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✨ Free ✨ Wildfire webinar - Identifying the Stories You Need to WriteAnd be the first to learn about a new Wildfire work...
30/06/2024

✨ Free ✨ Wildfire webinar - Identifying the Stories You Need to Write

And be the first to learn about a new Wildfire workshop! 👀

Them: I am out here surviving stuff like being diagnosed with cancer; I should write about this.

Me: Yes! Definitely! The world needs your story!

Them: Great! I totally have stories to tell! (grabs a blank piece of paper)

Me: Yes, you do! What's your story?

Them: (stares at the blank paper) … Um, I have no idea.

Sound familiar? You are not alone. One of the biggest hurdles to writing memoir or personal narrative is knowing what specifically to write about. Even if you know that you want to tell a cancer story, for example, you might not know what about that cancer story is unique to you and worth sharing.

I can help you with that.

One of my favorite things in life is drawing stories out of people, and I want to teach you how to draw out your stories.

Once you learn this process, you will have an endless list of memoir topics to tap into for writing blog posts, essays, books, articles, op-eds, and more!

Truth: Everyone has hundreds of memoir topics within them, built over time from myriads of life experiences - yes, even you.

Join me at the Wildfire webinar, "Identifying the Stories You Need to Write." I'll help you learn the tried and trusted framework (and the specific writing prompts) for identifying your stories and knowing which ones will blow up into your next successful writing project.

Whether you're a seasoned writer or just starting your writing journey, this webinar will give you the tools to overcome that daunting blank page so you can hit the ground – or keyboard – running every time you sit down to write.

🔥 Tuesday, July 11 at 12p PT / 3p ET (60 minutes)⁠
🔥 Register for free at wildfirecommunity.org/workshops⁠

The recording will be shared with all who register.

💃IT’S HERE!💃Our 8th annual “BODY” issue, with stunning cover model Monica Hill, photograph by Janette Beckman, is here!T...
29/06/2024

💃IT’S HERE!💃

Our 8th annual “BODY” issue, with stunning cover model Monica Hill, photograph by Janette Beckman, is here!

This year’s BODY issue guest editor is ⁠Dana Donofree, ⁠Founder & CEO of AnaOno Intimates.

Here are the 31 brave writers who made this issue:

Face Down & A Modest Promposal poems by Yamini Kesavan Ranchod

Dancing Myself Back to Life by Judith Rubens

Bowling Balls and Flapjacks by Sasha Granneman

At Peace artwork by Rachel Stern

Barbershop Quartet by Erin Weiss

How Do I Love a Body I Do Not Know a poem by Tawny Rachelle

One Night in Austria by Amy Hartl

A Door Marked Danger by Lorie Kolak

Decision Fatigue by Erika Giovanniello

Rest in Power photo spread curated by Cancer Culture x AnaOno

On This Mat by Shannon Gottesman

Temple Graffiti by Gretchen Stelter

Swimming and Changing Direction by Shalini Krishnan

Being Myself by Stephanie Marnocha

Snip, Surrender, Shine: A Ritual in Resilience by Stacy Conlon

Are You Happy with Them? by Jordan Carte

Earth Mama artwork by Miriam Abascal Zimms

Ode to Current Screening Technology a poem by Pye Pajewski

Blood and Guacamole by Becca Keleher

Can I Trust My Body? by Peyton Fisher

The Deformed Woman by Hannah Haworth

My Body is a Wonderland by Rasee Govindani

The Story About My Body by Shangrong Lee

Seasons of Growth by Ariana Prado

Scan Spot Battle a poem by Grace Murphy

Cake Canvas artwork by Anjuli Webster

Becoming Art by Emily Singleton

Evolution of Body and Mind by Rachel Becker

Bra Hunting by Jennifer Bringle

Play Your Hand⁠ a poem by Mary Schulz

How is Your Body Today? by Meaghan Calcari Campbell

👉Purchase the issue in print or digital - wildfirecommunity.org/shop

Big 💗 to our Underwriters: AnaOno, After Breast Cancer Diagnosis, CLM Creations LLC, Foobs & Fitness, Pink Warrior Angels, Resensation, Young Women’s Breast Cancer Awareness Foundation

