26/07/2024
Some men aren't for you.
They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they don't want to let you go.
The more you give to them, the less they unfortunately appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.
So you decide to give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realize they only changed for a very short period of time.
You finally find the strength to walk away and here he comes again, proclaiming his love for you.
What a lot of people don't understand is that if a man shows anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn't proof of love at all.
A man trying to flatter you or making weak attempts to be "nicer" for a couple weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.
Lets put it this way....
If you take a childs toy away from them, the child begins to cry.
Same goes for the relationship... If you take away a relationship of convenience, a man begins to cry. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants.
Stop listening to what your man keeps promising you and start watching what his actions keep telling you.
A lot of women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man.
You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment.
Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love actually is.
Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught screwing up time and time again.
Love is him acting right from the very beginning because he doesn't want to lose you because he knows how truly special you are.
Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to change so he can keep you, love is a grown man changing on his own because he cant imagine life without you.
So take my advice and choose to be loved properly and always no matter what..... remember your worth.
