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The girlies are lonely so let’s talk about it! NEW EPISODE OUT WEDNESDAY 💕
22/07/2024

The girlies are lonely so let’s talk about it! NEW EPISODE OUT WEDNESDAY 💕

Potentially a controversial one for the most recent episode… YAY OR NAY??
18/07/2024

Potentially a controversial one for the most recent episode… YAY OR NAY??

If you have ever introduced two friends and they ran off into the sunset together this episode is for you… and if you ar...
08/07/2024

If you have ever introduced two friends and they ran off into the sunset together this episode is for you… and if you are one of the ones who ran off into the sunset this episode is also for you! NEW EPISODE OUT WEDNESDAY💜 was lovely to record with

Your safe space is not your friend's safe space! Sometimes people want to hang out with you to catch up or share things....
04/07/2024

Your safe space is not your friend's safe space! Sometimes people want to hang out with you to catch up or share things. So find a balance in inviting people along. More is not always merrier, yay or nay?

Is it safe to keep a jealous friend around?
02/07/2024

Is it safe to keep a jealous friend around?

Is it truly easier to befriend people with the same upbringing? How do we feel about this one, yay or nay?
27/06/2024

Is it truly easier to befriend people with the same upbringing? How do we feel about this one, yay or nay?

If no ones tea is off limits with them, do you think for you it will be any different?
25/06/2024

If no ones tea is off limits with them, do you think for you it will be any different?

How to be a good friend for dummies!! I'm so excited for this episode to drop on Wednesday. If you are a regular listene...
24/06/2024

How to be a good friend for dummies!! I'm so excited for this episode to drop on Wednesday. If you are a regular listener you know I quote my mum a lot on the podcast and now you get to hear her words of wisdom. Comment a yellow heart if you are excited 💛

We all deserve a friend that celebrates with us🫶🏾
21/06/2024

We all deserve a friend that celebrates with us🫶🏾

Might seem obvious but to the people who comment on friendship trauma posts, "this is why I stick to myself" or "this is...
20/06/2024

Might seem obvious but to the people who comment on friendship trauma posts, "this is why I stick to myself" or "this is why I don't have female friends"... everyone needs friends. We were not designed to be an island, community is ingrained in our makeup. Everyone needs friends!

Tag your friend who adds value to your life!!
19/06/2024

Tag your friend who adds value to your life!!

Remember that trend where you all didn't know what your BEST FRIEND did for work... that was weird...
18/06/2024

Remember that trend where you all didn't know what your BEST FRIEND did for work... that was weird...

Reflection time: are you there to pick your friends up? Often we can jump to think of those who weren’t there but have y...
17/06/2024

Reflection time: are you there to pick your friends up? Often we can jump to think of those who weren’t there but have you been there? And if you are unsure then maybe you haven’t been present enough or paying attention? To pick someone up when they fall you need to be close by… so get invested.

Should you have beef with everyone your friend has beef with? I personally don't believe in taking painkillers for someb...
13/06/2024

Should you have beef with everyone your friend has beef with? I personally don't believe in taking painkillers for somebody else's headache! That doesn't mean I will be disloyal or hang out with your enemies but I will not actively fight everyone my friend has issues with... I've had the script flipped on me one too many times. (Will be releasing a guest episode on this soon...)

Male validation ruins female friendships.
12/06/2024

Male validation ruins female friendships.

Hot Take Alert! When it comes to friendship, what is your love language?
11/06/2024

Hot Take Alert! When it comes to friendship, what is your love language?

New Episode out Wednesday! 🧡
10/06/2024

New Episode out Wednesday! 🧡

Don't feel pressure to be friends with everyone or friends with someone just because they are nice. You should be kind a...
06/06/2024

Don't feel pressure to be friends with everyone or friends with someone just because they are nice. You should be kind and show people love!!! But there's no need to force a friendship where there is no synergy.

When I say make new friends people get scared, it can take time to trust people. But don't let fear hold you back from m...
05/06/2024

When I say make new friends people get scared, it can take time to trust people. But don't let fear hold you back from making a friend that could change your life. After all, your current friends were once strangers!

Let's call it what it is, if you barely respond to or make effort to see your friend then you aren't a "low-maintenance ...
04/06/2024

Let's call it what it is, if you barely respond to or make effort to see your friend then you aren't a "low-maintenance friend" you are a low-quality one. Of course, friendship doesn't require you to speak everyday, especially if you live in two different countries, but friendship does require effort!

Before you share with someone what someone else said, think - is this going to stir up conflict? is this going to separa...
03/06/2024

Before you share with someone what someone else said, think - is this going to stir up conflict? is this going to separate close friends? I tend to stay away from the "he said", "she said". If you are concerned by something you've heard either speak directly with parties involved or speak up in the moment. Remember pot stirring ain't cute!

Smile. Take Pictures. Look People in the eye. BE A FRIEND.
31/05/2024

Smile. Take Pictures. Look People in the eye. BE A FRIEND.

