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02/12/2023

02/12/2023

Remember, the right person will never get tired of you.🥰❣️

We are still who we are

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02/12/2023

Just say Amen....

02/12/2023

Believe

02/12/2023

After fighting with your husband how will you call him when food is ready
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02/12/2023

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02/12/2023

Achieving Harmony in Your Marriage

1. CULTIVATE FRIENDSHIP
Choose your best friend as your life partner and strive to maintain that bond throughout your marriage. Genuine friendship fosters peace.

2. EMBRACE INTIMACY
Regular physical intimacy fosters closeness, reducing tension, and nurturing intimacy, which in turn leads to peace.

3. NURTURE SPIRITUALITY
Developing your spiritual connection with each other and with a higher power can bring about a more peaceful state within your marriage.

4. MANAGE FINANCES WISELY
Avoid unnecessary financial strain; be frugal and responsible with money. Planning and handling financial challenges together can prevent stress.

5. BEGIN EACH DAY POSITIVELY
Commence the day with a blessing, prayer, or affectionate gestures to set a positive tone for the day.

6. SUPPORT EACH OTHER
Work as a team, sharing responsibilities to lighten the load and promote peace within the relationship.

7. PROMPTLY ADDRESS ISSUES
Resolve conflicts swiftly by apologizing and forgiving, preventing lingering grievances that might disrupt peace.

8. MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS
Develop strategies to remain composed during moments of anger, leaning on prayer for support.

9. INCORPORATE WORSHIP
Encourage an environment where worship and spirituality are honored, fostering a sense of peace within the household.

10. INCREASE AFFECTION
Physical touch and affectionate gestures decrease moodiness and grumpiness, contributing to a serene environment.

11. AVOID INFIDELITY
Steer clear of any temptation to have an affair, as it rapidly undermines marital peace.

12. AVOID SUSPICION
Refrain from actions that may evoke doubt or suspicion in your partner, even if they are innocent.

13. EMBRACE JOY
Engage in lighthearted activities, like watching comedies, playing games, and enjoying hobbies, to bring fun into your relationship.

14. EXPRESS APPRECIATION
Frequently compliment and appreciate your partner, uplifting their spirits and fostering peace.

15. SHARE LOVE

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02/12/2023

A very poor newly wedded, young couple lived in a small farm. One day the husband made the following proposal to his wife:
Honey, I will leave the house: I will travel faraway, get a job and work hard in order to come back and give you the comfortable life that you deserve. I do not know how long I will stay away, I only ask one thing, please wait for me, and while I am away, you should be faithful to me, because I will be faithful to you. His wife agreed, so the young man left. He walked many days until he found a farmer who was in need of someone to help him. The young man offered his services. He was accepted. Therefore he discussed the terms with his boss:
Let me work for as long as I want and when I think I should go home, please relieve me of my duties. I do not want to receive my salary. I ask you to save it for me, until the day I leave. The day I decide to go, please give me the money and I will go my way. They agreed on that. So, the young man worked for twenty years without holiday and without rest. After twenty years, he came to his boss and said:
Boss, I want my money, because I am returning to my home. The boss replied:
All right, after all, I made a deal with you and I will stick to it. However, before you go I want to offer you something new: I will give you all your money and send you away; or I will give you 3 pieces of advice and send you away. If I give you money, you lose the 3 pieces of advice. If I give you the 3 pieces of advice, you lose the money. Now, go to your room and think about your answer. He thought for two days. Then he went to the boss and told him:
I want the 3 pieces of advice. The boss stressed again, if I give you the 3 pieces of advice, I will not give you the money, and the man replied:
I want the 3 pieces of advice. The boss then told him:
No. 1: Never take shortcuts in your life, shorter and unknown paths can cost your life. No. 2: Never be too curious, for curiosity towards evil can be deadly. No. 3: Never make decisions

02/12/2023

That is the life i live now

02/12/2023

Bad engine stay far away

02/12/2023

Some of us have reach a stage in life where S*x doesn't excite us, just craving for a peace of mind and financial stability 🤞

02/12/2023

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01/12/2023

14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

No relationship can succeed without both partners putting in an effort to make it work. Below are 14 rules that should guide your relationship.❤️

1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares.😥

2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that.✍️

3. Communication and trust is important if you want to secure your spot in someone’s heart.❤️

4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else.💯

5.A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart, no matter how much it hurts.😇