In memory of Lauren Hicks.💫⁠⁠IN LAUREN'S OWN WORDS (written in 2022):⁠⁠"The trial studied the use of the medication Enhe...
27/06/2024

In memory of Lauren Hicks.💫⁠

IN LAUREN'S OWN WORDS (written in 2022):⁠

"The trial studied the use of the medication Enhertu for a specific group of breast cancer patients. It was studied in patients considered to be HER2-low. It's a group I fit into.⁠

The results were outstanding! For patients with HER2-low, hormone receptor negative breast cancer, Enhertu extended life by 18 months compared to eight months with standard-of-care chemotherapy. That means, on average, patients who received Enhertu lived 10 months longer than those who received chemotherapy.⁠

Ten months! Those who assume they will live 80+ years may not appreciate 10 months like I do.⁠

Ten more months could mean celebrating another birthday and another Christmas. It could mean watching my brother get married or maybe meeting a new niece or nephew. It could mean more time working in oncology data at one of the top cancer centers in the country. It could mean more waterfall hikes. More camping trips. More time volunteering for a non-profit that provides resources and retreats for families who have a child with cancer. More time to transport dogs from animal control to rescue organizations that help find forever homes."⁠

---⁠

Since this piece was written, Lauren was able to do all the things she wrote about thanks to her treatment and tenacity. ⁠

Lauren passed away from metastatic breast cancer on June 22 after being diagnosed initially at 29 years old in 2019. She was a cancer data specialist, wife, fur-momma & childhood leukemia survivor. Lauren was passionate about loving people, rescuing animals, chasing waterfalls, traveling & learning science. Lauren & her husband enjoyed simple full-time living in a stationary RV on their property in southwest Missouri.⁠

Thank you for sharing your life & words with us & for nurturing your fellow writers in Sparks. Your legacy will live on in the ones who loved you & the stories you shared.⁠

💓Rest in power, Lauren.⁠

Lauren's essay, "The Trade Offs," is in our 2022 "Money & Cancer" issue. Available in the Wildfire shop & Wildfire Library (for subscribers).

🔥 150 EPISODES!! 👀⁠⁠You heard that right - today's episode of The Burn is our 150th episode!⁠I’ve had so much fun over t...
26/06/2024

🔥 150 EPISODES!! 👀⁠

You heard that right - today's episode of The Burn is our 150th episode!⁠

I’ve had so much fun over the last few years bringing these important stories to life and out of the magazine in our author's own voices.

Thank you to all of The Burn guests and for all of you for helping us reach 40k downloads! Thank you for follow along and letting ME follow along on your path of survivorship with this podcast. Here's to many more downloads, episodes & years of storytelling!

Let's move on to today's episode, "Going At It Not So Alone," with Miranda Gonzales.⁠

Miranda was diagnosed at 39 with Stage III breast cancer. Once the bustle of active treatment ended, she slowly began to venture out into the breast cancer community, finding support and camaraderie with women who helped her navigate the world of survivorship. Miranda then began to do the same for others, volunteering and building her advocacy portfolio to include such organizations as Young Survival Coalition, Living Beyond Breast Cancer, and the National Breast Cancer Coalition. She is now a volunteer turned staff member with the Our MBC Life podcast, part of SHARE Cancer Support.⁠

In today's episode, Miranda reads her essay "Going At It Not So Alone" from the 2019 "Social" issue of Wildfire Magazine. Miranda's piece is about finding her people in Cancerland. We talk about what it's like for Miranda to read this essay she wrote five years ago, on being a long term survivor, finding peer support, and advice on taking small steps to make community connections.⁠

👂LISTEN NOW: https://link.chtbl.com/TheBurn or on your favorite podcast player (available everywhere!).⁠

📕 READ: You'll find Miranda's piece, "Going At It Not So Alone," in our 2019 "Social" issue.⁠

✍ WRITE: Every episode includes a writing prompt to help you begin to explore your own breast cancer stories.⁠

💛 SHARE: Tell a friend who needs these stories & writing prompts in their life, too.⁠

🌟 If you listen on Apple or Spotify, we need your help: leave us a starred review today so others can find us!

