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20/12/2023

This is the kind of relationship you must not enter 2024 with. 👇

Any relationship that is affecting your relationship with God, or pulling you away from God.

Beloved, I encourage you to critically appraise all your relationships before this year ends, identify the ones making you to sin against God or go against his will, feel free to put an end to all of them or give them a good distance.

And when you do that, don't even feel bad about it. You've done the right thing. Your relationship with God should be your priority.

Be ready to give it all it takes to start 2024 on a clean slate with your Maker.

Have a wonderful day, fams.

Chris Ukpai.

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19/12/2023

Good day, friends.

Just watch this video and see how stressful cheating in your relationship can be. It is very, very stressful and full of risk.

I have taken my time to do some deep studies recently and realized that cheating in your relationship is usually more costlier and stressful than staying faithful. Like, it comes with a lot of complications, and pains too! Staying faithful is peace, guys.

Okay, see the level of risk, shame, public disgrace, mockery, etc, this lady and the guy is bringing upon themselves just because of something that can be avoided simply by sticking to your partner. What exactly is it that this guy is looking for with the other lady that his partner doesn't have now? What!

So all these uproar and public nuisance because of just s*x? Ephemeral pleasure of few moments with a "certain lady"? How do people even think self?

Life is not supposed to be so hard, we just harden it up by some of these things we do.

Dear lady, if a married man is coming for you, just tell him NO, point blank. If you accept him, you may be getting into a life-long wahala. Remember his wife, children, or wife's family will definitely come after you one day.

Dear brother, leave other women alone and stay with your partner. Discipline yourself to stick to them. You would have save yourself a ton of stress doing that.

You deserve peace of mind, give it to yourself by avoiding stuffs like this.

Chris Ukpai.

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18/12/2023

Good morning, family.

Hope we all had a wonderful weekend.

This is the quote for today in the slide. Tap it to view it well.

My dear, think about it deeply and make wise decisions this week.

The safest life to live is one that is completely pleasing unto God. It saves you a lot of pains and regrets, and makes your life easy.

Have a wonderful day, people.

Feel free to share this post too to reach more people.

14/12/2023

You guys remember the last time lady killed herself because her relationship failed, I made a long post about it, explaining why we shouldn't see harming ourselves as option when things fail and all of that. I took my time to write that thing ooo, just to help people see these things better and stay on guard.

So today now, on this particular one, I don't even have strength to type anything or write any long post. The truth still remains that you shouldn't kill yourself because of any "Adam" or one "daughter of Eve like that." If she was the one that passed away, this particular "Adam" will effortlessly pick another lady after like one week and move on as if nothing happened. If your relationship with man fail, did your relationship with yourself fail? (: And she's even pretty. A lady that plenty guys will rush self. Do people even place value on themselves at all? (:

Well, if you want to see what I wrote the last time on a similar case, request for the link and I'll send you.

14/12/2023

Good morning, fams.

So we all had a great night

12/12/2023

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11/12/2023

HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM BEING SCAMMED ONLINE.

Happy new week, precious friends.

One thing you guys should always have in mind is that I love you, and will always show you things that will make you better.

Today, I want to quickly remind you that as you wake up daily thinking of how to better your business, improve your financial status, live a better life, etc, scammers (at various levels) also wake up daily thinking of how to fraudulently take all of that from you.

Dear, listen very attentively. Scammers target you daily! They spend most wakeful moments of their lives thinking of how to steal all you got, espencially through social media. Let me shock you a little bit ==> There's a scammer out there right now checking your social media profile and devising the fastest way to hack your account. Sounds crazy, but it's true.

Here are things I do to protect myself from being scammed. 👇👇👇 Feel free to add to the list.

1. Be careful with offers that are too good to be true. In fact, once the reward begins to seem unrealistic, my dear, mount your guard.

2. Be very careful with faceless social media profiles. Most of them are for fraudulent activity. Reduce activities with such profiles, or don't even do anything at all with them, until identity is satisfactorily proven. No person with legit intentions will have an account that is more than a day old and won't have their face and certain PII (personally identifiable information) on it.

3. The profile with images, no matter how many images, if it's a serious business that require money, always insist on extended video call before you even commence discussion. This particular part, if your instinct tells you something is not right, always trust your instinct. In fact, if you've been on a "serious" chat online for a long time now with someone whose identify you've not verified via video call, please stop now!