6. Don’t play with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of your own.🤨

7. One of the worst mistakes you’ll make is walking away from the person that stood there and waited for you.😔

8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn’t mean all men will. Get this into you skull.✍️

9. Be careful what you say. Human being remembers everything. They will never remember the good word you said to them but they will remember the bad ones you have ever spoken that is Human.😌

10. When two people care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work.👌

11. Love someone who loves you too.❤️

12.A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one. So you better stop crying now.🙂

13. Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you’re strong enough to move on.💪

14. It’s better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong reasons.

I sincerely have found out that any person who always see reasons to give flimsy excuses is a great liar, be far from such person. 🙅‍♂️

Remain blessed 🙏 my people
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01/12/2023

Sometimes you need to be Self centered.

Not everyone can go through the lengths you can go for them.

01/12/2023

Being able to afford what I want without bothering anyone is all I pray for.🙏

01/12/2023

The right one will love you.

Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age.

Time and time again I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard"

You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? it's over" and throw everything away.

If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated".

There's no such thing as you being "too crazy".

There's no such thing as you being "too much".

The right person will love you unconditionally and they will be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option.

No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you.

No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much he or she cares about you.

No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them.

Take my advice and remember. A person who truly values you, would never put themselves in a position to lose you.
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01/12/2023

Date this girl.

Date the girl you who makes you smile everytime she walks into the room.

Date the girl who wants to slow dance with you in the kitchen to a song written by George Strait.

Date the girl who motivates you to do better in all aspects of your life.

Date the girl that would rather cuddle with you on the couch in her pajamas while binge watching her favorite show on Netflix, than go out and get drunk at a party.

Date the girl who's excited to tell you about her day at work.

Date the girl who's laugh stops and warms up your heart when you have a bad day.

Date the girl who wants to lay a blanket on the ground and watch the stars with you on a cool summer night.

Date the girl with an old soul ..... that has morals and qualities that are extremely hard to find in this generation.

Date the girl who understands that children need to raised in a home where love is more important than money.

Date the girl who wants you text her as soon as you arrive to your destination so she's knows you made it there safely.

And date the girl who prays every single night for you coming into her life so calmy and unexpectedly.

Take my advice and date the girl who makes you feel so loved when you're in her presence, it feels like you're finally home.

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01/12/2023

*THIS IS HOW YOU LOSE HER*

Sometimes you wonder why the woman in your life says ‘I am okay” and refuses to answer your questions, when you know deep within that there is something wrong. This happens because her mind is busy in thoughts; "Is he the right man for me? Am I making a mistake? Why does he treat me like I am nothing to him? Does he really love me? Or is he just leading me on?" These are few of the questions she tries to find answers to.

At a point she finds it difficult to look into your eyes because she is hiding what she is going through from you. She just wants to be left alone because she feels you don't understand her, you don't appreciate her, you don't value her.

Women are special, all they need is to be loved right and that has the power to make her become the kind of woman you want her to be. The trouble however is, most men mistreat women with the aim of changing them or fixing them, and rather end up losing them.

No matter how broken a woman is, she doesn't need to be fixed by you. What she needs is someone to hold her whilst she gathers the broken pieces of herself; that is how she gradually molds into who you want her to be.

Women are not perfect. After Eve was deceived, she was not perfect again. She was created beautiful and for that matter, beautiful things are attractive to her. No wonder she was trapped.

"The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too" - Genesis 3:6 (NLT).

Even when it comes to dressing, observe how they spend a lot of time just to look good. Women want to be cherished; when you make her feel you value her even in the shortest period of time, she doesn't want you to leave.

She wants to know that she is enough for you, that she does not need to change for you and when you try to modify her, she feels inadequate a

01/12/2023

_Reality of life_

1.The worst battle is between what you know and what you feel.

2.People start hating you when they cannot control you.

3.Never assume that loud is strong and quiet is weak.

4.Feelings are temporary; decisions are permanent.

5.Most people don’t actually want the best version of you, they want the version of you that best serves them.

6.It’s not how big the house is, it’s how happy the home is.

7.Don’t trust too much, don’t love too much, that ‘too much’ can hurt you so much.

8.Sometimes you have to stay busy so you don’t have time to feel.