“This body is good,” a poem by Sarah Ammerman⁠⁠When you’re lying in a hospital bed fighting for your life, you’re never ...
25/06/2024

“This body is good,” a poem by Sarah Ammerman⁠

When you’re lying in a hospital bed fighting for your life, you’re never going to think, “Oh, if only I was a size 4!”⁠
You’ll think about all the times you laughed until you cried. ⁠
You’ll think about all of the people that loved you. ⁠
You’ll think of the delicious food you’ve eaten, and all of the food you haven’t yet tried. ⁠
You’ll think of the ocean. How loud and terrifying it is, and how badly you wish you were in it right now. ⁠
You’ll think of the summer sun on your skin. ⁠
You’ll think of the lilacs that grew outside your bedroom window. ⁠
You’ll think of all the places you’ve traveled to, and the ones you wished you’d traveled to. ⁠
You’ll think of music. How you wished you sang more, and how beautiful the sound of a piano is.⁠
The shape of your body will not matter when you are in a war with death. ⁠
You will never wish for a smaller coffin for yourself.⁠
And yet, sometimes I look at others with their Botox, fillers, and purchased youthfulness, and I think about how much older I look than they do.⁠
I look at this body, worn and weary from her trials. ⁠
Scarred. ⁠
Squishy. ⁠
Lined forehead.⁠
Then I remind myself, this body is safe.⁠
This body is good.⁠

—⁠

Sarah is a mom, writer, and survivor of three primary cancers. On the weekends, you can find her dragging her teenage daughter to estate sales and trying to talk herself out of getting another little treat.⁠

⁠For more body stories, pre-order the upcoming BODY issue in the Wildfire Shop on our website (wildfirecommunity.org/shop or LINKINBIO).⁠

Subscribers will gain access to the BODY issue on Saturday, June 29. Subscribe today and the BODY issue will automatically be included in your subscription (wildfirecommunity.org/subscribe).⁠⁠⁠⁠

I was 13 when I realized words can change a life.⁠⁠It was the spring of my 8th-grade year & I was unhappy. At home, life...
24/06/2024

I was 13 when I realized words can change a life.⁠

It was the spring of my 8th-grade year & I was unhappy. At home, life was dictated by my mother’s violent moods. On this day, I was grounded. Driven by frustration & despair, I wrote a poem that changed my life.⁠

It was full of metaphor, anger, and pain - everything you'd expect from a rage-filled adolescent. I wrote passionately that I wanted to be free by setting myself on fire. I gritted my teeth, tears streaming down my face as I pressed the pencil so hard it etched deep grooves in the page. After, I shoved it into my backpack.⁠

Years later, I still remember how it felt after. I felt lighter. I had left a bit of my rage on the page. With that, I went outside to play with my younger brothers.⁠

When I returned for dinner, I found my poem on the dining room table in full view of my family. My mom had fished it from my backpack. My stomach dropped.⁠

I wouldn’t understand until years later that when she read my poem full of fiery suicidal ideation, my mom was struggling with suicidal thoughts herself. I didn’t understand her narcissism or that instead of seeing my pain, she only saw herself.⁠

That was my first encounter with the power of words & their domino effect. I learned how good it felt to translate my angst onto the page - to remove it from my body. I also learned my words could impact others.⁠

I wish I could say my mom & I learned to communicate & this poem became the catalyst for heart-to-heart conversations about our family legacy of depression. I wish I could say she got me the help I needed as a teen. Unfortunately, she didn’t, but I had discovered a tool for releasing my feelings. From that day on, I kept writing.⁠

I wrote myself out of my teens. Over & over, when darkness crept in, I wrote. When my mom eventually died by su***de years later, I wrote. When cancer came, first mine, then my dad’s, I wrote. When cancer takes my friends, I write. I know now that I will always write my way through. It’s the only way I know how to cope, especially when the words are too hot, too fiery to stay inside.⁠

🔥⁠ Let's write together: Free Pop-Up Writing Workshop TOMORROW, June 25. Regardless of how you feel about your own mother/daughter relationship, join me tomorrow where I’ll bring prompts that will explore this relationship. ⁠

Register for free: wildfirecommunity.org/workshops

Gilda Radner said it best: "Having cancer gave me membership to an elite club I'd rather not belong to."⁠⁠⁠This week on ...
23/06/2024

Gilda Radner said it best: "Having cancer gave me membership to an elite club I'd rather not belong to."⁠

