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Christie & Beth A dynamic sister duo fighting negativity, harsh judgment and self-doubt in the streets of Social Media.
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We share our real-life experiences – the good, bad, and the ugly – with the belief that it will inspire our friends to live a happier, more fulfilled life of purpose. Through all of life’s challenges, we want to remind our people to be the victor and not the victim, to choose happiness, and to create the life they were meant to live. We’re always working on new ways to connect with our fellow drea

m-chasers, and we can’t wait to share our upcoming book with everyone! To check out our podcast, Life Authentic with Christie and Beth, click the link below. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-authentic-with-christie-and-beth/id1613067466

📣 In case you missed it! 📣Hey everyone! Last week on "Life Authentic with Christie and Beth," we had the pleasure of wel...
23/04/2024

📣 In case you missed it! 📣

Hey everyone! Last week on "Life Authentic with Christie and Beth," we had the pleasure of welcoming the incredibly kind, genuine, and authentic soul, Jenni Rom! 🌈✨

Jenni opened up about the challenges she’s faced and how they’ve shaped her journey towards authenticity. In a powerful and heartfelt discussion, she explored the stories we tell ourselves and their profound impact on our lives. The episode, filled with a few tears and lots of inspiration, not only enlightened us but also encouraged us all to embrace and live our truths. If you're seeking encouragement to pursue your passions and discover how your own narratives can lead to personal growth, this is a must-listen!

Catch this amazing episode now on your favorite podcast platform or click the link below to listen. Join us in reflecting on how to transform challenges into stepping stones for authenticity. 👇🏻

https://rss.com/podcasts/lifeauthenticwithchristieandbeth/1443021/

Let us know how Jenni’s words inspired you! Drop a comment below or share this with someone who needs a little inspiration in their day! 💬💕

🔔 New Podcast Alert! 🔔 Join us for this fun-filled episode where we take an entertaining dive into personal development!...
10/11/2023

🔔 New Podcast Alert! 🔔

Join us for this fun-filled episode where we take an entertaining dive into personal development! We're asking each other 11 unique questions that explore our personal growth journeys in a light-hearted way. From imagining superpowers that could boost our self-improvement, to sharing our craziest personal development practices and the most unexpected sources of inspiration. We'll also time-travel for wisdom, set amusing self-growth challenges, and reveal our personal development guilty pleasures. It's an episode packed with fun, laughter, and possibly a few weird moments. 🤪

Listen wherever you get your podcasts. 🎙️🎧

Join us in this fun-filled episode where we take an entertaining dive into personal development! We're asking each other 11 unique questions that explore our personal growth journeys in a light-hearted way. From imagining superpowers that could boost our self-improvement, to sharing our quirkiest pe...

“Life Authentic With Christie and Beth" Podcast Episode Alert! 📢🎙️From Darkness to Light: Kevin's Inspiring Journey 🌅In ...
03/11/2023

“Life Authentic With Christie and Beth" Podcast Episode Alert! 📢🎙️

From Darkness to Light: Kevin's Inspiring Journey 🌅

In the journey through light and darkness, Kevin Moses shines as a beacon of resilience. From conquering life's toughest moments to emerging stronger, he's shown that even in the most challenging hours, a path to the light is always present. 💡

Join us in celebrating his remarkable journey and drawing inspiration from his unwavering determination. 🏋🏿

Listen to this unforgettable episode using the link below or on your preferred podcast platform. 🎉

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

Don't miss this week's episode on 'Life Authentic With Christie and Beth' - it's a must-listen! 🎙️ 📆 We're excited to in...
30/10/2023

Don't miss this week's episode on 'Life Authentic With Christie and Beth' - it's a must-listen! 🎙️ 📆

We're excited to introduce our special guest, Kevin Moses, who shares his incredible journey, navigating the unexpected diagnosis of uveitis, a rare and debilitating eye condition.

Kevin takes us on his emotional rollercoaster, from the initial shock and depression of his diagnosis to his unwavering determination to overcome the odds. He sheds light on the darkest moments of his life and how he found hope amidst the despair.

This inspirational conversation delves into the struggles Kevin has faced since that pivotal day, highlighting the resilience, strength, and positivity that have guided him through the toughest times. His story is a testament to the human spirit's ability to overcome adversity and emerge stronger, proving that even in the darkest moments, there is a path to the light.