4. If you get a text from anyone you know, unusually asking you for financial assistance, first assume it's a scammer that probably hacked the account. Don't play! Assume it's a scammer. Then ask for video call or maybe ask them certain security questions. For instance, if I get a financial request from my brother or some friends, I ask them some questions I'm sure only them can ever answer. I could ask my friend question of like: "when we were in school, what happened so so so date?" Just a question only that person can answer. Scammers don't know it. 😂😂

5. Also, you will always get links asking you to take certain actions online, sometimes from people you know, sometimes from random people, avoid clicking random links.

6. These guys know plenty youths, even the elderly too, lack self control when it comes to erotics. What they do is merge such media files with phishing links. Please don't click.

7. If you're signing up to any site which may require you to put sensitive information, please, look for "https://" in the URL. The "s" indicates a secure connection. If the "s" is not there, run!!!

8. Mind who you buy things from online. It's better you buy from businesses or individuals with proven structures. No emotions about this one ooo.

These are just few of the security measure I take online. There are more technical ones I do take. I will share them when I write you again.

Make sure you share this to friends. You might be saving a life doing so.

Have a wonderful day.

Chris Ukpai

10/12/2023

You can actually go through my phones chats and conversations and still be proud of me or still see me as the same. 😁

What I do to achieve that. 👇

1. I handle all chats in such a way that when another person sees it, they don't get disappointed.

2. I see every chat as a possible evidence against or for me tomorrow or in the future. So I always do my chats with possible legal suits or need for debriefing in mind. I respond or handle every chat in such a way that even if you screenshot it and take to the law court or share with others, they will find nothing on me.

3. If it is voice call, I always assume the other person on call with me is recording our conversations. I know you may not be recording it oooo, but I intentionally just assume you're recording it. With that, you can't see me backbiting, snitching, stabbing others in the back, gossiping, misrepresenting people, doing dirty chats or shady talks, etc. I keep all discussion as clean as possible. No one knows no one's intentions. 😁 And if you start going that direction, I always find a way to reduce my response to something just central, or not join in saying similar things.

Well, I'm just sharing. Maybe someone copies one or two strategies from here.

Chris Ukpai

09/12/2023

Just saw this news online right now about this lady that ended her life because of a failed relationship. I felt really bad about it.

If this lady had spoken to a good counselor, this wouldn't have happened.

Listen, friends, for no reason should you harm yourself because of a failed relationship. You can always do without anybody no matter how far you've gone with the person. Life is designed that way. And the earlier we understand that, the better for us. It's just a matter of time and you'd evolve. Do you even remember that you there was a time in your life this person was not even in the picture? Were you not living and doing your things then? Were you not surviving?

My dear, no relationship issue is worth a cut on your skin, let alone ending your precious life.

Ending your life because of a relationship or harming yourself, to me, is the poorest decision to make. It's simply a pointer that you actually had no purpose for living. Or just living for nothing. Or never loved yourself.

When relationship end, for example, you must understand that that's not the end of life. It's just a relationship, and does not define your entire existence. It doesn't! You can still do a whole lot! You can still achieve plenty! You can still live happy and even better.

What you owe yourself at that point is to take good care of yourself (you deserve that, actually), then begin to reprogram your mind to understand that things have changed and you now have a new reality to deal with.

And the truth is, you can deal with that. Just give it time... With time, you'll definitely get over things, and will still live your life.

My advice for every young person is, discover your purpose, first. Be busy pursuing your purpose. Be busy building yourself, contributing to the society, giving back to the society when you can, etc. When you have a purpose for living, you won't think of harming yourself because of just a failed relationship.

Let's me re-emphasize it ==> No failed relationship is worth you hurting yourself. In fact, it is when relationship fail you should take very good care of yourself.

Share to your walls to help others.

Chris Ukpai

07/12/2023

EVERY CHRISTIAN SINGLE READY FOR MARRIAGE HERE SHOULD READ AND TAKE ACTION

So being a trained counselor and has been counseling youths here online and offline too, I have come to realize that lots of genuine young believers are interested in no-s*x before marriage and genuinely want to maintain it. But some unfortunately keep finding themselves in relationship with partners who believe the opposite, insisting on s*x before marriage or even trying to subtly initiate it somewhere during relationship or courtship. And when this happens, this sincere believers feel heartbroken and or disappointed, either forced to give in or move on.

