Prayer for the fruits of the womb page, jesus is here to answer you

22/04/2024

Remember not to take concussion while waiting to conceive because some are toxic and poisonous

11/04/2024

DEAR LADY, APPRECIATE YOUR MAN:

1. Appreciate your man if he treats you well. It is hard to find a good man

2. Appreciate your man if he is faithful to you. It is easier to find an unfaithful man than it is to find a faithful one

3. Appreciate your man if he works hard to provide for your family,no matter how much or little he brings home. This world has alot of lazy men

4. Appreciate your man if he can handle the stains in your dark past. It is hard to find a man who can understand you and love you despite your mistakes

5. Appreciate your man if he shows you off to other women. He is proud to be your man

6. Appreciate your man if he takes time to listen to you. He cares

7. Appreciate your man if he loves being sober. Far too many men are lost in alcohol

8. Appreciate your man if he tells you his secrets, if he lets you see his weaknesses and is naked and vulnerable to you. Men don't open up or trust easily

9. Appreciate your man if he has never beaten you up. Out there are many hurting women physically abused but your man uses his strength to protect you

10. Appreciate your man if he tells you the truth no matter how painful it is. An honest man is reliable, you can trust him

11. Appreciate your man if he corrects you when you wrong. He is looking out for you

12. Appreciate your man if he is not too proud to apologize when he wrongs. He is trying to be better for you, give him a chance

13. Appreciate your man if he asks about your family. He respects the people in your life

14. Appreciate your man if he marries you instead of cohabiting with you so casually. He wants to spend his life with you and he wants to enter into marriage the right way

15. Appreciate your man if he is patient with you. Many men give up easily

16. Appreciate your man if he tells he loves you. Those words are not easy to come by from a man

17. Appreciate your man if he puts effort to make you happy. He values your smile

18. Appreciate your man if he runs to you for help. He needs you

19. Appreciate your man if he introduces you to his family and friends. He is serious

20. Appreciate your man if he comes home early. Many men have abandoned their home

21. Appreciate your man if he leans on God. It takes humility for a man to submit himself to God

22. Appreciate your man if he puts up with your moods, habits or imperfections. He is committed

23. Appreciate your man if he can handle your tears and fears. You are safe with him

24. Appreciate your man if he supports your dreams and growth. He is good for you

25. Appreciate your man if he is present in your child's life. Too many children have been rejected by their dads

26. Appreciate your husband if he s*xes you good and makes love to you so passionately. It takes a giving man to find joy in giving his woman the highest pleasure

27. Appreciate your man if he makes you feel loved. Lady, you are loved

11/04/2024

11/04/2024

WHAT YOUNGER COUPLES CAN LEARN FROM OLDER COUPLES

1. Your spouse is the closest friend you will ever have

2. Intentionally nurturing your love is worth it. You will not regret putting in the work

3. In the end, friends come and go, clients come and go, bosses come and go, colleagues come and go, neighbours change and move out... but your spouse is with you till you're old and grey

4. Children shouldn't come in between you two. Don't focus on parenthood to the point you forget your love as a couple, children eventually move out too and have less time for you both

5. Love is sweetest when you meet each other's needs

6. Marriage will have different seasons, some difficult and some easy. Each season will require its own wisdom

7. Be kind to each other especially during moments of conflict

8. Agree on what to do and not to do to make your marriage better

9. The more you mature, the easier it is to handle conflicts and disagreements

10. The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where it is watered. Water and take care of your love

11. In your old age, you will reap what you sowed when you were younger

12. Never stop learning. Don't do marriage with an ego, a know it all attitude or an urge to prove who is more right or more wrong

13. Hurting your spouse is hurting you. Keeping scores and holding grudges is a lose-lose situation

14. "Good morning", "Good night", "Please", "Thank you", "I am sorry" are powerful words in marriage

11/04/2024

𝗔 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗬𝗘𝗥 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗥𝗜𝗔𝗚𝗘 🧎🙏
(Pray this with your husband/wife)

Dear heavenly father through your son Jesus Christ,we come before you with a humble heart, seeking your guidance and blessings for this union.In the journey of marriage, we acknowledge the challenges and joys that lie ahead, and we seek your divine presence to strengthen and bless this bond.

