03/11/2020
First love getting younger; positive or negative outcome?
We've all seen it in the movies, the scene in which the man runs up to the woman saying that she is his first love and that he will always love her. The scene always seem to end with happy tears or a romantic kiss.
The word 'first love' evokes various emotions to many people. Some people end up happily ever after with their first love, but in most cases, first loves tend to fail. Either way, just by thinking of their first love, people go back in time, recovering distant memories. It is needless to say that first love has a very special meaning for everyone.
However, some people question what 'first love' really is. Is it someone who taught you what love is for the first time? Is it your first crush? Is it your first boyfriend? From first date to first kiss, everyone tends to have different standards on what or who their first love is.
The definition for 'first love' gets more complicated every day, as the average age of teenagers' first relationship is getting younger and younger. Even elementary school children have experience of being in a relationship, and by the time teens turn 16, it is hard to find a teen who has never gone out on a date before.
Although there are some teenage relationships that last long and are considered serious, most of these younger relationships are often carefree. Teenagers who are less experienced but free from burden of having to get married soon jump into relationships more easily in comparison to adults. This may be the merit of teenage relationship, but it can also be problematic.
First, teenagers are supposed to be focusing on their school work and preparation for their future. Not all, but most teens get distracted when they date. Moreover, a lot of people find it hard to concentrate on something or even socialize when they go through a harsh breakup. Some people say that adolescents who have sensitive emotions should not be exposed to such dramatic emotions.
Secondly, teenagers do not have the ability to take responsibility of their own actions. Being in a relations puts people in a position where they have to spend a lot more money than they usually would. A date or gifts for the partner costs money. Although adults can earn the money themselves and deserve to use their money for whatever purpose they want, students have no way of making money. So many of them use their parents' money or even try to earn money in an illegal way.
The positive vibe that love can not be ignored, and teenagers have every right to date who they like. However it is important to not jump into emotionally draining relationships too easily, and be careful not to spend too much money.