I have gotten that complain alot in my counseling line and have decided to develop a solution. A solution where people who share similar believe connect easily.

I want to create a private group for every marriageable christian single that genuinely believes in no-s*x before marriage. This group is where we easily link up with folks with like minds, connect in a way that pleases the Lord, and encourage each other daily.

It is going to be a community where we uphold s*xual purity and where both genders meet for genuine link-ups, no games.

If you're interested in this, please you can inbox me or drop your contact.

Feel free to share, let's reach out to as many youths who would want to connect with partners who believe in no-s*x before marriage and ready to maintain it.

07/12/2023

If you are a genuinely nice person and consistent in it and people know you as such, please read this.

If you are a nice person and you have some level of influence over people, maybe in your school, workplace, organization, etc, you must understand that many bad and insincere people will always come around, and when they notice your stand and ideologies, they begin to pretend to be nice too, or even be playing along with you, just so you don't see them as a threats or see them as bad and not want to associate with them.

Listen, to protect yourself from such fake people, don't be in a haste to let people into your inner circle. Take your time. Give it time.
Just be nice and approachable generally, but give it time. Give it enough time. Time reveals the true identity of people from time to time.

Just be selective in appearances, talk less and listen more, be careful the information you give out about yourself, stuffs you engage in, who you confide in, etc. Just let people happen by themselves. Stop rushing into friendship, or jumping at everyone smiling at you. Some smiles only ends at the teeth level, and never from the heart.

Feel free to share this on your walls and help your friends.

Chris Ukpai

05/12/2023

Look at the image below, personally, I will choose B. I will choose B, the 450000, because I understand the value of bulk money and how it can help.

Overtime, I've come to realize that when money come in bulk, you can use it to solve something bulk or even invest in bulk,ake more profit and do better. However, when it is coming in fragments, daily needs or wants may be swallowing it.

That's my thought.

So, which one do you prefer?

02/12/2023

So, an insider was explaining to me the other day that many of these celebrities and influencers we see flaunt new houses and cars steady online and on social media, just do it to paint a picture that they are doing better than others, headline the news for a while, stay in the news and be noticed ( what we call "to trend"), etc. He gave me severally examples of celebrities doing that, with evidences.

My dear, don't use what you see on social media daily to rate yourself oooo, or mount pressure on yourself..... Most things that make it to the online space, either on your walls, feeds, etc, are just the things the poster wants you see.

The image below is a good picture of what social media is. On the mirror (the camera), the man looks perfect. But in reality, he's just a mess with components.

Be careful what you believe on social media.

Let me know your thoughts. You can also share on your pages to help other youths.

Chris Ukpai

01/12/2023

LETTER TO EVERY YOUNG PERSON THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON (FROM CHRIS UKPAI)

Dear, Young Person.

I'm glad to announce to you that another Christmas season is here! 💃💃💃

If you have experienced this season before, you will agree with me that this season usually comes with a lot of pressure, espencially on young people. This could be physical, social, financial, emotional, etc.

Dear, before you allow yourself to be under pressure to meet up with certain societally or self-imposed obligations, some of which are not even necessary in the light of reality, I want to inform you that this Christmas season is just like every other month. The only difference is Christmas celebration somewhere around 25th.

Don't pressure yourself. And don't let anyone pressure you. Don't go and start doing what you shouldn't be doing simply because you want to "meet-up" or be seen as "having-arrived". Plan with what you have. Go for what you can afford. Do what you can and leave the ones you can't.

Oh, I almost forgot! Before you finish all your saving on Christmas celebration, remember that there's January. "January has not less than 60 days." If you know, you know. 😁😁

Just take things easy, okay? Do what you can. Stay happy.

Have a wonderful day, friends.

Share on your pages and walls to help a friend.

01/12/2023

Happy new month, family.

The new month will bring you plenty pleasant surprises.

If you believe this, type an AMEN

28/11/2023

WHY YOU SHOULD STOP USING DRUGS AS A SOURCE OF INSPIRATION OR TEMPORAL RELIEF

Dear young person, using drugs or alcohol for inspiration is not a good idea because it can harm your health and future. These substances can mess up your brain and body, making it hard for you to think clearly and make good decisions.

When you're young, your brain is still developing, and using drugs or alcohol can interfere with this process. It might feel like a quick way to have fun or be creative, but it can lead to serious problems later on. Your body is like a car, and using these substances is like putting the wrong fuel in the tank – it might work for a little while, but eventually, it will break down.

