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08/10/2024

HOW TO APOLOGISE TO YOUR SPOUSE

1. Don't justify why you did wrong. Accept it was wrong

2. Don't seduce your spouse into s*x hoping that s*x will make your spouse forget the wrong you did and you can escape humbling yourself to say sorry

3. Don't blame your spouse for making you do something wrong. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your actions

4. Don't send friends, family or siblings to apologise on your behalf. It shows cowardice. Face the one you have wronged

5. Don't belittle the wrong you did as if showing your spouse he/she is overreacting. If it is a big deal to your spouse, take it as a big deal

6. Don't start listing your spouse's past wrongs when your spouse confronts you on your current wrong. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs

7. Don't apologise on social media or put a post on Facebook or WhatsApp status hoping your spouse will see it without saying anything in private. Make your apology personal and heartfelt

8. Don't brush it off and move on as if nothing happened just because you know your spouse loves you. Don't sweep things under the carpet

9. Don't throw money and gifts at your spouse and doing good deeds without addressing the hurt you have caused and the issue. You can't buy your way into healing. Healing is emotional, not material

10. Don't apologise rudely and casually saying "Aah, OK then, I am sorry then if that will make you stop complaining" just because your spouse has asked for an apology. Show genuine remorse

11. Don't wait for when your spouse has decided to divorce you or to break up with you to let go of your ego and say sorry. You might be too late

12. Apologise as soon as possible, sincerely, acknowledging your fault, recognising how it hurts your spouse, assuring him/her of your love and commiting to do better

08/10/2024

18 WAYS TO TEST TRUE LOVE

I Love you! You love me!
Is a common saying. Everyone want to be in Love but not everyone is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will mention few ways to test true love.

1. Truth test

True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and infatuation have a lot to hide / keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one “finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her to know the truth , who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records truth.

Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will. It is better you tell him or her than finding out later.

2. Time test

Real love do survive test of time because it is deeply rooted before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more the love grows.

Check it, if that guy that used to come almost everyday now finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fail to call or never pick your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is time to go. Not a real love.

3. Goal test

True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish, committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as he want in the fear of God, that is true love. If all what your partner want is to collect from you or have s*x with you, he or she is not in love.

If your desire is to get somebody to kiss, caress, fo**le and sleep with that's infatuation not true love. His her her goal must not be s*x.

4. Maturity test

Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything call love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a teenager you are deceiving yourself, if the person you are going into relationship with is a teenager you are both in Infatuated not love because True love can only come from matured, regenerated and unselfish mind.

True love is always matured both physically , emotionally , intellectually, spiritually, financially etc.

5. Prayer test

The person you are in love with, is he a lover of prayer and the word of God? If not, it is very dangerous to marry such a person. It is better to marry someone who is in love with prayer than someone who is in love with beer.

True love puts God first and is not afraid to go before him in prayer. Marry someone that love prayer not someone who doesn't see reasons why prayer is needed.

6. Character test

How is the character of your lover? Is he or she a drunkard, a smoker or a flirt? Does he/she put God first in everything? Does he or she believe in pure courtship? Have you ever found him fighting on the street, or you discover that he is a cultist and indulge in examination malpractices or embezzlement of company’s money?

If he or she is not of a good character and you know all these and you pretend as if you do not see, it shows that you are only being infatuated but not in real love. Real love is based on godly character and integrity.

7. Friends test

My dear! Friends matter. Who are the friends of your partner, are they believers or not? If they are not, you are about to sell yourself cheaply into the hand of a wolf that will devour you because no way, no how, they will influence your partner negatively.

Look at his or her friends, if they drink, smoke and womanise then you are just deceiving yourself because you've not found a true love partner.

8. God’s voice test

If God is not leading you into that relationship you are living dangerously by going into it.

Real love hear God’s voice and obeys it, infatuation and lust disdain the voice of God.

9. Distance test

Distance kills infatuation easily but in true love there is always Faithfulness no matter where your partner is.

In real love absence makes your heart grow, fond of the one you love, real love do survive the distance test.

10. Peace test

Do you have peace of mind in that relationship? Is your mind settle? Or does it take away your joy, happiness and all you now have is fear, guilt, sorrow and regret? This is a sign that the relationship is not based on true love.

Test that love, with your peace of mind. If peace is absent or far from it, God is not in it and love is far from it.

