Why is it so hard to find a good stylist in 2024? The struggle is real, and it's time we speak up. Share your story and let's support each other. We deserve better! How are we support to support our own. when... well they don't give the bare minimum?
My current braiders is giving me life and I just had to shout her out!
@prolificbeautybar
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Your life STARTED when you became a mom. Your new life that is. Do you plan on running away or stepping fully into it?
For a lot of us, when we become mothers, we fall into this trend of losing time for self-care, time for friends and family and it’s all about the child. This next stage of your life is waiting for you and you HAVE to make time for your self. Having children does not replace that first a person. Yes, you have to be there for your kids but if you don’t show up for yourself, how can you show up for your family? 🤔
I almost feel into the trap that my life is “over” now that I have kids and I am here to let you know that motherhood is what you make it.
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Outfit: @amazon
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#motherhoodjourney #firsttimemom #momoftwo #selfcareformoms #newlifepostpartum #postpartumjourney
The way everyone is so shocked 🙈🙈
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But thank you so much for all the love. I can’t get to every comment like I want to but I appreciate you guys so much! We often complain that social media is lacking the community aspect these days but I never have to worry about my community! 🥹
Now, let the belly rub posts begin… bc are you really pregnant if you aren’t rubbing the belly in every other picture!? 😮💨❤️
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#pregancyannouncement #blacklove #momof2under2 #pregancyjourney
Tag a mom who needs to see this, and let’s spread some love and joy in this stage of our lives.
Transitioning into motherhood is difficult for many reasons - we don’t need to tip to around that, but uplifting each other is free - yet goes a very long way.
Often, the voice that we need to silence is our own. I hope you save this post for the times you need it the most.
And in case someone hasn’t told you this today, you are amazing and you are doing a phenomenal job 🎉
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#blackmoms #newmom #affirmationsfornewmoms #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodjoy #motherhoodquotes #newmommy
Ahhh trying to whip the videos out before Mother’s Day 😅… but good thing we are celebrating all month 😮💨
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Leave your best advice for a new mom below, even though they may not listen. That’s okay 🥰
New moms: we see you, we know you are doing your best. Keep going ❤️
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#advicetonewmoms #advicetomoms #motherhood #newmom #newmomlife #newparents #newborn
Girl, why did I say I was going to celebrate moms all month not realizing that Mother’s Day is creeping up on us faster than Usain Bolt!??
Plus I wanted to show up all dolled up and I had to make peace with the fact that I don’t always have the time to do a full glam for the gram. Motherhood is… hooding lol 😴🤔🫣🥱.
Anyways, I am sharing my best advice for moms-to-be and I invite you to turn the comment section into an advice column! Let’s all help each other out. What else did I miss? ❤️
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#motherhood #mothersmonth #mothersdaygiftideas #newmoms #advicetonewmoms #postpartumjourney #parenting #parentlife
I hope this post resonates with the right audience and provides a sense of peace to someone today. It’s crucial for these conversations to take place because motherhood often comes with a heavy burden of guilt. It can feel like a constant struggle to balance all aspects of life. Some of us yearn to stay home and shower our babies with love, while others are eager to return to work. Many are juggling both, and some of us find ourselves missing parts of our old lives.
So I am going to say it out loud:
🫣 I miss the “freedom” that I used to have
🫣 I miss going to sleep at w.e time and waking up when my body felt like it.
🫣 I miss the DEEP sleep I used to have bc I now wake up in the middle of the night, “hearing a baby cry” when my baby is, in fact, sleeping as deeply as I wish I were sleeping 🥱
It’s perfectly normal to express these feelings. It’s healthy to allow yourself to feel because suppressing them will only lead to more internal turmoil. Motherhood is a journey of constant adjustment. It doesn’t mean you’re not cherishing this new season, but letting go of something always comes with a sense of loss.
What do you miss about your life pre-babies? 👇🏽
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#motherhood #motherhoodguilt #motherhoodjourney #momguilt #postpartumjourney
This video should be entitled “how to detangle 4C hair, PERIODT” because whether my hair is shrunken or not, this is what I do.
Before you ask, this is the ONLY time I detangle my hair - after washing and conditioning and gently finger separating/detangling.
Otherwise, I can stretch my styles as much as I want, but my hair will not see a comb/brush until the next time I wash.
“But your hair is at its weakest when wet”.
Maybe so, but my hair is most hydrated when wet which makes it more malleable.
And no, brushes aren’t going to magically melt your tangles away but with the right method, you can use any tools and get the same results.
I have a YouTube video breaking down how I did this when I did use to prepoo and the method is still the same. Handle your hair with care (and don’t let your hair dry out), and your tangles will be at a minimum.
Shrinkage isn’t the enemy. It is what our hair does naturally. The moment I stopped fighting it, my hair flourished.
By the way, this is two weeks of shedding which is normal for me.
Any other questions? Leave them down below.
K bye
Product used:
Intense Moisture Shampoo: amika:
Intense Moisture Hair mask: amika:
Brush: PATTERN
Body wash Athena Club
Comment LINK and I’ll send DM you a direct link of the products.
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I know it’s criminal to still have the tree up BUT... we all like to SAY we want to see individuality on social media - until we get it.
Yes, I will keep my tree up until late Feb/March every single year and I don’t feel bad about it. Guess what? I’ve been doing it since before social media, and I ain’t about to change it up now.
It’s tradition at this point😅.
Happy March though- and I hope you are intentional with how you show up in real life and online. Don’t let the world pressure you into doing things you may not want to do. It’s okay to be different than the rest. In fact, it is your superpower.
What’s one thing that make you unique?
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