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How to Not Take Things Personally
Every person, whether from the same culture or not, has been domesticated in a completely different way to you. Everything that they know, every way they interpret the world is based on their own internal schema that was given to them by a combination of their culture, genetics, parental teachings and environment. Therefore, every person sees and interprets life from their own eyes and their own dream. They are almost in a completely different world than what you live in. So when someone says something or does something to you, no matter how personal it might seem, don’t take it personally. Nothing that someone says is because of you, but because of themselves. By taking things personally, we make the assumption that that person comes from your world, and we use our time to try and impose our world onto them. Anything that someone says is because of the agreements that they have in their own mind and in their own world. Their opinion and point of view comes from their own domestication, something that you might never understand (and shouldn’t have to). If someone says something negative towards you, if you accept what they say, you accept their poison and it will become yours. But if you avoid their offence, you become immune to the poison that is often so filled in this world. Similarly, if someone says something positive about you, don’t take it personally either. Know yourself that you are great and unique before anyone else tells you. At the same time, people often worry about what others think. But if you think about it, every single person sees the world with different eyes, so why worry about something that you can’t control?
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So create a movie that you are happy to produce. Create agreements in your own life that keep you at peace. Live a life free of influence from others. See it through a lens that makes you happy.