11. People’s test

I know that people will not choose for you but If everybody around you most especially your friends, parent and pastor disagree with your choice of partner. please, watch it.

If you're blindfolded with love people around you are not “blind together with you. If all of them disagree with you, it is not true love.

12. Protocol test

True love is obedient and submissive to constituted authority, infatuation and lust have no regard for anybody or authority.

If he or she is not ready to be submissive, obey your church leaders, feel you are too much in love to be corrected or directed by your church leaders, that's not true love.

13. Thought test

What is your thought towards your partner. Of good or evil? Do you always have a dirty thought about him or her? Thought of s*xual in*******se? This shows that it is not real love.

Real love always have a pure and godly thought towards the other party.

14. Money test

Is it someone you can trust your money with? Or all what his after is your money. Are you save with him or her when it comes to money? If you can't trust your money with your partner that is not real love. You're not safe.

Your lover must be someone you can trust your money, possession and everything you're to.

15. Domestic test

Can he or she do some domestic chores? Like cooking, washing of dish and cloth, sweeping and mopping of floor, laying of bedspread etc if you found out but you keep saying she will change you're on On Your Own. Real love is always domesticated.

16. Giving test

The person you're in love with must be a cheerful giver. Not someone who only receive. Must be ready to give all time not only when you need his or her assistant or help. Anyone who cannot give without being forced doesn't have real love for you. True love give.

17. Acceptance test

Does he or she accept you the way you're or he or she is just managing you. True love never manage each other but accept each other. If all he or she do is just to complaints about you all the time, your appearance, how you talk etc you've not got a true love.

18 Engagement Test

If you find out that the person you are engaged with or want to engaged with you lack all these, I beg, flee! Test the Love and hold unto that one which is good.

08/10/2024

TEN ADVICES FROM THE 'OLD MAN' FOR THE GUYS

1. - Stop chasing women, and FOCUS ON CHASING YOUR GOALS. Improve your economy, your value as a man increases when you are able to sustain yourself, and it will continue to increase when you have the ability to provide for others.

2. - You can read the books you want, go to the conferences you want, but nothing happens if you don't have SELF-ESTEEM. When your self-esteem improves everything improves: your economy, your physique, your relationships, etc. If you don't have self-esteem, you're already at a disadvantage.

3. - If you have no inheritance, if you have no financial support, if you don't have contacts, if you have great studies, or skills, do what a real man does: work, save, make capital. Don't borrow to buy luxuries, nor to play entrepreneurship. It's true that everything in life is risk, but it's not about taking risks for taking them. Simply if you are starting out DON'T OWE YOURSELF. Work, save, capitalize, that's how it starts.

4. - A person who wants to get ahead CANNOT AFFORD TO WASTE HIS TIME. Devote all your energy and hours possible to develop skills. What skills? Skills that help you make money: learn to sell, learn to write persuasively, learn to speak, learn to lead, learn another language, learn digital marketing, viralization, etc.

5. - If you had children at a young age, behave like a man and take your RESPONSIBILITY. You're not the first and you won't be the last. You can be separated from the mom or move on with her, but no matter what, don't abandon your children, take on the role of a father to those creatures: be a provider, a protector, and a guide. Don't use your children as an excuse, use them as a motivation to overcome yourself

6. - Your future is not in another country, YOUR FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS. Acquire financial education and entrepreneurial mindset, that will open your eyes and you will start seeing opportunities where you used to only see problems. Europe is not what you think, America is not what you believe, Asia is not what you see, but instead you if you are MORE than you believe, act accordingly!

7. - If you're already in another city or country, make your decision worth all the effort. Don't work to be sending money to irresponsible, conformist and liars family members. Help your parents and/or your children if they really need it, but fundamentally INVEST IN YOURSELF: educate yourself financially, make capital, your goal should be to become an entrepreneur or investor.

8. - Some people think that their education ended when they finished high school, others when they left university, on the other hand, successful people think that EDUCATION NEVER ENDS, so invest in training, books, mentoring, counselling, never stop learning!

9. - STUDY FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY, choosing the wrong person as a partner can ruin you. Nowadays feminism is hurting women a lot and the family is under attack. Dysfunctional homes are on the rise. There are many women, and men, emotionally damaged, so you must learn to spot the signs of a person with internal problems, or distorted behaviours. First of all, remember: to find a healthy woman, first you must have been healed, because if you're wrong, it's highly likely that you choose wrong, it all starts with you!

