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Dear Stranger and Friend Dear Stranger and Friend is a podcast about one guy trying to be better to the people in his life. Every week, I try to be better to the people in my life.

I started this podcast after spending a couple weeks in LA, Phoenix, and Tucson. Over that period of time, I found myself in bars/restaurants trying to kill time by talking to strangers. And after they left (or after I did), I'd thumb through my phone to kill time that way. I realized that I was friends with hundreds of people on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram but I didn't really know them. I re

alized that it was easier for me to talk to actual strangers instead of the ones I had in my life. So I decided to document my conversations with people I haven't necessarily given a fair shake. Over the course of a couple of months, I've made friends with people I already knew and it's been the most rewarding experience of my life. Even if I haven't said, "hey" in a year or two or three. I hope you enjoy it and I hope you enjoy these people as much as I do when I talk to them.

Read this thing they wrote about me.
07/08/2018

Read this thing they wrote about me.

Following their demo EP, New York Emo outfit Live Well tease their forthcoming debut album with a frenzy of wishes and curses,

Have you visited the Dear Stranger website yet? You can find more of my thoughts on every episode and every stop we made...
15/02/2018

Have you visited the Dear Stranger website yet? You can find more of my thoughts on every episode and every stop we made on our road trip, just click below!

One guy trying to be better to the people in his life

This week, I met up with a friend of my in New Orleans! After getting more than a couple of drinks in, we recorded this ...
14/02/2018

This week, I met up with a friend of my in New Orleans! After getting more than a couple of drinks in, we recorded this episode. I hope you guys enjoy it!

This week, Max and I make it to New Orleans where we met up with Marcus, someone I've only talked to for 2 minutes before meeting up with him in New Orleans. We share a mutual friend and figured why n

Start your weekend off with the latest episode of Dear Stranger. This week, I spoke to Kelsey -- who I met on the road t...
02/02/2018

Start your weekend off with the latest episode of Dear Stranger. This week, I spoke to Kelsey -- who I met on the road trip after she invited Max and I to Thanksgiving dinner with her family -- and I finally got to get to know this welcoming person on a deeper level.

This week, I talk to Kelsey, who I met through max after she invited us to spend Thanksgiving with her and her family while we were on the road. Now, I have to say, that's probably one of the coolest

The second half of Carly and I's conversation is here and it's an emotional one. Listening back to this one, I couldn't ...
24/01/2018

The second half of Carly and I's conversation is here and it's an emotional one. Listening back to this one, I couldn't stop myself from thinking, "maybe I should edit this part out". But I'm glad I didn't. I hope y'all like this one.

The EMOTIONAL conclusion of Carly's two-parter is here. We both get into it a lot about our past relationships. And I might have shed some tears there towards the end. This one was hard one to listen

Dear Stranger and Friend Season 4 is finally here! This week is the first half of a conversation I had with my friend Ca...
17/01/2018

Dear Stranger and Friend Season 4 is finally here! This week is the first half of a conversation I had with my friend Carly. It took place the day before Max and I set our sights on the road for the next month. Click below and give it a listen!

Season 4 is here! And I couldn't think of a better way to start it other than having this conversation with my friend Carly. We've hung out multiple times before this conversation but this was one of

10/01/2018

The new season of Dear Stranger and Friend starts next week! Here's sneak peek of what's to come!

About halfway through the trip, we found ourselves spending the weekend in San Antonio. We stayed with one of my cousins...
04/12/2017

About halfway through the trip, we found ourselves spending the weekend in San Antonio. We stayed with one of my cousins who I never really had a relationship with (so naturally we recorded an episode) and visited all the tourist spots (The Alamo as seen below). But this visit wasn’t made for me by all the cool sights and sounds of the city, it was perfect because I got to know one of my family members, I got to tell them I love them to their face, and I got make up for lost time. Having family all over the country (and the world) makes it feel like you’ll never really get the chance to know them. I’m glad I made the effort. After a long ten hour drive, we find ourselves in New Mexico in warm (enough) beds for a quick rest before our adventure continues.

Today, I drove about 3 hours behind the wheel of a bus. I ended up spending Thanksgiving with people I just met and reco...
24/11/2017

Today, I drove about 3 hours behind the wheel of a bus. I ended up spending Thanksgiving with people I just met and recorded a new episode Dear Stranger. Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I hope yours was as exciting and important as mine, and if it wasn’t. It’s still important to remember that gratitude is key when it comes to the rest of your life. Live well.

I've been keeping this under wraps (and kind of secret) for a while now. But I can't any longer. Max (who has been on th...
21/11/2017

I've been keeping this under wraps (and kind of secret) for a while now. But I can't any longer. Max (who has been on the podcast twice over the past year) and I have been working on taking the podcast on the road.

Over the next 4 weeks, we're going to be driving his bus (The Dream), which you might have heard him talk about on his episodes of DSAF, across the country.

During this trip, we'll be meeting with people and -- hopefully -- talking and recording episodes with them. When I first started the podcast, I never thought I'd have the opportunity to take it on the road and talk to people face to face instead of having conversations over Skype/Facetime/etc.

Season 4 of Dear Stranger and Friend is going to be the most interesting one yet, and I hope you guys are excited for this journey as much as I am.

This week, I talk to Paige Alexandria about Paris while she was in Paris (among a bunch of other interesting topics), li...
07/06/2017

This week, I talk to Paige Alexandria about Paris while she was in Paris (among a bunch of other interesting topics), listen below!

