This Marriage Must Work

27/11/2023

You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.

Advice!!!✍🏼

Princess Adenike Temmy

19/11/2023

*Have I Failed As A Father?🤔*

*Yes, absolutely yes... ✍️*

*If my son drives a flashy car but doesn't have a verifiable source of income, I have failed as a Father*

*If my daughter who is an undergraduate is using an expensive phone and dresses in expensive fashion when I know fully well that she doesn't have anything that generates income for her then I have failed as a Father*

*If because of the freebies I get from my children, I cannot caution them when they are going astray then I have failed as a Father*

*In fact, I have failed as a Father, if I cannot provide for my children materially, socially, emotionally and more importantly spiritually*

*Until Fathers wake up to their responsibilities, more girls will be used for ritualistic sacrifices, a lot of boys will continue to die young, the society will continue to go low and things will continue to fall apart. Do your best as a father. Good luck👍💞*

03/11/2023

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
6. Clean the house
7. Wash his clothes
8. Always pray for him.

So what's so hard about that?

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a s*xologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer/prayer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎:

44. give her compliments regularly
45. go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. not stress her out
48. not look at other girls

𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎:

49. give her lots of attention
50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your relatives.

𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓:

52. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping. Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is.........
𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 😄😀😃😜🌹 Send this to everyone on your list. Make a happy home. Wishing you all a 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘.

12/10/2023

The Director pushed too hård and got it overdõse.

04/10/2023

BEWARE OF WRONG ADVICE.(LADIES).

They told her to leave her husband because she's worth more than him. They told her she's beautiful and successful, that a woman of her standard deserves a better man with a better job income and personality . She listened to them and abandoned her home.
It has been over 7yrs since then and she's still looking for a better man that matches her standard. The funniest part is that those friends who told her to leave her man are still with their own husbands, doing everything possible to save their homes.

Be very careful from who and where you take your relationship and marriage advice. The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice. Anyone who recommends divorce or break up to you at every slight argument with your partner is an enemy that appears like friend.

A lazy man and a poor man are never the same. If a man doesn't have today does not mean he will be lacking for life. As long as he's GOD fearing, loving, caring, and appreciative of your efforts, you don't have to worry yourself. There are only two ways to regret in life. BEFORE AND AFTER. A woman who choose never to be patience for a while might ends up enduring for life. Marriage is not a bed of roses.
Becarefull of this

Don't Marry Because of S*X,
Don't Marry because you are getting OLD,
Don't Marry because you are of AGE,
Don't Marry because you are LONELY,
Don't Marry because you Need someone to Support you FINANCIALLY. Don't Marry because you Mistakenly Got PREGNANT for Him, Don't Marry because you don't want to LOSE the person, Don't Marry because of Family PRESSURES,
Don't Marry because you Like the IDEA Of
Marriage, Don't Marry because of PITY or Out of PITY, Don't Marry because of TRIBE, Don't Marry because you Admire of WEDDING GOWN you See, Don't Marry because you Love KIDS,
Don't Marry because all your Friends are
getting Married, Don't Marry because of Physical/ Academic Qualifications. But

Marry Because you want to Fulfil DESTINY. I

29/09/2023

THE IMPORTANCE OF S*X IN YOUR MARRIAGE...✍️

1. S*x is God's gift for the both of you in your marriage. You two would be going against God's desire, not to do it.

2. S*x relieves stress and taking away tension. Yes, it has a way of making you two relax even in the midst of tough times.

3. S*x makes you two create exclusive memories that makes you two bond deeply.

4. S*x is a celebration of your love. It's like a "Thanksgiving party" on the sheets where only two are invited.

5. S*x affirms you two of your love. It reminds you two that you are a couple, that is why married people panic when the frequency dwindles. Some wives even remember the exact day the husband last touched them and wonder what happened.

6. S*x helps you two be vulnerable. As you two strip down to physical nakedness, it will help you two to be emotionally naked with each other.

7. S*x is good for your physical health. As a physical activity, s*x is a good work out, helps your body organs and blood circulation.

8. S*x is a journey of self-discovery and discovery of your spouse. As you two work on s*xually pleasing each other, you will discover new things about yourself and your body and about your spouse and his/her body. This makes you know each other better.

9. S*x allows you two to express your naughty side. We all have naughtiness inside that we hide from the public, s*x with your spouse helps you to release that .

