Papi's Tribulations

10/06/2024

Don't give in to malice and anger

If you knew how much vitality these destructive emotions take away from us. Moreover, they are quite capable of causing a deterioration in health and even leading to various diseases. Take care of yourself, don’t give in to anger, don’t get angry. For your own sake. This will help you maintain vital energy, stay healthy, cheerful, full of strength and desire to achieve your goals.

19/05/2024

The main thing is to believe

If you believe, then everything will definitely be fine - even much better than you think. Everything will work out in your favor. Never give up and don't be discouraged. If it’s difficult now, just remember why you started all this. Give yourself time. Everything will definitely be fine.

05/05/2024

Avoid sharing personal experiences, feelings and opinions with people who lack compassion, who can't put themselves in other people's shoes and who can't grasp the concept of different perspectives.

09/08/2023

If we have nothing good to say, then the least we can do is to remain silent. When you remain silent and protect your tongue from saying harsh and hurtful words, you will save yourself from many grudges and regrets. Always remember, think before you speak. Be wise!
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We learn skills through failure and practice, not through sitting and reading.
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"Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today."

29/07/2023

29/07/2023

Stop expecting others to solve your life for you:
Change only happens when YOU CHANGE!
If you are going to be successful, the important thing is not to expect anything from anyone that you are not willing to do for yourself.
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Plan Tomorrow, Today:
"The moment you start planning your day, you’re taking control of time!"
Every night write down your plans for the next day.
Create a schedule for yourself and try to be specific.
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Figure out Where you’re Wasting Money:
If you want to win with money, you’ve got to change your actions with money.
The way you do that is by tracking your expenses.
If you aren’t watching where your money is going, you’ll always wonder where it went.

10/03/2023

How to Care Less about What Other People Think

1. Know what matters to you, personally – what you stand for, and what your values are .

2. Don’t be anxious about breaking social norms. The more often you do this, the less it bothers you.

3. Decide not to live as a people pleaser, or to get upset and take rejection personally.

4. Hang out with people who are self confident, who know what they believe in, and what they want from life. You’ll find that their self-confidence will rub off on you, too.

5. Try to work on becoming more competent in the skills and areas that matter to you. That will naturally enhance your self confidence, and develop a self image that is strong and positive.

6. Travel, and spend time with different kinds of people. That will show you how diverse attitudes and outlooks are. There’s no one way of being – so find, and be, yourself.

15/02/2023

Whatever you are, always remember to speak with your God Creator.
Remember that.

25/12/2022

Wueh,

12/12/2022

It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is merely living death.

09/12/2022

By a whisker..

09/12/2022

Party ain't a party till.....

28/06/2022

Asalamu Aleykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu.

*HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY IT SEEMS LIKE SOME WOMEN CONTROL THEIR HUSBANDS?*

When you see a happy home, it always seem like the woman is in control because you see her handle almost every aspect of the family. In fact, she becomes her husband’s manager. Unfortunately, a greater part of the society will mistake such happy home thinking the woman is using some kind of charm on the man. But what can really cause your husband to want to give you his all and place you above all? Read along let’s find out!

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband.

2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband.

3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances.

4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting.

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend.

6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mode.

7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives gifts unexpected from her husband.

8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him.

9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly.

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time.

11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids.

12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments.

13. When a woman is vulnerable, she is loved by her husband.

14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves.

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband.

16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty.

17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies on her completely.

28/06/2022

As a husband you have to learn to balance between firmness and softness. Too much of either isn't good. But more importantly you have to learn to acquire the intelligence to see through emotional blackmails and not let it get to you.

If you have a justifiable reason to say NO keep it that way. Not even a bucket full of tears or screams of how wicked, uncaring and difficult you are should change it. But it has to be balanced. Sometimes you just choose to look the other way and let them have their way.

Indeed the woman is like a bent rib.
If you insist on straightening her at all cost you will break her.
And if you leave her without attempting to straighten her she will remain bent.

So, sometimes you go firm, and sometimes you go soft. If you s**t in your pants whenever you see your wife crying you are just a puppet in that house. Women are masters of the emotional game. The secret to beating it is being indifferent to their drama. Just pretend like you aren't aware anything is happening (sometimes).

28/06/2022

The most mandatory thing in marriage is marrying a person who understands you well. We all have different desires, likes and dislikes. The only person who can understand that everyone is different is the one who fears Allah in private. This kind of person will do justice to you for sure.

01/04/2022

There is poverty in rich countries not because they need more aggregate production but because productive capacity is organized around servicing the interests of capital accumulation.

17/01/2022

A Slave master harming, or disciplining "a man...

Has anything changed in this century?

15/08/2021

Keep it Real