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01/12/2023

Welcome to new month
Of December....
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01/12/2023

Man,

PROTECT your woman like your daughter. Love her like your mother. RESPECT her like your sister. Your woman deserves some RESPECT, brother, because RESPECT isn't a gender thing rather it is RECIPROCAL and MUTUAL.

You cannot treat your woman like trash, cheating, disrespecting and abusing her and then expect her to RESPECT you. The truth is, when you love and treat your woman right, she becomes legally blind to the world. She sees only you and will WORSHIP you. RESPECT will flow EFFORTLESSLY and NATURALLY from her.

RESPECT IS EARNED, NOT DEMANDED. Asking WOMEN to respect their men without asking men to LOVE their Women has RUINED lots of RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES.
🙏👏

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01/12/2023

Take Note

01/12/2023

We had all the reasons to give up on us, but we still chose to fight for each other. Thank you for choosing to stay by my side. Thank you for still choosing to hold onto our love even after we hurt each other a lot. What we've been through together was not easy; we've faced so many challenges that almost ended our relationship for good, but we still decided to fix everything because we both know that we need each other more than anything else. I want you to know that I sincerely love you. I know that I am not perfect, and sometimes I hurt you without even realizing it. But I also want you to know that I will try my best every day to give you so much love and appreciation. I will do everything I can to understand you. I hope you see how hard I try to show how much you mean to me. I want to make you feel special every day. I want to remind you that no matter what happens, I will always adore you, and I will forever care for you. And no matter what it takes, my love, I will always do everything to make you happy with me.

Make someone feel special by letting him or her know how much he means to you.
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01/12/2023

Merry December in advance to you guys....

30/11/2023

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30/11/2023

Dear Men,
Remember how beautiful, smooth and sculpted her body was at the beginning of your marriage.
She is still the same beautiful woman with the same spirit that you have always loved.
The difference is that she gave your children life.
The price for that was the loss of the body she once had.
Do not complain about your wife because her fat increased and do not think that she likes it!
A mother's affection makes her turn a blind eye to all of that and her only concern is her children and your happiness.
Remember that this tummy was once the warm home who hugged your children for 9 months with all their pain, fatigue and weight, to seal them until childbirth.

Women should be treated with love please👌
A thousand hearts to all the Mothers ❤️.... Love you mummy

30/11/2023

15 BENEFITS OF KEEPING YOUR LIFE PRIVATE:👇

1. The less you share, the less likely people will be in your business.

2. You'll stop caring about people's opinion about your life.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

5. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

12. People will want to know more about you when you talk less of yourself.

13. You'll owe no one any explanation about your personal life.

14. Not everyone is your friend, live a private life to never attract bad energy.

15. You'll learn when to be alone and when to be with others.

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30/11/2023

✔ HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THIS AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say somethings just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...

HAVE A NICE LIFE.
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De Soft Life

30/11/2023

This generation doesn't understand.

Most men in this generation doesn't understand its not about giving her the world, but it's actually about making her feel like she's a priority in yours.

It's about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you're thinking about her.

It's about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.

It's about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.

It's about driving down a backroad and you pull off to the side to pick her some beautiful wild flowers.

It's about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge watching your favorite show on Netflix together.

It's about taking her to her favorite restaurant unannounced.

It's about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait.

It's about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.

It's about laying her favorite dress on the bed with a note that says "put this on and be ready by 7pm".

It's about knowing the smallest details about her, like the way she likes her coffee in the morning, or her favorite smell, or what movies make her cry.

It's about going to a local ice cream parlor on a Saturday afternoon to talk about your life goals together over a couple hot fudge sundaes.

Take my advice and remember...... it doesn't always have to cost much money, it just needs to catch her off guard.

30/11/2023

The roots grow the fruits

30/11/2023

Energy 😌💯❤️

30/11/2023

LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE.

Men attend to Women for two reasons, S€X, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for S*x or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain:
A man can Love you and not Marry you.
A man can have s£x with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"
I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most Ladies thinks is fanciful.