10. S*x brings down walls. As you two have s*x, you will realize that you will also find it easier to talk about difficult conversations and you won't be so guarded because you feel you belong.

11. S*x gives you a glow that reflects on your children, your workmates, friends and the public. People who are s*xed really good tend to be so upbeat, happy and positive.

12. Frequent s*x reduces the power of temptation. When you and your spouse have a healthy s*x life, and you do it frequently, you will be too satisfied to be lured by another

13. S*x helps you two to solve issues. Once you two talk about an issue or you go for days fighting over something then you make up and have s*x, it brings a feeling of closure and togetherness. That is why make up s*x is sweet and passionate.

14. S*x keeps you warm. Nothing warms up your body in a cold season like good s*xing with the one you love.

15. S*x helps you two to bring children to the world. That is why you two look at your child/children with pride and go like "Our pleasure did that"

16. S*x provides an opportunity for you two to feel loved. When you have a spouse whose intent is to make you feel good to the maximum, you will feel really loved

17. S*x is a good way of passing idle time. When you two have free time and are just lazing around, what better way to pass time as adults than making a s*x scene?

18. S*x takes away frustration. There is nothing as frustrating as having a hard on or a wet va**na and throbbing cl****is and no one to attend to it. Blessed are you when you have a spouse who will not let your hardness or wetness go to waste.

19. S*x takes away the need for p**n and ma********on. Why touch yourself, lust after p**n stars when you have the real deal?

20. S*x helps you build up memories to talk about in your retirement years. One day your p***s and va**na will retire, when they do, you two will look back and remember the s*xy things you did.

When you do it this way, it stops being just s*x, it becomes making love. May your marriage have a healthy s*x-life made by you two.

28/09/2023

I have listened to many ladies who say guys are after their body and after they get it they leave and move at the speed of light ,well I wil not say no and neither will I say yes,for real some guys do that ,infact I was once like that ,but growing up made me to know that relationship is beyond s*x making,there are questions u should ask ursef as a man,

What do u stand to gain by involving urself in multiple s*x partners?

Does it make u become bigger and better ??

What do u stand to gain by constantly toying with other person's emotion?

The truth is,going into a relationship for s*x is just a child's mentality,there are more to love than satisfying ursef s*xually,love is real, please guys with this kind of belief, I want u all to stop,there are lots of demerits to this

Having multiple s*x patner can make u eventually settle down with the woman u never wanted ,reason is if the said lady becomes pregnant and she insist on leaving it ....u don marry be that

2...do u know there are also spiritual consequences to this,incase u don't know,some of these ladies u cannot cheat them and go Scot freely if u tamper with their emotions,u will be dealt,some may even go extra miles to deal with u spiritually,some of them will not do anything for u but God wil fight for them,some have one spirit or the other

3 research made it known that there are many people outta there with different type of diseases that are transmissible s*xually,if u don't stop ,u may end up having a life threatening disease with no cure.
I advised that as a man,go for a lady u know u want,check her attitude if she's good enough proceed to make the love stronger

The truth is that some ladies have bad altitudes ,infact I have met 2 ladies with a very disgusting attitude,I tried to manage the first for sometime and when I realised it getting much I had to leave ,the second one I didn't even stay for a month,these 2 ladies shouts at me ,insult me on a a slight argument...e shock u abi,it happens ,and I'm sure many guys are living with this kind of woman,I just told her u are my aunty,Waka go find ur husband somewhere else.

dear sister, ur beauty cannot make u a good wife ,ur attitude matters,many guys like me take time to study attitudes,no one is perfect,but try and cultivate the right attitude to sustain ur relationship.

Dear guys,u don't have to take a longer time to study a woman,they are not university courses,draw ur conclusion within a short ,if you Kno u are not ready to stay, please make it known to her and do make sure u give her cogent reasons to ur leaving,u dey fok a lady u ursef know say u no fit marry,if she swear for u e go enter

Lastly ,as we guys are studying our babes,babes are also studying us too,lets all cultivate good attitudes,we have guys that have bad attitude too,as a lady if u notice it guy is having a bad attitude that u cannot manage please it's advisable u quit...good morning guys and do have a blessed day

13/09/2023

Please what should be the first thing to be done?
Let's learn together

03/09/2023

She throw her baby in to the stream along Badagry Rd, Lagos. Complaining of, no money, no food and that she is tired of life..

