Compassina Online Counseling

08/12/2025

Let's talk about the point on the slide...

A particular lady was telling me in one of my counseling line that his guy accepts her the way she is & never complains nor tells her anything about changing or doing better. This is a lady who smokes, drinks, party-freak, cares less about anything morals, etc. I told her point-blank that the guy likely doesn't see any future in her or together between them. That he's likely just keeping her around for the meantime to satisfy all 'satisfiable' until he's ready for something serious. Well, he later left her after like 6 months.

When people say they're looking for a man that will accept them 'the way they are' in terms of character and lifestyle, etc, when they're clearly 'off'... I usually wish I could just beg them to just start working on themselves & be better.

If a man truly sees a future in or with you, he will clearly be interested in your character & (capacity) development... He will advise you tire 😁, especially if you're someone who hasn't figured herself out yet at that point.

08/12/2025

Been preaching this for ages now, to save our brothers from burning their fingers.

Reposting this because this lady summarized it.

A woman that likes you wont make things difficult for you.

You will clearly see, sense, and feel the positivity and reception. You will see the energy...it doesn't hide.

But if she's not interested, you will also see it in her actions. She'll likely show you 🌶️.

Make we dey get sense. 🙏

Once she's showing you all that attitude & using two days or one day to respond to you when she's clearly online & telling you she's busy, or using just one word to respond to a message that require real response, just start withdrawing your energy early. Carry it & go & invest it where it is appreciated. In fact, go & be using on your mother& sister(s), for the meantime.😁

Everybody you'd see out there has time for whom they value, no matter how 'busy'. People hardly miss your message if you are important to them.

Another truth is, you can hardly impress who no send you

06/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: SATURDAY DECEMBER 6TH 2025

TOPIC: LET THE WORD DWELL IN YOU

MEMORISE:
"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord." - (Colossians 3:16)

BIBLE READING: JOHN 15:4-7 (KJV)

4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.

5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.

7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

MESSAGE:
The Bible says in John 1:1, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” The Scripture went further to say, in verse 14 of the same chapter, “And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.” When you dwell so much on the word of God that it leaves the pages of the Bible and begins to dwell in you and become so real to you like your own flesh, you will begin to see the glory of God. (2 Corinthians 3:18) says:

But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.

The more of God’s glory you see, the more you are transformed into His image from glory to glory. Hence, if you want to radiate God’s glory, you must study your Bible daily and meditate on it day and night. The word of God is powerful, and if you allow it to dwell in your heart, you will experience tremendous transformation in every aspect of your life.

The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe. (Proverbs 18:10)

The Scripture above tells us that God’s name is so powerful and that it is a fortress that preserves those who run into it. However, as powerful as His name is, Psalm 138:2 says, “I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name.” God’s word is even more powerful than His name. This is why you must not joke with the word of God. Joshua 1:8 says that you should meditate on it day and night so that your ways can be prosperous and you can have good success. Good success implies that there is also bad success. Beloved, only those who allow God’s word to dwell in their hearts and rule their lives can enjoy good success. I pray that you will indeed immerse yourself in the word of God and allow it to dwell richly in your heart so you can enjoy good success in every area of your life, in Jesus’ name.

KEY POINT:
When you allow God's word to dwell in you, you will enjoy good success.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: GALATIANS 1-3

HYMNAL: 3 ANCIENT WORDS

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05/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: FRIDAY DECEMBER 5TH 2025

TOPIC: YOUR FATHER OWNS IT ALL

MEMORISE:
"The silver is mine, and the gold is mine, saith the LORD of hosts." - (Haggai 2:8)

BIBLE READING: PSALM 24:1-2 (KJV)

1 The earth is the LORD'S, and the fulness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein.

2 For he hath founded it upon the seas, and established it upon the floods.

MESSAGE:

Today’s Bible reading tells us that the earth is the Lord’s and its fullness thereof. Today’s memory verse also says that silver and gold belong to Him. Psalm 50:10 tells us that the cattle upon a thousand hills all belong to Him. With God as your Father, you should not be bothered about any financial problems. I am confident that you will overcome any financial challenge you may be facing right now because your Father will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

It is worthy of note that Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Job, and other patriarchs in the Bible were all very wealthy. They walked with God, and He blessed them greatly. Since those who walk with the wise become wise (Proverbs 13:20), when you walk with the Almighty, All-sufficient God, He will always meet your needs. Beloved, make up your mind today to walk with God wholeheartedly.

