31/07/2020
Wow. First of all let me say thank you to all of those who commented and sent me such kind, thoughtful and uplifting messages after my post yesterday. As I read through them I was filled with thankfulness to see that there are far more compassionate people on this platform than not.
I didn’t post that yesterday to fish for compliments or to get people to feel bad for me. In fact, I almost didn’t post it for that exact reason. I did so because I’ve seen other women or people in the public eye make similar posts, and I always feel a sense of admiration for them, so I hope maybe I can empower someone else by being open and honest. It’s no fun putting up ugly comments about yourself because, shamefully, most any derogatory thing someone can say about me I’ve probably already thought myself. It’s like shining a spotlight on the one thing you hope no one else is thinking. Being on television certainly doesn’t make you perfect. I have good days, I have bad days! These past few months have been the most challenging of my career (and for most of us on planet Earth!) and I’m just trying my best to show up each day and do what I am trusted to do. Thank you for bearing with me, even when maybe things aren’t “perfect.”
Yesterday’s post is almost unfair to Larry. I heard from several of you who know him, I appreciate you sharing with me. I’m not saying I feel bad for putting him on blast for saying incredibly distasteful things, but it is unfair to portray him as the only offender. Sadly, I (and many others, maybe even some of you!) receive these types of ugly messages on a weekly if not daily basis. From men and women. About everything from my clothes to hair to makeup to body to intelligence and beyond! Sometimes I laugh it off, many I don’t even read, but it happens. Should you ever find yourself in a moment desiring to send a negative comment or message - to anyone - think about using your time better. I guarantee spewing hate won’t lift you up, and it certainly won’t help the recipient in any way. People hurt themselves, even take their own lives due to comments like this. I feel fortunate to have all of your kind comments and loved ones in my life who refuse to let me believe them. Some aren’t as lucky.
As you go into this weekend please try to spread some love and light into this world. Boy do we need it.
One of you sent me a sweet comment that said, “blowing out someone else’s candle doesn’t make yours burn any brighter.” I love that. And I love y’all! Thank you and take good care ❤️
(The look on Ru’s face when he finds out anyone shares anything but cat videos online 🤪)