25/07/2015
Difference Between A Girlfriend Material And A Wife material good morning ladies and gentlemen. Let's get emotional again. Hmmmmmmm. Numerous calls and "quarrels" on the first "episodes" that deals on men. Someone even accused me of being a"woman wrapper" by "abusing" men in that article. But one thing I know is that as far as men are concern, from head to toe, we are all naturally, psychologically, socially and spiritually"women wrappers". Unless any man can come out and tell me he can do without women, if non, then I don't consider the statement as abusive, on the contrary, I see it as a complement. I'm not writing to please anyone, I'm just writing to balance the equation. I've heard countless stories of how some women are not wife materials, I've seen many times how some men accused and even sometimes generalized women as being the same in character. A guy even went as far as posting on his wall that "ALL WOMEN ARE DOGS". Though I replied him immediately like this; "HAVE YOU GIVEN YOUR MOTHER AND SISTERS BONES TODAY?" My reply cost me sha as he deleted me immediately. That is an extent a man who felt "used" and"dumped" can go. But come to think of it, many men are still openly praising and appreciating their wives, many guys are still openly praising and appreciating their girls and even using their pictures as DPs, if that is the case,then all women are not the same. From my observations, I realise there are some qualities a "girlfriend material" possesses and the ones a"wife material" possesses. You want to know more? Then follow me. Oya, let's go....1. The Girlfriend Material: She thinks about what you have to offer her. She even sometimes reminds you of what you have not done that you are supposed to have done, like weekly fixing of hairs, nails and daily miscellaneous, and if you fail on some occasions, she might even count it as sins against you. Her emotional attachment towards you is directly proportional to the amount of time, energy and cash you are willing to spend on her. She believe her beauty alone is enough to maneuver your heart, and with that, she's hoping if you continue on these, you will be a good husband. The Wife Material: From day one you will know her. She thinks about how she can support you in what you do. She might not have the financial capacity to aid you, but her continuous encouragements will show you that she will do more if she has more. Some of them even do the little one they can do without being asked; like sending recharge cards to you, or little amount to your account when they sensed that you are financially incapacitated. She appreciates your qualities, your intelligence, your determination, your quirks, your flaws and everything she has come to know about you. With this, she is hoping she will be a good wife for you.2. The Girlfriend Material: Though all females are jealous. But a girlfriend material is not jealous because another girl is taking your attention, far from it. She's jealous because another girl is sharing the resources that is not even enough for her to consume. So whenever she sees you around any girl, she flares up immediately and in most times, the quarrels wont abate until you buy something to appease her. She can do anything to protect her "interest"The Wife material she knows what you want and whom you are, with this, she places her trust on you, and gives you the benefit of the doubt. In most cases, she even knows you more than you know yourself and she's willing to give you space when the need arises. She is always open to talking things out, and continues to exercise patience that you may not always deserve. She's not doing this because you are the best on earth, she's doing it because she believe you can be the best for her.3. The Girlfriend Material: With her, physiological appearance is not negotiable. I mean your dressings must be standard. She does not want to know how you raise the money, you must "dress to kill" at all times. You just can't put on anything if you want to"stay in-love" with her; you can steal a shirt, hire a trouser, borrow a belt and rent a shoe, all she want is that you must be up-to-date in fashion. If you really want to impress her and you don't have enough resources, you must be ready to engage on nefarious activities like robbery, fraud or whatever. The Wife Material: She's not looking at your today, she's looking at your tomorrow, therefore she does not place much preference on your clothing so far you are neat. She sees your inner qualities than your outer qualities; your intelligent matters to her more than the clothes you puts on. With this, she sees you as handsome and presentable with or without expensive attires because she loves you from her heart, mind, and soul.4. The Girlfriend Material Shes always an assignment for you. Sometimes you can't even define the type of relationship you have with her; you don't know if you are in an emotional relationship with her or you are in an emotional partnership with her. No matter how you try, she just seems not perturbed. You are afraid that eventually, you may grow bored of each other. The Wife Material: You know her like your surname. She's the person you tell your plans and aspirations. She knows more than you and even reminds you of some important events and dates which you might have forgotten. Although, there are times when you are bored of her, but you are still happy and thanking your star for having such a woman.5. The Girlfriend Material: She is the girl you have fun with. You call her when you remember the way she "handles" you. She's always there to provide and "manufacture" feelings. You are with her because she's fun to be with. The Wife Material: Yes. She's always the girl you have enough fun with, but the difference is that you also laugh with her, cry with her, fight with her, think with her, plan with her, execute with her, listen to her and have the feelings you will be with her for the rest of your life. You have feelings for her, but you are not with her solely because of your emotions. You are with her because you have resolved to love her not minding how tired, depressed, or angry you feel. She also understands that loving you denotes sacrificing her time, energy, and other aspirations, and she's still more than willing to make the commitment. She loves you not with a selfish or envious love, but with a patient, enduring, humble, faithful and selfless one.6. The Girlfriend Material: She has diary where she writes all your sins; the times you committed them, what precipitated the sins and so on. She's always in a hurry to tell you the number of times you have done something wrong and she capitalizes on it and talk about it for hours and even days sometimes. She does not forgive, neither does she forgets, she uses your limitations against you. The Wife Material: She never reminds you of your wrongdoings. She sees you as an imperfect being, just like herself, and encourages you at all times while assuring you that your flaws are her strength and her flaws are your strength. She forgives even before you apologizes and sometimes she even apologizes despite the fact that you are the one that offended her. She swallows her pride for the sake of the union.7. The Girlfriend Material: If you are a "Hundrednaire",she tells you she loves you "a hundred times". Ifyou are a "Thousandnaire", she tells you she loves you "a thousand times". If you are a Millionnaire, she tells you she loves "a million times". If you are a Billionnaire, she either tells you she loves you "a billion times" or she loves you "forever". Your financial status determines the level of her "love" for you. She loves you for what you are and not for whom you are. Also, be rest assured that she will help you to spend that money the way people will"envy" you in the society. The Wife material she loves you for whom you are and your wealth is just a plus. She also tries her possible best to increase your wealth rather than diminishing it. She tries as much as possible to introduce you to beneficial businesses and ventures, like shares, properties etc. Ladies and gentlemen, you can add more to the list if you can remember any one.