Tune in for this heartwarming episode that celebrates Kevin's remarkable journey, offering hope and inspiration to all who face unexpected challenges. ♥️

This episode will air this Friday, 11/3/24. Listen wherever you get your podcasts. 🎧🎙️

New Podcast Episode! 📣🎙️ Join us for an inspiring journey into reclaiming your energy! ✨ In this episode, we dive into t...
27/10/2023

New Podcast Episode! 📣🎙️

Join us for an inspiring journey into reclaiming your energy! ✨

In this episode, we dive into the art of spotting those sneaky energy zappers, realigning your goals with what truly makes your heart happy, and embracing mindfulness in everyday life. 🧘🏻‍♀️

We'll reveal practical time management strategies to enhance your productivity and offer guidance on making wise choices about where to invest your attention and energy. ⏳⌛️

Don't miss this discussion that's all about making life more purposeful, authentic, and truly yours. 🙌🏻

Tune in now using the link below or on your favorite podcast platform. ⤵️⤵️⤵️

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

New podcast episode now available! 🎙In this episode, we talk about the art of mastering a tiny yet mighty word: 'No.' Tu...
06/10/2023

New podcast episode now available! 🎙

In this episode, we talk about the art of mastering a tiny yet mighty word: 'No.' Tune in as we delve into the power of confidently saying 'No' without feeling guilty. ✌🏼

We'll discuss strategies, and offer practical tips to help you navigate tricky situations with grace and assertiveness. 💛

Don't miss this episode if you're ready to reclaim your time and prioritize your well-being! 🧘🏻‍♀️

You can find our show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, and wherever you get your podcasts. 🎧

In this episode, we talk about the art of mastering a tiny yet mighty word: 'No.' Tune in as we delve into the power of confidently saying 'No' without feeling guilty. We'll discuss strategies, and offer practical tips to help you navigate tricky situations with grace and assertiveness. Don't miss t...

New podcast episode! 📣  In this episode, we explore the essential elements of trust and honesty in relationships. Join u...
29/09/2023

New podcast episode! 📣

In this episode, we explore the essential elements of trust and honesty in relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion and practical advice on how these two pillars can profoundly impact your personal and professional connections. We share real-life stories and valuable tips that will inspire you to cultivate more authentic and meaningful relationships. 💛

The truth will set you free! 🦅✨

You can find our show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, and wherever you get your podcasts.🎙️

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

Did you catch the latest podcast episode on Friday? 🎙️ In this episode, we talk about allowing yourself to live authenti...
24/09/2023

Did you catch the latest podcast episode on Friday? 🎙️

In this episode, we talk about allowing yourself to live authentically through self-awareness and trust, practicing mindfulness, and embracing your flaws and individuality.🧘🏻‍♀️✨

You can find our show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, and wherever you get your podcasts. 🎧

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

The second episode of our four part Mindset Series airs tomorrow morning! 🎙️ 🗓️ In this episode, we talk about how focus...
14/09/2023

The second episode of our four part Mindset Series airs tomorrow morning! 🎙️ 🗓️

In this episode, we talk about how focusing on the positive, good communication, and taking responsibility can change everything in our relationships.

As an entertainment bonus, we also spill all the details about our own relationship struggles with our husbands. 👀 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

You can find our show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, and wherever you get your podcasts. 🎙

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

Due to unforeseen technical difficulties, a new episode of Life Authentic will not be released this week. Not to worry —...
07/09/2023

Due to unforeseen technical difficulties, a new episode of Life Authentic will not be released this week. Not to worry — we have our tech guy on it! 🎧🎙️👶🏼 New podcast episodes will resume next week. Thank you for understanding. ❤️

We’re back for season two! Watch for new episodes to drop every Friday. 🖤🤍
05/09/2023

We’re back for season two! Watch for new episodes to drop every Friday. 🖤🤍

The first episode of Life Authentic with Christie and Beth, Season 2, airs tomorrow morning! 🎉In this episode, we talk a...
31/08/2023

The first episode of Life Authentic with Christie and Beth, Season 2, airs tomorrow morning! 🎉

In this episode, we talk about why mindset and personal growth are so important, and how self-awareness and how we react to daily stressors changes everything. ♥️

Thank you all so much for your kind words, comments, texts and emails. We are so very grateful for all of our supportive listeners. 🤗

You can find our show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon, and wherever you get your podcasts. 🎙

Hey there! We’re Christie and Beth, and we’re sisters. Join us and our amazing guests as we share stories of inspiration, epic failure, personal triumph, and everything in between. We believe our life experiences—good and bad —can make us stronger, happier, more resilient humans. We’ll als...