In Luke 15:16-19, the prodigal son had a very wealthy father, yet he considered eating pig food, and no one gave him anything. This is how some Christians today are begging people for things that they can easily get from the Almighty God, their Father. Note that when the prodigal son departed from his father’s house initially, everything seemed to be going well. However, things soon took a turn for the worse, and he realised that he had made a mistake. Thankfully, he decided to retrace his steps, and the moment he did so and returned to the loving embrace of his father, he started to live in affluence again. Beloved, if you have backslidden from God and are already experiencing lack and sorrow, retrace your steps to Him today. Do not admire the things that ungodly people are doing to get wealthy; instead, return to the One who owns all of creation and who gives the power to get true wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18).

Beloved, make up your mind to stick with God fully for the rest of your life so that you can start enjoying the benefits that come with being a child of God. Only God can give riches with no sorrow added to it, as we see in Proverbs 10:22:

The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.

I pray that you will walk with God wholeheartedly and not indulge in sin so that you can be truly blessed, in Jesus’ name.

KEY POINT:
Your Heavenly Father is the source of true wealth.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 2 CORINTHIANS 10-13

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04/12/2025

*OPEN HEAVEN DAILY DEVOTIONAL*

*DATE: THURSDAY DECEMBER 4TH 2025*

*TOPIC: DELIVERING GOD'S MESSAGES*

*MEMORISE:*

*"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers."* *Ephesians 4:29*

*BIBLE READING: 2 SAMUEL 12:1-14*

*1 And the LORD sent Nathan unto David. And he came unto him, and said unto him, There were two men in one city; the one rich, and the other poor.*

*2 The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds:*

*3 But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.*

*4 And there came a traveller unto the rich man, and he spared to take of his own flock and of his own herd, to dress for the wayfaring man that was come unto him; but took the poor man’s lamb, and dressed it for the man that was come to him.*

*5 And David’s anger was greatly kindled against the man; and he said to Nathan, As the LORD liveth, the man that hath done this thing shall surely die:*

*6 And he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity.*

*7 And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;*

*8 And I gave thee thy master’s house, and thy master’s wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things.*

*9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? Thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon.*

*10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.*

*11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun.*

*12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.*

*13 And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the LORD. And Nathan said unto David, The LORD also hath put away thy sin; thou shalt not die.*

*14 Howbeit, because by this deed thou hast given great occasion to the enemies of the LORD to blaspheme, the child also that is born unto thee shall surely die.*

*MESSAGE:*

*When you get sufficiently close to God and begin to intercede for other people, God will tell you things about therm.*

*Sometimes, you will not need to tell the people you are praying for the things God tells you about them; you can just give them instructions to guide them into God’s will.*

*However, if God leads you to share some things with them, then you must apply wisdom, especially when the messages are negative.*

*You must take a cue from the way Nathan delivered God’s message to David, as we read in today’s Bible reading. If Nathan had just told David, “Thus saith the Lord, because you have taken another man’s wife and killed the man, evil will befall you,” he could have lost his head that day. However, due to the way he presented the message, David got on his knees in repentance.*

*The purpose of prophecy is for edification, exhortation, and comfort (1 Corinthians 14:3), not to condemn or show everyone that you can hear from God. If your prophecy does not edify, exhort, or comfort the one you are prophesying to, you are likely delivering the message wrongly.*

*Even when Elijah was direct in passing judgment on Ahab because God specifically told him what to say (1 Kings 21:17-29), Ahab repented because the purpose of the prophecy was not to condemn him, but to bring him to repentance, as God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 33:11).*

*Note that there will be times when, even though you deliver God’s message in the right manner, the people who receive the message might still not do the will of God. You can’t force people to do God’s will; your major responsibility is to deliver God’s message.*

