“Often our love is or what we call our love is very entangled in our own need rather than actually a pure love for the other.
Like if Pádraic really had you know a kind of a pure: I want what’s best for my friends, Colm, even if I have to pay the price of pain for him to experience that.
And then he would have really went: Look, I’ll stay away.
But he couldn’t. His loneliness and his fear which I of course empathize with.
It disempowered him to honor what Colm was so desperately. Desperately asking for.”
People tell you the world looks a certain way. Parents tell you how to think. Schools tell you how to think. TV. Religion. And then at a certain point, if you're lucky, you realize you can make up your own mind. Nobody sets the rules but you. You can design your own life.
Vitality shows not only in the ability to persist but in the ability to start over."What others think about you doesn't have to affect your way of life,
Stay off bad energy spread love every were you go, Let no one come to you without leaving happier"
