A Conscious Free Life

23/04/2024

Recently I posted that at one point I realized:

Out of the 168 hours in a week, I only spend 44 with my daughter. It hit me hard. It was a wake-up call, a signal to break free from the relentless rat race.

Some might say 44 hours is a decent amount of time to spend with your child. And sure, it might be for some parents. But here's the thing – within those 44 hours, I couldn't fully immerse myself in quality time with her. Instead, I found myself caught up in ordinary tasks like grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, and all the other tasks that come with maintaining a household.

Occasionally, if everything aligned perfectly, we'd manage to sneak in some playtime or outings. But realistically, it was only a fraction of those 44 hours. For me, this imbalance felt unsustainable. And the thought that this could be our routine for the next 40 years was intimidating.

So I took action, what I did I will tell you next time.

If you cannot wait, drop me a ❤ and I'll contact you to have a chat

19/04/2024

Which imperfections do you embrace?

14/04/2024

When I realized...

That a week consists of 168 hours,

And I spent 32 hours of it working,
With an additional 8 hours dedicated to commuting,

I had to delegate my child's care for 40 hours a week.

Considering she sleeps for 48 hours a week,
It left me with just 44 hours to spend with my daughter.

44 out of the total 168 hours!

These figures, these realities, brought me to a stark realization: this is not the life I desire. I want to be a parent who is present, not one who is absent.

If you're interested in discussing the changes I made in my life, feel free to send me a DM, and we can chat about it.⬇⬇⬇

12/04/2024

How do you set your boundaries?

06/04/2024

In your family, you're not just replaceable—you're indispensable 🙏

I remember that old saying from where I come from? 'You'll be missed, but you're replaceable.' That's true for employees.

Once you hold your baby, everything changes. That ❤️love❤️ you feel? It's beyond words.

Your priorities shift. Your job from nine to five becomes just a way to support your family. Late nights at the office? Not when your child needs you. Your job description? Parenting. Guiding, supporting, nurturing—helping your child find their place in this world.

But how do you balance it all? How do you be present for your family, support them financially, live your life, and pursue your own dreams?

Enter the world of wellness entrepreneurship. When you spend time and effort on yourself, you make yourself happier and build a life that focuses on your family. Work just three hours a day, from anywhere with WiFi.

Let automation handle the rest, while you focus on living your dream life.

So, embrace change, take that leap
Invest in yourself
Grow 📈, and watch as the rewards 💲💲💲 follow.

Because in your family, you're not just replaceable—you're indispensable!

Are you ready to learn more or take the leap, comment⬇️ READY and I'll get in contact with you

05/04/2024

How do you organize your support as a solo parent?

29/03/2024

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26/03/2024

Fully embracing the online space and feeling that isolation? Not for me!

💧As a solo mom, I cherish those moments of tranquility
(Yes for me-time & mission focus!)

💧Plus, I'm constantly connected to my entrepreneurial tribe & have a supportive mentor and buddy (major win for community vibes!)

💧If I crave a change of scenery, there's always a coffee shop or co-working space to explore (yup, freedom to work from anywhere!)

23/03/2024

Looking for more tips and inspiration to work towards your dreamlife? Check out my Instagram page, I share valuable information and I like to inspire you!

22/03/2024

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11/03/2024

(🌍) Education

It is funny, up until today I would have said Jade is going to a school, it is just so integrated in my system. But school is not resonating at all. So I decided to change it into (🌍)education. So Jade is going to play with her friends.

Education is so much broader! What we experience in every day life such as learning form family, friends, community members and personal experiences. It involves the development of critical 🧐 thinking, problem-solving abilities, social skills, values in addition to academic knowledge.

It can occur through various channels, including mentorship, practical experience, exposure to diverse perspective (travel) and self-directed study.

In short, while schooling is a structured form of education provided within formal institutions, education includes a wider range of learning experiences that extend beyond the confines of traditional schooling.

Although most of us have been raised with the idea enrolling in the schooling system is the best thing to do and there is no other choice, I can tell you, you have a choice. You always have a choice. If you want different, do different. You are unique, your kids are unique, cherish your uniqueness.

At the moment Jade is enjoying her time at a community based and independent educational space: . Where they play freely within lovingly set frameworks. Check out the video. If you can contribute to let this beautiful project grow, in name of our children & parents we are forever grateful 🙏

https://youtu.be/5vOn2AgM41I?feature=shared

10/03/2024

ACTION

I can remember the period of my life that was pretty dark. I was running around in circles in my head and in the way of the rat race. I wasn’t happy, the only thing enjoyed was being together with Jade. What I know now, is that I needed silence and nature to really feel and listen to my 💜.

When I realized my body gave me signs of: open your eyes, this is not the life you want to live, take a decision. I took the decision. I took a huge leap of faith by saying goodbye to the known and embrace the unknown ✨ No plan no nothing just a plane ticket 2 suitcases and holding hands with Jade.