Not only can drugs and alcohol mess with your health, but they can also mess up your relationships and opportunities. You might end up doing things you regret or hurting the people you care about. Plus, using these substances can get you into legal trouble, making it harder to achieve your goals.

In the long run, the best inspiration comes from a clear mind and a healthy body. Take care of yourself, find positive outlets for your creativity, and you'll be on a much better path to success and happiness.

Chris Ukpai

27/11/2023

How do you know the devil is the one suggesting something to you?

See the image below.

Any suggestion, advice, thought or feeling that is not socially, physically, morally, or spiritually correct, is likely from the devil.

He never tells you to do the right thing.

Guard your heart and guard your actions.

Good afternoon

27/11/2023

Good day, excellents.

Hope the week is moving fine.

Is there any topic you guys want me to talk about this week?

Drop it in the comment section

25/11/2023

Happy weekend once again, my people.

Hope you all are doing great.

Okay, let's do something today.👇

I want to do open counseling for all friends and followers here, that might be interested.

Ask me any question in the comment section.... I will attend to as many as possible. Be it relationship, academics, career, religion, personal issues and confusions, etc... Just any sphere of life.

You can come inbox if it's something so personal.

Oya, I'm waiting

25/11/2023

THE IDEAL RELATIONSHIP FOR EVERY YOUNG PERSON.

Happy weekend once again, lovelies.

I want to shows us what an ideal relationship for everyone of us here should look like. If your relationship or marriage doesn't check plenty of what's in this list, you may be in for something not-funny.

1. An ideal relationship for every young person is the one that is ready to settle with only you and no one else in the picture, not even an ant.

2.An ideal relationship should not give you sleepless night or take away your peace of mind. Your relationship should be a source joy or peace, at last to a very satisfactory extent.

3. An ideal relationship should not reduce you, keep you on the same spot it met you. It should be moving you forward, at least.

4. An ideal relationship should not be taking from you all the time, depleting you, or putting you in pressure or debt all the time. It should be adding to you at least.

5. An ideal relationship should be bringing out the best version of you in godliness, especially, not ungodliness.

6. An ideal relationship should not be drawing you away from God, rather, it should be drawing you closer to God.

In fact, any relationship that draws you away from God is after your life and not worth the try. It is a relationship you must be very carefully with. Infact, avoiding it or fleeing away from it is the right thing to do. Because it can leave you in a sorry state anytime.

7. I will add more later.

Please share to help others know what an ideal relationship should look like. You can follow this page to stay connected.

Have a wonderful day

Chris Ukpai

24/11/2023

Happy weekend, all

Hope you're doing great. Just checking upon you.

Feel free to ask me a question about ay aspect of life in the comment section.

I will respond to all

22/11/2023

NO MATTER HOW DEPRESSED YOU ARE, ALCOHOLISM OR DRUG IS NOT THE SOLUTION.

Watch this video carefully. That's Hank Anuku, a veteran Nollywood actor, seen in the street in an afternoon drunk and looking re****ed. He was interviewed after this video of him went viral and he said it was depression that drove him into alcoholism.

This is my take 👇🏿

Dear, friend, no matter what you're going through in life, alcoholism or drug is not the solution. They make things worse than they met it. Instead of resorting to drug and alcoholism, why not seek professional help!

Okay, let me quickly list out the impact of drug and alcoholism, for the purpose of clarity. 👇

1. Alcohol and drugs worsen depression symptoms and intensify anxiety.

2. Substance abuse increases the likelihood of dependency or addiction.

3. Impaired memory, concentration, and decision-making. It damages your mental health.

4. Substance abuse can lead to financial stress or instability. It drains your money.

5. Impairs academic and occupational performance, contributing to feelings of worthlessness, which can get you sacked.

6. It can affect your relationship or marriage, because you don't think we'll when your drunk!

Friends, the list above is just few of what alcoholism and drug can do to you. There are still several others. That means in addition to the major problem you had, that you wanted to relieve yourself of with it, it adds all these, making things worse.

Please, whenever you're in a depressing situation, seek professional help first.

Please share this to your walls and all your friends, let's save our people.

Good day.

Chris Ukpai

21/11/2023

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21/11/2023

Drink wine and save water? Really!

Well, that's not correct. The correct order is drink more water and save wine!