*It is up to the recipients of the message to either believe God’s prophet and prosper or not (2 Chronicles 20:20). Sometimes, God might even allow the hearts of the recipients to be hardened as He did with Pharaoh (Exodus 9:12) so that in future, others will take His word more seriously.*

*Beloved, Ephesians 4:15 tells us to speak the truth in love.*

*This means that if God wants you to give others a message, you must allow His love to guide whatever you say.*

*It is best to ask God to fill your heart with wisdom and love before you speak so that your words will not do more harm than good.*

*KEY POINT:*

*At all times, especially when delivering God’s message, let your words always be gracious and edifying.*

*BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 2 CORINTHIANS 5-9*

*AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A ADEBOYE*

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03/12/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Ovwata Ikperite, Olisaemeka Anthony, Hydro Hyd

03/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 3RD 2025

TOPIC: KEEP IT TO YOURSELF

MEMORISE:

"A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;" - (Ecclesiastes 3:7)

BIBLE READING: PROVERBS 3:32, AMOS 3:7 (KJV)
Proverbs 3:32 (KJV) For the froward is abomination to the LORD: but his secret is with the righteous.

PROVERBS 3:32 (KJV)

For the froward is abomination to the LORD: but his secret is with the righteous.

AMOS 3:7 (KJV)

Surely the Lord GOD will do nothing, but he revealeth his secret unto his servants the prophets.

MESSAGE:

Greatness comes with many responsibilities, including being able to keep secrets.

This is because, at a certain level of greatness, there are things leaders must keep as highly confidential so as to protect themselves, their followers, and the greater good of what they represent.

There are some kinds of information that are available to such people that can be misused if they become common knowledge, and as such, they must be kept secret.

God also has secrets, and if you are close to Him and truly reverence Him, He will begin to tell you some of them.

However, if you go around telling everyone the things He tells you without His permission to do so, do not be surprised when you stop hearing more secrets from Him.

When God tells you something and instructs you not to tell anyone, keep your mouth shut, and He will trust you with even more secrets. I pray that you will get so close to God that He will begin to share some of His secrets with you, in Jesus' name.

The birth and nurturing of Jesus Christ required a certain level of secrecy, and if Mary had been talkative, she would have exposed Him to danger early in His life.

As a believer, it is not everything that God tells you that you should tell other people. There are certain things God tells you that are for your ears only.

Psalm 25:14 says:
The secret of the LORD is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.

One major reason God keeps secrets is because He does not want the devil to know what He is about to do.

The devil can only guess what God wants to do by studying what He is doing, but most of the time, he guesses wrong and ends up helping God to achieve His purpose. This is why (1 Corinthians 2:8) says:

Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known it, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.

If God tells you what He is about to do, and you go around announcing it to everyone, you just might be giving the devil information that he should not have. Hence, when God tells you something, always ask Him if they are for your ears only or if He wants you to tell others.

If He says that they are for your ears only and you must not tell other people, please keep it to yourself.

REFLECTION:

Can God trust you with His secrets?

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 2 CORINTHIANS 1-4

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02/12/2025

News on sosha media says that this girl was dating two married men, which one is a .
The second one ( ) got carried away with anger, traced her to a pharmacy shop ( ) where she was with the DPO man, smashed her head on the wall and she died instantly. (: He also tried attacking the DPO.

Me 👇

Hmmmm...

May her soul rest in peace.

To the ladies and men:
Stay away from whether it is double-dating or multiple dating or unfaithfulness of any kind. People have different ways of responding to betrayal. You'd be safer if you are focused.

To the men... If woman leaves you & is choosing another man, please let her go in peace. Don't even make further efforts. I told us in one of my recent posts that anytime a lady is obviously walking away, most things you'd be doing to trying to prove a point or win her back will likely bring you more losses. It may not be easy, especially if you have invested stuffs on her, but you just have to learn and let her just go to avoid complications.