THIS A HOT TAKE! How do you feel - should your friends keep their opinions to themselves? Or do we need to bring in some...
30/05/2024

THIS A HOT TAKE! How do you feel - should your friends keep their opinions to themselves? Or do we need to bring in some unsolicited tough love?

29/05/2024

Why I don't tell my Friends Everything...
Some people are pro not telling your friends everything because you never know who you can trust. But I’m not here to deliver that message or tell you to watch your back. Frankly, we’ve all heard enough friendship horror stories of betrayal. For me, this is not an issue of trust but an issue of noise! This topic divides people, and rightly so! Sharing is a huge part of bonding and receiving support in friendships. So, I’m not here to promote secrecy but discernment. Join me as I share the four types of noise: noise that clouds your judgment, noise that kills, unnecessary noise, and noise about you. If you leave this episode with anything, let it be "wherever there is judgment, there is noise - and more of it than you think" (excerpt from Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment).

Demoting friends... is it best friend or nothing? Or can it be from best friends to casual friends?
29/05/2024

Demoting friends... is it best friend or nothing? Or can it be from best friends to casual friends?

New Episode Out Now (link in bio)🩷
29/05/2024

New Episode Out Now (link in bio)🩷

Hot Take Tuesday!!! Does good person = good friend?
28/05/2024

Hot Take Tuesday!!! Does good person = good friend?

Why I don't tell my friends everything... NEW EPISODE OUT WEDNESDAY!!
27/05/2024

Why I don't tell my friends everything... NEW EPISODE OUT WEDNESDAY!!

Some people are firm that you should never mix friends and money. So what do you think: your out for dinner and the bill...
23/05/2024

Some people are firm that you should never mix friends and money. So what do you think: your out for dinner and the bill comes, do you pay your share, go 50/50 or pay the whole bill expecting your friend can cover the next one?

Life can be lonely. To make friends you must show yourself friendly! What does that mean? It means meeting people with l...
22/05/2024

Life can be lonely. To make friends you must show yourself friendly! What does that mean? It means meeting people with love, it can be as simple as a smile, a cheerful hello, being attentive, inviting someone into a conversation, giving a compliment or speaking kindly of others. To find the friend that you seek, show yourself friendly!

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I'm guilty of the more is merrier approach, however sometimes we need to be mindful of our friend's safe space. Your friend may want to share something with you or just be comfortable! What do we think, yay or nay?

We all have a friendship dealbreakers: I personally would end a friendship over jealousy... no exceptions

Does being raised similarily make friendship easier? Drop your vote in the comments nay or yay?

what do you guys think of the gossiper friend? Drop your vote in the comments!!!#messyfriendshiplessons #HotTakeTuesday #femalefriendship #gossipers #friendshipquote

Friendship dates >>>

I'm not going to sit down and laugh with your opps but I'm not going to go out of my way to fight them either...

What is your top love language to receive in friendships? #HotTakeTuesday #podcastcommunity #femalefriendship #lovelanguage #support

Biggest smile #messyfriendshiplessons #podcastonfriendship

Friendship is not by force, it's natural. You don't have to be friends with someone just because they are nice or you have mutual friends or because they want to be your friend! If there's no synergy, show love, but keep it pushing!

Everyone is talking about low-maintenance friends but some of you are low-quality friends... can you depend on someone you rarely speak to or see? #hellojune #HotTakeTuesday #podcasting #FriendshipTalks #messyfriendshiplessons #friendshiptips

This is not an issue of trust but an issue of noise!! Let it grow roots before you share💕 Your friends are well-meaning but noise can kill… #friendshiplessons #discernment #noisecankill #messyfriendshiplessons #friendshiptips

Unsolicited tough love from friends? Yay or Nay #messyfriendshiplessons #podcastcommunity #friendshiptips #communicationtips

Why I don't tell my Friends Everything... Some people are pro not telling your friends everything because you never know who you can trust. But I’m not here to deliver that message or tell you to watch your back. Frankly, we’ve all heard enough friendship horror stories of betrayal. For me, this is not an issue of trust but an issue of noise! This topic divides people, and rightly so! Sharing is a huge part of bonding and receiving support in friendships. So, I’m not here to promote secrecy but discernment. Join me as I share the four types of noise: noise that clouds your judgment, noise that kills, unnecessary noise, and noise about you. If you leave this episode with anything, let it be "wherever there is judgment, there is noise - and more of it than you think" (excerpt from Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment).

Putting friends on a performance plan lolllllllll. On a serious note - should you always end the friendship or sometimes should you just demote them? #friendshiptips #communicationtips #messyfriendshiplessons #podcastcommunity #podcastonfriendship #laughwithfriends #laugh

Can a friend be a good person but not good for you? #HotTakeTuesday #burningquestions #podcasting #communicationtips #messyfriendshiplessons

Rule 3: Your problem with me remains your problem till you bring it to me! ps. my lovelies if your friend never brings it to you leave them be...

The gift of friendship #messyfriendshiplessons #podcastonfriendship #FriendshipTalks

Are you team treat your friends or team always pay your half?

Rule 6: If you find a good friend, hold them close (24 Friendship Rules for 2024)

Is inconsistency a deal-breaker?

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