Grant us the wisdom to communicate openly and honestly, fostering understanding and empathy in our relationship. May we embrace each other's differences, recognizing the unique qualities that drew us together.

Pour out your grace upon our marriage, Lord. In times of difficulty, may we find solace in your teachings and patience in our hearts. May forgiveness prevail over resentment, and may kindness be a guiding principle in our interactions.

Bless our home with peace, joy, and laughter. Let it be a haven where love flourishes, and where we both find comfort and support. May we navigate life's challenges hand in hand, drawing strength from our commitment to one another.

Guard our hearts against negativity and doubt, and fill them with the assurance that your love is a constant presence in our lives. May we turn to you, Lord Jesus, for inspiration and guidance as we face the unknown.

May this marriage be a testament to your love, reflecting the selflessness and sacrificial love shown by Jesus Christ. May we grow together in faith, always seeking your will for our lives individually and as a couple.

We place this marriage in your hands, dear Lord, trusting that with your grace, it will flourish and become a beacon of love for others. May our commitment be a source of inspiration and encouragement to those around us.

In Jesus mighty name we pray, believing and trusting,Amen.

11/04/2024

SIGNS THAT HE WILL MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND:

1. "HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS ADMIRABLE DAD"

If his dad is a good husband and father and he looks up to his dad, chances are he will be like his dad

2. "HE SEPARATES HIMSELF FROM BAD EXAMPLES"

If his father was absent in his life or his father did things he is ashamed of, he grows up forgiving his dad, respecting his dad but also not wanting to be like his dad

3. "HE MENTORS AND TEACHES MEN YOUNGER THAN HIM"

A man who mentors others pushes himself to always be a good example

4. "HE IS NOT SWAYED BY PUBLIC PRESSURE"

In marriage, many men mess up their families because of following trends, pressure to please friends or wanting to project a certain image to fit in society

5. "HIS CLOSE MALE FRIENDS ARE OF GOOD REPUTE"

Look at the company he keeps close; that will indicate the caliber of man he is

6. "HE TREATS EVERY WOMAN WITH RESPECT"

Be suspicious of a man who treats his woman well but treats other women like crap; soon, he will treat his woman like crap

7. "HE IS GOOD WITH CHILDREN EVEN THOSE NOT HIS"

How he values and is responsible with other people's children prepares himself to value his own

8. "HE IS PROTECTIVE OF HIS NAME"

A man who upholds his name will keep a good character, after all, the wife and children will carry his name

9. "MARRIAGE IS HIS IDEA TOO"

Many men are forced into marriage, either because the woman got pregnant or the woman pressured him to propose to her after they dated for so long. Is it his idea to marry you lady, or is it only yours? A man who willfully pursues a woman to marry her and is the one excited about marriage will almost certainly make sure he lives up to being a good husband. Where a man takes himself he performs well and gives his all

10. "HE LIVED AN HONOURABLE LIFE AS A SINGLE MAN"

A single man who lives in a manner that shows he is keeping and preparing himself for that one special woman will make a good husband. To him, being a husband is a big deal

11. "HE TREATS THE LADY WELL AS THEY DATE"

A man who acts like a faithful husband even before he marries the woman will make a good husband. But if he is insulting her, cheating on her, rejecting her and taking her for granted when they are dating; he will most likely insult her, cheat on her, reject her and take her for granted when married

12. "HE TREATS HIS MOTHER WITH LOVE AND RESPECT”

A man who appreciates his mother will appreciate his wife

13. "HE LOVES GOD"

Marriage is God's idea. A man who wants to engage in this idea led by the Creator of this idea will strive to please God. The more a man loves God, the more he loves his wife

14. "HE SEES THE WOMAN AS AN EQUAL PARTNER"

This kind of man will not dictate or lord over the woman, it will not always be his way, he will consult his wife, learn from her and teach her too

15. "HE IS HER BEST FRIEND"

Lady, if he is not only your lover but your best friend too, he will be a best friend till the end.; best friends are real with each other, honest, loyal, fun, thoughtful. Take away the romance and things that lovers do, are you and him best friends?

