07/10/2019
A True Story: People in wheelchairs should be punished too.
I roll into the nightclub with two of my friends. The dance floor is packed with people and I sit on the side while my friends go get a drink from the bar. Itās a pain in the butt to maneuver around with a wheelchair in a high density place. As Iām looking around to spot any good looking women I am suddenly interrupted by a young guy stumbling up to me. He attempts to talk over the eardrum-piercing music. I donāt understand what the clearly drunk guy is saying, āwhat? I canāt hear you!ā I reply.
The young guy, barely able to stand leans over me and slurs into my ear āwhat happened to you mannnn?ā
Iām thinking to myself āohā¦ here we goā¦ā and Iām already irritated. I move my head away from him and say ānothing happened bro, itās all goodā
The drunk guy leans on my shoulders with his slimy arms, slurring and drooling from his mouth, āwhat happened man? Tell me what happenedā¦ā
People are dancing all around us. āBroā¦ nothing happened, itās all good manā¦ā Iām not even sure he can hear me over the loud music in the club.
The drunk guy getās down on his knees in front of me leaning with his body on my knees. His hands again on my shoulders and with his drooling face closer to mine, āplease brotherā¦ itās okā¦ you can tell me what happened to youā¦ā The music is blasting in the club.
I put my hands on his shoulders and say ādude. Get out of my faceā
āYou can tell me brotherā¦ what happened?ā He canāt hear me. I raise my voice.
āDude. Get out of my faceā
The drunk guyās face becomes disgruntled hearing what I said. āWhat did you say?ā
I reply, āI said GET-THE F**K-OUT OF MY FACEā
The drunk guy gets up in front of me and says āwhat did you just say?ā
I reply, āI said GET-THE-FUā¦ā I see a sudden flash of light and my head swings back. āThat was really weirdā¦ what just happened?ā I think.
The drunk guy is standing in front of me with his fists clenched and my eye is suddenly starting to get warm. āDid I just get punched in the face?ā
I look around and some people in the club are clearly shocked. āI canāt believe that this piece of scum just punched a guy in a wheelchairā¦ā
Underneath my wheelchair cushion I have a knife.
āI canāt believe that this piece of trash just punched a guy in a wheelchairā¦ā
I look around to see where my friends are. They are standing not so far away with a dumbfounded look on their faces not even sure if they really just witnessed what they witnessed through the darkness in the nightclub. They are standing there shocked and unmoving.
I think to myself, āTrash like this needs to be taken out. I either need to put this scumbag in jail or put him in a hospitalā¦ā
I reach under my seat cushion and wrap my right hand around my knife.
āAm I really going to push this knife into this guyās belly?ā
āAm I going to be one of these people that stabs another person in a nightclub?ā
āHe deserves it thoughā¦ and nobody else is going to do anything about thisā
āI might as well serve him his justice and teach him a lessonā
The knife is in my hand still reaching underneath my seat.
āThere are cameras everywhere hereā¦ Iām going to be on the news tomorrowā
The drunk guy is still standing in front of me angry and posturing with his fists clenched.
āHeadline: Injured veteran stabs nightclub goer - victim in critical conditionā
āI canāt let this mo********er get away with this and roam the streetsā¦ If he did this to me, heāll do this to othersā
āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
āI couldnāt defend myself Your Honorā¦ I was afraid for my lifeā¦ā
āthe whole damn country will be talking about thisā
āIs this what Iām going to be remembered for?ā
āAm I really going to stab a man in the stomach right now?ā
āNoā¦ Iām not.ā
Two of the guyās friends suddenly emerge from the crowd, grab him and quickly disappear into the nightclub.
I let go of my knife, almost thankful that his friends whisked him away from me. I turn around, and roll out of the nightclub deeply shaken, sad and disturbed.
āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
For the next monthā¦ every 15 minutes I have the thought, āI canāt believe I just got punched in the faceā¦ who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?ā
I go to a store and purchase a steel telescopic police baton that folds into a small sized handle. I find a place where I can connect it onto my wheelchair anywhere I go. āThe next time I encounter a guy like this, I will deal him my justice and Iāll at least break his kneesā¦ the bastard can limp for the rest of his life and wish heād never hit someoneā¦ā
throughout the weeks to come, something is still not right with me. I am disturbed. Iām disempowered. Iām weak and Iām powerlessā¦ even with my new bone-crushing baton, Iām still a victim. Iām still powerlessā¦ I have to take responsibility for this somehow.
āHow can I be responsible for this? Who the hell hits a guy in a wheelchair?!ā I have to take responsibility for this somehow.
I begin to look at what happened. Why did this happen to me? He asked me what happened. I said get out of my face. He asked me again what happened. Why didnāt I just tell him what happened? I told him to get the f**k out of my face. Why did I have to be a smart ass? He was drunkā¦ why did I have to be a tough guy and curse at him? Why did I use aggressive language with him? Thatās not nice... even if heās an annoying drunk, why would I curse at someone? I can understand how he could be offended. I was literally being offensive to him! Boomā¦ Be offensive and I might get hit in the eye. I guess that makes sense doesnāt it? Pull a dogās tail, it might bite you. Curse out a random person after they expressed interest in your wellbeingā¦ you might get punched. If I had just spoken to the man honorably, and hadnāt been a jerk, I would have never gotten punched in the face! I laughed.
I guess heās the one who did justice with me!
Life Lesson: It doesnāt matter who you think you are, whether youāre the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, or youāre in a wheelchair, or youāre a mom or youāre a bus driver. We are all human beings, and if you speak and act dishonorably, the world has a right to dishonor you back. No excuses. Be descent. Be kind. Honor people no matter who they are, what they think, what their beliefs and politics are, even if they're drunk or deranged or mentally ill. Always be responsible for your speaking. Speak with Honor and Speak with Kindness.
(The black eye in this photo has been photoshopped and this story happened about 10 years ago)