⁠This week on The Burn, we hear a piece about friendship. It’s a story about the ones that go before us each step of the cancer road, paving the way. It’s about life - the beautiful bits and the really hard bits. ⁠

Mardi Kaplan, this week's storyteller, wrote a beautiful love letter to her friend who had been diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer a year and a half before Mardi's own MBC diagnosis. ⁠

"A year and a half after your diagnosis, it was my turn. You were one of the first people I reached out to, and you were there for me instantly. I remember the text when I said, “I got bad news ... stage 4,” and you immediately said, “I’m here, call me.” ...⁠

I have known of a number of people whose lives were taken by cancer, but you were the first friend I’ve lost to it. F*cking cancer...Rest in peace, my sweet friend, and I hope you continue to visit me in my dreams."⁠

The people in this elite club are pretty awesome. Still, the loss that inevitably comes in the young cancer community can be devastating. ⁠

Now it's your turn. You were there when… who would you like to remember today?⁠

Set your timer for 8 minutes, and write without stopping or editing. Give this space and time to honor someone in your life.⁠

Writing prompt: You were there when…⁠

Share in the comments - I'd love to read what you come up with!⁠

Looking for more writing prompts? We've got you!⁠

There's a writing prompt at the end of every episode of The Burn and more at wildfirecommunity.org/free⁠

⁠⁠Listen to this week's episode of The Burn, "You Were There," with Mardi Kaplan, wherever you listen to podcasts.⁠

Happy writing!

"Starting any business is difficult, but starting a business to help breast cancer⁠ survivors can be very emotional. ⁠⁠E...
22/06/2024

"Starting any business is difficult, but starting a business to help breast cancer⁠ survivors can be very emotional. ⁠

Even though you will share your cancer story with⁠ everyone while you market your product, it is very rewarding to know that you are⁠ helping other breast cancer survivors."⁠ ~ Cherie Monson⁠

Cherie is the founder of CLM CREATIONS and inventor of the GentleStyle Brush, born 10 years ago when she needed an easy & effective way to style her hair on vacation. ⁠

"I⁠ was using a volumizing diffuser attachment to style my thin, straight hair, and my blow⁠ dryer and diffuser took up too much space in the suitcase. So (long story short!), I applied for a⁠ patent and started my own company to create a simple hairbrush solution. ⁠

I was planning to license my⁠ patent to supplement our retirement, and then cancer arrived. "You have breast cancer" are the four words no one expects to hear. For me, it was Stage I ER+ PR+ breast cancer. ⁠After a lumpectomy and radiation in 2020, I left my⁠ stressful career to follow my dream of manufacturing and selling my brush. ⁠

Radiation caused my hair to thin and⁠ break off while detangling. Because of this, I discovered that my new hairbrush could⁠ detangle and minimize further damage. The GentleStyle Brush is perfect to distribute products, gently massage your scalp, detangle without stress, style chemo curls or wigs, and cover thin spots during hair regrowth."⁠

🔥At Wildfire, we believe in supporting the work of survivor-led projects that strive to be breast cancer changemakers. Each of our Underwriters do this. We appreciate the work they do for our community & for helping Wildfire continue to publish.⁠

❤Learn more about CLM Creations LLC and our other Underwriters from the upcoming "BODY" issue by pre-ordering a copy now! The Body issue sells out every year, so reserve your copy today! Head to wildfirecommunity.org/shop⁠.

💡Are you a Breast Cancer Changemaker? DM to learn how to become an Underwriter and be featured in our next issue!

📢 Last call for WORK & CAREER stories! 🔥⁠⁠A medical diagnosis often impacts more than our bodies. Most of us have first-...
21/06/2024

📢 Last call for WORK & CAREER stories! 🔥⁠

A medical diagnosis often impacts more than our bodies. Most of us have first-hand experience that our work and livelihood are not exempt from the far-reaching effects of a breast cancer diagnosis. Physical and mental changes cancer unleashes can alter the course of a career, schooling, or overall earning potential.⁠

And soon, there will be a Wildfire for that!⁠

💥 Submissions close for the brand new Wildfire theme, Work & Career, on Tuesday, June 25! 💥⁠