16. "HE USES HIS PAST TO LEARN"

Maybe he messed up in his past relationships, or his past relationships taught him alot. If he paid attention to the lessons learned, he will be a wise husband

17. "HE IS DISCIPLINED"

A man who has control over himself will make a good husband. He is not given to addictions. How can a man lead a family, if he cannot lead himself?

May such man be your portion.

11/04/2024

IF YOU MUST MARRY LET IT BE PRAGMATICAL POTENTIAL

In relationships, decide to settle for the person right in front of you. Not the potential person or what you believe he or she would become in future. So that you don't get broken hearted when it doesn't happen. A lot of times, we say "oh yes, I really like him or her" they have a lot of potential.

Listen, stick to who is standing in front of you, or who is sitting right there with you, not the image of who you think they would become. If you decide to love them, love them. Yes exactly the person standing in front of you with all their strengths, flaws, abilities and who they are, not for an idea.

If you are okay with it, if you are comfortable and if you love them as they are now, then it's going to be a successful relationship and marriage that gets better as both of you continue to work on it. But If it's not what you want, then please walk away. It's not a fantasy or infatuation you should settle for, It's what you have chosen to accept, your now is your reality. Accepting what is, would be the first step to changing things for good.

A lot of times we make the mistake of falling in love with the potential, and not the person. To reduce pressures that are not needed in our relationships, we must decide if we are satisfied with who is standing right in front of us in our relationships before we settle down to get married to them or we let it go.

An Illusion is always entirely different from reality. Illusion dwindle. At the end of the day, we have several broken relationships because of unrealistic expectations.

If you say "I Do" , let it be that you are responsible for your choice and whatever comes with that decision; good or bad. So take the scales of your eyes and look at the person clearly in the face, heart and soul. Accept who they are now, not the idea of who they will become.

If they become more, it's your choice and if sometimes challenges come in that relationship, it's still your choice. So settle for who you see and all they are now instead of building castles in the air. There is a difference between illusions, reality, expectations and faith. Know where you stand.

Stay true to yourself and prevent future hurt.

11/04/2024

If you have been trying to conceive since
6 months after your wedding then its best you and your partner run a test before concluding if something is wrong or not, do not take anything if you have not confirmed or traced the root of your delays in conceiving, some delays don't mean there is something wrong,, sometimes your body has not settled or balanced for conception yet, " I have a friend that waited for two years after wedding before conceiving, yet all medical findings proved all was well with the couple, then I advised her to let go anxiety and worries, and take some pre natal vitamins and she did and conceived two years after......

11/04/2024

This shall be your testimony soon

11/04/2024

FACTS ABOUT SLEEP, S*X AND INTIMACY

1. When you go to bed clean and not stinking of sweat or odour. By maintaining good hygiene you excite your spouse to have s*x with you. Cleanliness heightens s*xiness

2. Sleep is the highest form of trust; an adult to close ones eyes and be powerless and safe in bed with another adult. A spouse who feels comfortable sleeping with you, trusts you

3. The quickest way to destroy the marriage bed is for your spouse to suspect you are cheating. It is not enough to be faithful, your spouse must also perceive that you're faithful. Desist from doing things that make your spouse perceive you are cheating even though you're not: Things like keeping secrets, or being extra friendly to people of the opposite gender

4. When you come home early, you will have enough time to spend with family which will lead to good sleep. Don't give your family the exhausted and hurried you

5. Make time for intimacy and special time with your spouse. Don't let life rush you to the point your marriage is surviving on quickies and hurried s*x. Allow yourselves ample time to make love

6. Get in to the habit of telling your spouse "Good night" and "Good morning", preferably with a kiss. These words are simple but crucial. When you just sleep or wake up without concluding the day or starting the day right, it shows disregard to your spouse's feelings. The two greatest moments that define a marriage is how each day is started and concluded