Wishing you all a very merry Christmas! 🎄❤️🎁
25/12/2022

Wishing you all a very merry Christmas! 🎄❤️🎁

While enjoying our holiday downtime, we like to take a little walk through the past year to inventory our successes and ...
23/12/2022

While enjoying our holiday downtime, we like to take a little walk through the past year to inventory our successes and failures.
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This is one of the things that helps us on our journey of living authentic lives of purpose.

Examining our past, helps us let go of the things that don’t align with our values, and hold tighter to the things that do.
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We’d like to invite you to join us on the journey.
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Every day, every hour, every minute is a new beginning, and another chance to start living your best life.
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The future’s so bright we gotta wear shades.
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Cheers to our 4th annual Christmas Shenanigans Party! 🥂 🎄💃🏻Nothing like being in an environment where you can be 100% yo...
21/12/2022

Cheers to our 4th annual Christmas Shenanigans Party! 🥂 🎄💃🏻

Nothing like being in an environment where you can be 100% yourself, laugh until you cry, cuddle a sweet newborn, play hilarious games, stay up way too late, and feel big love and forever friendship! ✨♥️👩🏻‍🍼💯👩🏼‍🍼 😂 👯‍♀️ ✨

Thank you to Magnolia Designs for our fun shirts and Handcrafted by Shelly for our beautiful charcuterie boards. Don’t forget to support your local small businesses. ❤️

18/12/2022

That time my sweet boy was devastated that we cut his hair. 💚

I can't find the words to express my joy and gratitude. 🥰 (This could be due to sleep deprivation, but because I like to...
16/12/2022

I can't find the words to express my joy and gratitude. 🥰

(This could be due to sleep deprivation, but because I like to focus on the positive, we're gonna go with "because I'm overwhelmed with love." 🤣)

"my cup runneth over." 💜

Here’s an update on my life, 3 weeks postpartum. I got a shower today. 🚿Happy Friday! 🤣
02/12/2022

Here’s an update on my life, 3 weeks postpartum.

I got a shower today. 🚿

Happy Friday! 🤣

My Daxton Nevada,I hope you choose your words wisely but never hesitate to speak your mind. 🙊🗣I hope you have integrity ...
01/12/2022

My Daxton Nevada,

I hope you choose your words wisely but never hesitate to speak your mind. 🙊🗣

I hope you have integrity and realize that simply doing the right thing will take you far in life. 🌎

I hope you use the hard times to become stronger and wiser, not a victim of circumstance. 💪🏻🧑🏻‍🏫

I hope you are wild and run free, chasing fireflies and horizons. ✨🌄

I hope you always keep your faith and stay close to your Creator. You'll never need two things more in your life. 🙏🏻

I hope your career looks less like punching the clock and more like fulfilling your purpose. 🕰❤️‍🔥

I hope you rise early enough to watch the sunrise, sit still long enough to enjoy the sunset, and stay up late enough to marvel at the stars. 🌅🌌

I hope you know the sweet vulnerability of letting a song move you to sing, praise, dance, or cry. Music heals us in a way that is otherworldly. 🎼

I hope you drink up every moment of your youth and appreciate the freedom that comes with being unencumbered by adult things. ✌🏻😌

I hope you’re powerful and wealthy, but never prioritize power and wealth over conscience and morals. 💰❤️

I hope you breathe in nature, bask in sunlight, and linger in the wooded corridors of trees. ☀️🌲

I hope you are a good friend and go the extra mile for others, and that you choose friendships with those who won’t hesitate returning the favor. 🤝🏻

I hope you are grateful. A heart filled with gratitude will never betray you. 💛🧡

I hope you embrace change and never put life’s compass in the hands of fear. 🧭

I hope you remain present and won’t let past mistakes steal your resilience or future shock keep you stagnant. 🛣

I hope you plant gardens and know the joy and hard work of harvesting things you grew from the earth. 🧑🏻‍🌾🪴

I hope you travel. Buy the ticket, take the flight, jump the train, and board the boat. Fill your book with chapters of new landscapes, rather than pages of the same scenery. 🗺📚

I hope you’re a good listener. Listen when others need to be heard, listen to your heart, listen to God’s whisper, listen to the rain, listen to your gut, listen to grandparents' and children’s stories. There’s so much to absorb and grow from if you simply listen. 😌

I hope you never let someone extinguish your fire or break your spirit — it’s in your DNA to be fierce. 🔥🧬