They think whether this woman can build me a home, can she take care of my kids and I, can she give me PEACE of mind? Men don't like Ladies who gives them discomfort, this is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her....
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30/11/2023

Heart Breaking 💔💔💔

Didn't she tell you she had a boyfriend? Why then did you keep disturbing her? She rejected your calls and you sent her text that made her pity you, she finally picks and you said all the sweet things you could think of, she ask you to stop and end the call, you kept calling, she off her phone. You continued like that after 2 weeks she feels a bit relaxed with you she now smiles when you call her pet names but refused to respond to them and still warns you to stop calling her those names because she felt uneasy and insecure about the whole thing. But you don't care and continued like that
After 45days she could kiss you on phone and tell you how much she loves you..

You invited her to your house and she found it difficult to say yes, you pretended to be angry because you now know how much she loves you, and she called back to apologize and promised to come then you smile . You quickly wash your utensils, arrange your room, bought air freshener brought out your white towel that you Don't use as usual, bought Protection and some hard drugs To Help you impress her..

Saturday came and she didn't make it because her conscience didn't allow her to come, you called and used her feelings against her, she felt so guilty and apologized !
Sunday morning she dressed for church and heads to your one room apartment, it was below her expectation compare to what you said on phone when trying to win her heart but love conquered the feeling a normal person should get from such poor impression.

She asked for a sit, you ask her to sit on the bed.
She did, you went out to buy a drink for her then she lifted the pillow and saw the protection and felt so bad and afraid of your plan, then you came in and started talking about her beauty and relationship life, she didn't want to talk about it but you insisted...

She opened up how she loved kelvin and he broke her heart and how Elvis showed her to his parents just to lure her to his bed.

30/11/2023

Know this observation,

Men love unconditionally. Women love conditionally.
Once a woman starts making money, she begins thinking that she can live independently. But
Once a man starts making money, he takes responsibility of his family.
A rich man can meet a broke woman and change her life but a rich woman won't even look a broke man's way...

Men are men.
Women are women.

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30/11/2023

WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP 😘?

Many people do not know the meaning of relationship or read different meanings to that word.

A RELATIONSHIP is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend.

It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth.

It’s not about looking for a fair complexion or a rich person.

Having a lot of money doesn’t mean that one has too much pure love.

MONEY 💰 CAN’T BUY LOVE. 😍

A relationship is about finding someone who respects you.

Who cares about you in anyway he/she can afford.

Who understands you.

Who is proud of having you.

Who appreciates you the way you are .

Who loves you the way you are.

Who is faithful to you.

Who knows how to comfort you.

Who is supportive to you or in everything you are trying to do.

Who knows how to encourage
you to be your best.

Who would accept the worst of you.

Forgive you
And who will go through everything without giving up on u.

Such people are very rare to find these days.

It takes God himself to bring you such person just like He did for Adam.

But your relationship with God will be a major determinant in finding such person.

If you have got such person already just keep that person.

Handle him or her with care.

Be honest & contented with that person and don't do anything to hurt or let down that special person.

Remember, Relationship is a full time commitment/sacrifice and you must be willing to pay.
Thanks for reading
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29/11/2023

ADVICE TO MEN,

Men pay attention, both married and single. Let me give you this piece of advice for free..

1) It takes Patience to LIVE with a Woman

2) It takes Patience to LOVE a Woman

MARRIAGE will test your Patience as a Man. Start building it now..

A Woman can make you go late for events back to back because she'll take 3 hours to get ready. Remember you only need 3 minutes.

If you aren't patient, you'll talk to her in a manner or do something you'll later regret,

A Woman can burst into tears just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep

A Woman loves to talk, if you are not patient as a Man, you'll snap one day and tell her "Woman, you talk too much, don't you ever keep quiet" and those words can damage a Woman almost irreversibly.

A Woman craves attention and petting, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a Man and only patience will help you.

A Woman can get angry, and you'll use full 45 minutes to be apologizing. If you aren't patient, you no go fit.

She'll say she's not hungry, then after you buy only one sharwama, she'll be dragging it with you.

You'll both have a plate of rice before you, but she'll leave her plate of rice and be eating yours.

When she's on her menstrual period, you'll see drama. PATIENCE!

When she's Pregnant, maximum drama. PATIENCE!!

You'll run errands in Marriage oh.

"Honey scratch my back".

"Honey hold me"

"Baby, tell me you love me.." and you just said it 3 minutes ago.

Relationship and Marriage will test your Patience as a Man. I've told you ahead, carry patience and enter marriage.

Put God First Always!
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29/11/2023

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