Built To Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

06/11/2024

MARRIAGE ON A LOW BUDGET 📌
It's possible to get your dream marriage on a low budget but it's possible when you have an understanding partner especially when the lady is an understanding woman.

Go for cheaper but quality stuff. Get people could be among your friends or family members who can actually do certain things for you at a little cost, remove any unnecessary things/events just as it's seen in the picture below (NO RECEPTION!)

In such a state the economy is right now, you don't have to do above your means. You can opt in for a low budget marriage and still be happy. After all, what matters is the ability to sustain the needs in the home after the wedding ceremony.

Instead of going broke after the wedding you can plan within your means so as to be able to survive the financial demands within the first 6(six) months of your marriage or don't you know that after the wedding celebration there's what is called financial stress? Let's leave this for another day.

Our generation has really made getting married so expensive however, you can decide to go for what you feel comfortable with at the moment besides there are many celebrations later that you can celebrate in a grand style when you finally have the means.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.


Founder relationship and marriage hub

05/11/2024

Absolutely true. Enduring some kinds of relationship aren't worth it. If truly you have self respect you won't allow anyone else to disrespect you. Staying in a verbally abusive, physically abusive and mentally abusive relationship isn't worth it. Have so much value for yourself that you don't need anyone's love for an approval.

31/10/2024

Ever winning wisdom.

23/10/2024

📌I HOPE MY HUSBAND GETS TO SEE THIS SOMEDAY 😭😭📌

I still want us together it's been a week now he hasn't returned home. Here is what happened.

Being an introvert, I was good at absorbing anything and everything my husband does to me. For every decisions he makes even though it has consequences or not, I don't give my own opinion. I let him handle things by himself. I thought I was being submissive and he never really complained. He loved it aswell and made me feel I was a good wife. Until one evening. We had an heated argument that let me pour out my heart. I discovered that a lot of things I had kept within me, the pains and hurts for some months have piled up in my heart causing resentment and hate towards my husband. I said a lot of hurtful words that my husband had no choice than to leave the house that night and up till now he hasn't returned.

Hey!!! Catch you.

This is just a fictional story but I believe a lot of women are in this table and it's common with most introverts.

It's best to communicate your feelings, your emotions, opinions and thoughts with your partner . Life becomes easier with you and your partner when you express yourself.

Communication is a life wire in any relationship. Instead of loosing your home work on being a better communicator. If you can't express in words then express in written text or letter so it can be properly addressed.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.

Joseph
Founder Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

17/10/2024

📌THIS IS WHY I HATE LONG PERIOD OF DATING 📌

I know of several persons who dated for 7 to 8 years and finally ended up together. But no two persons are same. What works for them might not work for you.

Hence, I often advice long period of dating isn't worth it. If after 4 years he hasn't popped the question my dear please ask him several questions to know if he has you in his mind, his future plans.Ask him should incase you see a serious suitor if you should go ahead to marry him this will reveal his heart to you aswell especially when you know you're in your late twenties and above.

No unserious man should waste your time jare.

Joseph
Founder Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

11/10/2024

DO THIS TO WIN IN YOUR MARRIAGE 📌

To my fellow married couple out here, please in all you do ensure you pray for your spouse.

Pray for your marriage. It's not when there's an issue you begin to pray. I will always say you don't prepare for battle on the battle field but before it happens.

A lot of things are happening some could be spiritual while some could be from both couple's angle of negligence or mistakes.

What prayer does to a praying couple is to help them have a repentant heart when wrong, easily apply godly marital principles where needed, able to forgive and reconcile willingly and lots more.

A praying couple is a victorious one. As much as you pay attention to other areas please ensure you pray for each other.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.

Joseph
Founder Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

10/10/2024

Home sweet home.
Home is home.

This statement is possible when such home is peaceful. It's the responsibility of both parties to create such an atmosphere of peace in the home.

Many would say but the bible instructs women to build thier homes. Oh yes! True, but if the man doesn't cooperate with her how then can she build the home?

A beautiful home that's built to last is possible when both parties do what's right.

Joseph
Founder Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

09/10/2024

ONE WAY TO SPOT A TIME WASTERS IN RELATIONSHIP

Frank and Fabian have been dating for two years now, there came a particular day, Frank told Fabian incase she sees anyone that wants to marry her she should go for him instead of waiting for him that he's not ready yet for marriage.

Fabian wasn't bothered by any of these she kept on dating Frank. After a year, Frank called the relationship off. This was heart breaking and to Fabian's greatest surprise, two years later, Frank got married to another lady.

Here's is the question, so why didn't Frank marry Fabian whom he has been with for years considering the time she must have wasted refusing suitors and all? Hmmm.

On the other hand, whom are you to blame? Frank clearly told Fabian to go ahead and get married if she sees anyone willing to settle down with her.

Well, to me, this is already a sign that Frank doesn't want to get married to her initially. She would have quitted the relationship immediately and moved on with her life.

If Frank really loved her, he would have told her to wait for him, continue the relationship and do the right thing when he was ready for marriage.

How sad it's. Dear single ladies, don't allow anyone waste your time. Identify relationships that are time wasting from the guy's behaviour, his speech and several others so you won't end up regretting.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.

Joseph
Founder Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

04/10/2024

Absolutely

03/10/2024

As little as dishonesty (telling of lies), it's a red flag especially when it's done often that's it's become an habitual act.

Rather than making excuses or trying to cover up for your partner, critically examine it and make the right decision.

Because, what you can't handle while dating, it becomes more difficult to handle when married and what you keep making excuses for, be ready to make more excuses for it when married.

Red flags are not to be ignored they're warning signs telling you to stop and act fast.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.

Joseph
Founder @ Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

02/10/2024

30/09/2024

The good Lord who's able to keep thee from falling is able to keep any home(marriage) that's yeilded to Him from crashing.

Joseph
built to last relationship and marriage hub

26/09/2024

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path. (Prov 3:5-6)

This was one of the scriptures that I held unto during my single season because it was as though I wasn't meeting the right person. It got to the point someone wanted to connect me with his friend, some thier brother.

I never wanted to make the wrong decision or enter into relationship leading to marriage because of pressure. I held on to this verse above like my life depends on it.

Did I experience everything the verse says? Yes, I did. I saw God directing me from wrong relationships and finally led the right one to me.

So, when I say God is real and trust Him as He leads I am saying this from experience.

God is real, apply this verse prov. 3:5-6 in all that concerns you and you'll see the wonders.

To a wonderful and blissful relationship and marriage I'm cheering you on.

Uriri Joseph
Founder @ Built to Last Relationship and Marriage Hub

24/09/2024

Celebrating my 1st year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

24/09/2024

What a lovely pics. Just describing the beautiful stages of marital relationship..

I love love jare 😂😂😂

10/09/2024

Absolutely 👍

06/09/2024

Whatsoever you use to get your partner's attention just know that you'll have to continue doing it when married.

This often times generates issues in the home when you can no longer continue doing it.

Just be wise, be transparent and be you.
Whomsoever loves you will accept you first for whom you are.

Joseph
to last relationship and marriage hub

02/09/2024

Respect for your spouse is when you don't castigate them before your siblings and friends.
Joseph
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