This is a problem that should be fixed, because it may handicap you at every stage of a relationship. From first dates to life in couple, being needy will always put you at a disadvantage. This is especially true after a break up, if you try to get your ex back. It's OK to read some broken heart quotes and let your sadness express for some time, but at one point you have to move on and get into a
more positive mood. Whatever your feelings, your life should still go on and the world shouldn't stop because of your ex. If you are needy, this usually means you need to be reassured that you are loved. This is perfectly human, but don't forget that your ex is far from being the only worthwhile person that may love you. If you want to get your ex back, avoid being needy, and avoid:
- showing any kind of desperation
- harassing your ex or any other person
- asking if he/she is interested in coming back with you
- asking about his/her feelings towards you
- calling your ex all the time
Try to figure out how you would feel if someone did all these things to you. Even if the person was nice, you probably wouldn't want him/her anymore. The fact is, no one wants to be with a needy person. The best way to get rid from your neediness is to fill your life with interesting activities, hobbies, friends... Then, you will be able to enjoy the time you spend with your ex much more, and he/she will probably be much more interested in coming back with you.