18/09/2023
ANALYZING ILEBAYE APOLOGY AND THE BITTER ONES RESPONSE
Pls share this so others that don't watch often can understand.
WRITTEN BY; Shalompreneur
Constant blame can be trauma*tizing. ILEBAYE needs a therapist now. Constant blames, bu*lly criti*cism, ha*te, loneliness, betra*yal and lack of understanding of where peoples hat*e come from can lead to either depression, low self esteem, self doubt ,lack of self confidence and even emotional break down. There is a point that people will continue to say b*ad things about you, that you start to believe them especially for a 22 year old girl. Most times, age , exposure and personality determines how you accept all these non*sense in your life. Someone with my age , exposure, self awareness and confidence will never accept these shi*ts. I will rather be one man's squad and face you all without viol*ence.
My point is that ILEBAYE does not owe the house any apology. She has done nothing to warrant the ill treatments they give to her. Most of the house mates do not even have any issues directly with her but choose to inherit ene*mity for their friends. This is also coupled with the fact that they have been informed by the new housemates how strong she is outside and their fear for her to win. They see her as a thre*at .They have done w*orse things in that house that were not taken serious. Imagine if it were ILEBAYE that pulled that prank on VENITA and ADEKUNLE.
ILEBAYE went on to apologize to the house after Ebuka"s confrontations . She might have thought that this apology will set the record straight , clarify issues and restored peace cos in as much as they all said she offends them, she could not understand how she was totally at fault. She asked them for forgiveness even without her being totally at fault and pleaded that they come to her to clarify issues when they have any. She is a brave girl, cos it takes BRAVERY TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS. Asking for forgiveness some times does not mean you are at fault. It t