🔥 Are there time constraints with ongoing doctor visits, scans & blood work?⁠
🔥 Are treatment side effects impacting your quality of work? ⁠
🔥 How has cancer changed the way you show up for work? ⁠
🔥 Has cancer altered your relationship with work and career? ⁠
🔥 Maybe the work you did before your diagnosis no longer lights you up? ⁠
🔥 Perhaps cancer inspired you to start your own business or pivot career paths entirely.⁠

In this issue, we want to hear how your unique experiences with cancer have impacted your job – whether good or bad, large or small.⁠

If you have a story to tell about how your job or career has been impacted by cancer, submit it by midnight PST on Tuesday! ⁠

Don't know where to start? Check out these writing prompts to help you enter the page.⁠

We are currently accepting art & photography as well as poetry and personal essay submissions:⁠
👉️ Essays should be 750-1200 words; poems no more than 50 lines.⁠
👉️ You can be any age now, but you were diagnosed under 50.⁠
👉️ All stages of breast cancer are welcome.⁠
👉️ Submit in Google, Word, or PDF format.⁠
👉️ Submit only finished pieces - please, no pitches.⁠
👉️ Submit online at wildfirecommunity.org/submissions ⁠
👉️ Deadline: Tuesday, June 25⁠

Happy writing!⁠ We can't wait to read your stories! ❣️

Cancer can make you feel lost, but only after you are lost can you be found.What I found was the courage to accept looki...
20/06/2024

Cancer can make you feel lost, but only after you are lost can you be found.

What I found was the courage to accept looking different. I made the choice to remove my implants and have an aesthetic flat closure. When I had my implants, because of all my sensation loss, I had many uncomfortable moments: every time I accidentally bumped my implants, not realizing how big they were, not being able to get comfortable laying down, not being able to feel if my top was falling off in the pool; or going down the stairs too fast causing my implants to bounce around. Every time something like this happened, it felt like my body was screaming, “You had cancer! Your b***s are fake!” I didn’t want to feel like this for decades with implants. I realized that I needed to find something new instead of trying to replace what I lost.

Maybe I could finally feel comfortable in my own skin, even if it meant more scars and new shapes. After my surgery, I was watching TV, and a character mentioned something about the size of her ni***es and areolas. I remember thinking, “Huh, I never thought of that. I wonder how big mine are?” I looked down at my chest, realizing I didn’t have breasts or ni***es. Instead of feeling sad, I started to smile. I felt so comfortable in my body with my flat chest that, for a few seconds, I forgot about cancer. I forgot I didn’t have breasts or ni***es because my body felt like my own again, even if it looks different.

Cancer found a way for me to make this possible. I found a way to feel comfortable in my own skin. I am no longer lost, but I know I can be found if I ever feel lost again.

Falon Stahley, writer of “Found” above, was diagnosed at 29 with Stage IIb Triple Negative breast cancer. She volunteers with & lives in N. Virginia with her husband, 3-year-old son & 2 pit bulls. She is becoming active in cancer advocacy, returning to writing & exploring her passions beyond motherhood and being a cancer patient.

For more Body stories, pre-order the BODY issue at the link in bio.

Subscribers gain access to BODY on Sat. June 29. Subscribe today & BODY will automatically be included in your subscription.

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Today is not the day."That first night we talked, you shared a mantra that has stuck with me most – "Today is not the da...
19/06/2024

Today is not the day.

"That first night we talked, you shared a mantra that has stuck with me most – "Today is not the day." It continues to help me remember that as long as I'm feeling good, and my heart is beating, and that I'm able to be active and live a normal-ish life, today is not the day I'll die."

This is Mardi Kaplan.

Mardi was first diagnosed with breast cancer at 37 and is now living with metastatic breast cancer. In this episode, Mardi reads her essay "You Were There" from the 2023 "MBC: Lessons Learned" issue of Wildfire. Mardi's piece is about friendship and the ones that go before us at each step of the cancer road, paving the way. ⁠

We talk about having conversations about death, living in joy while embracing mortality, the skewed perceptions of what illness may or may not look like, and the friendship found in community. We also discuss the choice of being private or public about cancer after a diagnosis.

