Taylor and Masse have been searching for a special guest who could teach us about the new AEA Legislation in Iowa!
AVAILABLE NOW: Episode 9- AEA Explained with Representative Molly Buck
Thank you, Representative Buck, for educating on this new reform! She did an amazing job at keeping the information high-level and giving facts to allow our listeners to make their own informed decisions.
https://therealmamasofthenicupodcast.buzzsprout.com
Ifykyk NICU moms… #nicubaby #nicu #nicumom #capcut #fypシ
IT’S LONG OVER-DUE! 🍻
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For those of you that don’t know, Masse Poetting + Taylor Mattson become NICU besties for the resties during our preemie’s journey.
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We still aren’t sure how we actually “met” but we do know once we did we were inseparable, each others back-bone + support & biggest cheerleaders!
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Our kiddos both had such different stories during their stay - but, we were the only ones for each other who truly understood how the other one was feeling during such an isolating + lonely time.
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We started by our daily coffee outings in our hospital to force one another to get out of living in our child’s room 24/7 - then decided it was time to actually get out of the hospital together (from the firm recommendation from one of our favorite nurses - Emily Feltes shoutout to you) so we got our nails done 💅
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Well, the rest is history….
From our total combined stay of 200+ days with our babes, we began making Thursdays nights out “date night” where we would take our husbands 99.9% of the time + we would do some sort of fun activity. We would bowl, golf, darts… we even threw axes 🪓 😱…. The rule was we always had to have an adult beverage (or a few) + just unwind focusing on the fun going on instead of being so wrapped up in hospital & NICU world.
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So many memories made, my forever friend who is like family + so many great stories together!
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If you can, find a support squad like this during your NICU stay - I totally believe it made a world of a difference going through it together + leaning on one another, even 3 years later…
Don’t be afraid to reach out to staff at your hospital about connecting you with other moms, or saying hi and starting conversations in the hallway, or just be the weirdo like me + walk up to them and give them no choice to be your friend, right Masse? 😜
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Last night was long overdue getting to re-live a Thursday night date night, outside of NICU life! 💜
POV: NICU MOM EDITION 🩻🩺 #nicujourney #nicubaby #nicuwarrior #nicumom #photodrop #camera #cameraroll #iykyk #preemiestrong #preemiebaby #preemiepower
here’s what I wish I would’ve known…
Coming home from 6+ months of NICU life was a wild transition for all of us to adjust too. It took a minute.
Let’s be honest - we all felt the feelings of:
BEING NERVOUS
A HUGE GERMAPHOBE
SURVIVING ON A SCHEDULE
MENTALLY BEING ON SURVIVAL MODE
DISTANCED RELATIONSHIPS + FRIENDSHIPS
ANXIETY
WORRIED WHAT OTHERS OPINIONS WERE
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Here’s my piece of advice…
This is an overwhelming journey regardless in or out of the NICU - it’s all you & your baby knew. You will experience maybe all of those feelings, maybe none, maybe more - but regardless, you will get through!
HERES WHAT TO DO:
-heal on YOUR own time
-ask for help
-take time for YOU as a mom
-lean on your support
-allow yourself to feel all your feelings
-keep being that BAD ASS MOM
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Most importantly, when YOU are ready, TAKE THEM, LET THEM BE KIDS + ENJOY IT!
You will blink and the journey you once wished so badly to be over will be long gone and your miracle will be 3 -
then so on. So take it all in, let them climb into bed with you, read one more story before bed, share a bowl of ice cream together for dinner, read that same story for the 150th time they love, hold them a little tighter when they hug you.
Maybe in raising children we lose our mind a little bit, but boy do we find our soul! Embrace the exhaustion, the hard days, overwhelming days, and all of the joy! 💓
🦩💓NICU MOMHOOD💓🦩 #nicumom #momhood #trauma #PPD #PPDAwareness #mom #nicumama #flamingo #pink #NICU
👀 PART 2️⃣ of Jamie Bell’s interview here! 👀
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And, we can’t stay calm about this on how excited it makes us! 😱 🎉 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
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Go take a listen on her son, Miles, diagnosis + journey with spina bifida & the details of CHOP and the procedure taken place to give him the best outcome after birth! IT’S WILDLY INSPIRING + AMAZING! 💜
https://open.spotify.com/episode/72krEuQLugGuF2vRz0nMDt?si=kLhpbe27Smmw8SjSYrFqjg
LIKE, FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBE!
✨✨LAUNCHING T O N I G H T! ✨✨
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We have the honor of hearing this amazing mamas story about her son Miles & his inspiring story with his diagnosis of 𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗮 and how they advocated from the start.
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𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨! 👀 🙌🏼
EVERYONE, MEET LIAM + NOAH🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 #nicu #preemie #preemiestrong #preemiemama #bestfriends #smallbutmighty #warriors #nicumama #medicallycomplexkids #careforrare #fypシ Masse Poetting Taylor Mattson
GIVEAWAY WINNER TIME! 💜💜💜
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Congrats to Jamie + thank you for everyone for playing along & helping grow our community, here!
HAPPY FRIDAY! We love + appreciate you all!
Anyone else? 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
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HAPPY MONDAY, MAMAS! 💓💗💓💗💓💓
CHEERS to getting checked in + boarded… *deep breathes we made it*
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NEXT STOP - ✈️📍LIAM TAKES ON WASHINGTON DC📍✈️
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thank you everyone for the kind words + love from this weeks episode! 🖤 H A P P Y SUNDAY! #GoHawks #CareForRare 🦓