

Heart leading, mind in a trance.

For you, my love remains true,

I simply can't stop loving you.

'mStillWaitingForYouToOpenYourHeartToMe

28/07/2024

"Yearning for Friendship"

By : Yre07

There's a road not far away,

Wherever our paths may stray,

Across the country, hand in hand,

We'll journey together, a united band.

Chasing dreams, side by side,

Our pace may vary, but we'll confide.

Under a starlit sky, so vast and bright,

I wish we could stay together, day and night.

For all those years, we shared a bond,

Best friends forever, our spirits fond.

Now, our paths diverge, our futures divide,
But our friendship, a beacon, will always abide.

In days gone by, I'd walk that road,

Just to catch a glimpse of your face, a cherished load.

Memories and laughter, they linger still,

Bringing back the joy, our hearts to fill.

This is what made us strong, our unwavering might,

Through trials and tribulations, we stood in the light.

No matter the failures, we rise again,

Facing tomorrow with hope, our spirits unbent.
I miss you all, my heart yearns for your embrace,

Pull me back, just for a fleeting space.

One touch, one kiss, before I depart,

To face the world, with a hopeful heart.

For in friendship's embrace, I'll never be alone,

A special gift, a bond we've sown.

Always a home with us, a place to belong,

A song that echoes, our friendship strong.

Though miles may separate, our lives entwined,

Chasing dreams, with faith we find.

We help each other, smile once more,

Friendship's magic, forevermore.

'mStillWaitingForYouToOpenYourHeartToMe

28/07/2024

"I Fell in Love with You"
By: Yre 07

Once upon a time, our lives seemed to run on separate tracks.
Sadness cast its shadow, a common plight.
Then, fate intervened, bringing us together on that very street.
The rain that day, a cleansing torrent, washed away the heat.
My heart skipped a beat, a rhythm clear and true.
In that gentle weather, I fell in love with you.

I adore you, where are you headed, my dear?
The sunlight dances, a radiant cheer.
I fell for your captivating charm, your dazzling grace.
I adore you, this day I've marked with atrace.
Perfect timing, mirroring your beauty's embrace.
You're a fiery lava, transforming my world with grace.
A galaxy of wonder, you've painted my space.

I fell in love with you at first sight,
And it feels so right, so pure and bright.
I yearn to spend every day and night with you,
To share each moment, my love anew.
So I hope to see you again, my heart's desire,
To ignite our love, a burning fire.

'mStillWaitingForYouToOpenYourHeartToMe

28/07/2024

"Getting Close with You"

By: Yre07

Letting my heartbeat echo through my insomnia,
Your scent permeates the darkness, a soothing enigma.
I find myself reigniting my love for you,
Unconcerned about the chaos you ensue.

Even as my world crumbles under your gaze,
The innocence in your eyes, the most dangerous phase.
Slowly, I find myself submerged,
Falling for you, yet to grasp the urge.

Every aspect of you, I adore,
Even amidst your stubborn demeanor, I explore.
My sight disrupted by the untamed wild,
Teetering between waking and dreaming, reconciled.
Offering warmth, standing by your side,
Admiring every facet, with pride.
In my persistent passion, misunderstood,
The tale concludes, as it should.

I'll be the one, steadfast by your side,
Each day, my heartbeat grows, a rhythmic tide.
Resolute to embrace our intertwined lives,
Breaking down walls, where our connection thrives.

My heart yearns for you to see,
My love for you, unbounded and free.
Every detail, every part I adore,
Even amidst the chaos, I explore once more.
The untamed wild, a disruption in sight,
Yet my vision clears in your light.

'mStillWaitingForYouToOpenYourHeartToMe

28/07/2024

"What Must I Do"
By MISS YRE07

What must I do?
A sudden urge to catch a glimpse of you.
Thoughts swirling in my mind, a hundred reasons through,
Will you notice my presence, still unsure, it's true.

What must I do?
A need to reach out, to text you this very day,
Hoping for sweet words, to usher in a different way,
Yet hesitant to convey my feelings, to find the words to say.