02/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: TUESDAY DECEMBER 2ND 2025

TOPIC: TRUE DELIVERANCE

MEMORISE:
"Return to thine own house, and shew how great things God hath done unto thee. And he went his way, and published throughout the whole city how great things Jesus had done unto him." - (Luke 8:39)

BIBLE READING: LUKE 8:1-3 (KJV)

1 And it came to pass afterward, that he went throughout every city and village, preaching and shewing the glad tidings of the kingdom of God: and the twelve were with him,

2 And certain women, which had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities, Mary called Magdalene, out of whom went seven devils,

3 And Joanna the wife of Chuza Herod's steward, and Susanna, and many others, which ministered unto him of their substance.

MESSAGE:
Jesus Christ cast demons out of people during His earthly ministry, and He also charged all Christians to do the same thing:

Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give. - (Matthew 10:8)

Deliverance, however, is beyond casting out demons. True deliverance happens when a demon is unable to return and repossess a fellow that has been delivered from it. Jesus said in Matthew 12:43-45 that when an evil spirit comes out of a fellow, it wanders around looking for a place to stay. If it doesn’t find a place to stay, it will go back to check if its former home is still empty. If it discovers that the place is empty, it will invite other demons that are more wicked than it, and they will reside in the fellow’s life. The end of such a fellow will then become worse than when he or she was possessed by only one demon. As a child of God, the moment you cast out a demon from someone, see to it that the fellow is filled with the Holy Spirit. If the demon returns and finds that the Holy Spirit already occupies the fellow, it can’t repossess him or her.

After Jesus cast seven demons out of Mary Magdalene, she became one of His followers and followed Him until the end of His earthly ministry. The moment the Lord set her free, she became a divine treasure and committed to serving God with all that she had. Her commitment made her one of the first people to see Jesus after he was resurrected (John 20:13-18). In Luke 8:26-39, after Jesus cast the legion of demons out of the madman of Gadara, He told him to go about preaching the gospel. It is not enough for a demon to be cast out of a fellow; the real deliverance is when he or she is filled with the Holy Spirit such that the demon cannot return to repossess the fellow.

Beloved, true deliverance is when your heart is filled with the Holy Spirit because you pray and feed on the word of God daily, fast regularly, and live a holy life. True deliverance is when a delivered fellow does not return to his or her old lifestyle but rather remains filled by the Holy Spirit such that there cannot be a repossession by demons.

KEY POINT:
True deliverance happens when a fellow allows the Holy Spirit to fill up every space that the devil had previously occupied.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 1 CORINTHIANS 14-16

AUTHOR PASTOR E A ADEBOYE

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01/12/2025

OPEN HEAVEN DAILY DEVOTIONAL

HAPPY NEW MONTH STAY BLESSED AND STAY CONNECT

DATE: MONDAY DECEMBER 1ST 2025

TOOIC: SOURCES OF PROPHECY III

MEMORISE:
"So shall my word be that goeth forth out of My mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it." Isaiah 55:11

BIBLE READING:1 SAMUEL 3:19-21

19 And Samuel grew, and the LORD was with him, and did let none of his words fall to the ground.

20 And all Israel from Dan even to Beersheba knew that Samuel was established to be a prophet of the LORD.

21 And the LORD appeared again in Shiloh: for the LORD revealed himself to Samuel in Shiloh by the word of the LORD.

MESSAGE:
Today, I will conclude the teaching I started two days ago by examining prophecies that come from the Holy Spirit.

Years ago, God told me to wear seven agbadas to one of our programmes, even though He knows I do not like putting on any kind of agbada at all, not to mention wearing seven at a time. Even for those who like to wear agbadas, wearing two at a time, not to talk of seven, will be considered absurd. The instruction was strange, but because I know His voice, I obeyed. Then, He asked me to dance for a while and lay them on the altar afterwards. I obeyed again, and He said, “Let anyone who has a problem touch one of the agbadas. However, they should not hold them.” I relayed the message to the congregation, and many people came forward to touch the agbadas. We finished the service by 8am, and I retreated into my prayer room. Around 5pm, I heard some knocks on the door. When I opened the door, some church members told me, “A man is about to die.” they explained that the man had held on to one of the agbadas, claiming that his problem required more than one touch, and he had been shaking vigorously since then. The clothes looked ordinary, but because God had given instructions concerning them, they were saturated with power. I had to plead with God before the man stopped shaking.

