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Long time no post.Ness Thee Empress has been going through a transformation to say the least.She was birthed in Miami on...
19/06/2024

Long time no post.

Ness Thee Empress has been going through a transformation to say the least.

She was birthed in Miami on my 32nd birthday, a celebration I paid for all on my own, my first of many. And she was a BEAST! Beautiful, brave, daring, creative just AMAZING. So amazing I had to immortalize her/me and I love how she/we look šŸ’•.

Ness Thee Empress is a motivation, an inspiration, and a creative she is me ā¤ļø

God told me to share this with yall too. I share it on my personal page but God said ā€œcopy and paste it where ppl you do...
05/06/2024

God told me to share this with yall too. I share it on my personal page but God said ā€œcopy and paste it where ppl you donā€™t know can see it. You never know who it might saveā€

So boom, I asked God to lead me in everything I do this year.

November 19, 2023 was the night that I found myself with the man that I loved hands around my neck. All that night I was trying to get away from him, trying to calm him down, trying to go home to keep the peace.

The drama started the day before when I told him that I wanted to go home because we have been spending so much time together I started to notice, there was a rift in our chemistry.

The next day he took it upon himself to pester me and make it hard for me to be at peace while at work in his familyā€™s business. It started from the workplace at the bar, to the upstairs residency, back downstairs to the bar, and when I couldnā€™t take it anymore, I tried to leave. He then grabbed me by my shirt collar and pulled me close to him to ask me where do I think Iā€™m going?

All of my 33 years I have never been in a physically abusive relationship. Mentally abusive yes, emotionally abusive yes, spiritually abusive yes but physically never.

I grabbed my things to leave out of the bar and go home. The entire time this was happening. The only thing that was said was ā€œthis is not the time nor the place.ā€ As if there was ever a time or a place to endure the verbal abuse and soon to be physical abuse That was being thrown at me. I looked at his sister to tell her goodbye only to see the sorrow in her eyes. Nobody came after me. Nobody asked me if I was OK. Nobody stopped him!

He followed me out only to push me down the stairs at the door, thank God I didnā€™t fall. He then began to berate me with name-calling and insults all while Iā€™m trying to lure him away from the bar, so they wouldnā€™t get bad publicity because IT IS RIVERWEST and as a black owned business they didnā€™t need nothing making them look bad. šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø even while enduring abuse I was still being considerate to him and his family.

He took that as me walking away from him as he was talking to me, proceeded to grab me by my coat and pull me down as I was walking away. Which led to my coat being ripped and me falling and hurting my wrist.

Needless to say by this point, I realized how much trouble I was in. This man could overpower me and there was nothing I could do about it.

I was only so many blocks away from the bar so I figured I could make it. He began to follow me telling me how he wanted to talk, getting more upset that I wouldnā€™t talk to him.

As I crossed the street on Chambers and he ran to catch me to lift me up off my feet asked me where I was going what I was doing and I was doing this. He continue to pick me up off the ground just to throw me back down. I try to grab a fire extinguisher. He pluckedļæ¼ me off of it so easily.

So for the next 10 minutes, I feared not for my life as much as my physical body. Or so I thought. The moment that I had a chance to text my uncle to let him know where I was at, and that I needed to be picked up which was all of maybe a minute. As Iā€™m trying to get away from him and him constantly following me trying to drag me back to where his truck was. I grabbed hold of a tree. Of course he pryed me off of the tree, and at that point, I tried to pull his pants down to get him to focus on something other than me. But that didnā€™t work and the next thing I knew I was being strangled.

My uncle pulled up he got off of me IMMEDIATELY and I got home safely. Nobody else was harmed. I didnā€™t have my glasses, my wallet or my keys. We asked him if he had it as if he would all of a sudden come to his senses.
I was shaking. My mind have been completely warped and I honestly did not know what to do at that point and just cry myself to sleep. This man proceeded to call me 20 times sending voice notes, leaving voicemails, text messages, apologizing, saying that he just wanted to talk . The next morning, I called the police with no hesitation.

This man pulled up to my house as if NOTHING had happened as I was on the front porch, telling the police what happened only to give me my keys, my wallet, and my glasses that he said he didnā€™t have the night before. They arrested him he yelled ā€œWHAT SHE SAY? THAT I TOUCHED HER?! I AINT PUT MY HANDS ON THAT GIRL! VANEESA PLEASE DONT DO THIS I JUST WANNA TALK!ā€ I broke downā€¦
He went to jail his truck was left at my house. His sister came to pick up his truck. She then called me to ask me what was going on as she didnā€™t already know.

He plead not guilty all while his sister sat there never making eye contact as if she wasnā€™t there when he continuously cursed me out, called me n my family out of our names, at her home and at her business.
He got an attorney the day of the hearing which pushed things back, but luckily for me my restraining order was granted his gun that he had on him during the altercation was taken away.

I donā€™t know if heā€™ll go to jail or not but AT LEAST if a woman decides to date him and she caps him there will be a paper trail of what he did to me and whatā€™s heā€™s capable of doing to her!

Almost everyone in my friends list knew this man. Knew that I was talking to this man. Knew that we were in relationship and the only warning I got was ā€œwatch out for his mental health.ā€ As if we all donā€™t suffer from it.

He told me stories of women causing him harm, and of course claimed it was because they was crazy. And like a fool, I believed him. When his family would come and visit, they would look at me astonished and say ā€œyou still hanging in there?!ā€ And I naively thought they were talking about his emotions and sensitivity.

I say all that to say, please follow your intuition, please peep the signs, please learn how to read things that have not been written and learn how to listen to things that arenā€™t being said.