What must I do?
I've worn a mask of toughness, a facade so rough,
But I must confess, in you, I've found aliking, a love.
Though you seem distant, my affection doesn't wane,
Lost in the enchantment of your smile, in your domain.

What must I do?
Your mere expression quickens my heartbeat,
Enchanted by your smile, a memory so sweet,
It seems you've gently ensnared my heart's fleet.

What must I do?
In a sudden realization, I yearn for your presence near,
Imagining moments together, free from fear,
Embracing each other through the passing years.

What must I do?
An instant desire to craft poems, to pen my heart's plea,
Using my words to express what you mean to me,
Yet will you understand, will you see?

What must I do?
It feels like love has found its way,
Yearning to occupy your heart, come what may,
In a world full of voices, I seek to have my say,
To be the one in your heart, the only way.

Oh! Baby!
Speak the words, let them flow,
Let me know that you feel it too, let it show.

'mStillWaitingForYouToOpenYourHeartToMe

23/07/2024

"As I admire my luna, I can hear the hushed, yet mysterious rhythm of an eclipse carried on the breeze."

20/07/2024

A person with a pure heart does not lose anyone; it is people who lose that person. We acknowledge that even at our very best, we may never meet the standards of the wrong individuals. Similarly, even at our lowest, we are still deserving of the right companionship. Sometimes, a straightforward rejection is preferable to a deceitful promise. In today's world, it is challenging because some individuals only provide false hope, kindle your innermost emotions, yet lack the genuine feelings or intentions that you possess. Consequently, we may encounter individuals who merely offer fleeting affection without any genuine desire for commitment or love. This underscores the importance of mastering our emotions to prevent being engulfed by the misguided motives of others, which we may have misinterpreted.

21/06/2024

Does a relationship have a chance to return to normal after cheating?

It is a rough and long road to recovery in a relationship when a partner cheats. Couples do want to stay in relationships after the affair, though it's hard. But it takes a lot of work and courage to repair the broken trust. The person who was cheated on usually struggles to know what is real and what is imaginary. Their ability to discern or distinguish if it's fake or real gets damaged. Betrayal is the worst thing you could ever do to someone whom you say you love.

21/06/2024

The saddest thought about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies, it comes from those you trust the most. 🥺

16/06/2024

Isang pagpupugay sa mga dakilang ama! My god bless you a healthy living!

16/06/2024

My POV:

I don't walk away just to teach people a lesson, but I walk away because I learned mine. I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my own boundaries to accommodate your disrespect.

12/06/2024

"A woman who healed herself on her own will never be afraid of the storm."

10/06/2024

As a girl, I now understand why we should consider the fact that we have looked for a partnership whose love is greater than ours. Because the man who has a greater love for a woman will take the initiative to make an effort just to prove that he does love that woman without being asked. A man who has greater love for a woman will give his genuine love and give full feedback, with no need for begging. He will be more appreciative and respectful, and every time that his eyes are on you, he may feel that you are the most precious thing that he has. And most importantly, he treats you very well and gives you some assurance that he loves you, that you are not an option, and that you do not deserve the bare minimum treatment because you deserve to be treated right.

10/06/2024

10/06/2024

Surrender everything and all your worries to God.

10/06/2024

"I hope I'm not a building a man for another woman".
Charlie Dizon and Carlo Aquino wedding reminds me that taxi cab theory is real. Is it really true that men will marry his woman because he's ready to commit, not because of the length of their relationship. And a man will settle down when they are ready no matter who they are with. Building a man for another woman is so heartbreaking. ❤️‍🩹

27/05/2024

Love yourself first and chose those people whose genuinely chooses you.