7. Dress for comfort but also dress to arouse and excite your spouse when in bed. Don't look good when you go to work and in public and then fall short to the one person you should visually stimulate

8. Develop a habit of making out. Yes, married couples need to make out too. Fo**le her breasts, kiss, touch, grab each other, kisses on the skin

9. Before your spouse sleeps, find out how he/she is emotionally

10. When you notice your spouse is exhausted, allow him/her to rest and talk when you're both fresh tomorrow. Show that you understand. Just because what you wanted doesn't happen today, doesn't mean it won't happen tomorrow. Don't be alarmed. Your spouse is not going anywhere

11. Avoid chatting with people on the phone late in the night when with your spouse, avoid TV and social media too. Night is for the one you consider special

12. Heighten your spouse's self confidence in bed by giving compliments

13. Don't expect things to be OK in bed between you two, if you have been treating your spouse poorly and rudely during the day

14. Invest in pillow talks. Pillow talks are not primarily for talking about issues, but for connecting emotionally. Yes, talk about issues when they arise, but focus more on intimate conversations

15. When your body gets enough rest, you two will enjoy great s*x, you will better meet each other's emotional needs

16. When you do have an infant/s, take turns in looking after the baby so that you give each other space to rest

17. A tired mind struggles in relationship building. Give a fresh you to your spouse and children

18. Occasionally deliberately have lazy days where you two as a couple sleep all through, chill in bed, go on a go slow, and don't do anything but enjoy each others company. If need be, take a vacation or book a hotel room. Invest in intimacy

19. Incase you notice you two are drifting apart and not connecting as you used to, do not complain and attack your spouse for the change because that will push him/her away or make your spouse defensive. Instead, lure your spouse back to you progressively and naturally. Have good times, laugh, show care, be easy to talk to. People gravitate to experiences that are safe and light, not forced ones

11/04/2024

FOR WOMEN FACING SEVERAL MISCARRIAGES CAUSED BY UTERINE FIBROIDS.

1) Can uterine fibroids cause miscarriages?
2) Can uterine fibroids cause you not to conceive?

Yes, the answer is yes fibroids can lead to miscarriage and also make it difficulty for you to conceive.

Who is at risk for uterine fibroids?

As women age their likelihood for developing fibroids increases. Studies have demonstrated that women with a family history are more likely to develop fibroids. Obesity has also been linked to an increase risk of fibroids. There are no foods or diets that are known to increase a woman’s risk of developing fibroids.

What are the symptoms of uterine fibroids?

Most women with fibroids will experience no symptoms at all. However, for many women large or numerous fibroids can cause the following symptoms:

Heavy or prolonged periods, bleeding between periods, pelvic pain and pressure, Frequent urination, Low back pain, Pain during in*******se, Difficulty getting pregnant, and early miscarriages.

INGREDIENTS.

1✅Soursop leaves.
2✅Guava leaves.
3✅ Fresh tumeric.
4✅Fresh ginger.
5✅ Lemon

PREPARATION

Wash all the ingredients above & boil together, drink twice daily morning and evening.

Afternoon take one teaspoon of (Casto oil).

Alternatively drink only the soursop leaves for five months

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10/04/2024

OVULATION.

A woman has eggs. She doesn't need to lay the eggs like chicken. but she has to release it in another part of her body called the fallopian tube. This is called ovulation!

1. Ovulation is the period when your ovarian gland release matured follicle egg into Fallopian tube waiting for S***M for fertilisation.

2. Women does not release egg simply because of Menstruation but purposely because to attach to men's S***M and transform to baby.

3. Ovulation normally occur every 14th days of each cycle, Most time when a woman Menstruate on 5th of August, and on the 30th of August, she also menstruate, that doesn't mean she is having period twice in a month.

Such woman Menstrual cycle length is 25days cycle. Is a very simple procedure, just start your day count from the first day bleeding to the day before another Menstrual bleeding.

E.g 5th is first day of menstrual bleeding, Then count from 5th to 29th which is the day before another Menstrual bleeding.