I hope you love with all you’ve got and choose relationships filled with trust, laughter, respect, and adventure. 🫂

I hope you realize you can build any dream you’re passionate about. The power will always be yours. 👷🏻🧱

I hope you experience the magnificent and overflowing love that comes from looking into your child’s eyes for the very first time. 🥹

I hope that when your heart breaks — and it will break — the scars heal to make it bigger, not bitter. 💔❤️

I hope you pray often and maintain your friendship with God. He needs friends just like we do. 🫶🏻

I hope you learn the therapeutic power of a river’s song and an ocean’s symphony. 🌊🎶

I hope you give freely — feed the hungry, help the hopeless, carry the weary, and hold hands with the lost. We are meant to love one another. 💞

I hope you laugh enough each day to fill every room of your home with smiles. 😊🏡

I hope you are levelheaded and responsible, but never let those traits enslave your desire to take risks. 🧗

There’s so much I want for you, but above anything, I want you to be happy. Whatever brings you joy, peace, and true fulfillment, go do that thing. ❣️🙌🏻

Happiest of birthdays, my loving, soulful, opinionated little guy. 🎉

You’re my best. 🥇🏆

Love,

Mommy (aka Momma aka Bruh 😎)

God decided to send our little blessing even sooner than we expected!🐣We'd like to introduce you to Shepard Paul Nelson ...
12/11/2022

God decided to send our little blessing even sooner than we expected!🐣

We'd like to introduce you to Shepard Paul Nelson 🎉

⏱Born November 9, 2022 at 12:59AM
👶🏻5lbs, 15oz and 19" long

He is perfect from head to toe, and we are so very grateful that God chose us to be his family 🙏🏼💙 We are absolutely in love with this little darling. 🥹🥰

Thank you all for the prayers, love, support, meals, calls, and texts. We are so thankful to be surrounded by such wonderful family and friends, and we love you all! ♥️

Can't believe we get to meet this little one next week! 🥰 We feel so blessed, and honestly, still can't quite grasp the ...
04/11/2022

Can't believe we get to meet this little one next week! 🥰 We feel so blessed, and honestly, still can't quite grasp the fact that we're actually having a baby! A BABY!!👀😳🤯🤣

We would be grateful for your prayers! 🙏🏼💙

A very special thank you to Morgan Corbett Photography for our photos! ❤️ She is fantastic, and I highly recommend!

New podcast episode! 🎙In the episode, we talk about simple ways of changing your perspective to improve your life, well-...
03/11/2022

New podcast episode! 🎙

In the episode, we talk about simple ways of changing your perspective to improve your life, well-being and overall happiness. 🥰😁

Listen in Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Google Podcasts, or click the link below. 🎧⬇️

In the episode, we talk about simple ways of changing your perspective to improve your life, well-being and overall happiness. We'd love to hear from you, so head on over to our Facebook group and connect with us: http://facebook.com/groups/lifeauthenticpodcast For updates and to check out our blog,...

Don't miss the latest podcast episode of Life Authentic with Christie & Beth, featuring the awesome Angie Hall Hamby !🎙W...
01/11/2022

Don't miss the latest podcast episode of Life Authentic with Christie & Beth, featuring the awesome Angie Hall Hamby !🎙

We sit down with Angie to talk about finding peace and healing from the past, having the tough conversations, and how to navigate life, marriage, and family. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦♥️

Listen in Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Google Podcasts, or click the link below. 👇🏼🎧

https://rss.com/podcasts/lifeauthenticwithchristieandbeth/672441/

Something happened yesterday that left me in a puddle of tears. 😭Happy, joyful tears. 🥰I was having a stressful morning....
19/10/2022

Something happened yesterday that left me in a puddle of tears. 😭

Happy, joyful tears. 🥰

I was having a stressful morning. One of those mornings where you’re just at a total loss, and the only thing you know to do is pray. 🙏🏼

I was praying for several people and situations, and then I began to pray for myself.🙇🏻‍♀️

I prayed that God would lead me, and allow me to be a light and helper to the people around me that I love so dearly. 💛

I prayed that He would help me, help them. 🛐

I went on about my morning, doing all the things on my to do list. Then around lunchtime, I decided to break and take some Amazon returns to the UPS store. (I may or may not have a tiny Amazon addiction.) 👀

Anyway, after dropping my returns, I pulled up my Chick-fil-A app to place an order for lunch, then headed over to pick up my food in the drive-thru. 🥙