27/05/2024

Dear Ladies,
For a lifetime, we should marry a man who's willing to court you for a lifetime and who loves God more than anyone or anything in this world has to offer.
If someday I'm going to give my "yes" to a man in marriage, I'm going to consider this:
I don't feel required to say "yes" just because he has invested a lot in me. He ought to do that, maybe because love gives. I don't want to feel like I only owe a debt of gratitude to him in order to say yes. In the first place, my love wasn't for sale; it was to be won. So I will set my worth before giving my love as a prize. I am more than worthy of every single value in this world.
I don't want other people to pressure me just because they did something good to me. I don't want to be pressured to give my love back just because they claim to love me. Love does not force; it softens if it's meant for me. I don't want a man to love me because I may look down on my own value. I am willing to wait for a man who will find me to settle down because he chooses willingly to soften his heart on me, and for him, I am more than enough and not hard to love.
I don't want to marry a man because others are trying to link us and expect us to be together. Though we didn't feel a genuine connection between us, many people fall into the trap of pleasing other people's expectations. It's my own decision to get married, not theirs. I should clearly think more than twice, take all the considerations into account, and be responsible when choosing whom to marry for a lifetime. Because I am the only one to deal with this person in my entire life, not them. The future of my children and the family that I am going to build will suffer if I do not make a wise decision. So I would rather disappoint than marry the wrong person, who will bring me pain and will not give me a peaceful home and assurance. Instead, I will wait for God's direction while making my life and myself the best versions of themselves.
I would also not settle just because he has been pursuing me for a long time. I don't even owe him a yes just because he waited. He maybe ought to, because I'm worth fighting for and worth waiting for. I dont want to give my yes because Ive been pitying and have an uneasy and unsure feeling about that person. I will wait again for God's sign and feel the sureness and calmness when I am with that person because God made his own way for the two of us to meet at the right time.
Don't give in to the notion that if you have held on to this love for so long, it has to be the one you settle with. What if that love wasn't for you? What if you keep on fighting for a long time for the wrong person and the wrong love? Would it be so much wiser to end those mistakes than to remain still and continue forcing connections that will eventually destroy you?
Time doesn't guarantee love; it even changes it.
Love guarantees time; it surpasses it.
What good is a long-lasting love relationship when you have the notion that this love is just for convenience and inconsistency?
So let God guide us and choose the love to keep and hold for a lifetime, not only for a long time.
I will pray, make myself reserve, and be the voice of me because that is what God wants.

26/05/2024

Any woman can be replaced. But a woman who was there for you when had nothing and happy for your when you have your everything . A woman who supported and encouraged you during your lowest point. A woman who chose you over men who could offer her a better world. This kind of woman is irreplaceable.

22/05/2024

Dear my twin flame,

This day was another life chapter to be cherished because God gave me another new year of ageing. I'm so blessed because God gave me those people who treasure and value me more. God is always there with me through all of the seasons in my life. I hope, in God's perfect timing, you'll be able to find me. And when you find me, I hope that there is no storm but instead steady rain that day. That is a sign that God blessed the day we met. When we bump into each other, I want a nourishing, unseen, but to-be-felt seed of joy that ignites our hearts with a compassion that sets deep within me. I hope that when we meet and are able to introduce ourselves to one another, it will be new but have a touch of familiarity and peace. I pray that we are able to achieve our goals while waiting. Even though I've been hurt and have experienced a lot of trauma in the past, I still believe in the magic of love. And when we finally met, I wanted to embrace you passionately because the one for whom I'd been waiting was finally in front of my eyes.

20/05/2024

I decided to finally let you go.It's hard, but I have to do it.I even imagined my life with you when I was in the midst of a delusional stage. Though I knew from the very beginning that I just hopelessly romanticized every moment that we had, I guess that there are things in life that never exist and that only my mind created, and they will never happen the way I want them to. Now I have to say goodbye to those forced moments that we had, and my mind is only dreaming. But still, I admitted that my heart is still longing for you, but I know one day it will change so that I'm fully healed and never look at you with love in my eyes. I'm able to stop and never care about you one day.

20/05/2024

Men will never love anyone as much as their first love, because that is the only person who will ever receive all of them. The version of him that holds a child like his innocence, purest care, and genuine love is the one he hugs and never forgets. The one who he kisses on the forehead and the one he can never go back to. In the midst of his love stage, he believes that love lasts forever. A piece of him will forever remain left behind in his heart, in the heart of the one he loved at first. A piece of relapse that no future lover could ever get, no matter what. I hope that all the women there will not build men for them to go back to their first love. And it's a painful truth that sometimes he just came accidentally into our lives. We built him and nurtured him for other girls. Destiny and reality are painful.