👂LISTEN NOW: https://link.chtbl.com/TheBurn or on your favorite podcast player (available everywhere!).⁠

📕 READ: You'll find Mardi's piece, "You Were There," in our 2023 "MBC: Lessons Learned" issue.⁠

✍ WRITE: Every episode includes a writing prompt to help you begin to explore your own breast cancer stories.⁠

💛 SHARE: Tell a friend who needs these stories & writing prompts in their life, too.⁠

🌟 If you listen on Apple or Spotify, we need your help: leave us a starred review today so others can find us!

The thing about breast cancer is, it’s likely that nobody tells you the truth about it until you have it.⁠⁠As a BRCA2 mu...
18/06/2024

The thing about breast cancer is, it’s likely that nobody tells you the truth about it until you have it.⁠

As a BRCA2 mutation carrier, my oncologist assured me that my outcome (which he equated to mortality) would be the same whether I chose prophylactic breast surgery or waited for cancer to be detected.⁠

But the thing about breast cancer is that it is about so much more than mortality. Where was the information I needed before cancer to help me optimize my lived experience and not just the length of it?⁠

Nobody and nothing that I read warned me that even early stage cancer can require chemo and hair loss. And what about sexual challenges? Hot flashes? Forever brain fog?⁠

Society expects women with breast cancer to be brave. They say, “You’ve got this.” And the women grin and bear it. They show their brave faces to the world.⁠

But where is the space to share their truths with women making preventative decisions now? How can we better connect the “before cancer” women with “during” and “after” mentors? (And is there ever really an “after”?)⁠

Instead of brave faces, let’s show the world our brave truths. If we can be honest and vulnerable with “before cancer” women, maybe we can move beyond “saving lives” to “saving quality of lives.” Who else can do that but us?⁠
—⁠
Hannah Fry Henn’s formal career centered around transportation planning and policymaking in NYC and DC. Identified as a BRCA2 mutation carrier at 26, she continued advancing her career through her Stage 1 ER/PR+ cancer treatments at age 35 while parenting 2 small children. At 37, she was her father’s caregiver after his stage 4 cancer diagnosis. The following year, Hannah’s son was diagnosed with autism & she pivoted to self-employment in hometown tourism. Inspired by her all-girls high school and camp experiences, she spends her free time nurturing connections with other women and writing about her female-centered experiences.⁠

This piece was written during a Wildfire Sparks Writing Workshop.⁠ Join me at our next 6-week Summer Sparks series on Wednesdays, starting in July. The Thursday session has already sold out so register today! (wildfirecommunity.org/workshops or link in bio)

🔥Cover reveal😍This is our 7th year publishing the Body issue - this time our cover features MBC advocate Monica Hill ()....
17/06/2024

🔥Cover reveal😍

This is our 7th year publishing the Body issue - this time our cover features MBC advocate Monica Hill ().

Monica passed away at age 35 in April 2019, just 2 years after her de novo metastatic breast cancer (MBC) diagnosis. In the 22 months following her diagnosis, Monica founded Be Bold and Behold, a platform to raise money for MBC research & awareness in support of METAvivor. While she was alive, she raised more than $350,000.

In Monica’s own words (Nov. 2018): “If you would have told 17-year-old me that I was ‘middle-aged,’ I would not have believed you. When I felt a lump in my breast and was immediately diagnosed with stage IV cancer at 33, I was shocked. I was ‘aware’ of breast cancer, but I did not know a lot about METASTATIC disease. The more I learned, specifically about how little money goes to researching the only deadly form of the disease, the more it made me want to do something. Since [my diagnosis], a few things happened:

1. I have not had the response to treatment I had hoped for.
2. I met people, a lot of people, who became friends. Incredible people who are all living with this unimaginable disease.
3. I joined the board of METAVivor and saw up close how 100% of the money raised goes directly to fund life-saving research. Also, there is still great research not being funded.”

Thank you for your advocacy, Monica. We’re honored to feature you on this year’s cover of Body. Rest in Power.

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🎉PRE-ORDERS OPEN NOW FOR PRINT COPIES! Link in bio.

We are excited to have Dana Donofree, Founder & CEO of AnaOno, again this year as the Guest Editor.

This issue is sure to sell out. Reserve your print copy now!

🔥DIGITAL ISSUE COMING June 29!