4. Average range of Menstrual cycle length is 28days, which mean any candidate that belong to this cycle length must definitely ovulate between 12th to 16th of her cycle.

5. Any woman with 30days Menstrual cycle length must definitely ovulate on 14th to 18th of Menstrual cycle. Is also a simple estimation, Just add two days before and after ovulation purposely because there is chance for pregnancy to occur two days after ovulation.

6. Any woman with short cycle length which is 21 Menstrual cycle length could ovulate on her Menstruation period or soon after Menstruation days.

7. Those 21days candidate often experience ovulation mucus during menstruation,likewise often develop or**sm while they are menstruating. In general, they have similar ovulation symptoms that 28days and 30days candidate have.

8. Any woman with 35days which is long Menstrual cycle length could also ovulate between 12th to 18days of cycle.

9. All woman should aware that without ovulation, the chance of Pregnancy is low.

10. If your Menstrual date keep on changing every menstrual cycle, that doesn't mean you are having irregular Menstrual cycle. Most of the woman get confuse of this situation.

11. If you really want to figure out your menstrual cycle length, you need to focus on date you had your period at least good three month, Get yourself calendar and start cycle the first day Menstrual Bleeding, cycle the day you also see another period bleeding. Make your estimation on numbers of days in between the first day bleeding to the day before you see another Menstrual bleeding. OR BUY AN OVULATION PREDICTOR KIT.

12. If you are 28days cycle length and suddenly change to 35days cycle length and keep on like that, definitely you are suffering from irregular Menstrual cycle.

13. If you are 30days cycle length and suddenly change to 21days cycle length, that indicate irregular Menstrual cycle.

*■SIGN AND SYMPTOMS OF OVULATION.*

Most of the woman get confused toward Cervical mucus, if you have never see any cervical mucus in your private part, that doesn't mean you are not ovulating but you must ensure one or two sign and symptoms of ovulation occur on you.

1.Cervical Mucus.

2.BREAST pain and tenderness.

3.Slight abdominal pain

4.Rise in body temperature.

5.Reach or**sm (Feeling like having s*x)

6.Vagina spotting with cervical mucus

7.Mood change.

*Note:*

Some medical conditions may affects the above ovulation process and symptoms, such as: if you're taking any hormonal contraceptive pills or birth control pill, a follicles Cysts or an Ovarian Cysts or an Inflammatory problems with your ovaries due PID can also prevent you from ovulating, blocked Fallopian tubes can also the ovulation processes as well...

Ovulation is the period to get pregnant no matter how much your HORMONE and uterus is healthy. You can follow up your ovulation period to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

09/04/2024

May a cry of a baby be heard in your home soon

08/04/2024

Welcome to the prayer for the fruits of the womb page

: Pregnancy and Childbirth: Embracing God's Timing

Pregnancy and childbirth are profound journeys that often lead individuals to reflect on the concept of timing, particularly in relation to their faith and spirituality. For many, the process of conceiving, carrying, and delivering a child is seen as a miraculous and deeply spiritual experience, intertwined with the belief in divine timing.

Throughout various religious traditions, there is a common thread of acknowledging and surrendering to the timing set forth by a higher power. In Christianity, for example, the Bible mentions numerous accounts of women who struggled with infertility, such as Sarah, Rachel, and Hannah, yet ultimately conceived in accordance with God's timing. These narratives serve as reminders of patience, trust, and faith in God's plan, even when circumstances seem uncertain or challenging.

Similarly, in Islam, the concept of qadr, or divine destiny, plays a significant role in how believers perceive the timing of events, including pregnancy and childbirth. Muslims are encouraged to accept and embrace whatever comes their way, recognizing that Allah's timing is always perfect, even if it doesn't align with their own desires or expectations.

In Hinduism, the belief in karma and reincarnation shapes the understanding of timing in pregnancy and childbirth. Hindus believe that every soul undergoes a cycle of birth and rebirth, known as samsara, and that the timing of each soul's arrival on Earth is predetermined by their karma, or actions in previous lives. This perspective encourages acceptance and surrender to the natural flow of life, including the timing of conception and birth.