10. - DO NOT DESPERATE. Patience is underestimated, but really true wealth and true success require patience, a lot of patience. Rome wasn't built in a day. So don't run to run, don't wear out. You're living your best years, but the years ahead are even better.

08/10/2024

WHY A WIFE SHOULD ALSO EARN MONEY TOO

No matter how wealthy a husband is, the wife should also earn her own money. Whether through employment, or business. Whether she earns more money than him, she needs to earn her own money for the following reasons...

1."TO TAME THE HUSBAND"

Some Men cheat and feel like they can get away with cheating on a woman who has no financial muscle. These men who cheat know that the woman can do nothing without him and so she will stay home with the child/children regardless of how bad he treats her. The first thing a man who is cheating and destroying a woman does is to financially strangle her. When a man has a wife who is financially capable of standing on her own, he tends to be in his good behavior because he knows she can walk out the moment he cheats, even with the child/children because she is capable. Men rarely mess with empowered women, such a woman can stand up to him. Wives with no finances, put up with all the evil done to them because they have been locked out of outside help and contact; their life is at home, no matter how toxic that home is

2. FOR PERSONAL FULFILLMENT
In as much as men have dreams and feel fulfilled as they pursue them, women have dreams too. The same joy a man feels when providing for his family, building, funding projects; the woman should feel that too. Just like a man, when a woman does her dream job, lives her dreams, earns money and contributes to society; she feels more confident and filled with dignity

3. TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE
A man is great by himself, but with his wife, he is greater; and so is the woman. When both husband and wife combine forces, they have better returns. More money never hurts a family that knows how to use money

4. TO PURSUE HER CAUSES
We all as individuals have a personal cause we want to take care of in society. A woman might feel passionate about the environment, the arts, cyber security, orphans, leadership, fashion, health. When she has her own money that she has earned, after using part of the money in the family and marriage; she can finance those personal causes without begging for her husband to believe in and fund what she is so passionate about. Having her own money empowers her

5. FOR STABILITY
Yes, storms happen in life. The husband can become broke, retrenched, his business can suffer huge losses or even worse, he could get sick or involved in an accident. When the productivity of the husband gets negatively affected or paused, the wife can step in even more and make sure the needs of the family are still met

6. TO MAKE GOOD USE OF HER SKILL
She was taken to good schools; Primary to High School, maybe even University. Perhaps she has a Degree, Masters or PhD. Life has also taught her a lot and she has gained many skills and much wisdom; surely, all that should be put into productive use. Lady, don't waste your life away. Get out there and get involved. Work

7. TO REDUCE OVER-DEPENDENCE ON THE MAN
Instead of her constantly turning to her husband and asking money for hair, fuel, food, clothes, sanitary pads. She can be interdependent. Yes, interdependent because lady, just because you earn your own money doesn't mean you two don't need each other. He is still your husband. You are in this together. The husband feels good when sometimes the wife says "Relax honey, I got this!" Now that is a Queen

8. TO MODEL TO THE CHILDREN
When mom is earning and is successful in her career or business; the son learns that women are not weak and that they can work hard just like men. The daughter learns to believe in herself and dream big dreams. 'If mum can do it, so can I' she thinks

9. TO BE AT PAR WITH HER HUSBAND
Many husbands eventually find their housewife not as challenging, the two drift apart. That is because, as the husband works and earns, he grows in many ways professionally, socially, mentally and physically. But the housewife, all her life is largely about children, and house chores. Conversations with her are not as engaging as with the people outside who are working or in business. The wife should find something challenging to do, even if it means running an online business or commercial blog. As she engages in more than household matters, she grows, just like the husband is growing

10. SHE IS MORE THAN A WIFE AND A MOTHER
A woman is capable of not just being a good wife and mother, but also a good social leader, business person, career woman, public figure, activist, scholar. She can balance it all. She has so much potential. There is more to her than being a wife and mother. She was created with a destiny to realize..

08/10/2024

A Baby Changes Everything!!

