12/09/2025
USA is home after Kuwait and India. And while I absolutely love many things about life here—freedom, diversity, opportunities, and the ability to build community—I’m also mindful of the parts of American culture (now carried forward through parent peer pressure) I don’t want to pass on to my Desi kids.
I don’t just tell my kids these lessons—I weave them into my writing. Through storytelling and visualization in my books, kids see joy in their cultural identities.
🪴Here are a few:
Over-individualism – I, me and my... everyone puts themselves and their needs first. I want my kids to know their choices matter, but also that they’re part of something bigger.
Fast food obsession – Convenience is great, but I want them to connect to the joy of fresh, homemade meals (and yes, that includes daal-chawal and parathas!).
Consumerism = happiness – It’s easy to think more toys or gadgets equal joy. I want them to find fulfillment beyond things. They were possibly the only kids without fidget spinners. They made their own eventually.
Over-scheduling kids – I believe kids need downtime, imagination, and family connection too. We have often taken the lunch or day off to just hang out.
Saying I love you for everyone - Love and hate are deep emotions.
Calling elders by name - That's something I can never get behind. ji or Mr or Sir/Ma'am is wonderful.
Over-dependence on technology – Screens often replace outdoor play or deep conversations. They have no screen time during school and limited during weekends.
Spoon feeding - In schools, they get so much leeway and hand holding. It's important for them to problem solve and know that sometimes learning is beyond fun, and is hard work. Not everything worth doing is going to be fun!
Ignoring cultural roots – There is a balance and they need to understand their citizenship and their heritage, with pride.
Our daily choices shape our collective future, and balance in KEY 🗝️ 🔐
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