18/02/2025
If you're able to hold the line and maintain no contact, after a while, a weird thing happens...
You slowly start getting over her... while she slowly starts missing you.
You aren't available anymore, and she knows she will lose you if she doesn't do anything about it.
She feels the pain of regret that she took you for granted, and then her state of mind goes down.
Meanwhile you're moving on and feeling better, so your state of mind goes up.
This is only possible if you're able to maintain no contact to
1. Allow yourself to let go and move on (state going up)
and...
2. Give her the experience of losing you.