02/09/2023

BEYOND S*X

S*x is not just s*x, s*x is more of soul ties. When you sleep with different guys or ladies, you tie your soul with theirs, their souls may come in different forms of darkness. Some of this souls could possibly destroy you or delay your Blessings.

Sometimes we act so strange, so weird because the body is full of different darkness of souls.
As you go chasing for girls lusting after girls, sleeping with different girls lusting after guys, keep this on your mind, s*x is not just s*x, but a soul ties.

Having s*x with different bodies means your body has different Shadows consist of different souls, you are not you, but different people in you.

No wonder many are suffering from marital delay; sometime in their life they slept with somebody who has an ancestral curse in their lineage. The demon is now in charge of your body. Marry 💍💏 you of in the spirit realm.

Now think of this, your partner is faithful to you, but you go sleeping around and come back sleep with your partner( him/ her), that means you transferring all shadows to your faithful partner. Don't you think you are heartless? , careless or selfish by doing that?

Let's think before we do things. No amount of condom can protect your soul . just pick one partner and make him/ her your King 👑🏰 / Queen 👑💍👸💅✊, have self control and do what is right for you. you won't go early to grave.

I feel like going deeper, but well how true it is?
Only mature people will understand what am saying
God Bless 🙏 you all!

27/08/2023

23/07/2023

You're Not Alone

Ugo, you're not alone,
we have seen vultures eat fish by the seashore and seen fishes grap vultures by their feathers, sometimes it rains when we pray for sun
and it scorches when all we ask for is the rain, but Ugo,
a man must grow through what he goes through
It is not the destination that matters but the journey
because in the end, there's no destination, enjoy the trip,
if you're tired, take a rest, but if the rope calls, say to it,
if there's tomorrow, then there's hope
we have seen scorching sun
that burnt out heads and ruffled our hairs
we have seen rain that peopled our streets and overwhelm our houses
This too shall pass, Ugo
Pause and breathe if you must
but let's try again by sunrise
we will see what happens if we don't give up.

📸📸 Chika Onuu

15/04/2023

TEN Things Every Mother And Upcoming Mother Should Know About.

1⃣If your child is always crying when a particular person Carries him/her keep a close watch on that person cause children sees more .

2⃣If your baby keeps crying and looking at a particular place turn your baby Face away from there..

3⃣Don’t leave your newborn in a dark room .

4⃣If your husband provokes you dont cry while holding your baby, don’t let your tears touch your child..

5⃣Don’t carry a new born baby to the market until they are up to 3 months, cause not everyone you see in the market are human..

6⃣If your baby is crying in the midnight and you have done everything still they didn’t stop, change that baby sleeping position..

7⃣If an elderly person is sick don’t take your child there or if someone just died and the co**se is around don’t take your newborn baby there..

8⃣Let there be no much fighting in the house the moment a new baby arrives cause most children hates a troublesome home..

9⃣After child dedication or any child party make sure you present all the gift to a spiritual person (pastor, priest, etc) before you give that child any of the gift to use..

1⃣0⃣Once in a while get any money note and turn it over your child head if you notice that the child has great destiny so that no one will tamper with your child destiny use the money to buy a nice gift for the child …

And may all expectant mothers deliver safely without complications.
And May your home be sweet as honey .

06/02/2023

SECRET OF A WOMAN.
(A MUST READ FOR ALL MEN)

At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his wife and his father called him aside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our shouts or threats can frighten. But not to your wife.

The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued, but women are not changed with fear.

A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is evaluating the man's weakness and how to subdue him rather.

Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they are suffering consequences

Those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children's sympathy, the men are at the receiving end.

Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wife'. Do you need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.

The 'lion' in men does not scare women o

30/01/2023

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22/01/2023

My eyes have seen!
My ears have heard!
My mouth will talk about the awesome works of Ata-Awaji!

They gave up on him, deciding means to bring down his body for burial BUT the Resurrection and the Life breathe on him again and suddenly he was revived. Strength sets in and he loosed the ropes that held him captive to the pole and wires and came down by HIMSELF. This can only be God 😭

-Awaji

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19/01/2023

I woke up with a with a heavy heart seeing my life go on n on without achieving anything in life I will be turning 30 soon but the still is no improvement I looked for a job I applied everywhere but still nothing i feel dirty by sleep with man hoping they love me just fooling myself I feel like killing myself sometimes.

