Rosie Paulyk

Rosie Paulyk Lover of social entrepreneurship, music, theatre & the sciences. Chronic caregiver to Mama S. More ⬇️

Dear Rad Human,⁠Over the coming days, weeks, months, and (no doubt) years, this IG account will document the experience ...
10/12/2021

Dear Rad Human,⁠
Over the coming days, weeks, months, and (no doubt) years, this IG account will document the experience of creating and growing Chronic Oasis. There are 3 reasons for this. ⁠

1) I believe that if a member of the Chronic Oasis community wants to get to know me, the human who created it, they should be able to. ⁠
2) I've been asked more than a time or two to give my two cents on how to treat someone who loves and cares for a chronically ill human in a variety of situations. While this topic will come up in Chronic Oasis in a roundabout way (from the perspective of a caregiver to another caregiver), it won't be found there outright. And while it can be tough and tender to discuss, this topic can also be full of insight and understanding. Indeed, relationships between people who love and care for chronically ill humans and people who don't have that same experience can be extraordinarily fulfilling. And we're talking both platonically and romantically here. ⁠
3) If another human chooses to create something that exists to better the human experience — perhaps a social enterprise or a non-profit — and even one teeny-tiny bit of my journey can help them out, well, I'm all for it. There's a whole host of lessons that come along with choosing to create something because you've been both intimately and greatly affected by the fact that it doesn't exist yet.⁠

Well, that's what I've got for today! Thank you for coming on this journey with me. It's going to be a heck of a ride.

After an intense week that felt pretty dang long some days, current mood = this. ⤵️
13/11/2021

After an intense week that felt pretty dang long some days, current mood = this. ⤵️

24/10/2021

Tonight I'm reflecting on a convo I had earlier today with one of the raddest humans I know. We hadn't spoken since shortly after my 31st birthday in September. As it turns out, both of us had been experiencing some challenging sh*t peppered in with some exciting and definitively sh*tless situations. Where am I going with this? Well...

Both of us agreed that honouring each others' true mental capacity for reconnecting is a must. And that it's more than fine to wait longer between mini phone call /Zoom reunions. Especially right now when the world continues to revolve precariously and situations that give one cause to pause come up more frequently.

If you're experiencing something similar to the above re: rad relationships that are ebbing and flowing since March 2020, this next bit is for you: Society really likes to talk about chapters in books closing when it comes to relationships and life stuff in general. However, when it comes to rad loved humans, what if the chapter isn't finished right now? Instead, what if there are just fewer, more spaced out words on the page? And in time, those words just might multiply and grow closer together again.

Sending you my love tonight and always. 💞
- RP

Guess who turned 17 last month?!
09/09/2021

Guess who turned 17 last month?!

I’ve written this post in my mind nearly 20 times. As it turns out I’m great at going on off-again, on-again social medi...
06/09/2021

I’ve written this post in my mind nearly 20 times. As it turns out I’m great at going on off-again, on-again social media hiatuses. They’re excellent-and-then-some for this human’s mental health. During each one, I’ve taken time to privately process how the world has changed/continues to change since March 2020. And I’ve been preparing for a time when it would become obvious that aforementioned hiatuses need to come to an end for an extended period of time. That time is now. Here’s why.

A thought keeps playing on loop in my mind: What if there’s a young 18 year old human who’s like 18 year old Rosie was? Full of sarcasm, compassion (though they’d never say that out loud lol), ambition and a clear twinkle-in-the-eye for life. And they have a chronically sick parent, and for the first time they’re realizing that their life could look very different from the lives of their other family and friends. And they’re in the middle of...what we’re in the middle of right now. Just to add icing to the proverbial cake, they’re looking on social media for guidance, and all they come to find is a smorgasbord of a divided society’s hurt, fear, confusion, and comparison. What then? How could the rest of their life go if they don’t find a different perspective to consider -- from an adult who’s just like them -- with more lived experiences. More wisdom. An adult who’s lived with uncertainty for almost 21 years and is becoming more than okay with it. Good with it.

This is why I’m back.

It feels damn good to be here with you again. Much love.

RP

04/06/2021

*trigger warning* In June 2014, my compassionate, wise, rad-sense-of-humoured Mama S tried to take her life. This experience shattered everything I was. Everything I thought to be true. Everything I’d believed in for the future.

This one’s for anyone who’s experienced anything like what I have and is in the middle of it all:

Six years have gone by and life is so very different. So, although it doesn’t seem like it’s remotely possible for life to be anything but an out-of-body-wtf-is-happening-or-real-anymore experience, it can. More on what life is like now to come. (Can’t believe I just wrote that.)

Sending you my love tonight and always. 💞

Just took a 30 min sunset walk (so dang pretty out there!) and ended up thinking about the things that matter most. Like...
11/05/2021

Just took a 30 min sunset walk (so dang pretty out there!) and ended up thinking about the things that matter most. Like what you see in the pic below.

