04/01/2020
6 Ways to Instantly Reset After a Rough Day
In today's busy culture, a normal day at the office can be pretty draining. Between tight deadlines, work stress and other pressing obligations that just never seem to go away, it can be hard to get back home without plopping right on the couch. And if you have a bad day, it's challenging to find the time and energy to unwind.
You might think there's no getting over it — you're stuck in the cycle of life that's tiring and hectic. Yet don't let that negativity stop you from trying a few healthy hacks that can instantly reshape your mentality and mood, turning that bad day into a pretty great one, after all. Try these simple and effective tips for getting over it quick and easy, where you can start your evening on a fresh, positive note.
1. Control Your Breathing
When experiencing stress, your autonomic nervous system goes haywire, according to Primer on the Autonomic Nervous System. "During an episode of high stress, the parts of the body regulated by this system begin to function irregularly: your heart may beat fast, you may over produce sweat, your mouth and throat become dry and your breath turns rapid, short and irregular," says Sharon Cleere, mindfulness coach and author.
But you can disrupt this process by consciously changing how you breathe, she says, which can help you unwind after a bad day. "Breathe in for four seconds, holding for four seconds and exhale for four seconds," Cleere says. "Then, once you feel you have calmed down, let your breath return to a normal, natural rhythm, once again trying to make each breath the same as the last."
2. Create a Positive Mantra For Yourself
If you had a tough day and you need help getting over it, recite a positive mantra that'll give you those happy vibes ASAP and bring back some self-love and confidence. "A mantra is a thought [you] have created with a particular intention and decided to think on [with] purpose," says Cleere. "I particularly like mantras that help you identify, acknowledge and accept how you feel while remaining positive."
3. Try Journaling
Channel your emotions through pen and paper to reset after a long day. According to a 2005 study published in Advances in Psychiatric Treatment, writing down your feelings can improve mental and physical health, for both the short- and long-term.
4. Squeeze in a Workout
If you're in a negative rut after a busy day, lace up your sneakers and get active. "Exercise — such as fitness training cardio and yoga — not only gets rid of all of your anxiety, anger and aggression, [but] it also releases serotonin and dopamine which assist with giving you a boost of the happy chemical and also make you physically feel better which in turn makes you mentally feel better," says Estes.
5. Seek Out Citrus
If you're desperately trying to unwind, grab something citrusy and let the aromas work their magic. "One of the quickest ways to reset is to take orange essential oil with you in a decanter and rub it on your wrist and pulse points every time you feel stress," Estes says. "This will ground you and center you making you feel less stressed almost instantly."
6. Go Out in Nature
Take a brisk walk or meditate in a lush, green patch of grass or a nearby park when you had a bad day and need to unwind. Nature has a profound effect on easing anxiety and promoting greater health and well-being, according to a 2018 study in Behavioral Sciences.
And a 2015 study in International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health showed that simply looking at trees and greenery in particular can enhance mood and mitigate stress, so if you're stuck indoors, take a peek outside your window and see what trees you can find nearby.
While you're out there, hug a tree! "As strange as that sounds, trees give out very positive energy, and if you were feeling down, angry or stressed, just being around or sitting near the tree with your spine against the trunk will make you feel grounded and more balanced instantly," says Estes.