Relationship and Family Fixit

21/07/2024

Happy Sunday!
Read and Study your Bible Today
It's an Instructional Manual.

20/07/2024

What do see?
Let's talk about.

19/07/2024

The fact that you are a perfect fit doesn't mean you're in the right place.

Read again...

18/07/2024

In order words, Virtuous women have characters that are valued...

16/07/2024

Doctor: what's your problem, sir?
Husband: Tired of work & routine pressure.
Doctor: What is your job, sir?
Husband: An accountant in a bank.
Doctor: What is your wife's job?
Husband: Don't work just as a housewife.
Doctor: Who wakes you up and your children and makes breakfast for you and them in the morning?
Husband: My wife because she's not working.
Doctor: When does your wife wake up and when do you wake up in the morning?
Husband: My wife is at 5 in the morning and I am at 7 because she is getting the kids ready for school and making us breakfast.
Doctor: Who drives your kids to school?
Husband: My wife, she's not working.
Doctor: What does your wife do after dropping the children to school? And what do you do?
Husband: Returns and prepares lunch, washes clothes and tidy up the house
And she waits for the return of her children, she is jobless and does not work. !! And I go to work till 3 pm.
Doctor: In the evening when you come back from work, what do you do sir? And what does your wife do ??
Husband: Take a rest after lunch after a hard day's work.
My wife: recalls with the children their daily chores and then wakes me up to have tea together.
Doctor: What do you do next and what does your wife do in the evening ??
Husband: I browse newspapers, watch TV, and world news.
My wife makes dinner for me and the kids then she does the dishes cleans the house and gets the kids ready for bed.
Right now, Who needs a psychiatrist
You or her sir?

And who needs relief from work pressure you or her sir!!!?

Is the wife's daily routine from early morning till late night called 'not working'!!!?
And without a job!!!?
Then you complain about work pressure!!!?

Greetings and appreciation to all Mothers in the world.

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13/07/2024

Are there still godly Relationships? Yes!
Is your relationship still glorifying God or tainting the gospel?

Strive to uphold that which you learnt as infants under God

12/07/2024

# for Thought # #

What's the Storm in the teacup in your relationship and marriage?

Examine yourself today and retrace your steps.

That little misunderstanding, poor communication, and unnecessary anger may not be worth loosing your relationship/marriage for.

Instead of brewing this Storm;
1. Talk about it
2. Present your different opinions
3. Trash it together in love
4. Free and forgive each other

Calm the Storm!

11/07/2024

Plus man/woman, minus God in a relationship is a potential disaster waiting to happen.

God wants to be involved in all tha concerns you.

Don't leave Him behind!

10/07/2024

Apologizing sincerely when necessary

Forgiveness and acceptance also play a crucial role in building trust.

Everyone makes mistakes, since nobody is above it but learning to forgive with letting go of grudges, and moving forward together will foster trust and resilience in your relationship.

You need to learn to accept your partner's flaws, imperfections, and differences with love and understanding. Create room for improvement bearing in mind that your partner is learning.

Start building your trust foundations today on authenticity and unconditional love.

Expect our series on BIBLICAL LOVE💕 that never fails.

Moving forward, Emotional Resilience is another vital aspect of trust-building in relationship/marriage.

As you work together to weather challenges, navigate life's ups and downs, and support each other through difficult times strengthen the bond and deepen trust.

Respecting boundaries, showing empathy, and always being emotionally available will eventually create a safe and nurturing environment where trust can flourish.

In summary, building trust in marriage requires a harmonious blend of logic and emotions.

By prioritizing trust and investing in your relationship's growth, you and your partner can effectively create a resilient and enduring relationship built on mutual respect, love, and understanding.

🥂 To your success story

Expect our series on BIBLICAL LOVE💕 that never fails.

09/07/2024

The question is, who can find? Meaning they are available. You just need to search them out

08/07/2024

Trust in Marriage/Relationship is not built overnight,

it requires essential components such as;

**Consistent effort and commitment from both partners**

***Flexibility in behavior**

**Honoring commitments**

**Being reliable**

**Acknowledging mistake**

**Taking responsibility**

**Apologizing sincerely when necessary**

The faithful combination of these virtues will demonstrate your integrity and willingness to prioritize your relationship's well-being.