Beyond religious teachings, many individuals find solace in the idea that there is a divine plan at work, guiding the timing of pregnancy and childbirth. Whether it's through prayer, meditation, or simply maintaining a sense of trust and surrender, connecting with one's spirituality can provide comfort and strength throughout the journey of parenthood.

However, it's essential to acknowledge that discussions of timing in pregnancy and childbirth can also evoke complex emotions, especially for those who may be struggling with infertility or pregnancy loss. In such cases, the notion of God's timing can be a source of both solace and challenge, as individuals grapple with questions of purpose, meaning, and divine intervention.

Ultimately, the concept of God's timing in pregnancy and childbirth invites individuals to cultivate patience, trust, and humility in the face of uncertainty. It encourages a shift from trying to control every aspect of the process to surrendering to a higher power and embracing whatever unfolds. By relinquishing the illusion of control and placing faith in a greater plan, individuals can find peace and serenity amidst the ups and downs of the journey to parenthood.

08/04/2024

THE LITTLE THINGS

Being Romantic isn't all about Money.. No.

You don't need hundreds of millions to be a Romantic HUSBAND or WIFE... . Most often than none, it's the little things.

On your way back from work, you can get suya of say N500 and/or Ice-cream, or fruits for your wife/husband.

You help him/her polish her shoes, iron their clothes, prepare for an interview/presentation.

Holding their hands and taking a walk with them.

Playing with his/her hair.

Helping her wash his/ her hair.

Playing with his ear, biting it gently and lovingly (don't bite it off oh, when you're not Dracula)

Chasing each other around the house for fun.

Pillow fights.

Writing them a love letter, hand it over to them and tell them to read it later in the office.

Taking crazy/weird/silly pictures of/with each other.

Organize a candle light dinner at home or a movie night.

Offering to give your wife a body massage after a stressful day at work without asking for anything in return.

Listening to your partner talk about their passions.

Giving your husband/Wife a kiss as they head to work and whisper something sweet and s*xy into their ear.

Just be CREATIVE and THOUGHTFUL

Money is important, but sometimes it's the very little thoughtful things that cost next to nothing that really count and create the memories and romantic fire in a Marriage....

08/04/2024

10 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE

Women aren’t the only ones responsible for keeping a home and it’s wrong for people to say that. It’s the responsibility of both partners to keep a home.

I previously wrote about 10 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE, so check it out if you are a woman.

Here are 10 mistakes men make in marriage

1. THINKING OF YOUR SATISFACTION ALONE IN THE BEDROOM

Most men are selfish in the bedroom and never think of their wife’s satisfaction. Disregarding the needs of your wife in the bedroom can ruin your marriage. Having a good time in the bedroom with your wife requires a very high level of communication and such conversations should happen when both partners are calm, relaxed and receptive to ideas.

2. RECKLESS SPENDING

Making big purchases without consulting your wife or spending recklessly is another big mistake most men make in marriages. Keeping a bank account hidden from your wife is a no-no in a marriage. When you cut off your wife from knowing about your finances, you make her feel less loved and connected. Your wife needs you to trust her with your heart and your finances.

3. NOT INVOLVING YOURSELF IN CHILD REARING

Most men leave child rearing for their wife and believe all they need to do is provide for the family and this is wrong. It is wrong as a husband to take a backseat when it comes to child rearing. Spend time with your children and play an active role in their lives.

4. NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY

Most men want their wife to take good care of their body but rarely do that themselves. I have seen so many husbands allow themselves to lose their body and many wives aren’t happy about it. Just as you want your wife to maintain a good body, you ought to do the same thing.

5. FAILURE TO MAKE FUTURE PLANS

As a husband, you need to give your wife and children security by planning for the future. You have to plan for the future of the marriage, your finances, the children etc. Don’t be the husband that lives for the now; make plans for retirement, old age, death, when the kids get married etc.

6. YOU DON’T LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE

Most men fail to see their wives as their partner and would rarely listen to her opinion. Learn to listen to what she has to say. Don’t assume you know what your wife is going to say or tune her out because you have heard it all before.