Since then we are living in a flow, following what resonates. And yes the universe is throwing lots of challenges in my/our path. But I believe that is what I need to grow, to learn to be able to thrive and to live our most beautiful life.

Are you ready to watch your fear in the eyes and say: get out of the way, I am taking the leap of faith, I am trusting the process and I will live the life I desire?

Are you taking the action?

03/03/2024

You don't know what you're getting into

One of the first things someone close to me told me: you don't know what you're getting into.

You might wonder what the announcement was:
I want to become a mom and I'll start my motherhood solo.

At that moment, I just wanted to leave the room. Which I didn't, I was busy defending my wish and convincing, to see it from my point of view.

What I have learned over the past 5 years is, choose the people around you that can truly listen, who are unjudgemental, ask sincere questions and who give you energy. So I let a lot of people go and I consciously choose how much time I spend with whom.

Friends became strangers and strangers became friends

Following my gut feeling, my heart and intuition caused and still is causing, challenges.

But I am living a beautiful life with my precious daughter and I never regretted a single moment

25/02/2024

Every child is born curious
Keep your mind open to new adventures

When you are a big child full of joy, curious and seeking for a new adventure

Let me know where you are looking for, I might be able to help!

19/02/2024

Hey mom, do you recorgnize this?

Being a solo parent you are always providing, fulfilling the basic needs of you child (and oh yes yourself as well, you might forget that from time to time). Can you provide in a stable and secure base? You are the only one that is responsible for everything, you need to take always your initiative and I can go on.

This absorbs at this stage so much energy that I find it hard to find my feminine side. At the moment it is conflicting. For example I have a strong intuition, but it gets trumped by my discipline.

The core value of masculine energy is: *Freedom*
The core value of feminine energy is: *Connection*

When I realized this, I came to the conclusion: being an entrepreneur within this inspiring global community, can help me finding that balance between those 2 core values. This will not happen overnight, putting in effort every day, being conscious with my words and thoughts and be consistent will bring me there.

If this is your wish too, drop me a DM and I'll help you get started too ☯️

15/02/2024

But HOW?

A question many people asked me and still asking

My answer:

I don't know, but everything will work out just fine.

Last weeks thanks to the online course, I pick-up reading again and more and more I understand the importance of reading. So I cannot wait to start in my next book "The Magic of thinking big"

Are you stuck in the how? Drop me a dm and I can give you some tips to be able to change your way of thinking

14/02/2024

Especially as a mom it is often a challenge to take time for yourself. And really for yourself, no admin no organisation of what ever is coming up. But that part of self love is essential and is part of a healthy lifestyle I believe.

So I found a tool that helps me plan the week and that includes blocking me time. You might think how is she doing that: 50% chance I find an excuse to do some other task LOL! But he I'm learning, as it was maybe 90%...

Yesterday evening i took a bath in the best water with essential oils candles and soundbath music. And today I'm ready for a inhome Thai style massage. It is my gift to myself.

I feel so good!

What is your gift to yourself?

29/01/2024

Worldschooling is so all-encompassing.

The memories you make together and the connections you make along the way cannot be expressed in money.

Do you want to worldschool too and you don't know where to start? Drop me a message and I can think along.

27/01/2024

NEWS NEWS NEWS: I am an online business owner!

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Our online platform is a community of entrepreneurs. We help people start an online business, selling a high ticket product using a step by step training and with a fully
automated system.

I said YES to:
1 --> be a present mum and worldschool my daughter
2--> good health and sustainable, low tox living
3 --> be part of a thriving online tribe of entrepreneurs
4 --> to be everyday the best version of myself
5 --> freedom in every way

If this is a YES for you too and want to learn more: drop a YES in my DM and I'll send you the link of my free webclass.

Thank you for the support and sticking around for this anouncement. Next week I will share success stories 🤩

24/01/2024

Being beside the ocean is our happy place

It brings us joy and it grounds us.

Where is your happy place?

22/01/2024

Is your life based on what can I do with my monthly wage? Getting up every morning for your employer, do the things he wants to be done. Are all bills payed and do I have some extra to safe for the well needed summer holiday?

Why not take matters in your own hand. Work the hours that fits best for you and your child(ren) without having to commute in heavy traffic.

I said goodbye being an employee and said YES to be an entrepreneur, working online in an automated business. Super exited and happy to have started this journey!

21/01/2024

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19/01/2024

This quote is applicable for all things in life, for me it's about not giving up the 72 hrs water fasting, as it is intense.

But I know it is good for me and my body. I just LOVE food (and my morning cappuccino), but I know it is better* for my body. So I accept the change for these 72+8 hrs (I am adding 8 hours more as I don't want to break the fast in the evening)

*Fasting for 72 hours or more renews your entire immune system

Healthy body, clear mind, happy soul