To be continued…

07/07/2024

Rejoice with your wife of your youth

06/07/2024

Most Ladies Love Lies, and Hate Truth...Continued

Sister, don't wear the body of a woman with the attributes of a man.

Marriage and relationship is beautiful, when both gender understand each other's differences.

Another point is that men are those types of beings that always want a woman who is less dramatic. Sisterly, men don't like drama queens.

So, if you're this type of woman who always want to prove a point, I'm afraid; because you're going to find it very difficult to live with any man and this is the reason you often ask yourself what does she have that I don't have?

Simple, he found peace of mind in that person. She understands him. Meaning she's clearly less dramatic.

She's not a drama queen 👑.

She respects and accepts him for who he is.

She's not nagging and complaining all the time like you.

Therefore, if you're too dramatic, I implore, you to change your ways today because you're going to find it very difficult to live with any man.

“I will not take nonsense from any man”, will never take you anywhere, such mentality will not help you build a happy home.

Finally every married couple is taking nonsense one way or the other.

If you're a no nonsense person, marriage is not for you.

I pray for you reading this, may you not destroy your marriage or relationship in Jesus name.

05/07/2024

Most Ladies Love Lies, and Hate Truth.

There are exceptions to this but sincerely, don't take this for granted.

Every marital delay and broken home is not village people induced.

Infact, the devil is not even aware of some.

Stop blaming Satan and face reality.

Marriages are failing apart this days.

We need to start telling ourselves the truth.

When a man leaves you, it doesn't necessarily mean that the woman he left you for is more prettier than you. It doesn't mean that this person is more classier than you. It doesn't mean that this person is more intelligent than you.
My sister, Men love their peace of mind and they love comfort zone dearly.

Men don't like having another man at home.

To be continued...

02/07/2024

Premarital S*x. Single but married

Premarital s*x, defined as s*xual activity between individuals who are not married to each other, remains a contentious and debated topic in many societies. While views on premarital s*x vary widely across cultures and individuals, it's important to know that it's considered as sin in the eyes of God.

As much as we are standing on a CHRISTIAN point of view, it may interest you to know that most religions abhore premarital s*x. It's implications span across both the spirit, soul, and body.

Even Paul the apostle wrote to the church saying, “these things ought not to be heard among you”.

You should know that s*x in itself is a biological activity that binds both parties emotionally and genetically. Little wonder married couples tend to think alike and look alike after some months and years into their marriage.

As a single man or woman dating, cohabiting with your partner is not a sign of LOVE or care in a relationship.
Sleeping with each other won't prevent the other party from leaving you in the future for another partner. So be wise!

Although premarital s*x is gradually becoming a welcomed norm in our generation, it still doesn't make it justifiable. S*x is best enjoyed on the bed of marriage!

23/05/2024

A Godly Woman is a Blessing From God

If you're blessed to find one don't take her for granted.

She is an embodiment of!👇

Multiplication and Addition

Financial Favour

A True Friend that is always there for you.

A woman is everything good.

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtained favour from God.

Don't be afraid of getting married.

Marriage is a beautiful institution exterblished by God himself.

Have a blessed day.

16/05/2024

Even in that difficult relationship, I want you to know that you have a friend in Jesus who knows all things

13/05/2024

06/05/2024

Make out time to visit your parents.

They are part of God's system of blessing for your life.

04/05/2024

Know this:
You are worth more than Gold

03/05/2024

Assurance
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02/05/2024

CONTENTION OF LOVE

Make hay while sun shines, dear one. Life waits for no man and it is not fair either.

Let us talk...

The relationship goals you set for the year, how far... Four months is gone already, you gerrit...

You need to act fast or you will carry it over to next year again.

We agreed to do better this year, right... We sang no gree for anybody. Why are you still giving those family issues a second thought?

Oya, quickly deal them!

Get on your knees and fight it, contend!

Carry your Bible and discover what God is saying about them.

Pick up that book and read and gather the right knowledge needed to thrive in your relationship.

Up, up, work on that character weakness!

Don't let it survive May. If this is what you achieved in May you would be glad.