Now, if you’re a regular at CFA, you know that if you hit those prime breakfast, lunch, or dinner hours, you’re going to have a long line. Thankfully, because of CFA’s standard of customer satisfaction, their lines usually move incredibly fast. And no, this is not an ad for CFA, but I do like their food, and even more so, admire their founder and his model of business ethics. 💙📉

I digress. 🤔

The line was long, and at this particular restaurant there are three ways to enter from the highway, so you have traffic coming in from every direction. I was entering from the turning lane of one direction, and there were cars coming from the opposite direction, trying to work their way into the line. The only way for them to do this was for people coming in from my direction to let them in. 🚙

Now keep in mind, these people have to turn across the lane of on-coming traffic as they enter and hope someone lets them in. 🚦

Unfortunately, nobody in front of me was letting these people in, so when it got to me, I let someone merge in front of me, hoping the next person behind me would follow my lead. When they didn’t, I decided to let one more person get in front of me. It was a young girl and I could tell she was really nervous about trying to merge in. 😬

Well, when I let this young girl merge in front of me, the person behind me (that didn’t let her in) got so mad they started beating on their steering wheel, and actually left the line. 😳

Oh well. No chicken sandwich for them. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I didn’t think anything else of it, and then as we approached the drive-thru window, one of the CFA workers came back to my window and handed me a note and said “the girl in front of you wanted me to give this to you.” I smiled, took the note and thanked her. ☺️

When I opened the note it read: “thank you for letting me get in front of you! I was actually hit in June by a semi so I was freaking out. I can’t write much in the drive through but please text me because you just saved my day!” 📝

Y’all, first of all, this made me tear up because it touched my heart that she even took the time to write a note to thank me, but even more that me letting her in line actually meant so much to her. 😌

I immediately shot her a text while I was in line, told her my name, and told her how sweet it was that she took the time to write me a thank you note. ✏️

She texts me back and says “You have no idea how much you just helped me out by such a little thing! I would love to meet if you have a moment!” 😊

At this point, I had already gotten my food and left the restaurant, but felt so compelled to pull over and meet this young lady. I texted her back and we decided to pull into a nearby parking lot to meet each other. 🤝

She gets out of the car and starts telling me how she hopes I don’t think she’s weird or following me, but she just really wanted to meet me in person and tell me how thankful she was. She tells me that her parents had divorced, her dad had recently passed away, and she’d just moved here with her mom from South Carolina. She then tells me that the day she moved, she was hit in the side by a semi truck, then proceeds to show me a picture of how smashed up her car was after the accident. 😳

Then she tells me how she was so nervous turning in front of all that traffic to try and merge in to CFA, and when I let her pull in front of me, it just meant the world to her. 💚

She was so sweet and sincere, and it was all I could do to keep it together. 🥺

We talked for a few more minutes about how little acts of kindness can mean so much to people, and how we wanted to stay in touch because we believed we met for a reason. 😍

We then went our separate ways, but I received these texts a few minutes later: 📲

“i’m literally crying right now because that meant so much. it’s been a very hard and crappy past year and that small act of kindness brought me so much hope that God still cares.” 🙏🏼

Y’all, that’s when I lost it. 🥺

Big. Ugly. Happy. Crying. 😭

It’s like I could hear God whispering in my ear “I heard your prayer this morning, and I’ll not only help you help the people in your circle that you love, I’ll help you help complete strangers if you let me…” 💜

Talk about a faith booster. I still feel that peaceful assurance deep in my soul as I write this story to share with you. 😇

Oh, and guess what? I’m having lunch with my new friend next week! I don’t know what will become of the relationship, but I do know that God used the tiniest act of kindness to not only strengthen my own faith in a huge way, but also that of a complete stranger. 🥰

It just doesn’t get any better than that! 🎉

May we always find peace in knowing that God hears our prayers, and will use us in the most amazing ways if we only let Him. ✨

Your friend,
Christie 🖤

Happy Monday, friends! 🤗Don't forget to join in on our Fall Into Kindness Challenge for the month of October, for a chan...
17/10/2022

Happy Monday, friends! 🤗

Don't forget to join in on our Fall Into Kindness Challenge for the month of October, for a chance to win one of these sweet Life Authentic caps! 🍂🧡🍁🧢

To learn more about the challenge, to check out our accompanying encouragement notes, or for acts of kindness ideas, click the link below. 👇🏼⤵️