Being alone with myself has been something that's occupied my mind for the past couple of months (maybe longer) and this week, I talk to Paige about that exact thing. While I found myself somewhat tra

This week, I reminisce about with my friend about going to Korea and being responsible for bringing back the most belove...
31/05/2017

This week, I reminisce about with my friend about going to Korea and being responsible for bringing back the most beloved video game character in the history of video games.

It's always fun to catch up with old friends. That's pretty much an obvious statement. But it's always MORE fun to catch up with friends you traveled across the world with. This week, I'm talking to V

This week, I find out what it's like to grow up all over the world. Click below to listen!
24/05/2017

This week, I find out what it's like to grow up all over the world. Click below to listen!

I'm not big on traveling or maybe I haven't had a lot of chances to actually go out and travel. That isn't the case for my guest this week, Scott. He's spent most of his adolescent years all over the

This week, Patrick and I talk about being an adult, balancing what you want to do vs. what you have to do, and basketbal...
17/05/2017

This week, Patrick and I talk about being an adult, balancing what you want to do vs. what you have to do, and basketball. Listen below and subscribe on iTunes!

One question I continually ask myself is "How do I know if I'm doing the right thing?", and there really isn't a definitive answer to it (not for me anyway). This week, I talk with another former prof

Part Two of Donald's episode is here! Listen to the THRILLING conclusion to our conversation below!
10/05/2017

Part Two of Donald's episode is here! Listen to the THRILLING conclusion to our conversation below!

Part two of Donald's episode is here and it only gets better. This week it's all about music. Making music, listening to music, and how it helps us out with our respective struggles. Talking to Donald

This week is Part One of a two-part episode with an old friend of mine, Donald. Topics include: Growing up with brothers...
03/05/2017

This week is Part One of a two-part episode with an old friend of mine, Donald. Topics include: Growing up with brothers, memories of the early days of the Internet, and quitting your vices.

Click below to listen!

This week's Dear Stranger and Friend is pretty special to me. It's Part One of a two-part episode, my bud Donald is the guest (someone I've been trying to get on since the start), and we talk about a

Max returns to the show this week to talk all about his recent road trip across the United States. Listen to the full ep...
26/04/2017

Max returns to the show this week to talk all about his recent road trip across the United States. Listen to the full episode below!

Max returns to Dear Stranger and Friend to talk about his trip across the country in The Dream. It was really fun to have him back on, sit on the bus he drove all around this country, drink a couple o

21/04/2017

"Object Memory" from Episode 21: The Word on the Street is That the Word is Obsolete w/ John

Listen to the full episode here: goo.gl/uGwYSJ

Music: Pleasant Heaven by Easy Tigress from the album Grvcelvnd. Full album here: https://easytigress.bandcamp.com/album/grvcelvnd

19/04/2017

Keepin' it PMA all day with Candice on the latest episode of Dear Stranger and Friend.

Full episode at soundcloud.com/dearstrangerandfriend

Who's got that attitude? We got that attitude! Listen to this week's episode of Dear Stranger and Friend with Candice be...
19/04/2017

Who's got that attitude? We got that attitude! Listen to this week's episode of Dear Stranger and Friend with Candice below!

This week, I talk to one of the most positive people I've ever met, Candice. I've known her for quite a long time and she never fails to reach out to say what's up whenever it seems like it's been a w

New episode of Dear Stranger and Friend! This week, I talk to a former professor of mine about music, mixtapes, and writ...
05/04/2017

New episode of Dear Stranger and Friend! This week, I talk to a former professor of mine about music, mixtapes, and writing. It's pretty fun one, I hope you enjoy it.

You can check some of John's writing at: http://notthatjohnproctor.com/

This week, I'm talking to an old college professor of mine. He was one of the many educators I've had in the past who I definitely looked up to. Many of our early conversations had to do with music be

Dear Stranger and Friend is back! This week, I talk to my friend Ted who I have known for years but never really had a c...
29/03/2017

Dear Stranger and Friend is back! This week, I talk to my friend Ted who I have known for years but never really had a chance to sit down and talk to him. It was a lot of fun to connect with him and it was surprisingly fun to break down the podcast while doing the podcast. I hope you guys enjoy this one!

And don't forget to check out the Patreon, if you enjoy what you hear!

On this episode of Dear Stranger and Friend, I talk to my friend Ted, who I've known for years but never really had a chance to talk to one-on-one. We talk a lot about the podcast itself on this episo

26/03/2017

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I started this podcast after spending a couple weeks in LA, Phoenix, and Tucson. Over that period of time, I found myself in bars/restaurants trying to kill time by talking to strangers. And after they left (or after I did), I'd thumb through my phone to kill time that way. I realized that I was friends with hundreds of people on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram but I didn't really know them. I realized that it was easier for me to talk to actual strangers instead of the ones I had in my life. So I decided to document my conversations with people I haven't necessarily given a fair shake. Over the course of a couple of months, I've made friends with people I already knew and it's been the most rewarding experience of my life. Every week, I try to be better to the people in my life. Even if I haven't said, "hey" in a year or two or three.

After almost a year of connecting with strangers who eventually became good friends, I had the opportunity to take a month long road trip across the United States to meet up with more old friends (and make new ones) all while recording episodes at every stop. I hope you enjoy the conversations as much as I did while I was having them.