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Compassina Online Counseling My name is Chris Ukpai. I'm a certified counselor, CEO of Compassina. Follow this page now to stay connected.

My mission here is simple:

- To save you from making life mistakes you will regret, through wise and Godly counsels.

Smiles... 'The only thing that would make her happy was an Asherkine kind of surprise.'She used what she's seeing on soc...
11/03/2026

Smiles... 'The only thing that would make her happy was an Asherkine kind of surprise.'

She used what she's seeing on social media to mount pressure on an innocent young man in his life, who is living his normal life.

I'm sure at this point, she would have also likely gotten depressed and felt her own relationship is not really working... And probably pushing out small small attitude here and there for the guy... that he's not 'romantic'

Well, Asherkine has been seriously trending this week for the wrong reason: he stages his social media show-ups and surprises just to create an impression. The last one he did got him bursted.

I hope she sees it to understand that the information she's been feeding on from sosha media and using it to measure her own life are not even real. Just make-ups.

I thank God this young man right here no let any body pressure am.

I keep saying it, this content creation and social media era, no use things you see on social media rate yourself. That place ain't real one bit.

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I am Chris. My goal here on Facebook is to help you avoid making costly life mistakes as a young person. Follow this page to keep learning.

Here's also one of the reasons I said we should not let social media confuse us.She (Elena Jessica) lost her life trying...
11/03/2026

Here's also one of the reasons I said we should not let social media confuse us.

She (Elena Jessica) lost her life trying to do her second BBL.

(I genuinely pray she gets mercy from above)

But here's my point... 👇

As a young lady now in your corner thinking about life and wondering what's next, when you decide to randomly check your FYP on TikTok or Facebook or Instagram, you may likely run into her video sampling her body with the 'good shapes' and shinny skin, as if she was made in a different planet than this one we're in.

You watch the video, you see her body and compare to yours and you begin to feel inferior. Some will even start having depression and asking God questions, why didn't he create them like her... Lols. Your own body go just tire you, whereas the one you're using to compare yourself is all cosmetics and fake... Even with filters and other orisirisi (like laser-focusing cameras and backgrounds)

A better way to do life in this generation is to not let sosha media be your standard. Story plenty.

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I am Chris. My goal here on Facebook is to help you avoid making costly life mistakes as a young person. Follow this page to keep learning.

11/03/2026

See Bishop Oyedepo's story...

Several other persons we see out there have their stories.

No let anyone make it look like you are 'suffering too much' at this your age and it's abnormal. And then you're getting depressed over thing and thinking God has forsaken you or blaming in on things.

Life has process.

Just have a purpose you're working on and keep pushing it daily with a lot of intellectual touches here and there ... Remove eye from trying to be like people who have worked for a very long time and already having things together. You might be greedy at this point. 😀 And greed is one of the fastest ways to submit your fingers to be properly burnt.

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I am Chris. My goal here on Facebook is to help you avoid making costly life mistakes as a young person. Follow this page to keep learning.

11/03/2026

Any time I get the opportunity to speak to young people like me, I always hammer this message of process. 👆

In a generation where 'nobody wants to suffer', that expects you to have money or carry yourself like Dangote or Otedola or Tony Elumelu at age 25 to forty something... whereas these men have done business actively for over 30 years and more, whereas you have not even done up to 10,
*I choose process.*

Most 'successful' men and women we see today who captains businesses struggled at some point, worked their business for a very long time struggling and in pain, went through the process, believed the process, figured things out with time, before they go to where they are today.

Dear, it's okay to be at your stage and figuring things out... Don't let social media confuse you.

And the fact that someone doesn't believe in you or some people don't, doesn't mean your pursuits ain't valid.

Life has process (seedtime and harvest), do your seedtime gracefully and happily and get it right.

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I am Chris. My goal here on Facebook is to help you avoid making costly life mistakes as a young person. Follow this page to keep learning.