Listen, friends, mind who you follow, allow to influence you, or take advice from on this social media space.

Okay, I understand that the line "drink wine and save water" was just for marketing purposes and to promote the brand. But here is my concern ==> what about the young, less-experienced teenager that reads it? What about the less-educated that gets to see it? What about those that see these influencers as role models? Won't they take this unhealthy advice serious?

Let me say this again: mind who you take advice from on social media. If you make mistake, they won't be there to help you.

Have a wonderful day!

20/11/2023

If you know Snoop Dogg very well, you will agree with me he's one of the popular musicians that promoted smoking and alcoholism.

Well, recently, he officially announced he's giving up on smoking.

Same way he promoted smoking and alcoholism openly, now he's saying y'all go smokeless. 🙌🙌🙌 Now he understands smoking is not good.

Please, let every youth who are into smoking hear this and turn a new leaf too.

Go smokeless and save your lungs. Stay healthy!

Chris Ukpai

20/11/2023

Dear brother,

If you find this any where, I want to officially inform you that God has really helped you.

Please, guard it jealously. Hold it with your two hands and make sure you don't lose it. Loyalty is everything.

Them no even plenty like that again ooo.

19/11/2023

Happy International Men's day to all men in this great family.

My prayer for you is that everything you need to take care of your responsibility comfortably, you will not lack them.

18/11/2023

Now that young musicians of today sing more about depression, failure, pain, dieing young, su***de, etc, At this point, dear, mind who you listen to their music.

Music is a soul thing. It connects to the mind. The spirit of depression and possible thoughts of su***de can be subtly contracted through the type of music you listen to most time. And trust me, you'd most likely be handling it alone when the blow fells.

Listen to songs that lifts you, motivate you positively, or make you to want to do better.

This is the only advice I have for you tonight.

Okay, bye. 🙌

18/11/2023

If you know God is the reason why you are still alive till today, go to the comment section and type " Thank you Father"

17/11/2023

READ CAREFULLY

Look at the image below.. Snoop Dogg, an American rapper many of us followed while growing up, just announced on his official page that he has decided to quit smoking, after some considerations. It's also possible he won't be doing alcohol again too.

Now my question?👇

What happens to the young people that learnt smoking and alcoholism through his videos and songs? What happens to those who probably became chain smokers, addicts, doing drugs, pills, and probably all manner because they saw his lifestyle and copied it. Some people (unnamed) probably may have even died from various forms of health challenges through such lifestyle.

Now, he has realized stuffs as an older person and now trying to change, leaving millions of youths that copied from him to their individual fates.

Listen, young person, to be safe in this life, be careful whom you follow or see as mentor. In fact, the safest people to follow are those whose lifestyle can be said to be godly.
The man or woman (for those calling themselves baddies 😁) doing whatever they're doing today may decide to change tomorrow, use money to fix themselves, and become a completely new person. Do you have money to fix anything? Do you even have anyone that will advise you? 😁 It's you I'm asking...

Let's be smart. Just follow people whose lifestyles are health and life promotive, so that you won't be left on the road stranded by your "mentors."

Have a wonderful day.

Chris Ukpai

17/11/2023

Good day, fams.

If you see this, drop your location. Let's know where we're all located

16/11/2023

"If I start doing it, what will they say? If I start this business now, how will they see me? If I tell him or her my mind now, what will they think?"

These statements above is the reason why lots of young people are grounded today.

Friend, provided what you want to do will not harm anybody or cause them pain, or put them at risk, etc. Provided it is still within what is acceptable by the laws of the place you are, go ahead and give it a try!

Anything you want, go for it! Start that business; start that project; start that side hustle; start that training; reach out to people on stuffs that matters to you (let it be that they're the ones that said no...no assumption).

Highest that will happen is you will miss it. BUT YOU WILL LEARN! You always learn from every miss. Never feel bad about making any attempt.

Listen, no matter what you do, people must talk. In fact, if you decide not to do anything at all, people will still call you out. 😁 If God allows you to even hear what people say about you at your back on a normal day, you may even decide to leave this earth on a mutual ground.😁😁

The truth is, people will always have an opinion on whatever thing you want to do. All you need to do is to be sure what you're doing is not something wicked or something to harm...

Have a wonderful day, people.

Chris Ukpai

15/11/2023

If you are a business person or working class, this is definitely for you.

Let's talk about business the whole of today.

