05/11/2024
Some thoughts on courage—𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 courage:
Some Christians today brand themselves as the truly courageous. They accuse others of being too afraid to say hard things, the sorts of things that would offend. Such people want the world's approval, or so it's alleged.
No doubt seeking the world's approval can be a real temptation that stifles courage, a refusal to say things that might offend. But at the same time, neither is it “courageous” to make well-produced marketing videos saying things that certain Christians want to hear, so as to gain yourself a following, building yourself a platform.
You want to know what's truly courageous? Going against the status quo of your own group. That will actually cost you something.
And ironically, some of the very people of accused of lacking courage are so accused precisely because they had the courage to speak against the status quo of their own. They're accused of lacking courage precisely because they had the courage.
The same folks who critique seeker sensitive evangelicalism for being too "soft," lacking a confrontational edge, turn around an offer their own version of seeker-sensitivity, just for the dissident and cantankerous who resonate with their grievances, complaints, and bluster. Sure, you might be offensive (to the "right sort of people"). But, no, that doesn't make you courageous.
Regarding pastors specifically (and I say this from experience): Believe it or not, I actually think many pastors 𝙖𝙧𝙚 quite willing to preach and speak out on controversial things—just selectively, only on those things they deem "worth it." It's stuff that's controversial to people 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 the church (“the culture”), but not to the majority of people sitting in the pews. It's controversial to the “right sort of people,” but not the people most immediate to them.
It's the conveniently controversial, because speaking out on such things conveys courage—it presents as if one is willing to say the hard things—when in fact such sermons take no courage at all. In fact, they take the 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘵 amount courage. They're the easiest to deliver, because you know it tickles your people’s ears; it’s what they want to hear; it will bring praise and commendation for how "courageous" you are—all for saying exactly what they wanted you to say.
Rather, the truly courageous sermons are the ones that you know your people may not like but need to hear anyways.