Mama S and I still have the same smiles today.         ❤️
10/05/2021

Mama S and I still have the same smiles today. ❤️

POV: You’re waiting up till midnight to give your 16.5 year old feline ride or die his antibiotic after Friday’s visit t...
19/04/2021

POV: You’re waiting up till midnight to give your 16.5 year old feline ride or die his antibiotic after Friday’s visit to the emerg vet clinic. After enduring a 3 hour wait in a strange (often loud) environment, Eric made it through with flying, yowl-filled colours. Ingrown claw: 0. Eric: 1.

Eric is more than a little miffed that I didn't shout him out during National Pet Day. So, here's his full-on sweet kitt...
14/04/2021

Eric is more than a little miffed that I didn't shout him out during National Pet Day. So, here's his full-on sweet kitten mode pose. Don't let this pic fool you. He was zanier than ever back then!

This little (now not-so-little) ball of fluff has been my constant companion over the last year. At almost 17 years old, he's *finally* learned the value of sitting on his human's lap for longer than 5 mins at a time.

Ready to meet his “little sister”? 😻

POV: The moment you realize next month is going to be a wild one update-wise on here. Chronic Oasis. A book featuring Ma...
16/03/2021

POV: The moment you realize next month is going to be a wild one update-wise on here. Chronic Oasis. A book featuring Mama S. Music. Podcasts. And most importantly, the reveal of Eric the Cat’s new sister…

To all the women and girls whose lives have changed in a kaleidoscope of ways because their loved human has a chronic il...
09/03/2021

To all the women and girls whose lives have changed in a kaleidoscope of ways because their loved human has a chronic illness: This past year has challenged us in ways we never thought possible. It’s propelled visceral, all-encompassing fears we never knew we had to the forefront of our minds. Some of us have lost our best friends. Our life partners. Our parents. Our children. Some of us have encountered the very real possibIlity that the people we love most could lack access to the healthcare they need to live. Some of us continue to face this possibility today. It’s been a hell of a year. Yet, we’re still here. If no one’s told you this today, then it’s high time you hear it: Your resilience imbues every fiber of your being. Your fierceness exists in every step you take. And unlike many humans alive today, you know what true exhilaration is because you’ve experienced its polar opposite.

Pictured: Mama S, my loved human. 💞

Current view:
15/10/2020

Current view:

As I lay here reflecting on what's to come this week, potent tunes by Finneas, Lennon Stella and Lewis Capaldi whisper s...
14/10/2020

As I lay here reflecting on what's to come this week, potent tunes by Finneas, Lennon Stella and Lewis Capaldi whisper sweet everythings in both ears. It's Chronic Oasis time. Over the course of the next five days I'll be prepping, filming and uploading 3 videos and 3 podcasts. The first includes a moment from The Beginning when Mama S was first diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. The second highlights a moment from The Middle re: our current global situation. And The End includes a surprise moment. Sharing this one will be...well, you'll see.⁠

The situation is this: I never thought I'd be doing this. I thought I'd just be focused on getting to know members of the Chronic Oasis (CO) community and sharing their wisdom gained while they care for their most-loved humans. However, sharing bits of wisdom I've accumulated since Mama S first became not-so-rad in the health department 20 years ago has been requested by more than a few CO members. And they want to see me share first. ⁠

So I will. ❤️⁠

Until tomorrow,⁠

RP

In 2020, I learned that starting the day slowly, cup of java in hand, chills me out and helps me prepare for whatever is...
03/09/2020

In 2020, I learned that starting the day slowly, cup of java in hand, chills me out and helps me prepare for whatever is to come during the rest of the day.

In 2020, I learned that cutting my hair is something I'm still not good at. 'Er, at all. At least I managed to avoid cut...
02/09/2020

In 2020, I learned that cutting my hair is something I'm still not good at. 'Er, at all. At least I managed to avoid cutting bangs this time around. As you can tell by this pic, 12 year old Rosie was reeeeeeeeally impressed by her uneven/way-too-short bang craftsmanship...

Well, it's happening...in September I'll be turning the big 3-0! So over the next 30 days I'll be sharing 30 things I've...
01/09/2020

Well, it's happening...in September I'll be turning the big 3-0! So over the next 30 days I'll be sharing 30 things I've learned in 2020. Because for better, for worse and for everything in between, our lives changed this year. Hopefully (at least) one or two of the things I share here will be helpful on your end. I mean, even if what I share makes you laugh...that would be rad and then some. ❤️

Dear Rad Human,⁠Over the coming days, weeks, months, and (no doubt) years, this Facebook account will document the exper...
22/08/2020

Dear Rad Human,⁠

Over the coming days, weeks, months, and (no doubt) years, this Facebook account will document the experience of creating and growing Chronic Oasis. There are 3 reasons for this. ⁠

1) I believe that if a member of the Chronic Oasis community wants to get to know me, the human who created it, they should be able to. ⁠