A while later, I travelled to the United States for one of our conventions, and God instructed me to take one of the agbadas with me. During the service, I told the congregation that they should only touch the agbada and not hold on to it. A white man in the congregation said, what kind of nonsense is that?” However, he went forward to touch the garment. The man was wearing an iron brace on his back, which enabled him to stand upright. Immediately he touched the agbada, the iron brace broke to pieces, and he received his healing.

Beloved, when the Holy Spirit speaks, whatever He says will always come to pass. No matter how foolish some utterances may sound, when God is the source, they will not fall to the ground. To hear from God, however, you must relate intimately with the Holy Spirit so you can distinguish between His voice, the voice of the devil, and the voice of your human spirit.

PRAYER POINT:
Dear Lord, please help me to relate more intimately with You so that l can hear Your voice clearly.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 1 CORINTHIANS 10-13

AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A ADEBOYE

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30/11/2025

To the young man who is still trying to put one or two together, save your energy. Stay away from relationship until you're very sure you are ready for marriage.

You won't experience losses. 😁

Your peace of mind will also be there for you & secured.

A lot of transaction is going on now ...And it's just obvious.

It appears it's about the highest bidders.

If you sense she's choosing a higher bidder or you notice it, let the highest bidder have her in peace. Don't even make further attempts. Most attempts you make, you lose more of your (limited) resources.

Never let yourself be in a competition with other men because you want to prove anything or win anybody.

If she's not coming organically, stand down.

And FYI, provided you are not 'rich', you *may* be dumped any time.

The small money you have now, use it to take good care of yourself & family or do intentional 'charity' from time to time.

If you find one who love you genuinely *at your stage, hold her tight. No do pass yourself to win anybody.

27/11/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL
DATE: THURSDAY NOVEMBER 27TH 2025

TOPIC: YOU CAN'T CHANGE ANYONE

MEMORISE:
“And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.” - (John 16:8)

BIBLE READING: 1 CORINTHIANS 2:1-5 (KJV)

1 But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness.

2 For if I make you sorry, who is he then that maketh me glad, but the same which is made sorry by me?

3 And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.

4 For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears; not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you.

5 But if any have caused grief, he hath not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all.

MESSAGE:
In (1 Corinthians 3:6), Paul said that he planted, Apollos watered, but it is God who gave the increase. It is the Holy Spirit who convicts sinners to repent of their sins and become members of the body of Christ.

Beloved, no matter how eloquent you are, you cannot save a soul. If eloquence is required for people to turn to Jesus, the 3,000 people who got saved in Acts 2 would not have cried out to God in repentance because Peter was an ordinary fisherman, and his words were likely to have been unrefined. However, when the Holy Spirit came upon him, the people who heard him were convicted. When they heard his preaching, they were pricked in their hearts and asked what they should do (Acts 2:37). Paul, who was well-educated, knew that he could not save anyone by his preaching alone and that his eloquence could not soften any man's heart. This is why he said in today's Bible reading that his speech and preaching were not with enticing words of man's wisdom but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power.

Only the Holy Spirit can soften people's hearts. He alone can bring light to the darkness in a sinner's soul. (2 Corinthians 4:4) says that the god of this world has blinded the minds of unbelievers. Satan does not want people to be saved, so he blinds their eyes and keeps them from accepting Jesus. This is why you need the Holy Spirit when you go out to evangelise; He alone can destroy the lies of the devil in the minds of men. Without Him, your preaching will be mere words. People may clap for you because of your eloquence, but their hearts will not be changed, and they will remain hardened in their sins. However, when you are filled with the Holy Spirit, you won't need to say much before people surrender their hearts to Jesus.

Beloved, you cannot go into a strong man's house without first binding him (Mark 3:27). To bind the devil and stop his activities in the lives of men, you need the power of the Holy Spirit. Before you preach to people, ask the Holy Spirit to work on their hearts. He is your Helper, and He is in you to help you become an effective soul winner. I pray that the Holy Spirit will work mightily through you to bring many lost souls into the kingdom of God, in Jesus' name.

KEY POINT:
You need His power and help to be an effective witness for Jesus Christ.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: ROMANS 11-14

AUTHOR PASTOR E A ADEBOYE

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