15/10/2023
"FAIR PLAY"
"FAIR PLAY".
The movie "Fair Play" on Netflix teaches a few valuable lessons, but it is too passionate for non-adults to watch.
It is the kind of movie you don't want to watch when your dad or mum is in the room. Remember how you want to sink into your chair when they start those passionate scenes with your dad in the room. Yeah, it's that kind of movie.
So don't watch if you are not an adult.
(Now I know even teens would want to watch).
Reverse psychology affects us all, I guess.
Few lessons to learn in "Fair Play" (Spoiler Alert);
* Workplace romance can be quite toxic and difficult to manage. Try not to date your workplace colleague. It usually doesn't end well.
* Two overly ambitious people in a romantic relationship in the same workplace could spell doom. Usually the ambitious man cannot handle a situation where his woman is doing better than him in the same workplace. So avoid it.
* Trust is earned, not given. Trust is not a Noun but a Verb. You don't just say it. You show it.
* A man may say he is not bothered about you picking phonecalls even from your boss at odd hours (midnights), but deep down he is bothered. Every man wants his woman to have boundaries. No man trusts a woman without boundaries. A woman anyone can have access to at anytime. The man will be having unclean ideas in his head.
* Men have ego. They don't want to be "helped" by their woman, but they also don't want to be abandoned by their woman. Find the balance. They don't want to feel they cannot do anything on their own without their woman. A wise woman will massage her man's ego all the time. If you cannot massage it, find a man without ego. Good luck in your search.
* Women are meaner than men when they are done with you. Nothing you say or do matters again when she is fed up. You are nothing to her (she actually made him say "I am nothing" in the movie).
* Passionate lovers (especially men) are extremely jealous and sometimes insecure men. If a man loves you passionately, beyond control, it is not always a good sign. He would most likely be obsessive about you, and that is not good in many ways.
* Passion is not love. But love needs a little passion.
Have a great week ahead.