The relationship we want is based on the choices we make.
A “situation-ship” is a non-committal relationship that involves one person who wants more and another person who either doesn’t want more or who cannot give more.
When we choose to remain connected to someone who can never give us the commitment we want, we interfere with not only our well-being, but with our futures.
I’ve seen a lot of people mess up their lives by staying in a situation-ship for years, unhappy.
So if this is you, it’s time to to stop wasting your time.
You’ve got this.
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The other day, a woman approached me to tell me how much my work had helped her finally leave a push / pull toxic relationship which led her to meet her now loving and kind husband.
This is how I know today’s message is so important.
We are not guaranteed the relationship we want.
Being a good person with good intentions doesn’t guarantee it. And, it’s not based on luck.
It’s based on the choices we make.
A “situation-ship” is a connection that isn’t a real relationship. It almost always involves one person who wants more, and another person who either doesn’t want more or who cannot give more.
When we choose to remain connected to someone who can never give us the commitment we want, we severely interfere with not only our well-being, but with our futures.
I’ve seen a lot of people mess up their lives by staying in a situation-ship.
So if this is you, you must choose yourself.
I know it’s not easy. But the alternative is worse.
Today someone approached me to thank me for creating content that helped him leave a relationship that wasn’t healthy, and inspired him to work on himself.
Today an old friend also told me that she finally walked away from a very unhealthy “situation-ship.” She woke up to reality and took ownership of her future.
This is why this reminder is important.
Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is release our attachment to the dream, and accept the truth of what something is, where someone is at, and what we can offer each other, relationally.
To choose yourself isn’t about making them the problem. It’s about making decisions that are in your highest good, especially when doing so means facing the unknown.
I’m referring specifically today to dating and “almost” relationships - the kind of connections that never progress to the next level of commitment.
Always communicate how you feel and what you want.
If nothing changes, it’s time to make a decision that supports your well-being.
We learn to love ourselves by facing our fears and choosing the unknown when we know it is what’s best.
The anxiety isn’t worth it, and it’s also guaranteed if you remain in a situation that isn’t going anywhere.
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