16/01/2023

Hello please post for me

I was in a relationship with baby daddy since 2019

2020 July I had miscarriage with twins they his nd this broke him into pieces

2021 we tried again nd God heard our cry I gave birth to a baby girl but we were both not fine I had to spend 3 weeks in ICU when I get out of hospital I had to go to his home to show his mom the baby

It was so nice until I heard one of his sister saying they must be wise nd check weather the baby belongs to their brother one other morning she showed up she asked to see the baby nd I handed the baby to her,she started un******ng the baby she turned up her legs up opening her b***s nd p***y like I got hurt

I called him nd tell nd he said it's their culture.last year 2022 I found a job nd I needed a caregiver to her nd her dad decided to talk to one of his sister nd she agreed I was giving her R600 weekly for her my baby to be covered with everything

She stopped my baby diapers,mind you she can't talk properly 1year 6months baby all she could do with my money is boozing

December come I found mybaby having big tummy thin legs not nourished like I was hurt nd I just start bathing her myself cz wow

I was told she likes tea with no bread she even likes umqombothi😭😭😭😭

Now the nanny of mychild is posting my number on Facebook groups saying I want a person to settle with she even sent me texts insulting me big insults

Will I be wrong if I report this to police? I feel being harassed😭😭😭😭

14/01/2023

I am a married man with 2 children. In 2018, my wife and i were so broke. Despite our financial troubles, she was from a financially stable family. She is the last born and only daughters in the family of 10. I have always wanted to make money in a legit way but i lacked enough capital to start.
One evening in my wife came home with 550k and gave it to me so that i could start the business i had always wanted. I asked where she got the money and she told me her Auntie in outside the country had sent it to her after she told her what we were going through.
Few months later i found out from her friend that she had actually stolen the money from her biological mother'; a sucessful businesswoman. Her mother had given it to her to take it to the bank but she lied to her that she had bumped into thugs who snached the money on her way to the bank. Her mother understood her and thanked God the thugs didn't hurt her only daughter
That hit me so hard because i didn't want to start my business with stolen money. It was however too late because i had already invested the money and the business was booming. In just 8 months i had fully paid back 550k to my wife who went and gave it back to her mother. But i didn't ever mention to her that i knew how exactly she got the money.
It's been over 10 months now but i totally lost trust and love for this woman because if she managed to steal money from her own mother, then what about me. Am soon starting to build my first house but i can't even trust her with my property because she is a thief.
Yes, the money she stole from her mother helped me to start a business that became successful but i didn’t know that it was stolen otherwise i would not accept it. I now have millions in my bank account because of the stolen capital she gave me. Honestly, i want her out of my life before she will steal my money too. How do i end this relationship without hurting her. I want this to end in a good way.

06/01/2023

HORRORS OF BREAKING A WOMAN'S VIRGINITY.

Men, this submission is for all of you! just be patient with me as you read because MYSTERIES abound. What are the HORRORS of breaking a woman's virginity?

1. VIRGINITY IS PURE: Most men don't understand that the purity of virginity is an innocent voice that cries unto God. When you disvirgins a woman, don't just leave her like that. There is need for you to let her know you truly understands. Breaking a woman's virginity is like entering a sacred place that can demand for your blood if care is not taken. Many atimes, when a man disvirgins a woman, its either you prosper or you go down to zero level in life.

2. VIRGINITY COMES WITH A PRICE: As a man, before you settle down with a woman, please ask her if she is a virgin ! Do you know why? if she is ,you really have to be careful not to touch her at the wrong time because there's a price tag on her head in the realm of the spirit ! Paradventure you later disvirgins her, ask her to pray for you right there. Honestly, she has to say a word of prayer because the spirits were watching as of the time you people were mating. If the spirits are happy for you, check it, in due time you will start receiving favour from God and men. But, if they are angry and tears of losing her virginity is flowing down her checks,you are automatically in a big mess.

3. VIRGINITY IS A CONVENANT: A woman's virginity is a bond between her and her maker. Have you ever wondered why in past history when warrios want to go to BATTLES, the instructions will be,get maidens who are still virgins so that they will sing for the warriors. Believe it or not,if these virgins sing,those warriors will definitely come back home victorious! Therefore, as a man, and you know you are the one that disvirgins your wife, before you want to go out, make sure she renews her convenant with her maker so that you will return vicariously back home. YOU NEED HER PRAYERS IN ORDER TO SUCCEED.

