22/04/2024
"I met this married man, we've dated for 2yrs now. He lost his wife so, he has promised to marry me..
I'll be 29 next month, We have a huge age gap. He is 20 yrs older than me
Well despite that he was married, i never really cared because he's such a caring person, he even opened up a business for me & also rented a house for me. I knew he was married all along but i couldn't help it. i love him & its obvious that he feels same for me, he doesn't just listen to me but, he also makes sure that i lack nothing...
He's been married for 10yrs, has 2 kids, 7 yr-old boy & a daughter of 5. Well, to cut the long story short. He lost his wife 9 months ago, so I moved in & he has promise to marry me this coming December, the good thing is, he accepts my 2 yr old daughter. Well, I've accepted to marry him..
So we've agreed that the kids should, go live with his late wife's mother. Made it clear to him that i can't live under the same roof with another woman's children which ofcos is very normal with every woman & am glad that he understands, naturally everything has fallen in place & am so happy am finally going to be his wife at last after everything, which brings me exactly to the point I want to make..
Am really excited am getting married to my dream man after all, so I decide to use this opportunity to use my story to advice & make my fellow young girls out there who are still single understand that, as funny as it may sound, being a side chick to a married man or whosoever isn't really a bad thing as society paints it, since you really do not know who can be your soul mate. Me for instance, I've thought of "what if i had turned this man down, obviously i wouldn't have been this happy the way that i feel now. Just wanted to use my story to make a point many fail to understand thanks"