Do you have any question you might want to ask about your business? Are you faced with any kind of business challenge? Or maybe you need clarity on anything in business or marketing?

Drop your question in the comment section.

I will make sure I respond to all of them.

Send in your question now

15/11/2023

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14/11/2023

LET'S TALK ABOUT DETERMINATION AND COURAGE.

The man in the image below was a security man in a bank. One day, he realized that there was a vacant position in the bank. He walked up to manager, told him that he had a BSc and was ready to take the test for that position. Well, he took the test and passed and was elevated from security man to a full time worker in the bank. And his story changed!

LESSONS

1. Research revealed that even as a security man, he was committed to his assignments and built good relationship with others.

2. While at his position as a security man, he wasn't discouraged. He managed to enroll for a part time BSc program to prepare himself ahead for possible opportunities.

3. He was intentional about his growth and was building strong rapport with company staff, if not the manager wouldn't have taken it upon himself to find a way to help him.

4. He was courageous to approach the manager when the opportunity presented itself, to request to be tested for that role.

5. He never allowed his situation become his conclusion.

Dear, no matter the level you are today, you can become anything. Just have a solid goal and keep working towards it daily and committedly. There's really no limit to what we can achieve. ✊

May today bring you plenty blessings.

Chris Ukpai

13/11/2023

Good afternoon, young people and older adults.

Hope you're having a good day.

As a trained counselor and have counseled a lot of people on this space for years now, I can tell you in no uncertainty terms that MOST complications young people face in life including unwanted pregnancy, early and unnecessary marriage, forced marriage, abortions, heart break, emotional blackmail or torture, guilt, lack of focus, confusion, mental health issues, etc, can be traced to premarital or extramarital s*x.

Listen, I can tell you in no uncertainty terms that if you can discipline yourself to avoid premarital s*x as a single or extramarital affairs as a married, you'd have solved about 50% to 60% of what could have become a serious problem to you in the future.

I tell you this out of love to see you become become a better you.

If you find yourself struggling with any of these, let's talk about it to find you a way out.

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Good day, friends. Just watch this video and see how stressful cheating in your relationship can be. It is very, very stressful and full of risk. I have taken my time to do some deep studies recently and realized that cheating in your relationship is usually more costlier and stressful than staying faithful. Like, it comes with a lot of complications, and pains too! Staying faithful is peace, guys. Okay, see the level of risk, shame, public disgrace, mockery, etc, this lady and the guy is bringing upon themselves just because of something that can be avoided simply by sticking to your partner. What exactly is it that this guy is looking for with the other lady that his partner doesn't have now? What! So all these uproar and public nuisance because of just sex? Ephemeral pleasure of few moments with a "certain lady"? How do people even think self? Life is not supposed to be so hard, we just harden it up by some of these things we do. Dear lady, if a married man is coming for you, just tell him NO, point blank. If you accept him, you may be getting into a life-long wahala. Remember his wife, children, or wife's family will definitely come after you one day. Dear brother, leave other women alone and stay with your partner. Discipline yourself to stick to them. You would have save yourself a ton of stress doing that. You deserve peace of mind, give it to yourself by avoiding stuffs like this. Chris Ukpai. Feel free to share this post with others.

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NO MATTER HOW DEPRESSED YOU ARE, ALCOHOLISM OR DRUG IS NOT THE SOLUTION. Watch this video carefully. That's Hank Anuku, a veteran Nollywood actor, seen in the street in an afternoon drunk and looking retarded. He was interviewed after this video of him went viral and he said it was depression that drove him into alcoholism. This is my take 👇🏿 Dear, friend, no matter what you're going through in life, alcoholism or drug is not the solution. They make things worse than they met it. Instead of resorting to drug and alcoholism, why not seek professional help! Okay, let me quickly list out the impact of drug and alcoholism, for the purpose of clarity. 👇 1. Alcohol and drugs worsen depression symptoms and intensify anxiety. 2. Substance abuse increases the likelihood of dependency or addiction. 3. Impaired memory, concentration, and decision-making. It damages your mental health. 4. Substance abuse can lead to financial stress or instability. It drains your money. 5. Impairs academic and occupational performance, contributing to feelings of worthlessness, which can get you sacked. 6. It can affect your relationship or marriage, because you don't think we'll when your drunk! Friends, the list above is just few of what alcoholism and drug can do to you. There are still several others. That means in addition to the major problem you had, that you wanted to relieve yourself of with it, it adds all these, making things worse. Please, whenever you're in a depressing situation, seek professional help first. Please share this to your walls and all your friends, let's save our people. Good day. Chris Ukpai

