31/05/2020
LOVE AND RESPECT FOR YOUR HUSBAND.
1. Don't Compare him:
Unlike you wives dislike your husband comparing you with other women, same is applicable here in men, don't compare your husband to another man no matter what he did but rather correct him in a respectful way.
2. Don't ever Shout at your husband:
According to men when ever you are shouting at him you are disrespecting him. Speak calmly, if you ever feel like calling him names of all animals, just take a stroll to catch a fresh breath and come back, if it's yet not down on you to control, get a laptop and a sheet of paper write Down everything you wanted to tell him and you will be venting in the process. Once the steems calm down, delete that document or dispose it for good.
3. Don't ever correct him in public:
What is public in this case? In the presence of anyone. Don't play smart and show your husband danm, you would rather allow both of you look danm but don't correct him in the public. In your privacy you can approach him calmly and tell him that I think we should have done it this way or we should of said it this way in my opinion. And don't ever Start any sentence at all with the word You
You is accusing, always start with the word I think or I thought Note that anytime you start a statement with the word I you have naturally neutralized any anger in the way of your expression and in the minds of who is listening to you at that moment.
4. Consult him first:
This bullet is specifically for those of you women that will go and buy house somewhere, land or do anything with the midset of just in case it didn't work. The moment your husband discovers that you have a secret plot, House or account then definitely you have sent a strong signal, you have no faith in prosterity together and he feel dishonored and feels disrespeced. But if you have all these things already, there is how to solve it in a right way because the knowledge of the truth, sets free.
5. Don't discuss your marriage issues with anyone instead go for counciling.
A lot of Women will spend a lot of time discussing their husband with another woman. But you have never realized that everytime you discuss with another woman and she spends time encouraging you to discuss, that woman hates you, there is no one who loves who spends time, or entertain you to discuss your husband negatively. Know this, that any woman that encourages you to discuss wrong things about your husband, she is not acting in your best interest, identify her as your enemy. They are some of the phone numbers you need to delete without emotion.
6. Manipulate your husband Sexually:
Anytime you engage your husband intimately, you send a strong signal that you respect him, just a proper definition of witchcraft because it is also the form of manipulation, so you are a witch if you are controlling your husband sexually but in this case, it a good witchcraft that almost every men will pray for it's manipulation from their wives.
7. Assist him:
Always try in every means to assist him in anything he is doing that you know you can be of assistance,
It can be with your wise opinion or ideas in his work or attending to issues not anytime he brings up a question like, "Honey! I don't know what to do about the condition of this business either to stop it or continue" and you as the wife will be like "anyhow you do it is good now" No! So many Men need their wife to bring suggestions or ideas on how he can run his things to be the best and achieve more. So take note of that.
Also some women will see that their husband is busy searching for something and instead she will help him and find it, she will just ask "Honey! What are you looking for? And the husband will tell her and she will seat and be directing him where and how to look for it, No! Join him nd make sure you find it with him for with you beside him in the search will always make him feel supported even if both of you couldn't find that thing.
8.Don't Walk away from him when ever he is telling you something or correcting you.
Some Women do leave their husbands presence when he is asking them to stop what they are doing that is wrong, Yes! I know your main aim of leaving is either for peace to reign or to avoid being raised hands on of which I also doesn't support but even at that, I urge you to keep in your lips I am sorry, Please forgive me and let your temper calm down please my husband" and practice too in your character to always be silent when he is seriously sad and he is talking to you and when he is a bit calm your words shouldn't exceed letting him know that you are sorry, even on your right.
I know many will say Noooo! But remember his strength and weakness is in your hands as his wife unless you don't know how to use them. So try to correct him in a calm in the best moment of his normal mood.
