01/11/2021
Happy November, everybody! Our November cover story is about teen Brendan Terry and his efforts to help migrant children at the Pomona Fairplex Emergency Intake site. Check it out!
Brendan Terry: Fighting for Those Who Cannot
By Nan Kuhlman
Most people are willing to help others out if they can, but sometimes it’s difficult to know how. This is where people like sixteen-year-old Brendan Terry, a sophomore at La Salle High School and Boy Scout, step in to help the rest of us out. Brendan found out that unaccompanied migrant children were being held at the Pomona Fairplex Emergency Intake Site, and there was a need for personal care supplies while they were being connected with sponsors and reunited with family members already in the US. Brendan was able to secure almost $3,000 worth of daily necessities, including shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrushes, tampons, sweaters, hoodies, shirts, and socks. These items were used for reunification kits that the Fairplex staff put together to send with the children as they were reunited with their loved ones or sponsors. Brendan Terry found that organizing a donation drive required motivation, willing participants, and a little perseverance.
A family friend contacted Brendan’s family about donations she was securing for the Long Beach Convention Center which was also housing unaccompanied migrant children. Brendan says, “My mom and I got online to see if there was any place closer to us that might need help, and we were so surprised to find out that the Pomona Fairplex was housing thousands of unaccompanied minors. It was right in our backyard, and we had no idea.” As Brendan worked on this project, he was surprised that most people did not realize that migrant children were being housed nearby.
Brendan decided to get involved because he knew that those kids needed help and he could be the one to give it. “I had already been aware that children were being held in centers along the border for a while, and I was pretty frustrated that they seemed to have no voice and were being held for a really long time at the border,” Brendan says. “I couldn’t imagine being in their shoes, held alone in a foreign country and not knowing what was going on. Then, when I heard that some of them were only a short drive away at the Pomona Fairplex Emergency Intake Site and that they could use supplies I could easily get, I felt the urge to jump to action. In the wise words of Princess Leia Organa, ‘I feel because I can fight, I have to for those who cannot.’”
Brendan initially started his donation project with his Boy Scout troop to gain leadership skills and meet some rank requirements, but he wanted to reach more people, so he asked his parents to share it on their social media pages. After that, Brendan approached some family members and family friends who were happy to pitch in. Finally, Brendan proposed the project to the church his family had attended since the pandemic started. Brendan says, “It was there, at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church in Monrovia, where I received the most support for my project. Everybody there was very supportive, and I got many generous donations. I appreciated their support even more because none of the members had ever even met me in person, I had only been a face on their computer screens in church services on Zoom for a year and a half!”
The responses to the project have been mostly positive, according to Brendan. At first, support was just a trickle, and then grew steadily, but it was when Brendan asked the church for help that he received a tidal wave of support. “People were very eager to assist, and I got half of my total donations within a day of announcing my project at St. Luke’s. One parishioner told me that many people, himself included, were well aware of the children’s plight and wanted to help out for a long time but they just didn't have a clear avenue open to them. But when my project came up, they knew that this was how they would be able to contribute to the cause,” Brendan says.
Brendan learned a few lessons about organizing a donation drive. When asked for advice for other teens interested in helping others, Brendan says, “I would advise them to reach out to the people who need help and see if they would be interested in working with you. If they say yes, get together with your friends and family, use your social media and start bringing in donations. You can even incentivize people to help by offering service hours or other benefits. I would also tell them to remember that no matter how big or small the total amount you raise is, it will always help someone or something out there, and that makes it worth it.”
According to Brendan, organizing a donation drive is much simpler than one would think. “All you need is motivation and some willing participants. I also learned that if things are not going smoothly, don't be hasty to give up,” Brendan says. “My donation drive took longer than I expected to really get off the ground so I had to keep trying new approaches and audiences. I fine-tuned my messaging, and what turned out to be really important was learning how to set up an Amazon registry site to make it easier for people to send in donations. Now I know how important it is to make it as simple as possible for other people to help and to continue to try different areas where you might have more success.”
Family support was also critical to the project’s success. His mother, Veronica Hahni, says, “I was thrilled that he was so interested in taking action on this. Teenagers tend to have a lot of opinions, and I appreciated watching him put his words into action and then stick with it when things got off to a slow start.” She knew his experiences at Barnhart School, Boy Scouts, and La Salle High School contributed to his desire to help. “Being in service to others has been at the core of all of those programs, so while it was not a surprise to see Brendan get involved in this, I was delighted that he was motivated to make it happen,” Veronica says.
While the family did have to make some sacrifices, Brendan’s involvement in organizing a donation drive was somewhat expected. Veronica says, “Well, I completely (and happily) lost my living room for several weeks when Amazon boxes consumed every inch and pretty much took over our lives.” Veronica had witnessed that his previous Scouting experience helped Brendan know the next steps. “His years of assisting countless older Scouts as they implemented their Eagle projects have shown him firsthand what works and what doesn’t when organizing and mobilizing a service project. In addition to the goal of helping so many children in need, this effort ended up preparing him exceptionally well for the Eagle Project he will be undertaking next year,” Veronica says.
Brendan reports that most of the children at the Fairplex will be reunited with family members by the time of this magazine’s publication, so the donation drive has served its purpose. However, Brendan is already thinking about the next project. “I am very interested in doing a project for Rhino 911, an organization dedicated to stemming the poaching of rhinos in Africa,” he says.
Brendan’s involvement in the donation drive reinforced his opinion about the immigration topic. “I know that the immigration issue is very complex and is very divisive among some people, but I did not see any reason to ignore a plea for help,” Brendan says. “There were kids who needed assistance, and I knew that it was the right thing to do to help them.” The best part about the project for Brendan was knowing that kids who have nothing or next to nothing would have supplies to help them move forward with their lives. The donations he collected were not fun or extravagant, just the most basic necessities. Brendan says, “It made me feel good knowing that we could help kids keep up their sense of dignity and confidence by at least having these necessities with them as they continued their journeys.”