If you know Snoop Dogg very well, you will agree with me he's one of the popular musicians that promoted smoking and alcoholism. Well, recently, he officially announced he's giving up on smoking. Same way he promoted smoking and alcoholism openly, now he's saying y'all go smokeless. 🙌🙌🙌 Now he understands smoking is not good. Please, let every youth who are into smoking hear this and turn a new leaf too. Go smokeless and save your lungs. Stay healthy! Chris Ukpai #snoopdogg #smokingcigarettes #healthyhabits

Happy new week everyone. If you believe this week is your week of favor, type AMEN! #mondaymotivation #newweeknewgoals

EVERY BUSINESS PERSON SHOULD WATCH THIS. These ladies went to a restaurant to get food for themselves, only to check the menu to realize there's a lot of typographical errors on the brochure. And now saying that if these mistakes can be on the brochure, it points to the fact that the restaurant might also be careless in food handling. Listen, business person. If there's anything you should be very careful with, it is your business. How careful you are in managing your business and all that concerns it will inspire customers to trust your brand and want to buy from you or even recommend. Never handle any aspect of your business carelessly. You may be on your way back to the village without knowing it. Follow this page for daily life-changing updates. #businesssuccess #spaghetti #asuu #nlcpresident #saudi

WOW! THIS MESSAGE TOUCHED ME PERSONALLY Following God may not look easy but it always turn out to be most rewarding! If you like this message and want to stay connected for more, follow this page. #ApostleJohnsonSuleman #OFM #victory

EVERY YOUNG PERSON SHOULD READ THIS. Hi there. This page, Youthful and Excellent is generally about helping build and fortify young people to become better versions of themselves. I am available to make this happen and will be pushing out great contents from time to time. I am a trained counselor, my inbox is also available for extended one-to-one counseling. Please, I want to request us to help me invite your friends and families to follow this page. - If you have not followed this page, please do that now. - If you have any young person you love and would want to see them think and grow smarter and better, invite them to follow this page. - If you're a parent or guardian or minister or coach, etc that has younger people you want to pattern for greatness, invite them to join this page. - Any adult who is a lover of knowledge and light, this page is also for you. I have attached a video on how to invite them. Watch the video and help do that now. Thank you. #PastorDavidIbiyeomie #InviteYourFriends #MaritalSettlement #successmindset #helpinghands #invite #manchester #madrid #KillaBoi

EVERY YOUNG PERSON DESIRING EARLY SUCCESS NEED TO WATCH THIS ASAP. The company you keep today will determine if you will be successful tomorrow or not. Please, mind whom you make friend with. Any friend that lures you into dirty is a friend you should avoid. If you found this helpful, please follow this page, like, share, etc. Feel free to ask me questions on this in the comment section. #BishopDavidAbioye #BishopDavidOyedepo #MaritalSettlement #PastorDavidIbiyeomie #successmindset Just something to bless our soul this afternoon

LETTER TO EVERY YOUNG PERSON: A MUST READ! Dear, friend. I know you've made a lot of mistakes growing up. I understand you've also tried a lot of things you're not proud of. You must have also found yourself in certain situations you're not even sure how you got there. Now listen, at this point, you just have to understand that whatever is in the past is past. All you need to do now is to treat it as such. Treat the past as past! Forgive yourself, restrategize, and move on. Can I tell you this truth? ==> Those things that happened in the past made you stronger, smarter, wiser, and a better person! Dear, you grew! You evolved! All you need to do now is to just move on and reach for what is ahead! You can't undo the past, but hey, you can fix the future. So, focus on what is ahead. Have a wonderful day. If you found this helpful, follow this page to stay connected, like and share too. #failureispartofsuccess #PastorDavidIbiyeomie #CovenantHighways #Shiloh2023 #BishopDavidAbioye #stressrelief #successmindset