A baby brings immense joy, love, and transformation to a family. Their arrival marks a significant life change, impacting various aspects of your life, including:

1. Relationships: A baby strengthens the bond between parents and creates a new dynamic.

2. Lifestyle: Sleep patterns, social life, and daily routines are adjusted to accommodate the baby's needs.

3. Priorities: Focus shifts to the baby's well-being, health, and happiness.

4. Emotions: A baby's love and dependence can bring immense happiness and fulfillment.

5. Personal growth: Parenting challenges and responsibilities foster self-improvement and selflessness.

6. Future planning: Decisions about education, career, and finances are made with the baby's future in mind.

7. Love: A baby's arrival expands your capacity to love unconditionally.

"A baby TRULY changes everything," Their presence brings a new sense of purpose, joy, and fulfillment to your life.

Remember, embracing the challenges and cherishing the moments makes the journey even more rewarding. Congratulations in advance!

12/09/2024

A GOOD MAN.....

"A good man is one who empowers the woman in his life to reach her full potential. He recognizes that her growth and success are not threats to his own ego or status, but rather a reflection of her hard work and dedication.

He celebrates her achievements and encourages her to pursue her passions and dreams, even if they take her out of her comfort zone. He understands that her success is a testament to her strength and resilience, and he is proud to support her every step of the way.

A good man does not feel intimidated or insecure when the woman in his life excels. Instead, he is inspired by her accomplishments and motivated to work on his own goals and aspirations.

He creates a safe and supportive environment for her to flourish, free from criticism, judgment, or competition. He listens to her ideas, offers guidance and encouragement, and helps her overcome obstacles and challenges.

A good man knows that a woman's success is not a zero-sum game, where one person's gain must come at the expense of another. He understands that her achievements can elevate and enrich their relationship, bringing new opportunities and experiences to share together.

If you're a man who wants to be a rock for the woman in your life, remember that true strength lies not in dominance or control, but in empathy, support, and encouragement. Be her partner, her friend, and her biggest fan. Together, you can achieve greatness."

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11/04/2024

DEAR LADY, APPRECIATE YOUR MAN:

1. Appreciate your man if he treats you well. It is hard to find a good man

2. Appreciate your man if he is faithful to you. It is easier to find an unfaithful man than it is to find a faithful one

3. Appreciate your man if he works hard to provide for your family,no matter how much or little he brings home. This world has alot of lazy men

4. Appreciate your man if he can handle the stains in your dark past. It is hard to find a man who can understand you and love you despite your mistakes

5. Appreciate your man if he shows you off to other women. He is proud to be your man

6. Appreciate your man if he takes time to listen to you. He cares

7. Appreciate your man if he loves being sober. Far too many men are lost in alcohol

8. Appreciate your man if he tells you his secrets, if he lets you see his weaknesses and is naked and vulnerable to you. Men don't open up or trust easily

9. Appreciate your man if he has never beaten you up. Out there are many hurting women physically abused but your man uses his strength to protect you

10. Appreciate your man if he tells you the truth no matter how painful it is. An honest man is reliable, you can trust him

11. Appreciate your man if he corrects you when you wrong. He is looking out for you

12. Appreciate your man if he is not too proud to apologize when he wrongs. He is trying to be better for you, give him a chance

13. Appreciate your man if he asks about your family. He respects the people in your life

14. Appreciate your man if he marries you instead of cohabiting with you so casually. He wants to spend his life with you and he wants to enter into marriage the right way

15. Appreciate your man if he is patient with you. Many men give up easily

16. Appreciate your man if he tells he loves you. Those words are not easy to come by from a man

17. Appreciate your man if he puts effort to make you happy. He values your smile

18. Appreciate your man if he runs to you for help. He needs you

19. Appreciate your man if he introduces you to his family and friends. He is serious

20. Appreciate your man if he comes home early. Many men have abandoned their home

21. Appreciate your man if he leans on God. It takes humility for a man to submit himself to God

22. Appreciate your man if he puts up with your moods, habits or imperfections. He is committed

23. Appreciate your man if he can handle your tears and fears. You are safe with him

24. Appreciate your man if he supports your dreams and growth. He is good for you

25. Appreciate your man if he is present in your child's life. Too many children have been rejected by their dads

26. Appreciate your husband if he s*xes you good and makes love to you so passionately. It takes a giving man to find joy in giving his woman the highest pleasure

27. Appreciate your man if he makes you feel loved. Lady, you are loved