04/03/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Reuben Omare Flower, Kabore Kabore, Musa Usman, Rchp Gift Aminu, Itz Isaac Bulus, Moses Ovat, Glory Ajala, Samuel Umaru Kwagga, Funmilayo Olwatosin, Onoking Onoking, A Peter A Job, Haruna Yunusa, Usman Hello, Wisdom Okpara, Nwokpoku Chisom, Taiwo Kehinde, Ezekiel Stephen, Abdur Rahman Aliyou, Asas Yau, Augustine Ntajo, Fidelis Monday, Sadiq Abubakar, Umarmumarrwaguni Kasuwancinumadakiyu, Friday Odeh, Lot Johnson, Olamee Bas, Florence Kefas, Muhammad Salisu, Abba Sulaiman, Lion Son James, Anabuike Uche, Latifat Olaniyi, Naseer Sulaiman Gy, Musa Ladan Junior, Aminu Lawan, Adepeju Tijani, Vicent Vicent, Janet Peter, Auwal Muhadu, Kabiru Aminu, Nathaniel Usman, Yahaya Ibrahim, Aniebiet Akpan, Tunde Stailess Balogun, Jo El

03/03/2026

This was a post Kola Onifoto made few days back from his live adventures on the road.

Other subsequent posts he also made after this were talking about how adventurous his sole rider journey has been.

He lost his life in on of these journeys... Learned he hit a car and eye witness mentioned he was on high speed.

As a young person, is there any lesson to learn from this? If yes, share with us in the comment section. Others might be learning from it.

Pastor Enoch Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God is 84 today!!! đŸ”„đŸ”„If you're a lover of...
02/03/2026

Pastor Enoch Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God is 84 today!!! đŸ”„đŸ”„

If you're a lover of good thing and desire that you will also get to 84 one day just like Baba, and you see this post, let's wish him a happy birthday in the comment section.

02/03/2026

May the new week shall bring you plenty goodness!

Type an AMEN if you believe it.

19/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: FRIDAY DECEMBER 19TH 2025

TOPIC: YOU CAN NOT CHEAT GOD

MEMORISE:
"Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." - (Galatians 6:7)

BIBLE READING: PROVERBS 3:5-7 (KJV)

5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.

MESSAGE:
Years ago, a man who was completely stiff was brought to the RCCG headquarters; he couldn’t move his hands or bend down. We asked him if he would give his life to Jesus, and he did. We prayed a simple prayer, and immediately, he was healed. He was able to kneel, raise his hands, clap, and move his body in ways he couldn’t do before. For about two weeks, he was regular at church services, but after that, he stopped coming. We decided to follow him up, so we visited him at home and asked why he had not been coming to church. He responded by asking us if it was the church that healed him. We told him, “Of course not; it was God, but He used the church.” Then He said, “What then is the problem? If you go to a hospital and you get well, won’t you go home? I came to your church, and I got healed. There is no need for me to keep coming back.” We eventually left him alone, and some months later, as I was driving by, I saw him by the roadside in a worse condition than he was before his initial healing. This time, not only was his entire body stiff, his mouth was wide open, and saliva was dripping uncontrollably from it.

One thing about demons is that they don’t rest. When a demon’s host runs to God and gets delivered from the demon, after some time, it will return to see the state of the fellow. If it sees that the fellow, having received his or her miracle, has decided that he or she doesn’t need God again, it will invite seven more demons that are stronger than it to possess the fellow again. Eventually, the fellow who thought that he or she could use God just to get healed will realise that his or her case has become worse (Matthew 12:43-45).

Some men who are living wayward lives join churches because they want to get married to good Christian ladies. However, they often discover, after getting married, that they have been deceived into marrying someone like themselves who is not genuinely born-again, and also came to the church to look for a Christian husband.

Beloved, in my over 50 years of walking with God, I have discovered that people who think that they can use God and turn their backs on Him always regret it. Never be like such people!

KEY POINT:
Those who try to use God deceitfully always end up regretting their actions.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: HEBREWS 9-10

AUTHOR PASTOR E A ADEBOYE

18/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: THURSDAY DECEMBER 18TH 2025

TOPIC: DON'T TAKE GOD FOR GRANTED

MEMORISE:
"I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing." - (John 15:5)

BIBLE READING: MATTHEW 10:28-33 (KJV)

28 And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.

29 Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father.

30 But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.

31 Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows.

32 Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.