You put your life at serious risk when you don't pray. Watch this video to understand better. Listen, friends, one heavy risk we shouldn't take as believers is the risk of prayerlessness. It is one of the costliest risks ever! A man or woman that won't spend quality time in God's presence (in the place of prayer) "go explain tire" in his journey of life. Satan will just be using the person to test every new product he launches. No matter how you feel, pray! In fact, anytime you don't feel like praying, that's even when you should pray more. Pray without ceasing. Pray everywhere. Pray every kind of prayer. Pray because your life depends on it. Just pray! You may be saying this right now👉👉 "But Bro Chris, I don't know how to pray!" See answer below👇🏿 You learn how to pray by praying. So, start now. Start with few minutes you can carry for now, and keep increasing duration with time. If you found this helpful, follow this page for more. #CovenantHighways #BishopDavidAbioye #BishopDavidOyedepo #PastorDavidIbiyeomie #prayer #Shiloh2023

Watch this video to understand how best to handle your mornings. Morning is usually the time to make clear plans for the whole day. Have a nice day! If you find this video helpful like, share, follow this page to stay connected. #BishopDavidAbioye #BishopDavidOyedepo #Shiloh2023 #morningroutine

If you really want to be more productive this new week, watch this short video. Every young person need to understand that planning and time management is one of the surest pathways to success. When you wake up every morning, the right thing to do is to get a note and clearly itemize what you'd love to achieve that day and how to achieve them. It will help to keep you on your toes, and also help you know when you're getting distracted. It keeps organized throughout the whole day, meaning you'd definitely achieve alot that day. Have a wonderful week. If you found this video helpful and would want more of it, follow this page. You can also share with friends or invite them. We're building a community of smart and productive youths. #mondaymorning #mondayvibes #planningtips #productivity #messi #ronaldo7 #CovenantHighways

The other day, I spoke about how whom you associate with determines, to a large extent, what becomes of you and most likely how successful you'd become. That day, I used the relationship between Rodrigo De Paul and Messi as a case in point. I also explained how De Paul always associate with Messi and how most Messi fans (including me) love him and are also his fans today because he love and associates with Messi openly, and keep showing up for him most times fight want to happen. I also talked about how his relationship with Messi has helped earn him plenty followers, make him more popular, more loved, etc. Now look at this video! See the level of respect De Paul displayed here. He didn't throw that ball despite the pressure to do things hastily players usually experience on the field during match. He waited and handed the ball over to him directly and still followed same direction and stayed around. Sir, that's not stupidity. When you see greatness, just show some respect. It's not like he didn't have option to just do it anyhow, after all they're team mates. He was intentionally thorough about it. See the point I'm trying to make below 👇 Sometimes all you need to be "numbered among (great) men" is just humility_ sincere humility. Some people are grounded today because they "fought or dishonored greatness" that came around them once upon a time in their life time. Humility will help you achieve a lot in life as a young person if you can make it a part of your life. If you found this post helpful, please follow this page to stay connected. Also feel free to invite all other youths that are lovers of wisdom. #humility #messi #RodrigoDePaul #discipline #sundayvibes

To learn how to maximize your Sunday, please watch this video. Dear, young person out there. Apart from attending services and creating time to be with family, and all of that, Sunday is a great time to plan for the next week. Sunday is a great time to sit down, think of the things you couldn't do well or achieve the previous week and find a way to do it better the coming week. Sunday is a day to strategize for the next week. Just make sure you find time today to sit down and list out things you'd love to achieve next week and how. Then by Monday, go for it! When you do this, be sure you'd do better. If you found this helpful, like and share it. Also make sure you invite your friends that love productivity and growth to this page. Have a wonderful Sunday. #timemanagement #sundayvibes #CovenantHighways #ApostleJohnsonSuleman #productivity

If you realize you end of every day without achieving nothing, or achieving very little, make sure you watch this video. Every youth that is intentional about growth must know how to manage time. Times management skill is one that when you have, you succeed better! Please, like and share this video. Invite other youths to the page. There's alot to learn here. #CovenantHighways #timemanagement #productivity #weekend #weekendvibes #success

You need this wisdom to journey through live. Make sure you watch till the end. You can live better if you take time to learn things that has to do with life. #intentionalliving #ApostleJohnsonSuleman #CovenantHighways #dailywisdom

Every lady should see this. This is how to be a better wife. Be free! Follow this page for life-changing contents #ApostleJohnsonSuleman #OFMHQ #christianhome

To be a better youth, avoid the mistakes mentioned in this video #commonmistakes #YouthExcellence #businessdaily

Every youth need to listen to this pastor. Only God gives true peace #CovenantHighways #pastoisraelolajumoke #hourofengraftment

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