25/11/2014
I have been looking for the right way to express
“settling down for less” and this morning, I finally
found it.
From now on, I will call it "MEDIOCRE LOVE".
What is a mediocre love?
Well, I don’t know how to express this, because I
have never had any mediocre love. I am one of
those persons who loves hard, even to my friends
and family.
But I tell you what is not mediocre. It’s that feeling
of loving someone so deep, you could actually feel
your heart crunch a little bit when you think about
them.
When you think about how happy they make
you, you will feel something warming up in your
belly, when you worry about them, maybe they are
sick or something bad happened to them, you will
feel your heart aches. I don’t talk figuratively, I
meant literally. Because when one of my loved
ones were sick, I could worry till my heart really
hurt.
When you first met a gal you liked, you would
have what we call “butterflies in your stomach”.
This was really exciting. It meant you liked her,
there were chemistry between you two. When you
talked to her, the butterflies just couldn’t wait to
fly, your stomach felt funny; fun funny.
When you got together, you guys were passionate,
you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. You
wanted to heat her heartbeat, you wanted to feel
her skin, you wanted to bite her nose.
You just
couldn’t have enough of her. She was addictive!!!
When you had your first unsettlement, you fought,
you got bored with her, anything about her.
looked dull and annoying. But you just couldn’t
be without her, with no logical reason
explainable.
When you knew her even deeper and you knew
her family and her friends and even you didn’t like
some of them, you decided to stay. You found out
her weird bad habit, you found out her sad past,
yest you stayed.
When you couldn’t wait to see her, just to get cozy
with her, wrapped your body on her arms and just
talked all night.
For you the best place on earth is
anywhere as long as you’re in her arms.
And
suddenly all of the love songs you have heard made
sense.
When you were busy at work and then you
stopped for a while for coffee and then you caught
yourself smiling thinking about her and how she
was cute on her s*xy inner wears dancing to a
Celine Don's song last night.
When you received a very exciting news and you
cannot wait to tell her.
When you realized that her's your best friend in the
whole world and you could count on her and she
would do anything for you.
Those whens don’t always have to come in that
order, but those whens are necessary for a love
story.
Medicore loves don’t have those things.
Why mediocre love?
Medicore loves happen when two persons have
goal to get married, so they just find some
candidates and whoops, this candidate looks okay,
and my parents agree, oh well… let’s get married
and have babies and repopulate the earth!
I would prefer live my life alone and happy than
settling down with mediocre love. NO HELL WAY.
Mediocre couples we regret that they got married.
I know society sucks, they push you and you
delude yourself into a made-up romanticism that
you created in your head and then you settle down
for less… much less…for mediocre love.
Don’t!.
For this one person, you might be his or her mediocre
love, but for somebody out there, that one
particular person, YOU ARE HIS WORLD.
Why shouldn’t we have mediocre love?
Its simple. Life is only once.
You could have a mediocre house, drive a
mediocre car, work in a mediocre company, watch
a mediocre movie, eat a mediocre diet
but.. you should not settle down with a
mediocre love. NO!. A trillion times NO!.
Love is sweet, it is comforting, it is liberating, it is one's life. Why end it in mediocre?.