2) I've been asked more than a time or two to give my two cents on how to treat someone who loves and cares for a chronically ill human in a variety of situations. While this topic will come up in Chronic Oasis in a roundabout way (from the perspective of a caregiver to another caregiver), it won't be found there outright. And while it can be tough and tender to discuss, this topic can also be full of insight and understanding. Indeed, relationships between people who love and care for chronically ill humans and people who don't have that same experience can be extraordinarily fulfilling. And we're talking both platonically and romantically here. ⁠

3) If another human chooses to create something that exists to better the human experience — perhaps a social enterprise or a non-profit — and even one teeny-tiny bit of my journey can help them out, well, I'm all for it. There's a whole host of lessons that come along with choosing to create something because you've been both intimately and greatly affected by the fact that it doesn't exist yet.⁠

Well, that's what I've got for today! Thank you for coming on this journey with me. It's going to be a heck of a ride.

Well, Chronic Oasis' birthday was equal parts thrilling/unbelievable/fulfilling. And you made it this way. Grateful. Tha...
18/08/2020

Well, Chronic Oasis' birthday was equal parts thrilling/unbelievable/fulfilling. And you made it this way. Grateful. Thank you. ❤️

After taking a couple days to rest and recoup, I'm back at 'er! For the rest of this aft and later this eve I'll be focusing on getting to know Chronic Oasis' new community members over email, so you won't see me on here. I'll be back tomorrow, though, and will reply to any comments/PMs then!

For now, I'll leave you with this pic feat. (mostly) Eric the cat. Apparently I missed International Cat Day on Aug 8 and he's none too happy about it. Trying to make it up to him now...😼

Until tomorrow,

RP

Chronic Oasis is alive! Words can't articulate what this means to me right now. All I have is...here's the link: https:/...
14/08/2020

Chronic Oasis is alive! Words can't articulate what this means to me right now. All I have is...here's the link: https://chronicoasis.com/ ❤️

It's almoooooooost birthday time!⁠⁠Tonight, it'll be celebration station over here! Chronic Oasis comes to life at 6:30p...
13/08/2020

It's almoooooooost birthday time!⁠

Tonight, it'll be celebration station over here! Chronic Oasis comes to life at 6:30pm Pacific/7:30pm Central/9:30pm Eastern.

https://chronicoasis.com

13/08/2020

It’s time...

You. Me. Live video chat. Here on Facebook. Wednesday, August 12 @ 7pm Pacific/8pm Central (SK)/10pm Eastern.Might remem...
12/08/2020

You. Me. Live video chat. Here on Facebook. Wednesday, August 12 @ 7pm Pacific/8pm Central (SK)/10pm Eastern.

Might remember to look at my phone. Might be looking down/laughing the whole time (as pictured). Only time will tell...😉

See you then!

- RP

📸 LeRae Shawn Photography

11/08/2020

My spidey senses are telling me that a live video chat is waaaay overdue... ?

Details to come tomorrow re: Wednesday's live chat!

08/08/2020

As promised...🎥

07/08/2020

Currently working on a video for you that will be up tomorrow. This is going to be...surreal, to say the least. (And no, Eric won't be making an appearance in this one. I'm working on getting his agent to approve another appearance sometime in the future...😉)

Until tomorrow then,

- RP

Managed to get Eric the cat to (begrudgingly) take a pic with me! Glad to be back on here today. It's been too long! If ...
06/08/2020

Managed to get Eric the cat to (begrudgingly) take a pic with me! Glad to be back on here today. It's been too long!

If you're curious re: where I've been, I posted a bit about it on IG earlier today. You can see that here: https://www.instagram.com/rosiepaulyk/

In any event, I'm back and indeed, that means I'll be responding to comments, PMs, etc. on here.

Well, that's what I've got for today!

Till tomorrow,

- RP

📸 LeRae Shawn Photography

For all who've been asking, indeed, Mama S enjoyed last Friday's Chronic Oasis surprise more than a little bit! Thank yo...
28/07/2020

For all who've been asking, indeed, Mama S enjoyed last Friday's Chronic Oasis surprise more than a little bit! Thank you to everyone who sent b'day wishes and congratulations our way. Truly appreciated 💞

📸: The ultra-talented LeRae Shawn Photography

Happy 65th Birthday Mama S! Without this compassionate, hilarious and introspective human, Chronic Oasis would never hav...
24/07/2020

Happy 65th Birthday Mama S! Without this compassionate, hilarious and introspective human, Chronic Oasis would never have come to be. And so today, to celebrate, below you'll find a link that includes a very special announcement about Chronic Oasis. And if you don't know what Chronic Oasis is yet, you'll find that out too.😊⁠

Here's that link: https://chronicoasis.com/

P.S. Mom doesn't know about today's announcement yet. And I'm keeping her off social media all day. She'll find out in a couple hours at supper tonight...🥳

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