7. YOU DON’T CONFIDE IN YOUR WIFE

Not confiding in their wife is another common mistake most men make in marriages. Your wife is supposed to be your gossip partner and the one you confide in. She wants to be included in your entire world.

8. YOU ALLOW FAMILY AND FRIENDS DISRESPECT YOUR WIFE

You have failed as a husband when you allow your family and friends disrespect your wife. Anyone that disrespects your wife also disrespects you; it’s as simple as that. Avoiding talking bad about your wife in public so she won’t get disrespected. Your family and friends should only know about positives and not the negatives. You and your wife should sort out the negatives alone.

9. YOU REFUSE TO APOLOGISE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG

Refusing to apologize when you are wrong is one mistake husbands make in marriages. Many men believe they belittle themselves when they apologize to their wife and this is wrong. Just because you are a man is no reason not to apologize when you wrong your wife.

10. YOU COMPARE YOUR WIFE TO OTHER WOMEN

Comparison is dangerous and can destroy your marriage; never compare your wife to other women. There will always be women around you who have traits and strengths that your wife does not have but do you know the weaknesses these women have? Cherish and honour your wife for who she is, not for what she does or doesn’t do.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

08/04/2024

18 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE

1. Being faithful to your spouse encourages your spouse to be faithful to you

2. Being faithful makes your relationship/marriage last. The quickest and easiest way to end your relationship/marriage is by cheating

3. Being faithful gives you peace of mind, you don't have to watch your tracks, you are not paranoid, trying to remember every lie you say

4. Being faithful boosts the quality of your s*x life. Faithfulness is s*xy. When your spouse knows you are faithful, your spouse will give you great s*x. No one feels safe s*xing a spouse who has been with another

5. Being faithful makes you focus on your relationship/marriage. You are not distracted by flirting with another/s or s*xing another/others. Focus makes you have a healthy lovelife

6. There cannot be love without faithfulness

7. If you don't want to be faithful, why are you in that relationship/marriage? What is the point of commiting if you will not be exclusive? If you are tired of the commitment, end it; don't stay and cheat, that shows how low you stoop, making a mockery out of your commitment

8. God is faithful, strive to be like God. God is love

9. Faithfulness sets the right example for your children to follow. Children learn from our actions and behaviour

10. Being faithful has a positive effect on your character. That way, you are able to live out your greatness with confidence. Integrity is important, and it starts by how you live your private life, it gives moral authority. Mess up your private life and everything else will fall apart

11. Faithful people are happier, more relaxed, more fulfilled, they smile more; their conscience is clear, living a life that is not stressful, empty or complicated

12. Being faithful makes you proud of yourself. Yes, you may feel macho or in control when you cheat, you may numb your conscience. But when your unfaithfulness breaks the good that you have and hurts the person and the family you should have been faithful to, it will hurt you too. It will be difficult to live with yourself

13. Being faithful makes your spouse trust you, and with trust, he/she surrenders and gives all to you, you get to know your lover deeply as access is fully granted to you. Without trust, you will never fully receive all the blessings your lover brings

14. Being faithful makes others respect you. When you stand your ground and tell off those trying to lure you from the one you are committed to, when you publicly show loyalty to your spouse, the public will respect you, people will admire you

15. Unfaithfulness brings diseases; not just s*xual diseases but the rotting of your heart, it darkens and poisons the amazing person you actually are, condoms cannot protect you from the decay of your soul

16. There is no benefit in being unfaithful, no fruit, reward or advantage; just pain, regret and destruction. Unfaithfulness feeds on your selfish side and blinds you

17. Eventually the thrill of unfaithness will go. When people venture into unfaithfulness, it feels so good, exciting and pleasurable. You plan secret meetings with the one you are cheating with, you enjoy; but soon you will realize it is wrong, the affair will collapse, you will outgrow your stupidity. Sadly, you come back to what is important, you come back to your legitimate relationship/marriage/family, back to the treasure you used to invest in only to realize it is too late, the damage is done. You destroyed something so great, you destroyed a once in a lifetime blessing, for something so meaningless.