33 But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.

MESSAGE:
When I became the General Overseer of RCCG, I decided that everyone who attends our annual conventions would be fed by God during the conventions. I made the decision by faith as I was a pastor and did not have a secular job. I announced that everyone would be fed twice daily during conventions and I showed them (1 Kings 17:4-6) where God fed Elijah twice daily. One of the young men in the church, a baker, volunteered to provide us with bread for breakfast during our conventions, and he did this consistently for some years. One year, however, he decided that he would stop supplying bread because he didn’t like one of the sermons I had preached, but he didn’t inform me of his decision.

During one of the morning sessions that year, we sang and praised God until around 11am as we waited for bread to arrive; however, no bread was supplied. Around noon, I sent for him and asked, “What happened? Did the vehicles bringing the bread break down on the way here?” He said, “No”. Then, I asked him what the problem was, and he replied, “I am not bringing bread anymore.” Immediately, I sent for my wife and asked her, “How much do we have for the evening meal?” We gathered the money together and bought bread for breakfast. Somehow, God helped us to overcome the situation. Years later, I woke up one morning and saw the young baker in front of my house. I asked him, “What can I do for you? You are here very early.” He replied, “I could have come earlier, but I discovered that one of my car’s tyres was flat.” I asked him, “What about the spare tyre?” He said that he had none. This was a man who used to have at least 14 cars.

Beloved, don’t think that you can take God for granted because He is doing some great things through you now. Don’t think that He cannot do without you; in contrast, it is you who cannot do anything without Him and will be nothing without Him, as we see in today’s memory verse. Only foolish people will take the people in power in their country for granted. Therefore, imagine taking the One who is in control of the entire universe (Colossians 1:16-17) for granted. God is way bigger than you, so if you have been taking Him for granted in any way or you have not been honouring Him as you should, repent now.

KEY POINT:
Don't ever take God for granted; you are nothing without Him.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: HEBREWS 5-8

17/12/2025

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 17TH 2025

TOPIC: DON'T BECOME AN EX-CHAMPION

MEMORISE:
"The glory of this latter house shall be greater than of the former, saith the LORD of hosts: and in this place will I give peace, saith the LORD of hosts." - (Haggai 2:9)

BIBLE READING: 1 SAMUEL 13:13-14 (KJV)

13 And Samuel said to Saul, Thou hast done foolishly: thou hast not kept the commandment of the LORD thy God, which he commanded thee: for now would the LORD have established thy kingdom upon Israel for ever.

14 But now thy kingdom shall not continue: the LORD hath sought him a man after his own heart, and the LORD hath commanded him to be captain over his people, because thou hast not kept that which the LORD commanded thee.

MESSAGE:
There are people who used to be wealthy or influential but have little or nothing to show for it today. There is nothing as terrible as being a fellow who used to be wealthy or influential. For example, when those who have never had a car struggle to enter a public bus and someone steps on them, they would see it as something normal. However, people who used to have their own cars might find it difficult to adapt when they find themselves in a similar situation. Also, if they complain about getting stepped on while struggling to enter a public bus, they might feel really insulted when people say, “If you don’t want to be stepped on, why not get your own car?” May you never be a has-been, in Jesus’ name.

There is nothing as terrible as being an ex-champion. Boxers will tell you that the moment you become a champion, other boxers in your category will want to challenge you to a fight. If you want to remain a champion, it means that you need to work harder than you used to before you became a champion. If you relax after becoming successful, saying, “I am the best; everybody already sees how good I am,” you might soon lose your edge and become irrelevant. Instead, you must start working harder on becoming more excellent. The things you need to do to remain at the top are even more rigorous than what you must do to get there.

When God called me to become a pastor, I prayed that I would become so influential for the kingdom, and I can tell you with all confidence that the way I used to pray before I got to the level I am now is nothing compared to how I pray now. As God has continued to take me higher, I have been fasting more, studying my Bible more, preaching more sermons, and working harder generally. This is how I have been able to maintain an upward trajectory.

Beloved, if you want to be the best in your field, you must be ready to put in all the necessary efforts. Most importantly, to remain at the top, you must be ready to put in even more efforts by acquiring more and more knowledge, networking more with other experts in your field, and generally working harder. I pray that you will get to the top and remain there, in Jesus’ name.

KEY POINT:
It takes more effort to remain at the top than to get there.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: HEBREWS 1-4

AUTHOR PASTOR E A ADEBOYE

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