
03/12/2024
Love this!
Living with dogs can be a highly emotional experience. We love our dogs and they show every sign of loving us. There can, however, be a more negative emotional experience if there is some aspect of life with a dog that we find problematic. Much of what I do concerns socially sensitive, complex dogs, who struggle with aspects of life and the world around them.
I have been there myself, experienced the flood of emotions and self-recrimination because of my dog's 'bad' behaviour (but later learned there is no such thing as 'bad behaviour' and that my dog was struggling, not misbehaving).
I think, when living with these complex dogs, it can be so easy to beat ourselves up. Whether it's because something has gone a bit wrong on a walk, or because we're not making as much progress or we'd like, or we've convinced ourselves that it's all our fault (it's absolutely not, the truth is more complicated than that!)
Remember to apply the same kindness, patience and understanding to yourself as you do to your dog. It's tough for both of you, acknowledge that and support each other (because a dog snuggle is some of the best support ever 🥰)