07/02/2024
Valentine’s Day: 5 caring ways to let your dog know you love them
From Dr. Julie Buzby, an integrative veterinarian and founder of ToeGrips for dogs
1. Love your dog by taking a daily walk (or two) and making it part of your routine.
When dogs were in the wild, they traveled. They were on the move for miles and miles each day. Now in our homes, a dog’s only exercise may consist of running to the front door to greet us. But lack of physical activity is really hard on a dog’s body and spirit. The health benefits of walking your dog can’t be overlooked. Over 50% of American dogs are overweight or obese. This can be caused by a dog getting too many calories (overfed), not getting enough exercise, or a combination of both. In addition to the physical benefits of walking, it’s also emotionally and psychologically healthy–for both ends of the leash.
2. Love your dog by being consistent.
It’s important that we’re consistent in what we ask our dogs to do and the boundaries that we give them to live within. Recently, I hurt my dog’s feelings (and that may sound like anthropomorphism, but I could see it on my little dog’s face) when I expressed disappointment for a behavior that he didn’t realize was off-limits. I was inconsistent. One time I let him get away with a behavior and the next time I discouraged it. I’m not saying you can’t change the rules. What I am saying is establish the rules and be consistent.
3. Love your dog by giving her plenty of time to follow her nose!
If I had to give up one of my five senses, it would be an easy decision. I would give up my sense of smell. For dogs, however, their sense of smell is critical to their wellbeing. A dog’s sense of smell is many times greater than our sense of smell and the part of a dog’s brain that is associated with smell is 40 times larger than ours. As a result, being able to smell the world around them is crucial to how dogs perceive their surroundings. So, when you’re on those walks with your furry family member, make sure to allow time for your dog to follow his nose. He’ll love taking time to stop and smell the roses!
4. Show your dog love with ear rubs, chin scratches, or belly rubs.
Another little way we can love our dogs—and, incidentally, the people in our lives as well—is through physical touch. Not all dogs respond equally to physical touch, but I think taking a few minutes throughout the day to give a little ear rub, chin scratch, or belly rub is a meaningful, on-the-go way to show your dog your love.
5. Say “I love you.”
Say “I love you” to your dog and live it. Some skeptics may scoff and suggest that dogs do not understand the words “I love you.” When we communicate through language, we convey an intent, too. I’ve had many, many deaf dogs as my patients over the years. Many times as I’m examining a dog, the owner shares that the dog can’t hear me. I nod in understanding and continue whispering sweet nothings in the dog’s ears. I explain that, while the dog might not be hearing my words, by simply speaking them, I am communicating an intent. Dogs pick up on that.