17/11/2019
POWER OF S*XUAL IN*******SE
I began my search until I finally saw how babies were made when I want for holiday in my cousins house. I was primary 3 when I saw what s*x is all about. I grew up wanting to know more about it out of curiosity.
I am very sure everyone of us on this platform knows what s*x is all about. We might still have to abstain from it because we are not married but the word s*x is not strange to us.
We human beings are incapable of formulating moral laws on the issues of s*x because we are not the programmers of s*x. God who designed and programmed s*x knows what he packaged in it. Anchor scriptures 1Corinthians 6vs 1-20.
WHAT IS S*X
s*x is uniting Spirit, soul and body with someone through ones private part 1Corinthians 6vs15-16.
Biblical Truth About S*x
(1) s*x is good
In our contemporary culture, Christianity is generally portrayed as s*xually repressive in the extreme. Christians are known for being opposed to gay s*x, pre-marital s*x, and extramarital s*x and therefore the assumption is that Christians believe that s*x is bad in and of itself – but nothing could be further from the truth!
The Bible says that the first husband and wife were: “both naked and were not ashamed” (Genesis 2:25)
Before the fall – before sin – s*x was part of the created order. It was good – VERY GOOD – and was engaged in freely, without inhibition of any kind by the man and the woman.
The Bible says that s*x was affected by the fall but it remains something to be celebrated and protected throughout the entire canon of Scripture. In the Book of Proverbs, the wise father instructs his son to:
rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. (Proverbs 5:18–19 ESV)
Likewise in the New Testament, it says:
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled. (Hebrews 13:4 ESV)
S*x between a husband and a wife is never a cause for shame. It should be honoured, cherished and enjoyed as the gift and the good that it is; thanks be to God
(2) S*X IS DESIGNED TO FUNCTION WELL ONLY IN MARRIAGE:
You are not suppose to have s*x because you are old enough, you are in love, you are with the right person or you are in courtship but because you are married. If you are hundred years old and you are not married to the person you are not qualified to have s*x. 1cor 6:18 1cor 6:13, Eph 5: 3 1cor6 9-20
(3) GOD IS AGAINST S*XUAL IMMORALITY
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from s*xual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know
(4)S*X IS A COVENANT RITUAL PROGRAMED FOR MARRIAGE. Marriage covenant commitment while s*x is covenant ritual.The bible says in proverbs 5: 19
A hind of loves, and a roe of grace! Let her loves satisfy thee at all times, In her love magnify thyself continually.
1 Corinthians 7:2
But because of the temptation to s*xual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
(5) S*X HAS TROUBLE SHOOTING SECTION
It is powerful beyond measure and it has trouble shooting section. This trouble shooting section is what takes place when we ignore s*x manual.
1 Corinthians 10:8 says:
We must not indulge in s*xual immorality as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a single day.
POWER OF S*XUAL IN*******SE
(a)God made s*x in such a way that it unite partners in spirit soul and body. When you have s*x with someone you yield your spirit to them. Icor 6: 15-16. So s*x has power to make two become one. How? You will become who you have s*x with. Whatever he carries your spirit yield to it and you are loaded with what he is loaded with. Imagine if you have countless patners. God the programmer of s*x said:
"What? Know ye not that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? “For two,” saith He, “shall be one flesh. You can ignore anybody's word but not the word of God. Civilization does not change the standard of God. We have countless men who engage in extramarital affairs and got their lives ruined. This trouble shooting section of s*x can claim all you ever worked and essence in life. Lust kills and burn like a fiery furnace and it suspends your reasoning faculty.
I still remember this family that as a result of adultery four out of six members of the family died. The husband had s*x out of wedlock got the dreaded HIV when it had no cure, he gave the wife and two out of their children got it. They all died. It is that terrible.
There countless stories lecturers and people of high reputations whose glory was tarnished due to s*xual immorality. They lost all they worked for in life because the lack self control.
Lust is not designed by God it is the agenda of the devil. It can make you surrender your destiny when it get hold of you.
(b)S*x is programmed by God for multiplication Genesis 4:1 Gen 1:28. If you have ugly s*x you will have beautiful baby. It has power to reproduce us. We multiply on earth through s*x. So if you engage in s*x and you are pregnant that is a show you power of s*x. People atimes use prevention and still get pregnant. A lady tied her womb and still got pregnant. A lady removed her womb and still got pregnant. Some use condoms and still get pregnant.
(c)One of the power of s*x is that IT MAKES YOU GIVE AND TAKE AUTOMATICALLY There is nothing on earth you can use to prevent giving and taken in s*x. Once you have s*x with someone you will give and take something. We all are only away of the fact that people contact s*xual transmitted diseases when the have unprotected s*x but we are not aware of what give and take that is not preventable. You give your soul, you yied your spirit and it temper with your body. In marriage it get to a point husband and wife start looking alike. God told us every other sin is outside the body but this one s*x outside marriage is a sin that affects your body. Psychiatrists tell us that there is a chemical reason that makes those who s*xually perverted have their reasoning faculty down. Apparently, the more someone become s*xually excited the more certain chemical start to be secreted within the brain. These actually shut down our reasoning faculty, leaving us with nothing else but our s*xual urge. Any other faculty has been sedated. SOME LADIES DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR LIVES ANYMORE, THE ONLY THING THEY DO BETTER IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH OPPOSITE S*X IS HAVING S*X. If all you have to offer this generation is breast and vaginal you are a failure. Courtship is not a platform for s*x and it does not qualify you for s*x, It is specially designed for marriage. If you have missed it, it is not too late to ask for secondary virginity.
(d)S*x has power of intoxication
In marriage it can be easily manageable because that is the only place it functions wel. You need to see the look of a man when he wants to have s*x with his wife. Some men will be so high despite all the annointing they have as a minister. They can be so tender and loving when they want s*x and some if they know you always complain when it comes to the time of s*x, the kind of aggression they put on will show you fire is burning him. At this stage he will even deny all the previous time you have made love and claim you always reject. Men and women can be wild when the hormones set them ablaze.
This is the reason s*x outside marriage is dangerous because when you are intoxicated you will throw caution to the wind and give away your essences.Civilization does not change the standard of God. We have countless men who engage in extramarital affairs and got their lives ruined. This trouble shooting section of s*x can claim all you ever worked and essence in life. Lust kills and burn like a fiery furnace and it suspends your reasoning faculty.
I still remember this family that as a result of adultery four out of six members of the family died. The husband had s*x out of wedlock got the dreaded HIV when it had no cure, he gave the wife and two out of their children got it. They all died. It is that terrible.
There countless stories lecturers and people of high reputations whose glory was tarnished due to s*xual immorality. They lost all they worked for in life because the lack self control.
Lust is not designed by God it is the agenda of the devil. It can make you surrender your destiny when it get hold of you.
How can I dominate the desire for lust. Check this out next week.