4. VIRGINITY CANNOT BE ABANDONED: What do I mean by this, what this mean in essence is that, if you're a man and you have already disvirgined a woman, please don't try to abandon her without settling her in a good way because if you try to push her away when you think you have had your full, hmm! just wait for the reparcaution. Most at times, if you later marry another woman, you will see that there will be quakes in different areas of your life. Many men have lost their wives in the process without knowing where the problems is coming from. Many have lost their first issues without knowing the source of their problems. Many have lost businesses and a whole lot of other things in life because they disvirgined a woman in the past as we as abandoned her to wallow in shame and regret.

When I paused to ponder over all these, I begin to wonder, is this the reason why some men don't like to be the first to touch a woman? Once, they know that a woman they are trying to woo is a virgin, they will indirectly run away because they don't want to face the horrors of disvirgining an innocent woman.

VIRGINITY MUST BE CELEBRATED: Finally my beloved, if you ever have the opportunity to have a woman who is still a virgin, once the deed is done, I advice you, celebrate her. This may sound funny, but its real! Celebrate that virginity by killing something that has blood because it should be blood for blood. You can boldly buy a chicken and slaughter it yourself. (Don't ask the sellers to slain it at the market rather bring it home as a token of surprise to your wife) or If you have enough money, celebrate that virgin woman by killing a goat for her. DON'T LOOK AT ME LIKE THAT cos I know what I'm saying! The reason is that it is not easy for a woman to maintain her virginity till marriage. Imagine what she must have passed through until she met you and agree to marry you! You can still go her parents with some gifts to appreciate them for having a wonderful daughter who has kept to a promise. Believe me,as a man if you do these, you will surely see automatic breakthrough in all areas of your life!

To all women who are still virgins from birth, I celebrate all of you today because it is not easy especially in a WORLD like this! To those women who have lost theirs in the hands of men who don't worth it, I still celebrate you for remaining so strong. And, to all the men who have cherished and respected their partners for being virgins before they got married receive your breakthroughs because you deserve the blessings. For those of you who are still passing through many waters of troubles without knowing the cause of it, please if that woman you have disvirgined is still around where you can reach her, kindly go and make peace with her and her maker so that favour and prosperity will begin to follow you. REMEMBER LIFE STILL A MYSTERY.

06/01/2023

STOP DATING CHILDREN!

A girl of 15, 16 and even 17 years old is still very much a child.

That she has big b***s and a a robust shape does not change the fact that she's a child.

She acts, talks and walks maturely does not rule out the fact that she's a child and should be allowed to grow to a certain stage.

Whether she's the one that made her intentions known to you is not the matter now...she's still a child.

"She winks at me when she passes by..." is that one talk?

Being in the university is still not a green flag for you to start dating someone's CHILD.

These girls are still at a very delicate stage of their lives.
They have so much emotions springing up that many times they can't control.

If you can't help them grow or maybe support them one way or the other, just leave them and walk away.

You shouldn't go into one yeye relationship with a small girl and telling her about marriage and having two boys and two girls. And she sef is saying "We would name them Tracy and Chelsea." 🤧

You're stirring up waters that she's too lame to dive into.

You're already planning forever with someone who is yet to discover herself.

Allow them grow.

If you're such a good guy, buy them sanitary pads, I heard that stuff is costly likeeeee...
Get them that.

You can book them down in your head. Hopefully when they grow you shoot your shot.

If she tells you she loves you and can't do without you, make her know that there's time for everything. Help her tame her emotions or lead her to someone who can.

Stop dating children.

I don't like the nonsense I am seeing these days. I don't even want to talk about those that have an affair with them.
I rest my case🚶🏿‍♂️
I don't care if my words are harsh, the truth must be told.

06/01/2023

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Madam kindly post mine please. I want to know if this happens in other people's marriages? My marriage is 9 years old and in this nine years I have only visited my family just once. My mother did her 60th birthday when my twins were 8 months old and my husband said I won't go, that the children are still too young. I didn't argue and what we sent to my mum was 20k back then for cake . My elder sister did her traditional marriage when I took in for my third child and the pregn*ancy was 5 months then, my husband said I can't go because of the pregn*ancy. My mother said I should listen to him. Now my younger sister who is our last born is getting married on January 28th and my husband is saying I won't attend, no reasons. My dad is late. I spoke to my mother and she said I should not bother, that my sister will understand, but my sister is so angry because she was there for me during my time. I am gradually losing touch with my family. My husband hardly ask after my mother. Is this how Anambra men behave? I am from imo state. I am 36years and my husband is 42years

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