⁠💗Big thanks to our Underwriters - all resources created out of a deep desire to make the breast cancer experience better for us all:

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💗Subscribers gain access to the BODY issue on Sat. June 29, bringing our digital archives to 49 issues!⁠ Subscribe today & receive BODY plus 5 more over the next year!

For 31 years, my dad juggled 2 jobs.One required a suit & came with a salary - not his dream job, but it kept a roof ove...
16/06/2024

For 31 years, my dad juggled 2 jobs.

One required a suit & came with a salary - not his dream job, but it kept a roof over our heads & food on our table.

What mattered to him was the 2nd job.

He clocked into the 2nd job when his truck rolled into our driveway each night. He was on from 6pm to 6am every night of the week as volunteer chief of the volunteer fire department that protected our community from fire, medical events & vehicle accidents in the Santa Cruz Mountains of N. California.

My dad would come home every weeknight & exchange his suit for jeans & boots. He would clip a red monitor on his belt like an overgrown, heavy pager. It corresponded to a shiny black box in the corner of our living room. Periodically, the box would erupt in high-pitched tones & beeps. After the tones, a dispatcher's voice would relay the incident info. If they called for Engine 21, my dad would drop whatever he was doing from wherever on our property & literally run for his fire coat, pants & helmet. I saw him do this routine while cutting firewood, in the middle of dinner, on Christmas morning, but most often, in the middle of the night when we were all asleep.

I learned about helping others from watching him.

When someone needed a fire engine or EMT, he went. It was hard work, but he felt called to it, to ease another's suffering & in that way, I know it eased his own. That was his legacy to me. He taught me a lot about helping others to help ourselves. His work in the fire department made him whole. Everyone knew who he was in our community for his multiple decades of selfless service. When he died, the flags at all the fire stations in the area were flown at half-mast.

I launched WILDFIRE 1.5 years after he passed away (the name is symbolic for many reasons, but is also very much a nod to my dad). After my breast cancer diagnosis, I knew I needed to try to give others a roadmap to help myself find a path through cancer. When I made the decision to "stay in cancer," my therapist asked me if I was sure.

I had never been more sure of anything in my life.

✨ BTS pics & more: Dr Stacy Wentworth's Cancer Culture Substack - I guest blogged this week (cancerculture.substack.com)

🔥 The annual BODY issue is almost here! ⁠🔥⁠⁠As we speak, our “Hot Flashes” Newsletter subscribers are getting a sneak pe...
15/06/2024

🔥 The annual BODY issue is almost here! ⁠🔥⁠

As we speak, our “Hot Flashes” Newsletter subscribers are getting a sneak peek of the cover! (Join the newsletter to be first-in-the-know, too - link in bio.) 👀⁠

Dana Donofree () of AnaOno is back again this year as the Guest Editor of this MASSIVE (almost 200 pages!) “Body” issue, which will be out in two weeks.⁠

“As a young woman diagnosed with breast cancer 14 years ago at 27, I’ve been through a lot, but more importantly, I have seen a lot. Putting my life on the line, sharing my story, and eventually getting the opportunity to not only advocate for others but also help lead the charge after the creation of has been a complete and total blessing. Some have called it a “calling.” I agree. ⁠

After undergoing a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction, I quickly realized how much my body had changed, not for just a moment but for the rest of my life. I wanted to feel comfortable in my new body, and mastectomy bras available on the market were not “my style,” to put it politely. ⁠

AnaOno has evolved into more than just a bra, but a movement to improve the lives of patients with breast surgery or chronic pain & discomfort, and even more so, chest-inclusivity! One b**b, two b***s, no b***s or new b***s, we want everyone to feel supported!”⁠

Dana’s advice for anyone interested in starting a business to help others in the breast cancer community: “The good news is we are the best ones to improve the lives of others living a shared experience. The bad news? Business is hard! So make sure you are passionate and prepared to throw everything you got into it. We need each of you to make sure we improve the lives of others living with cancer!”⁠

🔥 At Wildfire, we strongly believe in supporting the work of survivor-led projects that strive to be . ⁠

💫 Each of our Underwriters do this. We are so appreciative of them for the work they do for our community and for helping Wildfire continue to publish.⁠

❤ Pre-order your print copy now! The Body issue sells out every year, so reserve your copy today! LINK IN BIO⁠ or wildfirecommunity.org/shop

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