But most importantly, donā€™t let what happened to you become you because baby God said Iā€™m a win regardless

ā¤ļø I started my hair line
ā¤ļø I launched my travel agent business
ā¤ļø I moved out of the state
ā¤ļø I moved into the SPECIFIC apartment I asked God for
ā¤ļø my credit score has been going up
ā¤ļø I got my first secure card in over 3 years

And it all started with abuse, trauma, shadow work and self acceptance.

So to the women and the men who have endured anything similar to what I have. A lover who crossed a sexual boundary and lied to your face/gaslit you as well as others. Or a lover who caused you physical harm when you thought they were your safe place.

You become that for yourself allow God to become that for you and I promise you no one would ever hurt you again.

Keep going and be your number one supporter and I will catch yā€™all on my other page

šŸ’• āœŒšŸ½

05/06/2024

Who would have thought posting my thought and experiences, being myself would get me paid!

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05/06/2024

Good morning
AND DONT BE SCARED TO SAY IT BACK!

03/06/2024

This page is my journey in
Spirit
Finance
Social media
And just over all growth

If you need some motivation I got you šŸ˜‰ šŸ’°

01/06/2024

Everything looks obtainable now

01/06/2024

Just how you praised your way in to the blessing
Praise your way out of the storm

Just how you prayed your way out the storm
Pray your way into your blessing/you reward BECAUSE YOU EARNED THIS you are deserving because God said so.

Cycle šŸ”„ repeat

Iā€™m trying to restart my podcast but my phone isnā€™t letting me.I donā€™t have any more memory for an update or to create c...
01/06/2024

Iā€™m trying to restart my podcast but my phone isnā€™t letting me.

I donā€™t have any more memory for an update or to create content. God I need a new phone with more storage. šŸ™šŸ½

01/06/2024

Today is day one of the first 30 of me posting on this page consistently.

WISH ME LUCK though itā€™s already done šŸ§˜šŸ½ā€ā™€ļøšŸ«¶šŸ½šŸ™šŸ½

Iā€™m ready

01/06/2024

Yes, life is the best teacher
But it also takes the most time
Lifeā€™s lessons are priceless
But you canā€™t get time back

Choose wisely

Being in a relationship with a hard-working woman is not for everyone.This is why some men these days are interested in ...
31/05/2024

Being in a relationship with a hard-working woman is not for everyone.
This is why some men these days are interested in women with no life perspective.
Having a relationship with a hard working woman is to understand that she might not always be available for you.
You may think, there are times where she will not always seem invested in the relationship, but its not the case at all, its quite the opposite, she wakes up every morning and works hard every chance she can to create a stable future for you both.
You need to understand there will be days where she will most likely be tired and she'll barely have time to take a shower and give you a kiss and head to bed to get some much needed sleep to start it all over again the first thing in the morning.
Do not take this kind of man for granted.
She might come off a little rough around the edges, but this woman will love you with a type of love you have never experienced before.
So here is to the hardworking women that are married to the man of their dreams you both get up every morning and work hard everyday for your families in order to live a life you have always dreamed of.

27/05/2024

I see why God separated me from a lot of ppl I tried to either KEEP or REKINDLE a relationship with. They are not bout what they talk about, and kick it with WHO they talk about.

I donā€™t. Oil and water.

Even if that means I have to struggle to reach my goals just a little bit longer. To God be the glory cause HELL NAW!

I tried to bring ppl with me to where Iā€™m going in this next stage of life. I tried to keep connections, I tried to show I still care if no one else does, I tried to give them the sauce, I tried.

I pray for everyone Iā€™ve ever been connected to on the weekly basis, especially those who have hurt me to the core and changed the fiber of my very being.

And to anyone Iā€™ve hurt (and not from the decision to leave you alone because thatā€™s called BOUNDARIES), I wish you have told me. I wish you would have given me a chance and not ran away and told everyone else only for it to get back to me later.

But we all have sown our seeds and made our bed. So now itā€™s time to lay in it.

Now I welcome only spiritually aligned connections based off nothing but just that. If you done ā€œfeel like homeā€ as a good friend of mine said, I canā€™t connect.

Your title doesnā€™t matte, who you know and what material possessions you have donā€™t matter, as Iā€™ve stated before. I can no longer connect to people based off of convenience, proximity, history, or anything shallow.

My purpose wonā€™t allow it.

Also I seen an ex of mine last night (and not the one Iā€™m snitching on next month) he was looking GOODT DO YALL HEAR ME but I ainā€™t speak tho, couldnā€™t take NO CHANCES of slippin. Had to stand on bidness šŸ˜‚.

Love yall āœŒšŸ½

26/05/2024

The average mind COULD NEVER understand me

Iā€™m mad I tried but had I not ā˜šŸ½ I would not have experienced the love I did from those that I did.

Those who saw me as soon as they saw me whether I saw myself or NOT!
They gave God the glory by loving me the way they did.

I saw men rip themselves in HALF trying to love me, correctly. And I got hurt In The end. I threw myself to flames that they lit for me, for them, only to see now the flames was sacrifice and offering for me.

I AM A DAUGHTER OF GOD AND THIS IS WHAT THAT MEANS.

know who you are and who you are ladies.

25/05/2024

šŸ¦‹ Emotional Intelligence is knowing when to S**U

šŸ¦‹ Emotional Intelligence is knowing who to leave tf alone and when WITHOUT a why

ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹ Emotional Intelligence is NOT forcing your thoughts, ideas, opinions and understandings on other people

Get some emotional intelligence and stay out your ego āœŒšŸ½

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