I am rooting for you, your relationship must work! Your marriage must be a bliss, but you have got to contend.

What will be will not be, contend for it; fight!

Cheers to your winning. 🎉

01/05/2024

May is here... 🥳

What do you know about the month of May?

It is the fifth month of the year. ✨

Which powerful word do you know that has five letters? 🤔

👉 JESUS 💪 let's see...

J: JOY
E: EXCEL
S: SUCCESS
U: UNITY
S: SOUND MIND

I pray for you, this month you will experience an all round JOY, you will EXCEL beyond human imagination. Nation's will gape at the level of your SUCCESS, the UNITY in your home will be palpable and you will enjoy SOUND MIND.

Rejoice!





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06/04/2024

03/04/2024

FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER FOR MARRIAGE

Marriage is a lifetime journey, that is why it's not something you should trivialize. Many people find it difficult to retrace their steps once they're admitted into this sacred institution, so they simply look for a way out through divorce.

Sadly, divorce is on the rise and many are speedily warming up to it. However, is it really the way out?

Interestingly, finding the right partner for marriage may be a preventive remedy to unnecessary regrets in marriage. As they the saying goes, 'a stitch in time saves nine'

So to be able to successfully find the right partner for marriage, you may need to venture into a profound journey that will highlight self-awareness, compatibility, and shared values.

Here are key considerations to guide you:

Self-Reflection: Understand your own desires, values, and life goals. What qualities do you seek in a partner? What are your deal-breakers? Knowing yourself well will help you recognize compatibility.

Shared Values: Look for alignment in core values such as honesty, trust, communication, and commitment. Shared beliefs about family, religion, and lifestyle contribute to a strong foundation.

Emotional Intelligence: Seek someone who understands emotions, communicates openly, and empathizes. Emotional compatibility fosters a healthy relationship.

Communication: Effective communication is vital. A partner who actively listens, expresses feelings, and resolves conflicts constructively is essential.

Friendship: A solid friendship forms the basis of a lasting relationship. Can you laugh together, share interests, and enjoy each other’s company?

Respect and Support: Mutual respect and encouragement are crucial. A partner who celebrates your successes and stands by you during challenges is invaluable.

Growth Together: Consider whether your partner encourages personal growth. A healthy relationship evolves as both individuals learn, adapt, and grows together.

Remember, there’s no perfect formula. Trust your instincts, be patient, and allow love to unfold naturally. 🌟💕

01/04/2024

How Can You Avoid Money-related Arguments in Relationships?

Money related arguments is one of the primary causes of so many breakups in relationships both dating and marriage. You can't pretend it's not important and downplay its role as a security system.

Even the Holy scriptures called money a defense; Eccl.7.12 - For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it.
Therefore, making the need to tackle money related arguments in relationships a top priority.

Here are some of the tried and tested remedies you can adopt to mitigate money related arguments in your relationship;

1. Transparent Communication:
Be Financially transparent.
Discuss every little and big finance plan openly.
Share your financial goals, debts, and spending habits. Understand each other’s perspectives and fears related to money.

2. Create a Budget Together: Once the financial plans are set, you will need to develop a joint budget that aligns with your shared goals.
Allocate funds for essentials, savings, and discretionary spending. Then, regularly review and adjust your budget depending on the occasion but don't over indulge. Let financial discipline be your watchword.

3. Emergency Fund:
Build an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses by intentionally keeping aside some money. I like to call it miscellaneous.
Having a safety net reduces anxiety and prevents financial strain especially in the rainy days.

4. Equal Responsibility:
You can decide to shoulder the burden equally with your partner. This is only put in place after careful deliberations and agreement between both parties.
Avoid placing the burden solely on one person.

5. Stay Away From Borrowing/Debt:
By all means avoid borrowing, especially from online apps. But if you are already in debt, you can work together to pay them off strategically.

6. Seek Professional Help:
Consult a financial advisor or counselor if needed. They can provide objective advice and help you create a solid financial plan.

7. Stay Supportive:
Don't forget that financial stress affects emotions. Be patient, empathetic, and supportive during tough times. Two good heads are better than one.

Remember, marriage is a partnership not one man's business. Facing financial pressure together strengthens your bond and helps you to build resilience.