Please share this post, and help us spread happiness, love and kindness to the world around us! 🥰

Love y'all, 💖
Christie & Beth

https://www.christieandbeth.com/fallintokindnesschallenge

Don't miss tomorrow's podcast! 🎙🎧In the episode, Mr. George Harris joins us to share his incredible story of hope, perse...
13/10/2022

Don't miss tomorrow's podcast! 🎙🎧

In the episode, Mr. George Harris joins us to share his incredible story of hope, perseverance, and faith, and how he went from a healthy, athletic man, to a quadriplegic told he may never walk again. He shares his very personal story of struggle, wanting to give up, but ultimately, overcoming the odds to regain movement and “walk for God.” ❤️🙏🏼✨

New podcast episode! 🎙In this episode, we talk about happiness, facing your stressors, and ways to live your very best l...
06/10/2022

New podcast episode! 🎙

In this episode, we talk about happiness, facing your stressors, and ways to live your very best life. 🤗🥰

Listen in Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Google Podcasts, or click the link below. 🎧

In this episode, we talk about happiness, facing your stressors, and ways to live your very best life.We'd love to hear from you, so head on over to our Facebook group and connect with us: http://facebook.com/groups/lifeauthenticpodcast For updates and to check out our blog, go to: www.christieandbe...

Recently, I watched a video of a woman talking about how her therapist had just taught her the difference between being ...
05/10/2022

Recently, I watched a video of a woman talking about how her therapist had just taught her the difference between being nice and being kind. 📊💡

In the video, she was crying tears of astonishment because her entire life she’d assumed the definitions of these two things were interchangeable. 🔃

Well, let me tell ya, I could’ve benefited a few years back from a session or two with this lady’s therapist. 🛋 🤓

I could completely relate. 🙇🏻‍♀️

This resonated with me because I didn’t distinguish between nice and kind until much later in life. 🗓

Like, pushing 40 kind of later. 🤫👵🏻

For a long time, I believed pleasing others meant I was kind and not pleasing others meant I was unkind. 😇 😈

I was even told this by certain people when I didn’t meet their specific expectations. 👀

It wasn’t until I became frustrated with feeling I needed to please everyone all the time in order to be a good human, that I looked up the actual dictionary definitions of both words. 📖

✅ Nice 🟰 pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory.

✅ Kind 🟰 having or showing a friendly, generous, and considerate nature.

What? 🤯

I couldn’t believe how different the two meanings were. ☯️

Pleasant 🆚 Friendly

Agreeable 🆚 Generous

Satisfactory 🆚 Considerate

The definition of kind seemed so honest, caring and introspective. Nice just seemed a bit people pleasing and inauthentic. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hmmm…🤔

Have you ever had someone be “nice” to your face then say awful things behind your back? 🔙🗣

I don’t think a kind person would do that. 🚫

Have you ever heard someone say “nice” words to convince you of something, only to see their actions prove otherwise? 🥸

I don’t think a kind person would do that. 🚫

I believe a kind person would be genuine, direct, and truthful. A kind person would be less worried about putting up a facade, and more concerned with being authentic. 💯

By definition, I believe it’s a lot easier to fake niceness than it is to fake kindness. 👎🏻

I’m not a fan of faking it. 🙅🏻‍♀️

Don’t get me wrong, I think we should all be nice to each other when it’s sincere. Often though, nice is used to hide the truth or disguise insincerity. 🫥🎭

That’s simply not nice at all. 😢

So, now that I’m a bit more educated on the subject, I like to always ask myself the question “Am I doing this just to be nice, or am I doing it to truly be kind?” ❓🙏🏻

The reminders below help me answer that question pretty quickly. 👇🏻

💙Kindness is honest even when someone may not like what it has to say.

💛Kindness is benevolent and gives with no strings attached.

🤍Kindness is genuine and doesn’t fake it.

❤️Kindness loves unconditionally, without expectation.

💜Kindness is direct and openly expresses truth.

🧡 Kindness is caring and deeply concerned with the well-being of others.

💚Kindness is all about action and not just words.

🤎Kindness says “no” without being mean or feeling guilty.

🤍Kindness is empathetic and shows real compassion.

🧡Kindness doesn’t care who’s watching.

💙Kindness is strong, brave, and speaks up.

💛Kindness sets healthy boundaries and doesn’t enable bad behavior.

🖤Kindness doesn’t lie or deceive others.

❤️Kindness believes in fairness and equality.

💜Kindness is authentic and can’t be manufactured.

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